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SecretSpy666:
Greetings Nairalanders,
I want to seek for you peoples opinions regarding my family challenges.

I'm from a broken home. My parents divorced when I was a child of two years. I'm the only child from their union. My father and mother abandoned me and remarried to other spouse each. I passed through hell growing up with relatives who insulted me with all kinds of names and I was treated like a slave to their own children.

Because of public outcry about my dehumanizing treatment, my father came to village and took me to the city. It was from fry pan to fire experience as my father's new wife was maltreating me. At a point, my father asked me to leave his house that since my arrival, he don't have peace with his wife.

I packed to the house of a relative and work in a block industry to help myself. Most times, I slept in a CAC church close to the relative house as the two-room apartment is not enough for his family. My mother never care if I was alive. She never call me nor reply to letter I sent through someone to her. I continued working in the block industry and started a part time programme. I completed the part time programme and did my NYSC and master degree. I got a job with University of Ado Ekiti with the help of a course mate, managing myself now and surprisingly my mother and father started calling me often.

Both of them have 6 children each with their respective second spouse. Mother want his son to come and live with me, I refused and my father too have been requesting for financial assistance which I also refused. I don't want to have anything to do with both of them. My father's daughter recently called me to help her with school fees, I bluntly told her to ask her mother what she did to me and caught the call. Since then, she never call.

I'm alone and have just two friends. I don't have family. All of them calling now are just looking for what to get from me, not that they care about me. My mother never call me once to ask about my welfare even when I sent my phone number to her through her relative. I wrote WAEC, completed degree course before she started calling me and it is only to request for one thing or other. I'm planning to get married without telling them and build a separate family.

bos in my humble opinion I feel you forgive them but put them at arms length, don't let them starve but also don't give them enough just avoid unnecessary familiarity but please try forgive Dem to avoid unnecessary attention and bad-mouthing forgiving Dem does not make them welcome in ur house a situation of detente is enough

Tobiloba2407:
I think it's a win win for us, and it doesn't put us on unnecessary diplomatic pressure and cost efficient projects, imagine our c130s without the PAF and now the operations upgrade without the jf17.

yes and hopeful we grow to a point of such strong relationships we cooperate on developing modern battle systems and other technical projects free us both from external influence no matter how big and/or small

FieldMarshall06:
We are winning. In the last three weeks, ISWAP has taken more casualties than the NA. Don't let this latest loss put you off.

Also note, some terrorists would also have died in the attack. And as we are getting more MI-35 attack helicopters, there would me enough to go round all military operations.

hmmn you mean more shaitan arbas's(mi-35) let's send them to their virgins, and u think we need to change our focus as we are fighting like the Americans trying to hit the boss but the boss is not even in Nigeria even if shekau dies there will be swift replacement, let's starve them of men, ammunitions and food they will either surrender or eat themselves up

hitting Abuja is possible dey have done it before
I was thinking, why not just mount border patrol and pull civilians deep into our territory and watch them starve

Toju200:
Others will contribute but let me say what I know..The ISWAP I know now are Foreigners
2.) Their fighters are mostly trained in Mali and perhaps some areas in Chad so that's where their recruits come from.
For the past 1 month now NAF has succeeded in taking out some of their leaders and fighters some mostly light skinned foreigners.
Survivors of Airstrike usually cross into other countries.i heard on BBC last week BHT attacked a Cameroonian IDP camp to steal some food and medicine reports had it that they might be survivors of Op hailstorm Airstrikes.
Until all Lake chad basin countries work together this won't end at all.
Now FCT is on Red alert based on info of possible attack on Some targets in Abuja.
I'm predicting a WestGate Mall incident but I pray it doesn't happen.
Isn't it time for some civilians to start having some badass Rifles yet in this country sef

hmmn but this sneak attacks
are worrisome
but wats the deal with these other countries sef, if we barricade the borders,hunt their sponsors and all will be well

And can I ask why the airforce is not bombing training camps because these guys are not immortals dey die but are replaced but by taking out their recruiters and the recruits we starve them of man power. Am very very worried for our boys

bosses in the house abeg in sincere opinion who is winning this war, are we or the terrorists winning because i dont get

bro my pastor said will not build your family, but baba pray and pray again and trust God for they that their trust in God shall not be put to sham

I will travel the country one day and see this beauties for now I will console my self with these pics from all around the nation

bidexiii:
Off topic


Sand Dunes in Yunusari LG Yobe; a source of revenue and a tourist attraction if harnessed !

I really agree bless you sir,

bidexiii:
Have you been to the northern states before ?
Now the north east has terrains that you can see beyond 5k. If you keep looking you might just get blind because of the sun rays. Also Borno state has a very flat terrain especially the Baga/lake chad region.
I love Yobe with his flat/undulating red sand, it’s a sight to behold.
Pictures are Tulo Tulo Desert in yobe state.

boss I love those pics I won't mind a few more oo and also a dm thanks in anticipation

pls can you post the link for the video

bosses good morning i just purchased the leagoo kiicaa power but the launcher is very unlike a 7.0 phone i cant freeze apps and the menu doesnt look the same as others pls am i safe

AnonyNymous:
Define unnatural

Thank God you said animals all the above species are animals and the one homophobic specie is not simple

kingtunde:
Yeah, i have paid my hostel fees

how sir

Ibadandentist:
It is on the portal
And get ready for everyone to fight against this

thanks bro pls fight what

whao boss how did you get this and please can you share it

Ajet001:
Bro,
you can still change it between now and 11:59PM tomorrow
and also, the letter must be on a letter headed paper.

Thanks bro am grateful

psalmiel:
You are supposed to address it.

whao i didnt know but now that i have posted it will there be any effect

psalmiel:
You are supposed to address it.

whao i didnt know but now that i have posted it will there be any possible change

pls guys this is urgent

Good afternoon guys please i just noticed that i have to address my letter of recommendation to the registrar because i didnt i just typed it simple pls hope no issue will result from this

Bobola07:
I guess its still a portal issue.
.but, try using another phone or laptop to sync your payment. use chrome or Firefox.

if this persists, call the helpline or drop a mail with the support center on the portal.

I'm sure it will be resolved soon. Just remain calm.

alternatively, you can recheck the bank u paid to ask if there has been any delay in the processing

thanks alot bro

medic555:
morning nlanders i made a bank payment but i have been trying to sync bank payment but each time i click it doesnt leave the page pls hope no issues

guys please respond this is troubling me

morning nlanders i made a bank payment but i have been trying to sync bank payment but each time i click it doesnt leave the page pls hope no issues

Generals in the house pls pardon me i do have a question ooo pls who trains our navy sbs and how effective are they

please generals in the house i have been silently following this thread but one thing baffles me who trains this sbs commandos because they you look like the best trained and equipped of all fighting forces

seriously i saw this too but dont get oo u.i that has not even released admission list sef how will we do registration

bidexiii:
#RANDOM.

is that not d ARA apc from proforce

tdayof:
What he's talking about isn't contrail. I do sight it around ologuneru too. It goes really fast but then I no sabi anything.

I was actually talking to my brother few weeks ago about the stuff. Then I do think it's some rocket ish.

It's been years I last noticed it.

i was told as child that they where rockets going to space an i used to wonder why a rocket will have to pass Ibadan of all places to get to space lol

yes contrails u right but even in peacetime i do see it that means there more NAF activities than documented and pls forgive my ignorance do missiles also leave contrails

i what could that be