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29 Years in Few Lines

I was born like every other - like you
Raised like those without a silver spoon
Grew amongst thorns and briers
Lived amidst 1000s of ifs and whens
Then gave a shot at life's bliss
Tried and fell many a time
But got up on each count
Because my part is with the winners.

I saw many swifts defeated on the race
And watched challenges take turns on me
The road yet rough and demanding
I had enough reasons to look back...
But seeing the bridges were burnt
My end is with the living winners.

Thousands of questions.
Millions of thoughts.
Countless Plans
But limitless challenges.

Through it all,
I got a hold on the bliss.
Through God,
It was worth the journey.

And this is a message for everyone with a little hope and a beating heart!

It might not get easier
But you can get to your destination!

It might not look like it
But you've got God's, every step of the way.

Success is going to cost you a lot
But the prize is in your continuity.

Give yourself the chance to look back and laugh at the process.
Give yourself a reason to be some people's daily motivation.

Take it each day at a time and ask for help when you need it.
Success or failure? You'll soon see the choice is yours!

It's my birthday and this is my cake for you, without the icing!

Wait!
To everyone who was part of the cheering crowd and those who gave a hand when I deserved none, I'll live all my life to appreciate you.
I'll start with my late mum, alight at my ever loving ex girlfriend (Evelyn) but will take off to do more.

Happy birthday to Me

29 A-Reminiscing

Had so many ideas about a birthday post but been confused for a few days. I ended up typing this. Don't even know if it makes sense.

Just read...

Reminiscently, I made some decisions about my life. As a typical seedling among thorns, I decided to reach the top, knowing it would cost me a lot.

I had many reasons to give up too but the 'glory' ahead was worth the sacrifice.

Obviously, the past few years have been the proof of the decisions. There was a shift in dimension. Although I'm not there yet, today is another chance to be better at aiming for the goal.

If you're reading this, it's another chance, too, to embrace the challenge to be better. Even if it seems the systems are failing, God isn't failing.

If you decide to undo the commendable values you once held dear, your future is waiting to judge you.

And if you will give a life of purpose another shot, you'll look back to celebrate the process.

Just so you know, it's the right time to start building the future you want, no matter how hard it's going to be.

You want a great marriage? Build a personal life that matches its blessings.

You want a glorifying career? Give yourself every chance to go all out for it.

As for me, I want to look back in the next few years and still smile that it's been worth it. Wouldn't you do want that feeling too?

This is my birthday cake - a cut might be enough for the wise.

Happy 29th birthday to me.

NewSoul:
Please In the name of God or whatever you serve. You people should stop feeding and aggravating the unruly behavior of these girls/women. What am I saying?

A woman will clearly be at fault and look for your fellow man's trouble by being uncouth and insult him and when the man respond to her in the same coin (non physical) then she starts making a scene of how she has been insulted and the next thing is that you are trying to gather other simps like you to beat up the man or the most annoying one "please just apologise to her" .

Let this rubbish stop and stop this worship of women because they have vaginas that you guys crave and worship so much . ✌️

And to those women that have one time or the other caused the harm of an innocent man because you know your myriad of simps will hearken to you first may you never know peace in life. May your sons be set up and brought down by women too all their lives.

And for those SIMPISH men that speedily come to mob a man or cause him harm because of a clear misdemeanour on her part and raising false alarm and allegation. May those same women you came to their rescue bring you to your ruins. If you think you are at the top may you fall to the bottomless pit at the speed of light! ✌️

I echo your sentiment

Loverboi2cute:
her Sister Jeon nko....dat one needs serios deliverance ASAP

Ubunja go fit deliver her

Siofra

Jollos:
A friend seek my opinion and I will like to share it with NL too.
He married her a virgin, their marriage is now 3 years plus now with 1 kid. but she exhibit some questionable xter like:
- she doesn't like sex
- she likes pre-intimacy when at all she want to
have intimacy.
- she read errotic novel deep midnight caught
twice
- she is good at keeping malice.

if these point to lesbianism, what can be done to help her?

Where are the elders in the house?

Jennyclay:
Rip to the beautiful lady.

I hope the man won't re-marry after one week.

See why people fail in school.

Did you read the content at all?

TheChildOfGod:
The family of late Nollywood actress Ada Ameh have released the schedule of activities for the burial of the renowned actress.

The actress who died on the 17th day of July 2022 at Warri, Delta state is to be buried on the 26th day of August 2022, at Otukpo LGA of Benue state.

Find attached, the schedule of activities.

https://saharareporters.com/articles/family-announces-burial-plans-nigerian-actress-ada-ameh

Who come must go. Life no be forever. May the soul of the departed rest in peace

Candidlady:



Stewpid just husband look at what he caused

She needed to poison the beast to death
Quite unfortunate it was her kid •••daughter•• that fed on the poison

Rip to her pretty daughter idont care bout the boys

I wonder if your parents were congratulated when they had you cos you're improbably dispiriting.

NigeriaIsDoomed:
Nigeria is not doing well, however we are better than most African countries in many aspects. I have been to Ghana and my brother was schooling there so some of us know these things.
Unlike like those tiny, common and inconsequential countries e.g Ghana and co...the whole world is interested in what is happening in Nigeria and hence everybody is aware of the happenings in Nigeria.
Every negative thing that happens in Nigeria also happens in Ghana apart from terrorism, but Ghana is a powerless and inconsequential in the global scheme of things so no one gives a Bleep about Ghana.
The globalists have more stake in Nigerian than other African countries since Nigeria is the only hope of black race. The greatness and the downfall of the black race depend on Nigeria. Until Nigeria gets her act right, the black race has no future. This is indisputable!

I fully agree with you. At least you see and understand what I meant unlike the second guy.

Swanzi:
At least Ghanaians don’t go about slaughtering butchering and stoning people in the name of religion
I even forgot kidnapping is now a major business..

In ur dreams

You only know these things because we're good carriers of negative news. The negativity in us won't allow us share good news or even be optimistic about a turnaround. Yes, the government are bad but I've seen worse government because I've been there, spent months and years there. For instance, Cameroon and Ghana are doing worse than us in all ramifications forget what you see online.

Bridget95:
Tell your president to rescue Nigerians from poverty and insecurity

Theirs is worse than ours. Don't let people feed you lies. If you've been there recently you'll know how bad they're fairing.

Nigerians and seeking unnecessary validation. She asked in the humblest way and if you can't help her just tell her and stop seeking attention.

STEWpid:

Even if he doesn't file an appeal, until the state government or federal government give order for condemned inmates to be killed he'll still be there. Some condemned inmates spend years in correctional facilities before they're either freed or killed.

STEWpid:
Chai


We want to see him hanged and confirmed dead.

No be say all those baba isale go go corner him for back while they hang another person.

He won't be hanged immediately. He'll be transferred to the CC (Condemned) block of a correctional center and he may file an appeal which will prevent him from been killed until the appeal court case is heard and he's found guilty again

UpInTheSky:
What you've written up there has enough grammatical errors in it,
and I'm not looking for someone who writes "am" instead of 'I'm'.

Thank you.

Premiumwriter, do feel free to message me if you're up for the task.

Commenting on this from The Warri correctional center. I've been granted bail thanks to God but I need some money to perfect the bail on Wednesday since tomorrow is public holiday and my case was adjourned to the 14th day of this same month wish is just three days away. All I need now is a short wiring project that can fetch me 20k or above between now and Wednesday. I can write all night and though I won't say I am a pro, I promise a plagiarism free project. I'll appreciate if I can send you a PM.

fastanddubious:
I was understanding u small small until I got to the 'my wife' part
Wtf man

He’s a konjified fuuuulish man

Animegirl:
Stop having this mentality about us. Is only a frustrated and broke ass person, that talks this way. Sometimes I wonder if you men don't experience mother's love, with the way you talk about women.

Women this, women that.

If una never add broke, una sense no deh fit generate word to type?

Una mattina mi son svegliato

Cutehector:
Dont have sex with dog!

This man wan kee me with laughter

Gerrard59:
So, at least, you agree with me that it is the buyer that dictates the market, not the seller. Also, biology tells us that it is men, not women that have a drive aka desire for sex.

So, basic economics (men are the buyers, and buyers dictate what is sold) and biology (testosterone) tell us that the only way to stop prostitution is for men to stop demanding for sex.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/22552705/#:~:text=Sexual%20desire%20is%20typically%20higher,in%20studies%20of%20sexual%20desire.

I disagree, getting sex elsewhere does not necessarily mean patronizing prostitute. It could be by mutual consents to mention am example.

The variables are there, only lazy people go into prostitution using hardship as a excuse

Gerrard59:
It is funny how you lampoon the girls but overlook the people (men) who perpetuate the trade. Here it is: as long as there is an insatiable demand for sex by the vast majority of Nigerian men, there will some people willing to fulfil that demand. Demand does not exist in a vacuum. Moreover, across the world, prostitution exists. The major differences are the prosperity of the place, culture, laws and effect religion has in that society. That tells you that it is the demand that makes it happen. If men stop patronising those girls, they will find something else to do. It is this simple.

If girls stop making themselves available, the men will get sex elsewhere

That makes it even.

camri:
God bless you my brother. Truth is the girls dont want to work. If you find jobs for them, they will not accept. A typical olosho prefers collecting free money for opening her legs to laboring and going through all the stress of earning a living. There is no reasonable justification for delving into prostitution. These girls are just lazy. Lets call a spade a spade

Lazy, that’s the word

exCHRISTIAN:
Either the christian God is absent, doesn't exist, or IT can't protect It's followers.

As far as I know, before I left Xtianity, I studied the Bivbbble more than I can, I know it said:

But the Lord is faithful, and he will strengthen you and protect you from the evil one.

Why didn't he do so

Is he a lia*


Thessalonians 3:3

Before any rotten brain qoute me, see my signature.....

There’s a difference between reading the bible and understanding it. It becomes implausible and incomprehensible to a mortal man who’s not spiritual.

“But the natural man receiveth not the things of the spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned” 2 Cor 2:14

Spending hours or years reading the Bible like it’s some novel won’t solve a puzzle, so you’ve got no understanding at all of what the scripture says

Abolarin91:
Just that this is a faceless forum, some people need slap to reset their brain.

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Slap no necessary jare

We’re all entitled to our own opinion but sometimes we abuse that choice

Jmichael1:
bros abeg u win....

Lol

We no need to deh sugar coat am

Albertone:
There is no justification for immorality.But the fact that someone engages in immorality to make ends meet doesn't make them less human.
If you can't improve their condition, don't condemn them.

If I meet a prostitute and I feel she is too bright to be doing that,I'll try to make her life better and make her quit prostitution.

I didn’t at a point said they’re less human but your statement “Na condition” was out of place

Wrong is wrong even when everyone is doing it, right is right; even when no one is doing it. They’re not less humans but olosho na olosho, and that was her decision

Abolarin91:
Fact! People are full of excuses

Unjustified excuses at that

Abolarin91:
Fact! People are full of excuses

It’s sickening