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[color=#000099][/color]His first wife is from my village.


My sister, so you are here too

TheFacelessMan:
Seems there are several hatchet jobs against her.

She had better respond on time before public opinion get fixed.

Politics is a dirty game. You throw any shiit available, any that stick is fine.

I can openly call you a THIEF. True or False, some will agree and others will disagree. Even if I come out tomorrow to say I lied, some will say I was bribed.

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She has already responded on Politics Today, Channels Television last week.
I think Yahaya Bello is just trying to set her up.
The terror guy they are linking her up with was an APC member before he decamped to PDP.
If you check online you will see the pix of where the guy is always with Yahaya Bello and other top government officials.

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YourPOSExpert:
How I wish your location was Abuja.


I could have offered you a job on Monday.

Better luck.

Am in Abuja, can you help?

ontarioache:
Hello all,

A mutual friend has drawn my attention to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7357845/complex-marital-issue-thoughts-please/15#117128240

MY RESPONSE.
First let me thank our mutual friend Imelda for drawing my attention to this.

Well, I am here to set the record straight.
I did not see any need to respond, but some commentators really got me laughing hard so let me indulge you all.

To kick start, I am in touch with my 2 kids on almost a daily basis, and the event she described is not the first time. Hanging up on me is a routine since we married, it has happened un-countable times. Also the guys that said I am childish are right, when they finish reading they will truly know that, no man will behave the way I have, except a child. Lastly, I am fully responsible for the upkeep of my family, every penny and not much age difference between us. I have never hung up on her for one day. She has even blocked me on phone over some arguments while we live in same house. (LOL)

For the readers, what happened is this :

You called me that you were going to made some budget and you will be spending … amount of money on that plans- you know the plan. I told you it was okay and we kept on talking about It. ( I did not raise any issue immediately to avoid conflict) so after some days, I told you that next time, it will be appropriate that we ought to discuss such plans together and that it was not the best for you to decide all by yourself and only informed me of what you have chosen to do for a decision that affects the both of us. You flared up immediately that I do not have the right to tell you that, and THAT YOU ARE ALONE WITH THE CHILDREN (like you always say) and furthermore, you said you have many things that you are doing at the same time. I then replied you that I also have many things going through my mind. ( I replied you this way because you always say this, anytime I want to have a discussion with you. You even say this even while we were together, and I will just be amazed). You flared up and insulted me then hung up.

I called you immediately many times. I called you again at night, I sent you several messages, although I did not apologize directly but the messages I sent reflected that I was sorry. In one of the messages, I explained that I was critical of the amount you intend to spend , because you do know we have other more pressing plans that we needed funds for, and that what your budgeted was a bit too high. But you refused to let go like you have always done for these 8 years. Every week for 6 weeks I sent you messages that you never replied to.

In this period, you also changed apartment without even deeming it fit to tell me. (Yes I know before this misunderstanding, it was already the plan that you will be changing apartment. But the anger still did not allow you tell me as at when you finally moved to the new apartment, till now, it has been more than 3 months that you moved, you still did not inform me although the children told me about it, you know they did, but I expected that at least you should tell me about it by yourself.)

I did not just stop picking your calls because I wanted to stop, I did it for my self respect and sanity. It is the first time I am refusing to pick your call, or even not to talk to you after 8 years of marriage.

Have I ever held any grudge against you for more than 24hrs ?, have you ever had to apologise more than once on anything without me accepting your apology immediately, that is even if you choose to apologise at all. ? !. Rather you are the one that reminds me at every giving opportunity that I know you can decide not to talk to me again and stay on you own, and that I am the one that will suffer. In precise terms, you always do this, while I was at home. You can stay on for weeks and months without talking to me for the slightest misunderstanding, I am always the one that will try and make peace, and each time you either humiliate me by refusing to make peace till whenever you are satisfied. It has been like this for these 8 years. Even if I want to hold a discussion with you at home, it is either you are busy on the phone, and If I try to ask you to focus you just tell me I should summarize and that you listen with your ears, and not your phone or your hands. However, sometimes ( like 20 per cent of cases) you do listen to me.

Even when the children are being difficult, you threaten them by telling them to go ask their father the kind of person you are, and that you do not tolerate nonsense from anyone.(lol, when I was young, our mothers threathen us with our father) Yes, you are right, I wonder why you are so proud of these difficult attributes of yours.

Recall that before that very day that you hung up on me,( in fact also since the beginning of the union), you have been insulting me on each time I call, If we are discussing and I ask you a question about what you have said, you always say that I don’t pay attention. You accuse me of not caring about how you managed the children alone by yourself. I understand it is hard to raise 2 kids under the age of 6 all by yourself, however like I have always told you, lets thank God, it could have been worse- not having children is hard, having children is also hard.Remember at home, your mother and your sister once said that, I show too much care for the kids and that is the weakness that you are using against me. This is from your own family. Imelda was also there !

I can barely talk to you on phone, each time I call you, you tell me you are busy with the kids, and most times you just ask me to summarise and then you hang up even while we were at home together, you say the same thing.

Recently before this sad event you even said if I do not call before 9.45pm, I can no longer reach you, few times when I have to call like few minutes to your deadline, no matter how important our discussion is, once it s 9.45 pm, the phone disconnects and that will be it.You can not even bend that rule for me. You barely return my calls, if you see my missed calls, sometimes it may take you days and most times you do not return them at all, if I ask, you are quick to say, you are alone managing the children and that your are already too stressed up to be bothered about missed calls.

Much earlier than this incident that you hung up on me, you asked me never to wish you any kind of good wishes like happy birthdays, Christmas, mother’s day and all those. Because you said I do not care that it is all lip service. I thought it was just frustration, but for the last 1 year, you have consistently refused to respond to my Christmas, New Year and even your birthday wishes.You ignored all my wishes!
5 months before that faithful day that you escalated your disdain for me to a whole new level, you talked to me on the phone with reckless abandon, even on my birthday, you managed to call me around 11 pm and your birthday wish to me was this “ I WISH YOU WHAT YOU WISH YOURSELF”, I told you it was not a fair wish, and the next thing, it led to outburst again and that was that, and you hung up.

Remember, you forgot my birthday for the past 3 consecutive years.

Obviously, in the preceding 5 months, you have been looking for what I will do so that you can cut me off, the opportunity came and you took it like a Viking.

How often can a married woman stay without getting in contact with her husband for this long over a matter as simple as that, and she is not bothered at all.

I needed to let go for once. I am tired of fighting for the advancement of this union. It has been 8 years of this gruesome treatment. You think everyone is wrong apart from you.

Please if there is any FALSEHOOD in what I have written, I will be glad that you tell your audience. IMELDA YOUR SISTER IS READING THIS AND SHE CAN TESTIFY TO ALL THESE. Moreover, this is just one small aspect of all that has happened these past 8 years. I just decided to skip a thousand others.I only choose to focus on this alone. You know there are a thousand things that are worse than this that you have done.

I am glad that the vast majority of your audience could not be manipulated by your story.

Maybe I would have just stayed back home in Nairobi 7 years ago, may it could not have been this bad. This is my Canada reality!

I would be a liar if I say it has not been daunting and I do not miss you. However, I have since come to the realization that no matter what , no man should dine in the table where love, respect and dignity are not served ! This is my new reality!

Dear Wife, Enjoy your own reality that you created for yourself and stay blessed...!

That's why it's always good to listen to both sides of a story before concluding.
I believe your own side of the story, and it is very obvious from what you just said that your wife has too much ego in her.
If you don't want to die early, ghost your wife and concentrate on your children, because it seems she's not ready to change soon.

xtivin2:
OP have you gotten your funds? Pls update, because it's not fair if you got the funds and not update believe me his cursing will work. But if you receive it just apologize and life continues, it's understandable we make rash conclusions atimes but how we respond is very important.

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Leave that guy, he didn't send anything, am jux happy I saved others.
I saw this particular pix above and I remembered it's the same thing he sent to me buh with different write-up, which simply shows it was forged.
So I jux came to my profile and started seeing the trash he said that I missed before
That's why I jux wanted to update him that he forged that bank alert.
Network can't hold money for months na, even if na International transaction

[b][/b][/color][color=#006600][quote author=palinco post=114580223]The complaint here is a thief. I paid him and other 10 people same time on Tuesday. All got their payments and gave instant acknowledgement of the payment. See screenshots[/quo

You are the thief here, your jux using another account chatting yourself back claiming it's someone that showed you the message

You Jux easily went and forged this claiming it's other Igbo names and account numbers that you paid

Is this pix below not the same method with what u did?
Or is it also from bank?
Na u know the app u carry the do this nonsense

Teryfik:
I registered yesterday but I sweat before the thing gree load

In terms of Working ID/Sch ID, What of someone who has graduated buh is not working, what will the person use?

Congratulations to Ruto as the supreme Court
of Kenya has jux upheld his victory in the poll

ekems2020:
Show me who you've hired on this platform before and how much you paid!

Listen, to do my tasks is not by force. If you can't do it, leave or hire people and also pay.

Scammers don't post their numbers publicly. So, count your teeth with your tongue before spitting.

I stated what I'm paying BOLDLY because that's what I can afford. If it doesn't suit your fantasy, leave it and go to Upwork.

Don't say scammers don't post their numbers publicly.
They are many in this forum, that u haven't encountered one doesn't mean they don't exist.

They are truly Obidient

TemTweaks:
I am setting up a business enterprise. Contact me on WhatsApp let us discuss

Scammer!!
Shea you have come again

Op you better don't listen to this guy

ijeOc:
Typical questions asked in customer service representative interview

1. What do u understand by outstanding customer service
2. What are the qualities of a customer service agent
3. When did u carry out an outstanding customer service and what did u do
4. How do you respond to a customer who is yelling at u

Orenike:
I don't think tecno has this type of inbuilt technology...

Tecno spark go has it

Divina231:
MY SEP-OCT HARVEST NA 15M

MY NEXT HARVEST NA OVER 30M


I WILL NEVER IN THIS LIFE OWE ANY HUMAN MONEY WITHOUT PAYING UP

IF I DIDNT PAY ANYONE UP ITS BECUASE MY FUNDS ARE TIED IN BUSINESSES STILL IN PROCESSING STAGES


GOD FORBID. EVEN 5 MILLION I NO FIT STEAL. PROJECTS DEY BACK GROUND DEY RUN LIFE


AND I HAVE NAIRALANDERS ON THE FORUM LIVING WTH ME AS PROOFS


EEDIOT

Oga you are a scammer
Stop this nonsense ur saying. So many people have complained about u
If you are genuine, why are you creating different moniker for this nonsense.
Your other Moniker is patlab,DigitalPush247 Temtweaks and so many of them
Shea it's cos the mods don ban so many of ur accounts that your creating this one's?

Guys abeg don't fall for this guy, u can check my profile and see where I posted how a nairalander scammed me and see how people that worked for him called him out with evidence, his moniker in that my post is Temtweaks

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Good Luck

So u have started again after going on break

Nobody should listen to this guy
He operates different Monika for this nonsense
After doing the job he won't pay u, next thing is to block you
You can check my profile and see a thread I created where I was scammed by a nairalander and people that worked for him exposed him.
His other Monika is Temtweaks
You will also see it's the same number he's operating with
Nobody should fall for this cheap scam
He's a serial scammer

Crampyblood:
I'm waiting for someone before I comment..

Righteousness 2 abi?

BATified2023:
deeply rooted but can’t manage to win just 1 local government?

The joke is on u

You must be very delusional to think you can be declared winner by state INEC when the governor is against you

BATified2023:
I believe they will start getting d message that no b by online noise

This is south east ooo n apc got a good result here so are they telling us ghosts came from heaven to vote?

No b same igbos vote apc here?

Obi supporters are online saying tinubu won’t see a vote in d east I know say e go shock them pass transformer

U don't know what ur saying Oga

Almost all state elections are conducted by the state INEC and not national, so whatever the state INEC declares as the result will stand.
Now in this Ebonyi LG election, I don't think there was any opposition that came out cos they know even if u have the support of the people, the governor's choice will always win with the help of state INEC and the governor handpicked all contestants, so why come waste your money when u know you won't be declared the winner if u win.
PDP is deeply rooted in Ebonyi and it will shock Apc, and thank God for the 2022 electoral act.
Which means there will no longer be any writing of results in the collation centers.

So she didn't say where she went?

IgiveLadiesBj:
Were you sent mail for the interview on Thursday?

I did the interview yesterday (aptitude test)

IgiveLadiesBj:
Who else applied and got shortlisted for this job?

I just received this mail now.

I did

Codeye:
I was a victim✅
The person who promised to come pick me never show up after 9hrs of waiting.
I spent 25k travelling from the place I was Ilorin to Lagos Ikorodu. Proof!

Them plenty
Especially Palinco and Temtweaks

kayusely70:
Bros any update on the issue yet?

They won't be any update bro
The guy that he did the work for is a thief
I had an encounter with him

No location?

Xedmark:
Sincerely, we all need to be careful next time before taking issue to nairaland and also I believe the OP of this thread meant no arm when he raised alarm about this. However, I think the problem is from his bank.

I've also experienced something similar when someone told me he sent some amount of money to my account, I didn't receive any alert and I've checked my account balance the money wasn't there but I was calm and collected since the person has no reason to scam me. It was on the 4th day after the transaction that I received the money into access bank account. Therefore let's be careful next time. It really unfair to come here and start destroying people's name.


Also it's a lesson. Don't be tribal bounded when giving out a job.

This is exactly 1 week, can a bank hold ur money to 1wk?