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I passed there today when it happened. It really created massive hold up. I saw the people it burnt, they were scooping for fuel. It was really bad. 1 Like |
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The internet got buzzing in Jos today after a video of a pretty lady walking about naked in the Rayfield area of Jos today. She was about with her clothes in her hands. Alot of people are suspecting Yahoo boys but the truth is na only God know the actual root. What kind of generation do we have today that instead of people especially females to rally round her and cover her but they rather prefer recording her. Arrrrh 12 Likes 8 Shares
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Nigerians can be very funny and unserious. Just because someone posted a job advert and made a spelling error, instead of CHEF, he wrote CHIEF.
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It is possible to have 1. A good husband but a bad father to the kids 2. A bad husband but a good father to the kids 3. A good husband and a good father 4. A bad husband and a bad father Guys, which do you think is better apart from number 3 which we all know is every woman's prayer? |
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This python was killed by farmer in Jos, it drawer a lot of crowd to come see it.... It was really scary to see such a huge snake. A man stopped by to look at it and later bought it for 200k t support the farmer who killed it. I think he shouldn't have killed it, if there was a way to preserve it by calling the zoo people, they know how to come and get it alive and preserve it. 17 Likes 2 Shares
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AllBlack:broke my phone and television one time sef cos i didn't have money to buy diapers which caused an argument then fight |
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I've been married for over 8years now with three kids. I've always doubted the paternity of my first son right from day one. Then last year December, 2023 i decided to run a DNA test and behold i found out that i wasn't the father of my first son as I've always suspected. After confronting my wife, she begged and begged that she's sorry when she got pregnant she went to tell the real father about the pregnancy but he rejected and denied being responsible that was why she pinned it on me. She got pregnant after our engagement and that forced me to take her in even before the marriage due to pressure from he family. The truth is i've forgiven her since i found out about the paternity and I've been taking care of the child equally with my other kids, though anytime i remember about the paternity of the kid, i feel like a f00l, my spirit goes down and also feels angry about everything etc. Right now I'm planning to tell her to take the kid back to the father because i cannot continue taking care of someone's child while his Dad is still very much alive and perhaps doing better than me financially. Pls guys what do you think about my plans? 6 Likes |
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My family is a complicated family because I had wealthy relatives but all of them neglected me because my mum was the last wife amongst 3wives which my father married. So after my parents dies when I was 15years old, I became homelessvand nowhere to go. I had to leave my city and travelled to Kaduna, from kaduna to Kano, from Kano to makurdi, from makurdi to Abuja. When i got to Abuja a rich man just saw me sitting on the road just close to NNPC tower in Abuja, just like a movie. He asked me if i was the plumber he called on phone, then i said no, as he wanted to start moving he then asked why is a young boy like you hanging around here, so I told him a bit of my story and then he immediately opened somewhere in his car, brought out an envelope without even opening it and told me to take and go back to my city. When he left, I opened the envelope and saw 100k inside omo that time money get too much value around 2005, i nearly went crazy. That was how I came back to my city and rented a one room apartment at the rate of 25k per annum. Then bough mattress and other things, that was how I started life and thank God today everything is past, but sincerely i really suffered. So guys have you ever been homeless? Share your experience. 1 Like |
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What does a man benefit in marriage rather than responsibilies? Always working hard and thinking of how to get money for either food, school fees, this and that.... Then secondly which is the most important question, what is the best age for a man to get married? Basically to me i think it's 30. |
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immortalcrown:I've told her that the other child is not mine because i don't know what to believe anymore, though i have plans of conducting paternity test on the second child when i heal or have the resources. 1 Like |
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After my previous post about how I discovered i'm not the father of my first child through my wife's confession, i've decided to Japa to start a new life and Hussle. I know it won't be easy but i'm sure it will go a long long way to help me heal and move on. I'm not financially buoyant but atleast i've taken the first step in faith, i went to the immigration office today and applied for a passport, by the hell of God, i've made the payment and I was asked to come back tomorrow to collect the passport since i paid for express. I'm not travelling out basically because of what happened to me (the paternity fraud issue), i've always been having it in mind to travel out but never took a step, i think this issue that happened to me (the Paternity fraud) just pushed me very well... I know i don't really have funds to travel out but i know God will do it. Once I receive the passport tomorrow, i'll start working on the next step. I know there's nothing impossible for God.... Thanks alot guys for your advises right from my initial post. |
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Today's makes it exactly 1 week since my wife confessed to me that I'm not the father of our first child, that the child belongs to her ex boyfriend who is back for the child. This is a boy I've been talking care of for over 6years thinking it's my son. God, I cried or three straight days and till now the pains is increasing every single day... Though I've chased her out of my house. Please guys, how do i heal and move on? The pains and depression is too much to the point to the point that i attempted suicide yesterday. One of the painful part is that i don't have anyone to talk to, not even my family because i fought my family just to marry her, none of them supported me to marry her and because of that since i married her we've never communicated with any of my family till today. I thank God for nairaland. Admin pls push to front page, I need to heal. |
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So after i posted about how my wife confessed to me that i'm not the father of our first child, she has finally moved out of my house with the kids back to her family house, but then none of her family have come to see me based on the issue and her mother too hasn't even bothered to call me, not to talk of coming to see me. The highest i've received so far were calls from two of her siblings who were pleading with me not to let her go while another one of her sibling called me and was telling me that i know very well they have the resources to talke care of all the children, so its not an issue to them. Today I got a call from someone whom i don't know, he was telling me that he doesn't care about me or my ex wife, he doesn't want to know who is at fault or what happened, all he wants to plead with me is that i should take care of my children wherever they are right now and also be sending money for their feeding. I answered by saying okay, then he ended the call... Please guys what do you think is happening? What should i do? Please most importantly what do i do to get all these issues off my mind and move on with my life. The depression is too much, I'm passing through alot... Thanks alot for your input guys and sorry for bothering you with my issues. I remember one thing she told me before she left my house, she said she's tired of begging me and i'm not responding, neither am i willing to forgive her, she said God knows she has removed what has been bothering her for over 5years(the Paternity fraud). Then she said to me hope i won't come to regret this someday. 2 Likes |
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Originalsly:honestly I don't know why, not as if they know her somewhere nor did she offend them... I just don't know. 1 Like |
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imagrg:honestly bro, I wish I've got the funds to move to another house. You've really spoken well brother.... |
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For few days now I've been uploading about the situation I'm in after my wife confessed that i'm not the father of our first child. She is yet to leave my house because I've not been myself yet, the whole has left me down and depressed and also sick, but i've asked her to leave my house and everybody in her family has been calling to beg. Some of her siblings are calling to plead with me to allow the children finish this term in school before sending them away, while some are calling to plead with me to allow them stay and forgive, stating that I should consider my relationship with the child. Guess what? My wife is acting normal as if nothing happened, gisting ND going about her life normal while I'm left depressed and almost died. I've become the shadow of myself right now, I've lost significant weight, lost appetite and couldn't eat since last week. Nobody in my family is aware of anything happening right now because i abandoned my whole family since i married her because they Adviced me not to marry her but I insisted, that is what caused the end of my relationship with my family for the past 7 years. Please guys, I need help on how to be strong and continue my life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
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slan87:I agree with you, I think I'm a weak man that's why she has been doing some things. |
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Namaster:they are two bro.... I swear I'm sending her out of my house tomorrow. |
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Homeboiy:her family said nobody is giving me any of the kids... That it's either they stay in my house with the mother or the would leave with the mother. They are not up to 5years, the one that is my own. |
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Namaster:brotherly, exactly what I told her family members today, I told them I'm not sure I'm the father of the remaining children then one of her sister said I am very heartless, that why will I deny my kids just because of this situation? Bro, I'm still shedding tears right now seriously, you know why? I remember when she gave birth to the bastard, I was cashles then that to pay for hospital bill was an issue, I had to treck the whole of Abuja going from one place to another begging people I know, God..... If you know how I suffered just because of that child. 3 Likes |
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Namaster:I'm sending her out of my house by tomorrow... I've already told her to prepare her things. 4 Likes |
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Namaster:I appreciate your inputs, but right now how can i answer people when asked after her and the children that's the big one? |
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Namaster:right now, my neighbours do not know about it but what if they are aware how do i live with it? |
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Namaster:can you imagine one of her sister calling me this evening to tell me, it's fine if I don't want all the children, that they are capable of taking care of all the children but I should allow them finish this term. She even went further to say, there are people who adopted children and are taking care of them and that nobody is perfect. |
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Namaster:please my brother, can I talk to you privately? Thanks!!! |
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Namaster:imagine that are telling me to allow the children finish this term before I chase her out of the house. |
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MrCork:yes |
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immortalcrown:I don't even know how to start, because we've not been in talking terms with any of them for the past six years. |
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I posted an issue about the Paternity fraud my wife hid away from me for the past 6years which she confessed two days ago, I've been taking care of someone's child all these years. The truth right now is that i've informed her siblings one after the other and you know what? Each of them were siding her indirectly. If someone told me that as a man that i am, i'll be shedding tears for the past three days continuously, i would say it's a lie, the worst part is that i don't have anyone to talk to because i flushed my family out of my life just because of her because when i was about to get married to her, my family kicked against it because they don't like her but I insisted and that was the end of my relationship with my family till date. I just wish there's someone I could talk to..... This lady has really finished me. 1 Like |
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HarunaWest:Thanks so so so much brotherly, I'm so grateful.... I would have to be a man and force myself to move on. |
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