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Fashion / Quality Unisex Wears At Affordable PRIZES by mcfynest(m): 8:49am On Jan 12, 2016
Hi all, i am here again.

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Bbm-591DA96C

Contact- lagos/ibadan

@mcfynest Store- we give you quality for your cents.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Why Employers Shouldn't Discriminate Against Graduates by mcfynest(m): 11:24am On Jan 05, 2016
Treu
Celebrities / Re: Funmi Iyanda Is An Ageless Beauty In New Makeover Shots by mcfynest(m): 11:24am On Jan 05, 2016
Ok
Politics / Re: $2.1 Arms Scam: Your Utterances Are Unprofessional – Ex-Minister Tells Sagay by mcfynest(m): 8:16am On Dec 26, 2015
Wonders o
Politics / Re: Refineries To Pay Into Federation Account From 2016 – Kachikwu by mcfynest(m): 7:45am On Dec 26, 2015
Good move
Good move by the govt.


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Pls note, mcfynest store is in Lagos. Only contact if you are truly interested.


Bbm-591DA96C

Whatsapp- 08036024681


@mcfynest store.....we give value for your cent

Celebrities / Re: Dabota Lawson Shows Off Chanel Bag Husband Got Her For Christmas (Pic & Vid) by mcfynest(m): 1:23pm On Dec 24, 2015
Yes
Celebrities / Re: Cleavage Baring Outfits At Music Meets Runway 2015 [PICS] by mcfynest(m): 7:51pm On Dec 23, 2015
Cool


The third gal is waoh!


For #1200 each you get this quality T-shirts, Polo, round and V neck unisex wears


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Lagos based

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Crime / Re: Criminal Hideout Off Third Mainland Bridge by mcfynest(m): 8:38pm On Dec 13, 2015
Trye
Jokes Etc / Re: See What Happened To A Church Member (pics) by mcfynest(m): 8:38pm On Dec 13, 2015
smiley
Romance / Re: How To Deal With Break Ups by mcfynest(m): 11:30pm On Dec 09, 2015
QatarPlayboy:

Nah. i was just passing an instruction.


Ok
Business / Re: Online Business: Do People Really Sell Online In Nigeria? by mcfynest(m): 2:53pm On Nov 26, 2015
yes i work online
Romance / Re: How To Deal With Break Ups by mcfynest(m): 8:43pm On Nov 24, 2015
QatarPlayboy:
Instead of dealing wit it wit dis long process, why nt do it in a way dat involve just 3 short steps?

step 1: pick a rope.

step 2: tie it to ur ceilling fan and also position a short chair under the fan.

step 3: stand on the chair, tie the rope round ur neck and use one leg to kick away the chair.

AND DONT FORGET TO FIRST WRITE DOWN A NOTE, AND SAY ITS FINISH BEFORE YOU FINALLY GIVE UP.


bros you wicked o..
Politics / Re: DPR Gives Out FREE Fuel To Motorists In Kwara by mcfynest(m): 12:35pm On Nov 24, 2015
smiley
Romance / How To Deal With Break Ups by mcfynest(m): 12:33pm On Nov 24, 2015
Did your spouse leave and you blame yourself for it?
Are you going through a break up and you are really confused on the best way to handle the situation?
perhaps you know someone who is also going through similar situation and it is affect their relationship?

If your answer is yes to any of these questions, then I am here to help you overcome this period.

The fact is this, there is no particular list that is comprehensive enough because we humans are dynamic beings and we respond differently to different situations.

However, in this short video, you will get the help that you need.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t-3mxuxlmMc

You can also read how you can deal with breakups here - http://www.uniqself.com/2015/09/how-to-deal-with-break-ups.html

I hope this helps( I believe it will)

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Religion / Re: We Are All Aborisha by mcfynest(m): 8:07am On Nov 24, 2015
UyiIredia:


I've never been an atheist. I only pretended being an atheist on Nairaland while exploring atheist state of mind in person. It's a foolish state of mind for denying design in life and hopeless since it predicts eternal death for all men. There is nothing to fear in death, I saw my dad predict and ace it like a man but only a fool will deny that life is preferable to death.

shocked
Fashion / Re: Funny Photos Of People Wearing Shirts With No Clue Of What Their Shirts Say by mcfynest(m): 7:39am On Nov 24, 2015
Seun ishilove come and see o
Romance / Re: Should You Forgive Infidelity? by mcfynest(m): 7:32am On Nov 24, 2015
T4taiwo:
Why should I forgive a cheating partner?.


But it happens, and we should learn to forgive and let go.... Though not easy but bros..... Its for better or worse till death
Romance / Re: My Wife And I by mcfynest(m): 7:29am On Nov 24, 2015
pet4ril:
What shall i say in this.... .thank you Lord and may your name forever be praise


Amen
Romance / Re: My Wife And I by mcfynest(m): 7:29am On Nov 24, 2015
olanikeh:
Very lovely piece

I remember I had a neighbour in my uni days, she also had a lump in her left breast luckily enough she discovered it in time and it was removed but what surprised me most is after few months another lump was found again. She cried her life and I can't help but cried with her, cos she was only 17 years then. But now she is still very beautiful and energetic.

Thabk God for her....
Romance / Re: Should You Forgive Infidelity? by mcfynest(m): 5:51pm On Nov 23, 2015
merit12:
Typing

You still dey type?
Romance / Re: Should You Forgive Infidelity? by mcfynest(m): 5:50pm On Nov 23, 2015
Itsmissdammy:
Nice...


Thanks
Romance / Should You Forgive Infidelity? by mcfynest(m): 12:47pm On Nov 23, 2015
If you're asking yourself that question, then somewhere within you there must be a desire to forgive the other person. After all, if you knew 100% for sure without doubts that you definitely should NOT forgive, then you wouldn't be entertaining the question, right?
You would have already said your goodbyes and would be moving on with your new life and licking your wounds. You may or may not have trust issues in your future relationships depending on how you processed the infidelity in your past. But what if you are struggling with the question? What then?

The first thing you need to look at above and beyond all else is the cheater's character. Do they have a history of cheating on their partners? Do they have a history of cheating on you? Are they too self-centered to deny themselves whatever pleasures come along? Are they well meaning but weak? Unless someone's incredibly ugly, they're going to face temptation some time during their life. Saying no is all about having backbone, willpower, self-discipline, and the ability to truly care about another person's feelings. Does your partner have all of those traits? If not, then forget it. Move on.

Let's assume for whatever reason that you have decided that yes your partner has the ability to be faithful and this was a one time indiscretion. You now need to look at why they did what they did. Motivation is more important than the act itself. If you know why they cheated, then it's possible to avoid having the same triggers repeated. Were you emotionally and physically distant for so long that you may as well have pushed them into finding love elsewhere? We are a love hungry species. Our spirits die when we do not feel loved. The body will follow. You've heard of the old couples who die within a short time of each other. You've also seen the studies they've done with the baby monkeys who don't thrive and grow without their mamas. It's the way of us to seek love. That's our supreme motivator. So look at what caused the infidelity. If you can honestly say that yes you were completely loving and supportive and they cheated anyway, then you may want to consider walking away from them. If they give you some other reason that makes absolute sense to you and you can truly see it as a forgivable reason, then so be it. Forgive them. If they don't have a reason that makes sense to you, then don't forgive them.

The next thing to evaluate is what is at stake. What kind of a life have you built together and what does it mean to you? Do you have children together? A long marriage? A business and material wealth? What if you don't think you can trust them and yet you will lose everything that you do love by leaving them? That's something that only you can answer. Is the money, the marriage, the children worth a lifetime of being cheated on? You decide. Maybe it's a marriage of convenience anyway and you really don't care where they sleep. Then it's going to be much easier to forgive them then if they are your one true love and your emotional health is at risk by having your heart shattered.

As you know, there are plenty of reasons to choose not to forgive and forget. But what if you have created a long beautiful life together and your partner is a wonderful parent to your children? What if you feel just as much to blame for the infidelity because you had pushed them away for too long. What if they had made an honest effort to work things out with you but you just kept pushing them away? What then? Just because you want to forgive them doesn't mean that you can forgive them. How do you forgive and forget? The bible may tell us to turn the other cheek, but how? How do you do it? There's a big difference between saying, "I forgive you" on a generic spiritual level and saying, "I forgive you" on a personal heart to heart level. The key to real forgiveness must involve trust. At some level you have to really believe in your heart of hearts that you can trust this person to never ever repeat such a painful choice again. If you don't really believe that, then you aren't really going to forgive them and the underlying resentment will eat away at whatever is left of the foundation of your relationship.

I believe that the most important barometer of how easy or hard it is to forgive is how they behave after the event. Do they browbeat you with comments like, "Look I said I'm sorry. Get over it already." Or are they beating themselves up for having caused you this pain? Are they offering to jump through hoops to prove to you that they have learned a horrible lesson and will make damn sure it never happens again? The intensity of their apology and their willingness to allow you to feel the pain of it will have a direct impact on your ability to heal from the infidelity and on their ability to rebuild trust in your eyes. If they demand that you simply trust them on their word and they have done nothing to show you that they are taking full responsibility for the broken trust, then leave them. It's not your fault that they broke the trust even if you were not emotionally available to them, the breach of trust was done on their part. You can't force yourself to trust someone again. Just like when our teenagers lie to us and have to earn back our trust, it's no different between adults whether the trust was broken in a marriage or a business relationship. It's their job to recreate that. They need to find their own way back.

Read More helpful tips about life at-
http://www.uniqself.com
Religion / Re: Brian Deacon Sends A Message To Christians "I Am Not Jesus Christ" by mcfynest(m): 2:22pm On Nov 22, 2015
Hmmmmm..... Our Jesus was a a black man
Religion / Re: The Allegory Of Adam And Eve by mcfynest(m): 7:19am On Nov 20, 2015
Dnacode:


but it also said that the earth was without form too.


They never had the knowledge of God
Religion / Re: Kill Gay:that Is The Word Of God by mcfynest(m): 5:02pm On Nov 17, 2015
sonOfLucifer:

So I can be gay now? Good to know.


Can yoi lie or to other stuffs you think is bad?
Culture / Re: Diasporans Have You Noticed Some Strange Behaviors With Nigerians At Home ? by mcfynest(m): 2:57pm On Nov 17, 2015
One thimg i want you to know is that, most people on Nairaland don't type based on thier real state of mind. It is a faceless platform, they just say it for the fun and curiosity.
Religion / Re: The Allegory Of Adam And Eve by mcfynest(m): 2:24pm On Nov 17, 2015
MrPresident1:
Adam and Eve are both allegories. The story of Adam and Eve is not the story of the creation of the world, it is the story of the creation of man in the image of God, and the subsequent fall of the man that God create in His image. The story of Adam is the story of the fall of Israel, a story told end from the beginning. A good understanding of Isaiah, Jeremiah and Ezekiel will clear the mystery of Adam and Eve

Eve is the woman of God, Israel.
God provided leadership, guidance and direction to Israel, His woman, through Adam. The man is the head of the woman, and the head of the man is Christ, and the head of Christ is God.

The forbidden fruit that Eve, Israel, the woman of God ate was idolatry. Eve forsook God and indulged in idolatry with her neighbours.

Eve is just like the church, she is a woman but woman in this sense is a multitude of people. Let us look at it this way:

Yes, it is allegorical, but some things dont add up.

What does this mean?
Genesis 2:18 KJV
And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.

Was He saying Jesus should not leave alone?

Based on this, it means there were other nations existing during this time. Was God not aware of it? Why did He just notice it in Gen 1 v 2?


What does this mean??
Genesis 1:1-2 KJV
In the beginning God created the heaven and the earth. [2] And the earth was without form, and void; and darkness was upon the face of the deep. And the Spirit of God moved upon the face of the waters.

Kingdoms=heaven and earth?

If yes, then isreal is heaven and earth is the gentile nations.

I am trying to make sense out of your post....

Thanks sire
Religion / Re: Kill Gay:that Is The Word Of God by mcfynest(m): 1:59pm On Nov 17, 2015
Why do you choose to pick thst paetwand neglect d other laws?..
Religion / Re: Who Is The Son Of Perdition? by mcfynest(m): 1:46pm On Nov 17, 2015
MrPresident1:
The Bible makes us understand that the Day of the LORD will not come until the son of Perdition is revealed.

Who is this son of perdition that must fall away and be revealed before Christ returns?

Has he been revealed?

Any ideas? cool


Hnmmmm well i think the son pf perdition is not an individual perse, he can exhibit in any human. A man who knows God believes in the salvation, but choose to go the other way round s a son of perdition. An ecample is Judas Iscariot. Heb 6 v 4-8
Politics / Re: Aisha Buhari & Dolapo Osinbajo In Geneva (Photos) by mcfynest(m): 3:55pm On Oct 16, 2015
I see only aisha
Politics / Re: Aisha Buhari & Dolapo Osinbajo In Geneva (Photos) by mcfynest(m): 3:54pm On Oct 16, 2015
I see only ausha

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