Crime › Re: Yoruba Youths: It Will Be Blood For Blood Henceforth by McStoic(m): 10:42pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
fennels007: Yoluba people are SAYING that they are about to wake up, how I wish they are ALREADY awake. Chest beaters! True that |
Crime › Re: Man Kills Pregnant Wife, Stabs Self In Lagos (graphic Pic) by McStoic(m): 10:40pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
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Phones › Re: EU Agrees Single Mobile Charging Port In Blow To Apple. by McStoic(m): 10:38pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
SlavaUkraini: Apple will have to change the connector on its iPhones sold in Europe by 2024 as EU countries and EU lawmakers on Tuesday agreed to a single mobile charging port for mobile phones, tablets and cameras.
The agreement is a world first and came after companies failed to agree on a common solution. The European Commission had pushed for a single mobile charging port more than a decade ago.
Users of iPhones and Android phones have long complained about having to use different chargers for their devices. The former is charged from a Lightning cable while Android-based devices are powered using USB-C connectors.
Half the chargers sold with mobile phones in 2018 had a USB micro-B connector, while 29% had a USB-C connector and 21% a Lightning connector, according to a 2019 Commission study.
"The deal we struck this morning will bring around 250 million euros ($267 million) of savings to consumers," EU industry chief Thierry Breton said in a statement.
"It will also allow new technologies such as wireless charging to emerge and to mature without letting innovation to become source of market fragmentation and consumer inconvenience," he said.
"By autumn 2024, USB Type-C will become the common charging port for all mobile phones, tablets and cameras in the EU," the European Parliament said in a statement.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.jagonews24.com/en/amp/62188
Mynd44 Lalasticlala Seun Hmmm...this one tio |
Education › Re: This Is How You Make Money With Tiktok by McStoic(m): 10:36pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Wwwt: Make money daily trading binary options following free steps below Binary options that year.. chaii |
Politics › Re: Owo Terror Attack: Ohanaeze Begins Preparations For Burial by McStoic(m): 10:30pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Alphagan: I'm not like you and your brothers who sympathize with victims of attack only if they are from your tribe but gloat and mock if they're from other tribes. I'm a Christian, I don't wish anybody evil, it is you who should search your heart.
Again, Igbos don't invest in Church in the West. They only attend, they mostly don't build. Hmmm ..Na wa ooo |
Politics › Re: 15 General Life Lessons To Learn From Tinubu Jagaban by McStoic(m): 10:18pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
kingscare1: Let me start by apologising to him for undermining him, his influence and capacities. I tried to project other aspirants like Osibanjo and Amaechi, I believed that they are better aspirants due to the fact that they are younger, active and technocratic but it take more of those features to win a political election.
The new rule is to focus on winning first by any means possible than any other qualities, at last the winner is all that matters.
Bola Tinubu has proven truly that he is indeed the JAGABAN he is called.
I tried to analyse some of his silent traits that made him unstoppable before and during the just concluded presidential election that he won with a landslide despite being the most controversial, prideful, oldest, ganged-up and unwanted candidate due to his recent outbursts to both the President and his vice, still, won the election. Very heartbreaking from some of us and inspiring at the same time
As we all know that this man Ahmed Bola Tinubu is an extremely wealthy man in all ramifications of life's achievements such as business emperor, political stronghold, family, national leader, King maker, street commander, etc hate him or love him it is what it is.
Now, you can learn from some of his traits that I observed from him especially after winning the just concluded election.
1) Ruggedity: From the way he carries himself as the jagaban of africa, the calibars of people that clears his walking spaces and make up his entourage, how he gets cult-like followership in southwest, honored by day-to-day people on the street of Lagos including the touts of touts, also by respected people from all works of life and even the governor and governors trembles and rush to obey his commands.
Definitely, you cannot underestimate what this man is capable of doing to an individual or group of people. Stockholm syndrome at work. Jokes apart though, the man is smart sha though it doesn't change his criminal status  |
Politics › Re: What I Learnt From Apc Primaries by McStoic(m): 10:09pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
inoki247: Me I'm sha happy for the first time in this Year we av peace on this Forum people are resting and counting dere loss.... What loss? Wetin konsain me/us? You obviously think we care? We will troll all the way, for fun of course .  |
Politics › Re: What I Learnt From Apc Primaries by McStoic(m): 10:07pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
bastardmod: 1. Don't do charity to the northerners, it will pay you nothing. Save that money to bribe their politicians. Remember Rochas
2. Don't betray your brother for a stranger. You will never succeed. Remember rotimi amaechi.
3. Don't force God into matters he is not interested in, Remember bakare
4. Crying for justice gets you nowhere on earth, rather be a fighter....Remember ogbonnaya onu
5. Don't trust an old vegetable to be politically savvy....Remember osinbajo and his vegetable boss
6. Don't expect yoruba people not to play tribalism, Remember fayemi, ajayi borofice, bankole, amosun
7. Don't come to Nigerian politics with small money like 1 billion dollars...Remember Jack rich
8. Never trust women...Remember uju
9. Never have only one man as your team...Remember lawan and his chairman adamu strategy
10. Never depend on buhari...the man is an overhyped old man that can't make anything happen. Interesting lessons. You are a good student |
Politics › Re: Igbos Should Start Telling Themselves Truth by McStoic(m): 10:02pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Ebubu: You claim others marginalize you.
Umahi State has 51 delegates but he didn't win all 51 as he had about 30-40 something votes and his fellow Ebonyian, Ogbonnaya Onu has 1 vote
Imo state has about 80 delegates. Abia 51, Enugu 51. Anambra a little around 60-70.
This is over 200 votes yet the SE candidates altogether didn't have up to 50 votes.
Okorocha had no votes.
So where did the SE delegates' votes go to ?
But you cry you have never ruled this country ?
But can not galvanize yourselves to ensure all your delegates vote your region.
In SW, Bankole, Amosun, all resigned to support their fellow SW.
But no Igbo candidate resigned to support another through strategic agreement.
In PDP
Anyim had only his states delegates. Abia delegates voted Wike, Enugu state delegates voted Wike. Anambra and Imo delegates voted Atiku.
But you all cried powers must return South and it should even be South East
You would like to say SE candidates are not a threat so why waste votes on them instead of giving it to a more likely winner and sign pact.
No, you build on that loss, along the line other regions will aknowledge that strong man whom you all support and vote for him.
That was how Buhari was winning his northern states and losing elsewhere till help came.
I'm from Ebonyi state, but if i see anymore Igbo man claim marginalization on this platform, whereas the Igbo delegates do not support their regional candidates, I will remind the person of PDP and APC primary elections. Is that all? The issue of marginalisation is deep, it takes a lot of critical assessment to see it. Forget these primaries |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Is Desperate For Keys To The Nation’s Treasury - PDP by McStoic(m): 9:27pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: Jude Ezenwafor Becomes Factional Labour Party Presidential Candidate by McStoic(m): 9:08pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Osashalom: Igbos hate themselves the most., Very funny and unbalanced tribe That fallacy dey sweet una die. But it's okay. We love the delusion grandeur |
Politics › Re: Jude Ezenwafor Becomes Factional Labour Party Presidential Candidate by McStoic(m): 9:03pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Deltatoto: igbos are cursed. I expected no less stupid comment from a moniker like yours. To a cursed person, every other person is cursed. That you typify generational curse doesn't make it universal. ;DBut we move.. |
Politics › Re: Jude Ezenwafor Becomes Factional Labour Party Presidential Candidate by McStoic(m): 8:57pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
PaChukwudi44: You are politically dumb.If Peter Obi is forced to choose between Atiku and Tinubu,he will definitely pick Atiku.
You guys attribute everything happening in the universe to him Are you sure you understand what he meant? He is saying Tinubu is protecting the other factions to undermine Peter Obi's chances. |
Politics › Re: Oluremi Tinubu Kneels Down To Greet Muhammad Buhari by McStoic(m): 8:50pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
sarrki: Blood and flesh did not reveal that to you
It takes the Holy Spirit
God will answer all you have asked for So you sabi Holy Spirit like this? N wa ooo |
Politics › Re: Oluremi Tinubu Kneels Down To Greet Muhammad Buhari by McStoic(m): 8:42pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
[quote author=Dannyset post=113612488]Assistant Pastor Tinubu is a correct Omoluabi.
We don't use the left hand to describe our Father's house.
We respect elders.
We are not bittered and ungrateful.
We love our neighbours.
We are One Nigeria.[
All these cappings simply cos Tinubu won the primaries? I no say make you no rejoice ooo. But don't lose sight of the selfishness and Fulanisation agenda of the North ooo. |
Politics › Re: Senator Adamu Aliero Dumps APC, Decamps To PDP by McStoic(m): 8:20pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Beremx: Transfer window is officially opened. Nne iji ya oo  |
Politics › Re: Senator Adamu Aliero Dumps APC, Decamps To PDP by McStoic(m): 8:18pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Fear North! Tinubu should not rest on his oars |
Politics › Re: We Are Excited Tinubu Emerged APC Flag Bearer – YCE by McStoic(m): 8:09pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
DMerciful: Were they not among those saying it's the turn of the SE?
Where is the justice? Look at how foolish they made Ogbonnaya Onu's many years of loyalty look. |
Politics › Re: Charlyboy: Buhari Will Look Like A Saint If Tinubu Or Atiku Becomes President by McStoic(m): 8:03pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
Mooh247:

Antagonism only,. Failed noisemaking Old Ibo man at 70
What as he achieved at 70 same age as Tinubu
Atleast Buhari would be remembered for Second Niger Bridge, and Modernized Lagos/Ogun/ Oyo Standard rail line
Bola Ahmed Tinubu, Gave Lagos Eko Atlantic Island, BRT, Lekki Free trade zone, BRT, RRS, Lekki Mass Housing , Lekki deep see port, Investment in Ekonet etc
This 70 years Old Ibo gay man doesn't even have enough International Awards like WizkidAyo David Adeleke... At his best Portable Zahzuh trended more than him
Useless Mkpuru Mniri Brand Ambassador
. Say those things again without crying  . How can you know about his background when Lagos is the only place you know all your life? |
Politics › Re: Charlyboy: Buhari Will Look Like A Saint If Tinubu Or Atiku Becomes President by McStoic(m): 8:00pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
nans24: Charlie please leave my bullion van man alone. Na so |
Politics › Re: Charlyboy: Buhari Will Look Like A Saint If Tinubu Or Atiku Becomes President by McStoic(m): 7:58pm On Jun 08, 2022 |
cocolacec: Ugly old cargo charly go and sleep in your Biafra land.We must banish Osus from Yorubaland. A landlord in your land na him you wan banish. When living things are talking, semi living things go dey talk too. Chaiii..See you see house rent increase ooo. We move regardless..  |
Romance › Re: I've Started Bleaching Coz Girls Like Fair Guys More(photo) by McStoic(m): 10:15am On Jun 08, 2022 |
Ytt |
Politics › Re: Photos Of People Sleeping At APC Convention: You Can't Cheat Nature! by McStoic(m): 9:50am On Jun 08, 2022 |
Rayd502: Hope Uzodinma is up and doing....The man is rugged.He didn't sleep a wink all through the night. Someone that has murdered and continuing murdering sleep you mean? You think say to sleep dey easy? Even Bible talk am say no rest for the wicked...Most of these evil men no dey sleep, sleep don run comot for their eyes.. |
Politics › Re: APC Presidential Primary: (Live Updates, Pictures & Results) by McStoic(m): 8:26pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
HomoSapiien: PHOTO NEWS from Eagle Square, Federal Capital Territory (FCT), Abuja; venue of the APC Presidential Primaries Abuja.
ALL PROGRESSIVES CONGRESS National Secretariat (Buhari House, 40 Blantyre Street. Wuse 2. Abuja, Nigeria
SPECIAL CONVENTION FOR PRESIDENTIAL PRIMARY
On behalf of the Leader of our Party, President Muhammadu Buhari, the National Working Committee and all stakeholders of our party, the All Progressives Congress welcomes all party faithful, especially aspirants and delegates, to its Special Convention for Presidential Primary holding at Eagles Square, Abuja, from Tuesday, June 7 to Wednesday, June 8. 2022.
Thankfully, our party has put all necessary machinery in place to guarantee a hitch-free exercise and, more importantly, elect a credible candidate that will lead our great party and nation into the next political dispensation.
Below is a comprehensive schedule of activities for the two-day event:
1. Arrival of Accredited National Delegates 10:00am-1:00pm
2. Arrival of the APC State Governors, National Assembly Members and Party Leaders 1:30pm-2:00pm
3. Arrival of the Speaker of the House of Representatives. 2:10pm
4. Arrival of the Senate President. 2:20pm
5. Arrival of the National Chairman. 2:30pm
6. Arrival of the Vice President. 2:45pm
7. Arrival of the President. 3:15pm
8. The National Anthem. 3:30pm
9. Opening Prayers. 3:35pm
10. Welcome Address by the National Chairman, Sen. Abdullahi Adamu 3:40-3:50pm
11. Motions. 3:40-3:50pm
12. State of the Party Report by the National Secretary, Senator lyiola Omisore. 3:55-4:05pm
13. Remarks by Chairman, Progressive Governor's Forum, Senator Atiku Bagudu 4:05-4:35pm
14. Remarks by the Chairman, Election Management Committee/ Chief Returning Officer. 4:40-4:45pm
15. Remarks/Speeches by the Presidential Aspirants 4:45-5:45pm
16. Special Remarks by the President 5:45-6:00pm
17. Elections 6:00-9:00pm
18. Counting and Collation of Votes 9:00-10:00pm
19. Acceptance Speech by the Presidential Candidate 10:00-10:15prn
20. Motion for Closing of the 2022 Special National Convention 10:15-10:25pm
21. Closing Prayers 10:25-10:35pm
22. National Anthem 10:35-10:45pm 23. Departure in Reverse Order 10:45-11:00pm Signed. Media/Publicity Sub-Committee What a primary. So much ado about nothing.. |
Celebrities › Re: Skit Maker Madam Social Is Dead by McStoic(m): 8:20pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
Kaii...mama pistons and rings. She always has advise for young men and women. We gonna miss you mama. May God comfort those you left behind, Amen... |
Celebrities › Re: Skit Maker Madam Social Is Dead by McStoic(m): 8:20pm On Jun 07, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Is It Only Me Or All Men Are Like That? by McStoic(m): 7:53pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
trueSeeker01: why is my desire to have sex leading my life to destruction? whenever i sit down and think about my problems i see that they revolve around sex, why is sex the only thing i think about for years? i masturbate because of the desire to have sex, which i dont get because i dont have money and sex is monetize in this part of the world (nigeria) i masturbatate too much because of my high libido sometimes i ask god why did u created me like this. i read about negative effects of masturbation i want to stop but whenever i went two days without it i feel like im going to burst due to sexual urges. i started gambling to earn money nd spend it via sex in the process i lost the few savings i had now im pennyless nd stopped going to work cause i feel now that im graduate its time to earn with ease as i spent years doing menial jobs that r very hard. before i started gambling i have never think that gambling addiction will be worst than masturbation addiction, because of gambling addiction im losing my faith in god, i feel suicidal, i feel worthless and started smoking to calm myself after loses. you guys will be suprised if i tell u that my gambling addiction is fueled by my desire to have sex i know this because im always looking for money to carry girls and i dont have a job so i gamble. i always wonder why whenever i take my mind off sex and decide i will quit it for somedays i feel the desire to bet fade. i hate masturbation im afraid of it due to how people demonizes it but i know if i choose it over sex i can quit betting and have some savings any tips on how to stop masturbation and gambling or should i just choose my poison to continue pmo and quit bet Na only you waka cum my comrade. It's true many men like sex, but responsibilities that come with age makes them to decrease as your hormones also winds down... Could you be possessed by marine spirit? Come closer to God and make out time for fasting and prayers. Even if you don't fast much, snack on prayers daily and discipline your mind to stop thinking about sex too much. Finally, get busy and stop being the devil's workshop. These should help.. |
Politics › Re: Stop Praying For Nigeria. See Fr Kelvin Ugwu's Post by McStoic(m): 7:49pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Baba God abeg.... |
Politics › Re: Apc Northern Governors Already Made Themselves Clear by McStoic(m): 7:46pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
I am surprised at the stance of the northern governors sha.  |
Politics › Re: State House Press Release by McStoic(m): 7:43pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
So many twists. Even a snake will be more straightforward by the time this APC presidential primary is over |
Politics › Re: Cctv Camera Should Be One Of The Criteria To Register Any Business In Nigeria by McStoic(m): 7:43pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
stevnwigw1: Be it church, school, hotel, University, etc, before a cac certificate is issued, you should provide this if we are serious about security in this country. Long overdue |
Romance › Re: The Costly Mistake Many Men Make When Choosing A Marriage Partner by McStoic(m): 6:47pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Benee1000: For guys interested in marriage or long term relationships with religious ladies, please beware of the age long scam of their promise to fulfill all your sexual desires UNTIL after marriage. Especially the ones who claim to love you but totally avoid being sexual with you with the excuse that sex before marriage is sin.
Do not fall for this seemingly upright but ultimately destructive scam, whether she's a virgin or not.
A woman's sexuality is more important than her religious beliefs when it comes to relationship & marriage. Females are emotional beings as much as they're sexual beings, and religion doesn't change this.
A lady is a female first, before her religious beliefs.
Let me explain:
A lady who genuinely desires & is attracted to a man cannot help herself from being sexual with him, whether she's religious or not. This genuine desire and attraction predisposes her to be in the feminine and automatically, sexual towards him. They are incapable of controlling their lust for the man they desire, and desire, is an emotion, something felt and not intentional nor negotiated.
Have you ever wondered why sex with a lady in a highly emotional state (after a quarel, aka make up sex, or when she's excited, scared, sad and dejected, drunk, lonely etc.) is often very intense and pleasurable for her?
It's because Sex is directly proportional to a woman's emotions.
The more emotional she is, the more sexual she becomes. The more logical or less emotional she Is, the less sexual she becomes. The more emotionally expressive a lady is, the more sexually expressive she is (legends know this ).
This is also why the easiest way to sleep with a lady is to make her Emotional. Emotions opens up a woman sexually. When her emotions are high, sex is not far away.
Females require emotions to enjoy sex. And as such will seek an emotional connection with a man they're sexually attracted to.
Since desire is an emotion, and emotions opens up a woman sexually, a lady therefore can hardly control herself from being sexual with a man she genuinely desires because that desire makes her emotional, and emotions makes her sexual.
She could be a cold blooded nun to every other guy but burns hot for the man she's attracted to. She may withhold sex for religious reasons but cannot control being sexual or romantic with him, and unless such a man can control himself, it's only a matter of time before sex happens.
Again, desire, my friends cannot be negotiated. If a lady doesn't desire you sexually, she simply doesn't, and therefore cannot attach to you emotionally.
There's always a level of emotional fulfilment and attachment in a lady when has sex with a man she sexually desires. The strength of this attachment is strongest for the man who disvirgins her and the man who can give her earth shattering orgasms. They don't easily break up and forget this categories of men. However, the more sexual partners a lady has had, the less the strength of this emotional attachment, and the less chance of her bonding emotionally with her next sexual partner.
A lady who is not attached to you emotionally is not a lady you want to get married to. Neither your money nor her religion can keep her loyal in such union. This is the reason why most married women cheat, especially with their ex. They're still emotionally attached to that ex.
Moreover, sex with a lady who desires you sexually is at opposite ends to one which a lady does out of obligation. The Former indulges her emotions, as well as her sexual fantasies, fetishes, and lustful desires, which easily takes her to the promised land (orgasm), and doesn't require stress from the man as only few minutes of penetration, or just caressing or touching her, or even just hearing his voice or seeing him, is enough to open her flood gates. It's how she feels emotionally about the guy that really matters.
The later, (obligational sex) is akin to prostitution and you go drill her hole taya before you see water, if you see at all, no matter the size of your drilling rig . This is because it involves little to no emotions from her. She's doing it as her own duty in a business transaction. To get money or financial security from the man in return for the use of her coochie.
This is why the sex an olosho gives to a client is very different from the one she does with her boyfriend that she loves and is sexually attracted to.
For a female, sex borne out of desire (validational) is for her, to please herself, while sex due to obligation (transactional) is for the man, to please the man and get his resources in return.
Which one do you think you will enjoy more? The sex you beg or pay for and she agrees to so that peace will reign, while she barely partakes and simply lies down like a bag of beans as you pound away with a handy bottle of lubricant as drilling mud , or the one she looks forward to, begs you for and brings her A game so she can satisfy her sexual cravings with multiple orgasms?
The first is just like masturbating, but with a real person. The sex is like eating food to cure hunger but didn't savour the meal.
For the second, the pride, pleasure and satisfaction when a man cums after he has made the lady orgasm is on another level. You feel like a king, the lady adores you and she feels like a Queen. You satisfied your hunger, savoured the meal, and you look forward to the next meal.
If you are made to wait for sex, you will eventually discover that the sex was never worth the wait. Because what you get at best after that wedding is obligatory sex, of which as soon as she gives birth to the first child, she fulfils only sparingly, because no woman really enjoys obligated sex, and that child is insurance of her financial security from you, while your obligation to provide as a man increases with each new birth.
Ever heard of women having sex time table for their husbands? This is the origin, obligation, void of desire. Desire can not be negotiated, it is spontaneous.
Moreover, since there's no emotional attachment involved in obligatory sex, the day you default on your own part of the deal (financial provision), or when she considers it insufficient, that is the day you lose your value and respect to her, including her loyalty to you. She may not show it immediately, but with time, nagging, disrespect, disregard, sex deprivation and even cheating will creep into that marriage. she may even elope with your children sef. Peace of mind will be very far from you, and your journey as a philosopher will be on full throttle . That is If she doesn't kill you so she can inherit your resources and go be with the man she really desires.
No man with a better past dies a simp.
So beware guys. If she demands that you must wait until after marriage for her to become sexual with you, abort mission.
Her marriage demand is not borne out of righteousness but rather a need for the security of your resources. She's codedly offering sex in exchange for the resources that comes with your commitment.
Marrying such a lady is like marrying a prostitute, albeit a religious one, with you as the only customer, that is if she decides to be loyal to you.
Prostitution isn't about having multiple sexual partners, but wanting to be rewarded for sex. It is a mindset.
Marriage in itself, has little to do with love, it's all about resources. To make a man accountable for a woman and her offspring. While this is necessary as a woman needs resources to properly cater for her offspring, a man don't need to be married to a lady to experience her love and sexual side. That sexual side of her comes naturally when she meets a man she's genuinely attracted to.
Marriage doesn't automatically make a woman sexual towards you.
A lady who genuinely desires you won't even bring the idea of no sex without marriage to you, because 1) she would be so scared of loosing you to other ladies who wants you, especially when you're high value. 2) A lady has little to no control over her body for a man she sexually desires. Only the man does. Only the man can determine whether sex will happen or not.
What she'd rather do if really serious about being chaste before marriage is to beg you not to take advantage of her sexually and help her keep herself whenever she's with you. She knows she can't help it, and you only have to make the move for sex for it to happen.
Some ladies will even make the move for sex themselves, put their hope in you to resist, and will genuinely blame you when you fail to resist.
A lady who insists on a no sex before marriage most likely has other options, certainly doesn't desire you sexually, and definitely cannot attach to you emotionally.
A man who has to win a woman's affection, is already playing a lost game, and he'll pay dearly for it, when whatever won and sustained the woman's affection is no more.
A woman's affection, while very rare and priceless, comes free. It's a gift. Gifts are freely given, not bought. However gifts are giving to those who are found worthy.
But here's the corollary;
No female proves her love for a man through sex or the promise of sex. The existence of prostitution should reveal this to you.
Sex to a lady is either for her pleasure, a service to be rendered for a price, a tool for manipulation, or a weapon for destruction. If a lady is clever enough, all can be applied at the same time, to multiple men.
Sex is never a proof of love, neither is the offering of virginity.
Love is proven through giving and making sacrifices. However, sexual attraction comes first, because while women can be sexually attracted to a man they don't love (their crush), they can only love a man they're sexually attracted to.
Marry a lady whose fertility is highly guaranteed (young virgin), can raise your children properly, can manage a home with the resources at both your disposal, and will be a useful companion, and not because marriage is the only way to have sex with her.
If a lady is not sexually into you, just forget about her other qualities and dey your lane.
Don't make the grave mistake many good men make by saying "she'd make a good wife cos she's a good person, and sex is not that important to me".
There's a big difference between a wife who finds you as her lover and a wife who only sees you as her husband and father of her children. One makes a happy home irrespective of circumstances, and the other makes a peaceful home as long as you can provide.
Finally, A lady's personality and investments (financial, emotional,time, etc) in you is a better precision Instrument that should be used in your calculations to prove her worthiness for your commitment.
However, dealing with the female is a gamble. And while you can predict the odds of an outcome from your calculations to know where best to stake your commitment, nothing is guaranteed.
The only way a gambler is guaranteed not to lose is not to stake. This is too long na. How can one shuttle between following APC presidential primaries and reading this long post? |