Jennyclay:
Nigerians and their pako English. Shior!

From your headline down to your post is giving me headache already.

Well, May God Help you struggling men oo!

Biko, sha... Stay away from relationship, don't come and put someone's daughter in abject poverty.

What has this got to do with relationship?

You don't have to exhibit your asinine sense of reasoning to the world, do you?

Issh! I'm allergic to deliberate stupidity.

Sandazblack:
Unpopular opinion: Psquare are more legendary than Fela the overhyped weed lord with zero melody in his songs, just an average afrobeat singer that talks about the evils of the government and nothing more. Even most of you claiming Fela this and Fela that don’t even listen to his music, y’all just jump on the bandwagon of the same ol story they told us. Seun on the other hand is a talentless mofo who’s preying on the legacy of his dad, Psquare no be your mate bro, stick to smoking Indian hemp

Dad is overhyped yet left a legacy. Lol. Nairalanders wants to kill me with laugh

Akinfemmy:
year.Today I want to thank God for this beautiful year, for an amazing life and all the nice people in my life. This day is very special because I was on this day. Happy birthday to me!

Celebrate me ❤️
You can ask for my account number 🌚

Happy birthday man. May lines fall in place for your uplifting

placeofallure:


You don't understand OP's point when she said ... somebody you feel next to nothing for... You didn't understand probably because you are a man. If a woman feels nothing for you, even sighting you alone can cause convulsion or vomiting. Very irritable! Men can sleep with anything and anyone, dunno how they possibly do that but women cannot. How do you now go into marriage, a lifetime thing, with such? Is that not suicide mission? Cheating on him will not even solve the problem!

Do this mean hookup and call girls feel something for the men they open their legs for?

Kizzygentle:

That untimely and preventable has already been ordained from the word go. You yet to understand the spiritual doings and effects of our lives..

Religion don brainwash this one

dhiqson:
OP, Whatever diety you believe in bless you bro!
You no go lack good thing in this Life

Manipulation and gaslighting gat nothin on you bro



More of such men God
Nonsense go stop

Amen chief

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

If someone rejects you reject them back, if someone love you love them back...if na me she would have been long gone on my contact list.

For me when once you reject me I reject you immediately, it's as simple as that, No hard feelings, just me having a better understanding that you don't want me.

I know my heart when it comes to loving people in general, more reason I guide it with everything I have, so I do not play Russian roulette with it...Don't give people room to rule you emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually just because you want to be labeled human.

I have actually bought something expensive for a girl before and on getting to her crib, my phone ran out of battery,(Not even intentional) she had a power bank on stand by, so since I was at her crib already I just decided to use the power bank to power my phone cuz she didn't have light at her place, wasn't even up to 5 minutes she started asking me to drop her power bank that she wants to use it, me wey be say I be free soul I no even argue, I just kept the power bank for her, to my greatest surprise she no even touch the power bank till I left her place....Omo inside me I just laugh say " so you couldn't spare me your power bank that was fully charged for like some minutes just to power my phone but you are happy to ask me to buy you something whenever you see me" women are mostly selfish when it comes to thier own stuff or something that has to do with them but when it's not theirs it becomes everybody's own, even my own sisters dey do that nonsense sometimes with me but I go just overlook because na blood.

So for those of you shouting he's selfish, childish and hurt, Op you did nothing wrong so don't let anyone guilt trip you.

Siofra is crying

I understand you chief. Thanks

Divay22:

You didn't block her because you later gave her the money

I no deh quick block person. And yes, I didn't send her the money

Divay22:
The chat never complete o

Wetin you wan see again

elmagnifico411:
Baba, those replies of yours made my day! What brand of beer do u do lemme buy u one crate. U too much!

I was just trying to be decent and polite

Na 33 I deh drink boss

Coca4pf:
she mis-interpreted you wrongly, if you were serious
About it you for call her via phone. Now she needs your help and you’re writing grammar.. if you no get money to assist her oga talk say you no get.

Funnily enough, I called her too. You've got to calm down.

That said, I don't think there'll be need for calls when she already gave me the treatment that passed more message

AishaDant:
Op, you could have still helped her.

We are human beings for crying out loud!

Human beings have empathy and can be sensitive to others.

Op, you don't know tomorrow. Everything must not always be to your advantage. Sometimes, close your eyes and just be human.

Well, if you're comfortable doing it. Fine! Just don't lose your humanity because you want to be a man. Smh!

This has nothing to do with me being a man. I would have said same if it were a man who sidelined me.

It would have been understandable if I had dine anything wrong. Many atimes i still tried starting the conversation on what went wrong. She'll simply say she's busy or so.

For your sake I'll mention you with when I reached out to her last week and her response.

Rozross:
You are stone hearted stingy and selfish, even after she told you of her dads condition it still didn’t move you. I dislike unemotional men no matter how Alpha you are , you should show emotions where needed.

I wonder what happened to the ones who she deemed had more emotions to express than me.

What if i had blocked her?

seanwilliam:
@ op, post the rest of the chat. My mind Dey tell me say u later send am money

Incoming as it pleases you comrade

advanceDNA:


She don collect from all of them....na op own remain make e complete 50k for the new party clothe she wan buy

She no go see

Ikennaford:

Help her, don't think about the past,,,200k for hospital bills no go choke you or give me her number lemme help me,I like helping people

I deh come boss.. 200k for what?

Is it for garri or for dodo?

Heathrow44:



U see it, stupid "boys all over d place

As you folks provide help to those who cry out for help here right?

marlow1962:

Then you gv them her number so they can go help her out.
You don’t chat me up but when you need help you remember me( rubbish)

Exactly!

Ikennaford:

Op is hurt,she don ask the babe for cuntus she no gree, now he wan deh form redpiller,,oga op you are childish and hurt cos of cuntus

I should have sent her the money right?

I only shut her out same way she shut me out..and yes, I never asked her for sex, we were just at the talking stage.

Namaste

Baitullah:
You called him stingy because he didn't bend to her request? After 3 months of sidelining him.

The girls sisterhood is strong indeed.

Quite strong bro

I should have just jumped and send money. All for what?

Candora:
Nice response.

But if I'm the one, I'll help provided I'm given enough evidence.


@op, you're stingy on a norms.
I can sense it from a mile away

Lol

What happened to all the guys she's been chatting since May this year?

Natbrowny:
She could be saying the truth about the pops and she could be seriously lying,
How come for 3 months, she no chat u, when somtin happens, everyone ditched her and she remembers u, even playing mind games that u can insult if u want.

Bottom line.. She no well
Ur response was polite enough my man..

I can't even fathom why. That gender is funny

shawante:
Bro you deserve a very good handshake.. You did excellently well

Others may call me heartless.

IvarDboneless:
use your teeth to count your tongue

I don deh count am

Here's a briefing of why she stopped replying me about three months ago.

We met online in a thrift group on WhatsApp. After a while we met and went out on a date. It was fun and she said I'm egoistic and have too many rules I won't ditch for anyone.

She misinterpreted me wrongly and I said we could talk about it but she's was not replying.

This afternoon she sent a message and below is how the conversation ensued.

Christiansimon:
A Poor Man Slept {had s x} With A Rich Woman And Get Paid To Feed His Family.

The Question Now Is»


_did he do wrong...?
Or

_did he went to work..?

He didn't go to work

See double standard comments below

They'll cry foul and hell will let lose if tables were turned. Hypocrites everywhere

Christiansimon:
A Poor Man Slept {had s x} With A Rich Woman And Get Paid To Feed His Family.

The Question Now Is»


_did he do wrong...?
Or

_did he went to work..?

He didn't go to work

See double standard comments below

They'll cry foul and hell will let lose of tables were turned. Hypocrites everywhere

Pessimism and Optimism: Which is Good for a Romantic Relationship?

I heard that an article is out there, like a ghost on steroids, hitting the minds of the feeble ones and finding a way to drag the strong people in its path.

One said, (paraphrased) "Optimism and Pessimism are both important in a relationship because things might go wrong. You embrace pessimism because you're not in a relationship with an angel and things can go wrong. You embrace optimism because you want your relationship to work."

You see the thought up there? It's costly if you grab it!

I think pessimism and optimism are two different things and shouldn't be mixed up this way.

You can't hold optimism in one hand and pessimism in the other, then expecting the best. It's like saying unbelief and faith are both important in having a great relationship with God.

Optimism: The optimistic feeling that all is going to turn out well; a general disposition to expect the best in all things.

Pessimism: The feeling that things will turn out badly; A general disposition to look on the dark side and to expect the worst in all things.

Ideally, optimism (like faith) doesn't rule out the fact that things might go wrong. In fact, the greatest of success roots in expecting the best from the worst scenarios.

That's to say that you need optimism, and not pessimism, in any relationship.

Am I now saying even if it appears it won't work, people should believe it will, against all odds?

Na!

I'm not asking you to fixate on someone who will obviously make life difficult for you. I'm not asking you to trade your common sense for baseless faith.

I'm not advising that you start any relationship with any whatchamacallit, expecting the best from it when it's obvious that it might not work from the start.

Nobody boards a plane with a timed bomb attached to it.

Know what works, grab and follow it passionately with optimism.

Choosing wrongly is a disaster going somewhere to happen!

Blessed?

Share your opinion below.

Lalasticlala Myndd44 Dominique

b0rn2fuck:
One of my girlfriend getting married in December, should I ask for send off sex. It's been over a year we met though

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You be werey

29 Years in Few Lines

I was born like every other - like you
Raised like those without a silver spoon
Grew amongst thorns and briers
Lived amidst 1000s of ifs and whens
Then gave a shot at life's bliss
Tried and fell many a time
But got up on each count
Because my part is with the winners.

I saw many swifts defeated on the race
And watched challenges take turns on me
The road yet rough and demanding
I had enough reasons to look back...
But seeing the bridges were burnt
My end is with the living winners.

Thousands of questions.
Millions of thoughts.
Countless Plans
But limitless challenges.

Through it all,
I got a hold on the bliss.
Through God,
It was worth the journey.

And this is a message for everyone with a little hope and a beating heart!

It might not get easier
But you can get to your destination!

It might not look like it
But you've got God's, every step of the way.

Success is going to cost you a lot
But the prize is in your continuity.

Give yourself the chance to look back and laugh at the process.
Give yourself a reason to be some people's daily motivation.

Take it each day at a time and ask for help when you need it.
Success or failure? You'll soon see the choice is yours!

It's my birthday and this is my cake for you, without the icing!

Wait!
To everyone who was part of the cheering crowd and those who gave a hand when I deserved none, I'll live all my life to appreciate you.
I'll start with my late mum, alight at my ever loving ex girlfriend (Evelyn) but will take off to do more.

Happy birthday to Me