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tobechi74:
Nice

Appreciated.

It will help you. You just neee to learn.

SILENTandSMART2:
Nah me go read all the werey epistles wey you write abi,




You wrote nonsense





Eleribuu OP


Werey


Emotion koor confusion nii



Forkk off bitch or wizzard

nwaezeemmanuel:
Thanks for the mention. Now people know my moniker and will possibly view my threads.

God bless you

For your mind.


Repent.

Even if you've the said money and you're very stingy like me - you can jejely said that you don't have, if she is going to spend it on irrelevant things. Don't a white knight.





Grown men are aware of all these, however, I'm trying to enlighten all these young adults, who thinks they can enter girl's heavens gate by spending money on them.


Everyone has emotions, if you can control yours and quit following what other SIMPS are doing - you'll notice that you'd succeed in any life endeavors.


Do what is right, even though your emotion is telling you to so otherwise. Say no to negativity. Say no to simping, it is not good for mankind.


The ability of humans to control their emotions is the cause of some of our problems/issues in life.


Aside from natural disasters, accidents, illness etc. our doom revolves around our emotions.


Here are things you'd benefit when you can control your emotions;

You'll be confident (even if you're nor, you can manipulate your mind into believing that you're confident.


You'll succeed in your relationship with people.

You'll be discipline.

Time management

You'll be at peace with your enemies.


You'll develop the spirit of patience and perserverance etc.


I can go on and on, but I have to stop here. Control your emotions, don't let it decide for you or control you.

#MGTOW
#SexualHealing
#KeyToSuccess

Not only relationship, other aspect of life like; business, life issues/problems, jo/career etc. you can win or be successful in all these, if you can control your emotions.

I've seen a lot of Romancelanders (Male) here, always crying and wailing about how girls are collecting their money. Offline have also this kind of a thing, where a married man who has kids and a wife at home - whi choose to spend lavishly on girlfriends, leaving his wife and kids in a poor state. To me, it is very stupid act, displayed by simps. Unless a man is jazzed, they is no excuse for such acts.

If you can control your urge (emotion) whenever you see a tempting figure - you've saved yourself from undue financial problems. Some girls are using their machinery (aka kpekus/pussy) to deceive some guys (SImpletons like nwaezeemmanuel). They will deny you entrance to their heaven's gate and empire (pussy), with the high hope of getting laid one day - you will continue to spend your money on her. They see you as mugu, while they give their kpekus to capable men or boys who did not even spend a dime.

SIMPS your mumu don do. If you continue this way and you can't control your urge (emotions) when it comes to excessive spending in relationship, please, I'm begging you don't come to romance section to wail and cry fowl and call girls name or create hate against women. Understand them and you'll have a peaceful life - don't let your emotion to control you. It is a game, don't be the loser, you're to win.

With good emotional control, you can get money from them (money gotten from simps) rather than giving them money.


To avoid wailing and crying on Romance section, if you must assist a girl financially, don't attach too much emotions to it i.e. don't give because you expect something (loyalty and kpekus) in return.


I deh come...

MGTOW

Pan cake come make we marry.

How can one do kegel exercise?

Op.

Go for medical check up. It get why.

Men learn how to control your emotions, or else Alpha Males will enjoy all the money you lavish on your girls - including her kpekus, which she denies you of.

Zzor:
And the irony of it all is I like most of them who insult and hate me here , I don't even know how to hate, it's not my thing.Im that kind of person you will miss when not around.

For your mind?

pcguru1:
I for advise you on your depression but one hood nigga Saroutobi will soon start vexing.

Advise abeg.

Rareoil:
@Meedon


Where are the Masturbation quitting tips you said you will drop?

Check my other thread.

Goalnaldo:
bro it's not easy. I have up to 9 books but only made three sales. I just gave up. In fact I haven't visited kdp for almost two months now.

I swear down.

Them ogas say that the competition is very high now.

ambitiouschap17:
Boss meedon how you, and this na small big go follow.

You see this life ehn, na after I leave secondary school for 2016 I no sey life no be black and white.

I for like share my own story too, but I dey mosque when I finish I go try tonight.

I hail ooo

Walai, e no easy.

I go like read your story too.

Goalnaldo:
Nawao how can the man who brought you to this life be so cruel and wicked to you. My own depression is not because of my family but because of an event that occurred in 2014 and some shortcomings in my life. I feel suicidal at times but God will see us through

Amen.


Bro. How far with publishing stuff.

javaRookie:
Lol. Why are you blurring the amount?
Are you afraid kidnappers will carry you??

Well here is my first withdrawal.

When the thing landed, I was feeling like a boss.

Lol

You know the feeling na...


I blurr it because the amount deh small....

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Thank you all for reading my epistle.



Old School Goalnaldo (how far)

Baba Ilegendd (I hail oo)

Ambitiouschap17 (well done)

Silvoice (I the greet)


gloniks (Oluwa will help us)


Pious101 (Thanks for all your responses)



My first withdrawal from Amazon

I'm out...


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Say my name

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I can't buy a Grammarly premium account at the moment, many expenses to settle.

My brothers and my sisters - if your grammar is good, don't hesitate to start this publishing thing. I know my problem and only Ilegendd book on grammar will help me, maybe I should save up and buy that book. I seriously need to improve my grammar.





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I'm struggling with it. I don't even understand how it works the way I should - what if I end up knowing how it works.

One thing I noticed about white people is that they don't joke with bad grammar and I know for sure - it is the main reason I'm not selling much.

About the procrastination book that I wrote in June - I got a five (5) star rating from a customer, but no review.


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As promised, below are the screenshots those guys sent to me that made me grateful, joyful, thankful. At least those sleepless nights are not in vain and hope one day I will start earning big.

The money could have been enormous, but due to some reasons, it ends up like this. I pray I don't give up halfway, real money deh this online stuff, but knowing and doing the right things will determine whether we are going to succeed or not.



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gloniks:
Ok I will.......Thanks

You're welicome

@ gloniks you can check this thread


https://www.nairaland.com/5319181/bayubars-method-online-wealth...to-deleted



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Sorry for calling you "bro." I don't know you're a female. In the aspect of keeping to yourself, I think you're my female version. It is hard out there if you can't socialize - you'll miss a lot of things, but it is God's mercy that have been seeing me through.


About blogging - you can make research on it with Google and also you may consider checking out Ilegendds thread.



They are a lot of things to learn from his thread in regards to making money online.


God will help us.

gloniks:
Thank You......actually I am a female and I eventually gained admission into the university 2 years ago and he knows the pain I went through to have that admission especially considering the fact that I am not a dullard and I kept passing outstandingly in jamb and put me so he knows it will be so painful.......as in damn painful to dropout now.


About learning skills, I learnt shoemaking and bag making (leather) while seeking admission those years and I really love and have passion for it but I don't have equipments and he refused to buy for me and I don't want to do anything promiscuous to raise funds because I know it doesn't pay.

My birthday was January and he didn't wish me a happy birthday and I didn't even notice until August or July he was telling and bragging to his friend that he didn't wish me a happy birthday and I couldn't believe it and he said I should go to my Facebook account to check of he wished me a happy birthday but we lived under the same roof and that means he might not have wished me happy birthday (I didn't notice) if he could brag about it months later.


If I have to raise funds for equipments maybe I will do it online in a legit way that's why I want to know more about blogging cos I have been thinking about it and others for a while but I don't have start up capital to pay for online skills.

He was even telling me that he paid a part payment for one of the tools that I provoked him and he told the seller to remove #500 out of #5000 he deposited out of #15000 and collected his money back and that he wanted to surprise me on my birthday���.

I didn't say a word and he said sometimes back like 2 months ago that I should learn how to beg him which I used to do before but he would still not yield.......(He likes when you are at his mercy)

��� I can go on and on but I would still be saying the tip of the ice berg.

Sorry for this long story but if I need to raise funds I have to learn online skills.....if I consider working as a sales girl I hardly find jobs because I am not sociable.......I tend to keep to myself although I am trying to change that's why I can have the courage to say this here (cos it is unusual)

I tell people I am looking for a Job but I don't get........I am so choked and fed up

I even started regretting not involving in some youthful delinquencies and trying to be a good girl to mum and dad��

But I tried to brush that thought away and I think and strongly believe I did the right thing that will pay off for me assuredly.

And my big mistake➡ was making family the center of my world cos right now I am just alone in my world..........Thank GOD for GOD.


Just pouring my heart out

Sorry.

Oh

God Bless The Dead


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I feel emotional reading this - mine was just 1 year of staying at home and I'm feeling somehow.


It is going to be well bro... You can consider learning a skill, with that you'll keep yourself busy and the thoughts of suicide will be eliminated with time.

Also, prayer and developing a thick skin can play a crucial role in helping you in times of problem.


It is going to be well bro.

gloniks:
Sorry bro, I can feel your pain.......I spent 7+ years at home before gaining admission into the university, not because I didn't use to pass jamb and putme but because I was been denied admission every year, if I didnt use to pass people would have told me to go and marry bit thank God dad didn't give up on me.



But now he wants to give up because he and mum are not on good terms so he thinks the best way to deal with mum is through me since mum doesn't have the financial capacity to sponsor me.

Currently the house is always hot and I go through domestic and verbal abuse and I have thought about suicide several times but it ain't worth it.......I mean I can't give up my Life because of anybody.......my Life is too precious than that (although it's b3eh God that has kept me going coupled with discipline)

There's favoritism between the children and I get blamed for what the other does despite the fact that I am older but the favoritism didn't extend to the area of responsibility but now it's about to.
He still blamed me this evening for what my other sibling did


I am in my 20s and I still get beaten with blue black with belt and wire.

He said it before and he repeated it again few days ago that he was thinking of telling his doctor maybe I should go for injection to step down my brain that I behave like some one with mental disorder........I take all this harsh words in and behave like nothing is wrong because i dare not cry the next thing is for him to take his belt and say "you want to cry abi, you will cry well" so I suck everythimg in, I love to sing and he said I have a bad voice despite the fact that I know there's nothing wrong with my voice but I don't even bother to sing anymore. Do you know what he says? He usually say I sound like "osanyin" I asked him the meaning and he said a name of a demon in Yoruba land. I a lot of times feel choked up and frustrated. He can disgrace me anywhere, and he has started threatening not sending me to school which he does every time we are to resume.
If anyone has ever body shamed me it is him.


I know I maybe clueless but I know GOD understands.


So I thought, now that I am in the picture and things are like this I better not do something stupid because no one would care and my mom might be shattered, don't know of she will cope but is that GOD'S will? No so I will stay to see the GLORY OF The LORD IN THE LAND OF THE LIVING.



Sorry I don't mean to interrupt your story just that I have a heavy heart and I even cried this night so I just need to pour my heart out somewhere so saw your story and decided to share mine.

Thanks.

gloniks:
Please.continue with the story..........I am interested in the reading and blogging aspect.

Nothing much, but it was fun.

I got banned yesterday by mods...

I'll complete it today.

In January 2020 I came across a post by our oga at the top Ilegend.d in this same romance section. The post was all about making money from home or passive income. Since I liked the idea of making money from home, I started gleaning through all his old posts and I did not regret – I’ve not even read half of his helpful thread sha, I was carried away by his ‘’haters and fun thread.’’ Lol ...



Following his post, I was able to create a KDP account with ease. I wrote a short romance storybook - just for testing. As a newbie (Note: I'm still a newbie. I don't understand anything yet – I said this because I received a lot of messages on WhatsApp concerning this, if you’re confused about anything ask Mr. and Mrs. Google / YouTube) this book took me a full month to finish even though, the word count is not much. No sale and no kenp read. But, I managed to get a few free downloads during the period I put it up for free download.


I was about to give up, luckily, I saw a post by another moniker, the post emphasizes a particular profitable topic, I decided to write on that topic - I made my first sale on the second day of uploading and from that day, I was keen on publishing more books, but procrastination, stress, hunger (hungerbad) and social media distractions won't let me. Will I quit? I don't think so unless Amazon decides to knock me out (and that is what I pray against).


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Hard drugs like codeine, emzol, emzoline - all became my best friends. I took all these substances to stop my depression, but it only helps to worsen my situation.

In 2019, I picked interest in Romance Section and this, made my condition worse because I was using every post (sexual-related posts are plenty on this particular section) to masturbate (my Vaseline Crew can relate ... lol). Watch porn, masturbate and the circle continues.

Note: I don't masturbate often again, which means I'm not addicted to it again. If you're battling with masturbation, I have got a thread, you can check it out, go through those tips. They are critical steps I followed to quit the addictive habit of masturbation. I still have other tips, but I’m kind of busy now, but if I have the time, I will start posting tips on that thread soon.


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2019 for me was all about uploading videos on YouTube and playing games online and earning little cash, but I had to stop gambling (betting) because I was losing now and then. I only played Sportybet twice or so this year.

My story long oo... But cutting it short is what I'm going to do.
In 2018, I gained admission into Uniagric, Makurdi - but till now I did not attend the school because of lack of funds. Father, who was in the position to help, gave up on me. No one to help.

Every time I reminisce about my past experiences, about my higher education, I felt like crying - all the transportation, all the JAMB registration and all the change of course, etc. Are all a waste of time and energy, but I thank God, maybe I would have joined a cult group in Makurdi. You may be surprised, don't be - it was one of those things I used to think of then, to be rugged in school, but I'm now a changed man after going through the say no to cultism thread.

I fell into depression, I was contemplating suicide all the time, but with a consistent prayer from mother and with God's help, I was able to defeat depression and the thoughts of suicide.




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