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FamilyRe: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by mckenzie25: 3:55pm On May 19, 2020
[Hi dear,i had to reactive my account here because I said I must respond to your post,pls am not trying to break ur home or anything....am a married guy...and sincerely to tell u the truth any married man who doesn't know how to balance the equation btw his immediate family and his extended family has a serious issue.
Nice one uve been able to secure a land,and if uve got or can raise more cash...I'll advise u start a building of ur own no matter how small...to secure the fit of u and your kids.
We pray God opens his eyes to c what is happening around him and we pray it's not to late by den....just keep praying and take care of kids.....God is with u.

Peace Out....


quote author=Anni3e post=89699273]Hi, I have been married for 9 years now, the problem I have with my husband is that his family members keep sucking him dry and the way he neglects us his immediate family.

He is the first child of 7 children, his siblings even the married ladies keep asking him for money. He keeps spending money on them and their husbands. His brothers keep crying they are broke, they keep leeching off him.

His two junior brothers that always ask him for money, one of them built a house in Port Harcourt and the other one built a big house in the village. Still they won't let him rest.

His married sisters are the worst. If they cough they would call him to send money, every minor thing they would expect money. Just this evening his sister called him to ask for money. We don't have a house of our own, I keep telling my husband to stop giving in to all their demands and invest the money on something, he would say I am turning him against his family.

We have 2 kids and I have told him we need to start saving for their future, I pay the electricity bill, foodstuffs, and most times the children school fees, he pays the house rent and rarely keeps money for home upkeep, he sometimes drops two thousand and that's it for the whole week. He always complains he has no more, but once his family calls him he sends money immediately.

I have saved enough to buy a land and I am not planning to include his name in the property. I don't know what to deal with, his family entitlement mentality or the way he neglects the kids and I and treat us like outsiders.

I am really pissed off and tired.

Sorry for the long post.[/quote]
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FRSC Recruitment Mail by mckenzie25: 10:04pm On Sep 19, 2018
First Leaving School Certificate....ote author=ayamprecious post=71347411]..

FSCL MEANZ WHAT PLS[/quote]
Jobs/VacanciesRe: FRSC Recruitment Mail On Screening And Physical Fitness Assessment by mckenzie25: 6:57pm On Sep 19, 2018
Hi everyone, no news yet....hasn't anybody received the mail yet?
PoliticsRe: IG Report Confirms that Politicians ordered Senate Seige by mckenzie25: 10:09pm On Aug 09, 2018
Ok...we've heard.. But which kind signature b DAT naaaaa
HealthRe: Four Months After Abortion No Menstruation by mckenzie25: 7:35am On Sep 28, 2016
He asked for ur advice not a sermon..... How have u helped him out now......
Brossss....even if u've carried out two different pregnancy test and its showing negative....there are 3 possible issues...1.its either d pregnancy is growing inside of her and d test cant help located or deduce DAT she is still pregnant cos the pills and injection might have change d babies location in her body(o yes its very possible) have seen a lady who did exactly wat I guys did...and d baby decided to strt growing at d women's back..causing her back pain.
2.it could b DAT yes her messes just changed its circle.. And would leta normalize.....but seeing a gynecologist is d best here...to ascertain d condition of her health....
3 ..bro..just keep praying for her....and stand by her...she needs u now more than ever...because in all this mite have a long term effect on her...get her some good supplements
I hope this helps.....goodluck..
Dottore:
The things 10minutes sex can cause no be here.
When baba D rises if you allow it take control na so so regret go dey come moments after. Regrets about ur spiritual life that's been messed, risk of STDs, unnecessary expenditures you incurred to brighten the moment with the sex partner and even settle her, fear of unwanted pregnancy, remaking of bed and cleaning/washing of beddings, money for fueling of your car to bring her and drop her, wear and tear of the vehicle, traffic jams, wasted precious productive time and resources and energy. Not to mention possible birth of mistrust, quarrels and tantrums in the case of infidelity gone wrong.
Saying no to sex orgies has countless benefits but e no easy. GOD HELP US ALL
PoliticsRe: Oyegun, El-rufai & Abubakar Visit Okorocha, Condemn Kano Killing by mckenzie25: 5:22pm On Jun 08, 2016
nkemdi89:
The pfather... of their wasn't in regard of the killing, the governor personally invited them to witness his landmark achievement of his rescue mission administration over the last five years, what justice are we expecting? The incident happened in kano, not kaduna or bauchi, there was no meeting held in respect of the incident, it was just a breakfast/ thank you for honouring my invitation meeting. And please those expecting rochas to be against the north and west are wasting their time, North gave him home,destiny while he made his money from the west, East only gave him life and presently the opportunity to govern that was after he made his wealth.
You have spoken like the true son of your father...God bless u and your generation to com
CelebritiesRe: BET Awards 2016: Falz Nominated As Best New International Act by mckenzie25: 2:00pm On Jun 08, 2016
publicenemy:
To me, the only thing special about that guy is his funny accent and grammatical blunders.
Das his selling point....wats urs....huh??
I sense envy from your tone..
Mind u it kills faster dan........
PoliticsRe: Niger Delta Avengers Refuse Dialogue With FG by mckenzie25: 1:50pm On Jun 08, 2016
Addicted2Women:
Bad news for my South West brothers.

When hunger go deal with una finish, na Amala and Ewedu una go dey eat morning, afternoon and night
That is even if they see d amala and ewedu soup sef,......... grin
Christianity EtcRe: Bishop David Oyedepo And His Two Sons by mckenzie25: 11:30pm On Jun 02, 2016
theDEVILisHERE:
One of the many BASTARDS helping the demons from Europe to keep black African idiotts and zombies under slavery and subjugation

Your future generations will pay for your evil deeds towards black African people Mr Pastor
I just pity u and ur unborn generations............
Christianity EtcRe: Bishop David Oyedepo And His Two Sons by mckenzie25: 11:22pm On Jun 02, 2016
theEYe21 c beta mumu......................
post=46189296:

*spits* angry
PoliticsRe: "We've Blown Two Oil Pipelines In Bayelsa" - Niger Delta Avengers by mckenzie25: 11:14pm On Jun 02, 2016
At this point President Buhari should do a simple cost -benefit analysis of going after Tompolo and negotiating with the avengers. The cost of maintaining an army down south in the face of dwindling income will be devastating while depleting our armoury. I wonder what scares the northerners on this issue of fiscal federalism. A careful look at the big picture shows that the centre will have more to gain in the long run, if all states are trading in the areas they have comparative advantage, the taxes to the centre will be more considering that the centre will mainly be in charge of making policies and maintaining security.
This current structure/ system only breeds laziness, envy, anxiety and the end product WAR. It can never hold indefinitely, I just hope Buhari realized. The fact that Aguiyi Ironsi put Nigeria into this less doesn't mean years after people get enlightened they shouldn't do some thing about it.

To the issue of pipeline sabotage, I'll advise the security forces to look into those areas where these explosions have been taking place. It's been largely the same areas for the individual companies. Gbaramatu for Chevron, and Ogbainbiri-Tebidaba-cloughcreek for agip.

But e no easy sha, that Tebidaba clough creek axis be like death zone, only mosquitoes soldiers go run. No sane human will want to stay there, so out keyboard warriors can imagine what these host communities go through despite the resources being siphoned from under their feet.
Any one who is human or has ventured into the Niger Delta interiors will not even think twice to show empathy for these communities.[/quote].......you have spoken well my broda......
PoliticsRe: Now There Is No Money To Run Government – Amaechi by mckenzie25: 11:30am On May 25, 2016
asids55:
Hahahahahaha. I laff in wat u just said....so u blive amechi wild liv evidence at govt.house bfor he left....my guy receive brains IJN...
I really don't understand u guys...ameachi is wike's worst enemy as at now,and wike is currently the governor of the state ameachi once governed,don't you think that if there was any dirty dealings against ameachi wike's will be the first to cast him out since he now as all the information in his handshuhabeg u guys should stop talking trash...am 100% certain that if wike as anything against him,he will definitely have shown the press or taken it up to efcc
CultureRe: Oshiomhole Can Never Appoint The Oba Of Benin, Edo Youths Scream Out!!! by mckenzie25: 11:02am On May 25, 2016
Dey really don't know....and dey don't want to b educated...

Nothing would happen if Oshiomhole fails to recognize the new Oba.
If Oshiomhole refused to recognized the new Oba good but he can't make any other person Oba as long as the first son is alive.
You can't have another Oba when the Oba is alive, the son can only ascend the throne at the demise of his father.
Only Benin chiefs can stop the enthronement of Prince Eheneden from being made the Oba of Benin.
The sultan of Sokoto was dethroned for disagreeing with government, that can't happen in Edo state.
Lastly, the power of the Oba is not what is in dispute here but appointment.[/quote]
phemmyutd:
Most of we Nigerian youth lack knowledge of the constitution. So these these Edo youth do not know that the Governor has the right to appoint a king?
CultureRe: Oshiomhole Can Never Appoint The Oba Of Benin, Edo Youths Scream Out!!! by mckenzie25: 10:59am On May 25, 2016
U most be talking from your ass hole...if they do that in or village...pls let it remain dia....in Edo state...the governor does not have d right....
phemmyutd:
Most of we Nigerian youth lack knowledge of the constitution. So these these Edo youth do not know that the Governor has the right to appoint a king?
RomanceRe: My Ex Asks Me To Refund The 'N73k' She Spent On Me Or... Pls Advise Me by mckenzie25: 8:19am On May 21, 2016
my guy i hail u....but d truth of d mata b say.....she cant do anytin...no b today we(guys) strt dey receive threats like dat frm dem(girls)....dey will just shout and use som yeye guys pose as police(guys wen wan hit her p**sy)....my guy bon...women go just dey do anyhow....dey disgrace dem self......c if u pay her any cash...even d 15k wen u say u wan give her....i go vex for u oooo.....gbam!!!!
CrimeRe: Councillor Beats Nephew To Death In Anambra Over Missing Phone by mckenzie25: 5:32pm On May 17, 2016
he is a baskerawat......and a fvcking broke ass...just 35k....dat guy needs to be taken to the ezemo...for his head to b used to cleanse da land...gbam

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