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Battywonder:
Hello Melison. I understand your conundrum and have clues of where you might be going wrong.

I read one of your replies that you are studying Economics. I will like to let you know that I recently graduated with a first class degree in Economics, so you might want to listen to me or probably follow my instructions.

I am not an expert on education matters, however I have written numerous articles on education that could help you and some other people on this thread succee

Secondary education is distinct from tertiary education. Some of the methods you used in studying in secondary school might not help you in the university. You don't just study. There are ways you read and assimilate faster.

Are you comfortable with mathematics? If you are not, it is better you start learning to be comfortable with it because it is a necessary evil in Economics.

You might want to read some of these articles
1. HOW TO GET GOOD GRADES IN COLLEGE
2. SECRETS FIRST CLASS STUDENTS DON'T TELL ANYONE
3. HOW TO READ AND ASSIMILATE FASTER

If you have any questions, please quote me so I can get to answer you fast. Best of luck.....

Thanks a lot sir I will msg u later,let me try all these and by God's grace I will be like u someday

iamtardey:
8yrs no sex... Bros nah lie

Bro it can be true
Just say u can't go DAT far

Mad people litter our streets and we wonder why??
If this Mr I now go knack ms I head now we go say him wicked hmm what a world
If its tru the girl will surely not go unpunished
Whether the guy is foolish or not

peeps4u:
Thanks for further enlightenment. This may seem trivial to us but this is how we breed hatred and kill other in the name of religious. We have to keep lecturing people like OP who despise others on religious basis

Who is spreading hate here sir??
I didn't mention any other religion either
And am nt referring to any set of people either
So pls check what u write before posting

Icosahedron:
What topic are you reading right now that you consider difficult?
Also. Tell us about how well you understand the said topics in question when your lecturer introduces it in the classroom.

Sir its not even in school sir even my bible I no fit read understand

No one is defending God sir,m just making a point that's all and u re free to say ur mind too

[quote author=Icosahedron post=64168284]Wait o. Oga, abeg tell us the Degree Programme you're running in that school and the course you are offering presently at the moment.

It might be that you're offering a particular course in which you are not intellectually sophisticated enough to comprehend at the moment. [/quote/]
Bsc economics sir

Its getting out of hand pls
Ah its nt Christmas again its Xmas
Not Christian again but xtian
And even in religious studies its gone to xtian religious studies
What is this world turning into?
Pls Christ's name can't be changed
Its #CHRISTIANITY
#CHRISTIAN
# CHRISTIAN RELIGIOUS STUDIES ETC BIKONU!!

Ocheinstein:
Peak! It's in YOU!!! All you need and all you were is still inside. All you should focus on now is to build a positive energy and allow yourself grow out of your present fear of failure. When I was in 100L I suddenly found out after a while that I was forgesimple trigonometric stuff. I felt devastated but gave myself a break for about some days. It was like a miracle, I was back like a reset. God won't let you down if you continue to tell yourself who you are. May God help you

Pls sir how do I go about it

Thanks everyone

Its hard for me to bear because during primary and early secondary school year I was one of the best in class then,but now its no more

hidhrhis:
Ur mind drift off the book u are reading
anytime u are reading other things occupy Ur mind that u lose focus and unable to comprehend what u read
once u read a part and u try to read other part u forget some of the first part
quote me if it true or false

[quote author=LordeCalifornia post=64116329]learning is a process [
True sir

[quote author=Kylekent59 post=64111559]You have to focus. Dnt let Nigeria matters bother you.


Also,hope you Dnt masturbate cus it weakens your sense of understanding and focus.

Row with brilliant students or you form a group study.


Buy testbook and other materials or you download related topics online with examples for easy understanding.




Bear it in mind that you are representing your family. So you have to work hard.




Avoid girlfriend for now as a fresher cus you have a lot to do, girlfriend shouldn't be among your needs as a fresher.



Attend tutorials for easy understanding.


And finally pray to God for success,good grades and not to have missing script[/
God bless u sir I will pm u later

I got admitted recently into a university, and av resumed lectures but my problem is that I fail to understand all I read or study and even if I understand a little it evaporates in no time
Pls any advice??

enesty77:
Hello guys, the recent drastic changes in my younger sister have left me with serious concern. Since I started dating her closest friend she has no single respect for me anymore. She doesn't see any need to give me an iota of respect. The gap between me and her is about 7 years, and it's really disheartening to watch my younger sister disrespect me without any second thought. I feel I should breakup with my girlfriend, but the problem is that she loves me so much and she has done a lot for me. She has fallen so much in love with me, and I never want to hurt her feelings. My younger also talks to her anyhow she likes. She gives no single respect to my babe. Recently she reported my younger sister to me about the way she has been treating her, and she even asked me to ask my younger sister if she doesn't like her dating me. I'm seriously unhappy about this, and I really need your advice on the best way out. Thank you for your concern.

my bro u re a man,ur sis is just being childish,u both sbould ignore her abeg,

nikkyharry:
Thanks love. He is working .. We don resolve m he called today and explained all . nd I didn't being it up before he did

God just saved ur relationship my dear,leave all this ones wey go tell u ''leave that mumu he doesnt love u'' but if they were in ur shoes they wont move an inch. Try knowing the truth behind every matter before concluding,it will save u a whole lot of pain.

nikkyharry:
I am really tired of this kind of attitude I get from my bf . I know I have got some ego ,am the type that reciprocate the same way a guy treats me . He calls once in a day and some days he could call you six times or more and you re gonna feel lyk maybe he has changed. So I call him nd text if am very pleased about how our communication level increase sometimes .

I barely call him till I feel he has done enough calling himself . He actually did a day without calling or texting , so I decided to call unfortunately, he didn't pick up nd I messaged him on WhatsApp nd he ignored everything but I believed he was busy . I was damn angry and I poured out how I felt , asking him what he took me as nd why he treats me that way . He was like 'you are my girlfriend but you don't act like it , which hurts me '. Begged him to tell me how buh he never did ! I told a friend about it and she told me dedicate more attention to him ,call him nd text him . I did that yesterday and it worked perfectly for me , we laughed , he called back nd we missed each other .

The call dropped during d call and I tried calling back that night but he didn't pick up again , tried his number this morning and messaged him , still the same ! What do I do? Should I call tonight agn or forget him or he doesn't love me . please sincere advise pls ...no bashing

pls whats the nature of his job,is he always busy with work? Cos u say he calls u sometimes and u chat and laugh but sometimes he calls only once,dear just be patient,only time will tell,leave all this people claiming he doesnt love and care for u,no go rush troway gold come carry stone ooo biko

Estharfabian:
.....

hi dear

luscioustrish:
November 20th

two days after mine

chomytex:
15th nov

mine is just 18th

I don waka frm page 1 to 17 yet no birthday mate nawa oh,.....still november 18

wonukwuru:
I am adult married to a lady of 35years. We have been married since 2007. God has blessed us with 3 wonderful children( 2 boys and 1 girl). Before we got married, i agreed with my wife that i only want to have 2 kids ( I wouldnt mind if they just boys or girls. That means, Im not particular of the sex of the kids). My wife is a B.sc Accounting graduate, while myself, I am a Chartered Accountant, with a well paid job. My wife had a 3rd class degree. On several occassions, i have told her to go back to school for Post Graduate Diploma (PGD) in order to upgrade, but she plainly told me that she cannot go back to school again. When i asked her why, she told me that her brain cannot withstand any academic stree again. I also suggested to her, since you studied accounting in the university, why not enroll for ICAN program? When i said that to her, she told me that she could not go for PGD, is it ICAN that she can do? I have been thinking, what will i do for her to be like others.

Luckly, was transferred to Benin. I went with my family to Benin. We stayed over 4years in Benin. While we were in Benin, I told my wife to go and enroll for a 6months diploma programm in computer (because she is not computer literate). I paid over N110,000 for the 6months programme. My wife only went for the programme for 1month and stopped. She refused to complete the program. When I asked her, she told me that she will go back after she had "put to bed"( Then she was pregnant). Guys, its over two years now and the baby is even in pre-nursery school, yet my wife has not reminded me of going back to complete the programme.

Last year, she asked me to open a store for her, that she want to go into trading. When I asked her the nature of the business, she said, she wants to deal on selling rice, beans, yams, groundnut oil, etc. I now suggested that it will not be a problem, but she has to look for somebody who is already in the business so as to understudy the person for atleast 1month. She refused, saying that without her understudying anybody, that she can still make it. I told her that my reason of suggesting to her to understudy somebody was that, i wanted her to be selling in wholesale. My plan was to give like N1.5million. I told her, i cannot just release N1.5million to her for a business that she did not learn. I told her that N1.5million is not a small money. Brethren, that was why up til now, i have not opened the business for her.

My children's school fees is over N650,00 per term for the 3 kids. I provide for feeding. My wife does not want to do anything as to assist me in the family. I give her money for her hair, cream, bathing soap, panties and clothing. Im really getting tired. My salary does not carry the family again because of too much expenses.

Another problem now is, my wife's dressing is nothing to write home about. She dresses as if she is in her late 60s. I have complained to her on several occasion that i dont like the way she dresses, but each time i bring up the issue, she will get angry. People around, have meeting my sisters to tell them that my wife does not dress well as somebody that has gone to the university. Even in my house, my wife only tires wrapper. Nothing in her again attracts me to her. Infact, for the past 3 months, i have not slept with her. I sleep in the parlour while she sleeps in the bed room.

Else, i forget, my wife delibrately "took in" again since July last year. This is after we agreed that the 3 kids that we already have is enough. Her method is, each time i remind her of what to do as to be assisting me in the family, she will delibrately "take in".

My wife, went to the university but she cannot speak simple and correct english. She cannot write application letter. She cannot teach my kids who are in primary 2 and 5 respectively.

in as much as am not married,i feel ur pain sir,the truth is that u are married to her and that cant be changed,instead of thinking aboiut divorce i suggest u start thinking about saving ur marriage.u spilled it by telling everyone that she cant speak and write good english,she is ur wife cover her weaknesses.everybody wont go to school abeg,she might have a great destiny in business so allow her she might even start making money than u in no time,and she will start helping in some areas as well,as for the dressing,enter the market and buy exactly what u want her to be wearing,lastly pray to God for divine direction for we all here can only offer words but God has the solution to ur problems,seek him.stay happy,God bless ur marriage

Cornerstone2020:
It is simple if you cannot honour the invitation return the phone. who be donatus for this recession.

this guy eh chai donatus ke?

18th of November

U should get her something to do i.e work or business i think it will help curtail the excesses

[color=#006600][/color] well bro if am to say anything,i would advice you to call her back and make things up with her,try explain clearly how much u hate lies,if she changes then u r gud to go and if not.......ESTHARFABIAN will say d rest.

dacblogger:
you are overreacting. ..forgive her , the issue is too minor to lead to break up

tell am

myke92:
alryt melison, I know u are excited now that Ur crush has acknowledged you...so, what's next?

na ur hand dat one day

Simple the ones u called ugly set their standards normal and affordable,while their counterparts think that their beauty is already a gauranteed tool for drawing men with bluetooth

[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font][color=#000099][/color] 1.drawing more closer to God, 2.make friends that would bring out the best in me,vice versa. 3.living my life as a better person

Neyoor:
You can't even spell the moniker of your crush correctly.


Unfortunately, esthar detest dumb guys like you OP

who askew

Make una no vex oo weda esther or esthar she no understand my point? Some people shaa no probs