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Drsnives:
Then any of her family members should do the needful and not disturb me, haba.
Let's assume i should pay, what's next after that? I go come dea lash her too ni?

Stop overreacting. It's nothing serious as you're taking it.

Drsnives:
Good morning nairaladers, pls pardon my errors.
I met this girl late last year, she's nice, godly and has most of the qualities i want in a wife. i love her, though her dad is late and her mum should be in her late thirties.
Yesterday we were chatting and she was like her dad didn't do the necessary rites on her mum and hence according to tradition i will have to pay her mum's bride price to her family before i will be allowed to start her own (my babe) marriage rites. I just weak cos have never heard of such. Where i won see the money for double bride price?
Pls nairaladers, have any of you come across such ridiculous tradition or she's making it up herself cos i feel like quiting the whole thing.
I just tire. Your opinions are welcomed

I'll appreciate lalasticlala if this topic is moved to front page for wider audience.
Thanks

It is like that where I come from as well. Its nothing like double bride price... its just little things most times less than 10 percent of what you'd spend paying your wife to be bride's price

A daughter can't be married when the mom is not according to out tradition.

Modified: the bride price can be paid by anybody in the family either her brothers or her son if she have a grown son.

Dsalvo:
Not hard. People should stop being dullards and self-destructive N1tw1ts focusing on things that do not matter.

We should focus on critical issues and the proven, verified and indisputable records of aspirants seeking to be President.

I.e what candidates have actually delivered in leadership roles and the critically efficient reforms and solutions it can be proven they birthed and implemented successfully.

That is where the search for a great Nigeria must begin. Not childish and asinine comments about bullion vans and such garbage that demeans us as supposedly educated adult able to think critically, effectively and logically.

It is Obama, when running to be President, who said "those with no record to run on will always seek to portray the other guy as someone to run away from".

Thst is precisely what Reno is doing on behalf of his benefactor Atiku against Tinubu with Nigerians, like unthinking M0r0ns, gobbling up his rotten and diarrhea-inducing meat as if it is the finest steak from world-famous Salt Bae.

You yourself should tell me the record Atiku, the "Dubai President" , has to run on to warrant the level of vitriol his paid hack Omokri attacks Tinubu with daily.

Saboteur Southerners, paid agents and self-serving wicked souls, like Omokri, simply want to package another gradualist, conservative, Oligarchic, reform-resistant, socialist, centralist, and visionless Northerner, wedded to outdated ideologies, for us so we get 8 years of 'more of the same'.

If indeed Nigeria can survive even another 2 years of such without critically fundamental reforms. The likes we have all seen Tinubu initiate successfully to make Lagos 6th biggest economy in Africa richer than Ghana, Kenya etal.

Where Tinubu created RRS, Buhari and other Northerners only scoff at the idea of State policing that can critically improve security. They reject it outright even after seeing rhe success of a smaller versiin of it in Lagos that rubbishes all their argument about Givernor "abuse of power" etal.

Where the wards of Tinubu and his mouthpieces in office, I.e SW Governors, and them alone, are now uncompromisingly demanding a return to regional governance, as tiers of Nigerian Government, all Northern Governors and leaders, inculding Atiku, simply want a retention of our unworkable and destructive status quo.

That is an example of why a lot of people are scared of a Tinubu Presidency and using unconscionable paid hacks like Omokri to attack the man.

As intelligent adults, what push ups do we need to see Tinubu doing for fck sake if not that some are N1tw1ts allowing very wicked and manipulative turncoats like Omokri push their mumu buttons?

He said 2 paragraphs or less and you wrote all this.

Deborah98:
lolzzzzz ... We like it liedat

My blood is blue my lady

Rico96:
I wonder what they are teaching you....well I stand with my spelling and stand with what I wrote silly boy

Olodo ni e.

Who's the silly one here


Jokes on you

WibusJaga:
Burnley na mumu team. No wonder dem de fight relegation.

Pained

No cry na

Chelsea na bully

Is there no mental check or test before they admit individuals into the security sector?

Today soldier shoot, tomorrow police kill. What's all these nonsense faaa

General overseer OPM International Chibuzor Gift Chinyere has vowed to send the sacked security operatives abroad.

Anyone with their information should share the pics.

Mods help push to fp


See previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7013151/chicken-republic-sacks-staff-dancing

Rico96:
Clot chaser

If you can't spell CLOUT how can you tell the difference between cruise and CLOUT chasing.

Olodo

lightskinnigga:
Mehn..

The southwesterners and their useless occupation.

What kind of nonsense is this?

Why would a people be this wicked?

Yet, all they bother about is the igbos and biafra while their population is being depleted by ritualist

Abeg no vex, you fit explain the bolded give me?

Una go must bring tribalism enter everything. Yeye

oofjm:
I need my fellow dude to share my problem with personally....don't feel like sharing it publicly.

Wanna talk on WhatsApp or you can send me a mail.

Lookasid:
Come in

Scammed, them don burst your other moniker abi

No one taught anyone how to sleep with a woman. No book of history either the bible or quran spoke about how the first humans had sex.

All we knew was there was copulation and the rest is history. Sex is all about preference, you can't dictate how I choose to have it. No one can, or should; once both partner reached a compromise.
Who invented doggy style abeg, or na spooning be the best. Just Bleep your Bleep in peace and let us rest. Enor concern you

tit:
It looks like you know a lot about this "murder/suicide".
Ok.
Continue talking.

We both read the statement I guess. What I write is my responsibility but what you assimilate or understand remain your ache my lady.

Arrested or invited for questioning

Shalommy:
He's an agent... Thank God he didn't carry out his plans on you. Chaii.

Agent of kinni. Una Don come

Igbofam2:
Big question!

WHY WERE THEY FOUND NAKED?

The man had no reason to strip himself and the lady naked prior to drinking sniper.

Plus, it is possible the car keys may have a spare and the car was locked from the outside while leaving the keys in the ignition to make it appear like a murder/ suicide.

Plus how did neighbours see him carrying a supposed lifeless body and didn't accost him since they allegedly knew the lady was dead?

Why did he have to allegedly drive all the way to his house risking possible police stop and search just to drop a suicide note when he could have easily sent an SMS message or Whatsapp message to his wife via his phone?

I am sure that if they track his phone prior to the alleged murder/suicide it would show he was nowhere close to his house prior to killing himself

Something does not add up in the story

The previous thread never showed or indicated they were naked. At no point was there a report these two or one of them were found naked.

The report said they went to the police station to report. Besides, the lady was not confirmed dead but she slumped. Neighbours may not be sure and assume she's been taken to the hospital yet they reported at the police station where the abused happen.

You can't tell if the wife can read. In a state on confusion it is only normal the man acts irrationally. Na person wey him mind complete deh think fast.

If he's not close to his house, how then was the suicide note found. Na me write am go drop for there?

Betscoreodds:
Remind me how many years Afghanistan held on to USA till USA ran out lol

What happened in Afghanistan and Ukraine are two different things

Educate me the similarities please. I want to learn.

zigzagluv:
oga na news i see am , Check am ,,nor follow westen media

I no really deh interested sha but it's funny somehow

zigzagluv:
they are have plans , they dont want to take the city yet because they are benefiting from it , PRICE OF CRUDE oil is up and this year they make 78billion usd from it , so they delay everything

The way you talk am like say you deh the board room ehn

killmods:
Very touching man

Not a lover of painting but the story behind it is touching.

NIGHTMARE0O7:
And people like u will be here ?

Thats exactly why i said he is incompetent

Lol, what were you expecting when you decided to be facetious and ludicrous?

An easy walk or no response?

You didn't see that coming so enjoy.

Enough of the mentioning. You don't have to exhibit your foggy and obscure self to nairalanders.

Be good bro. No be wetin deh do you deh do me.

Omo! This one touch me

NIGHTMARE0O7:
Nigerdelta indeed "we the niger delta"

I cnt remember mentioning ipob na i carey ipob enter the matter... it shows how worried u are abot ipob.

And what do u mean by "you folks" who are you folks that started it..?
It seems a kid is behind this moniker im talkin A and he is talking C


Nsiewu is teibalist belive it or not..he is selective amd biased and deserve every insult he gets..he is not bigger than the president or governors who messes up and gets it hot

And you think you deserve any better with your names calling? You're humorously risible.

Does Seun control the fingers or speech of her forum users. If he does, people like you won't be here in the first place

franciskaine:
Ukraine bleeped-up big time by even letting Russia come into Ukraine. As soon as dey encroached Ukraine's border dem for strike first. At least the war will start at the borders. Both countries will feel the same brunt. Other nations will learn from dis.

Spot on. I was wondering why allow them into the city in the first place as well.