₦airaland Forum

TrebleChamp:
Yet the Father understood my friends position and referred them to their parents. You can't give what you don't have bro, marry fess and see if it is easy to give the man straffing you wife a pat on the back.

Just because the priest respected your friend request doesn't mean it wasn't a naive thing to say. The Rev is well experienced to give marriage advice and council.

donjazzet:
He doesn't even know that English is the official language in Indian schools. Just like nigeria, India also uses English and then Hindu as its most uniting language across the country.

Many people have asked this guy the practicality of breaking Africa's language down in 2000 different languages. Does he think that is possible? But he just keeps making noise.

Nigeria has more than 700 different languages, like think about that, 700 different languages in this country. Does he believe that gwari people in Abuja, nupe people in Jos, itsekiri in Delta, idoma in Benue, Kalabari in Bayelsa, Ogoni in rivers, that all these tribes and several more, all have to go back and learn physics in their languages all in the name of preservation??

What is the practicality of that?
He just keeps making noise. Unnecessary noise.

It's a brilliant idea for books to be translated in our native languages. That will even make education and learning easier.

TrebleChamp:
He who wears the shoe, know where it hurts.
A friend's wife reported him to their Reverend Father, Father sent for him so the issues can be discoursed. When my friend got to the meeting, he respectfully ask Father if he has ever been married. Father said no, and my friend respectfully told Father that he cannot resolve their issue because he has no marriage experience. Father was shocked and surprised, he told them to go see their respective parents.

Your friend is very naive. It wasn't just an ordinary single person on the street. When you consider that hundreds of couples relate their experiences with a reverend father, you will understand the depth of experience that rev has.

Eunoiaa:
Exactly!!!! Like, literally get a fallback plan! You can do anything you want to do to her o, in the end, as you like, but know that if she chooses to move left, you're covered. The man can even be the one to file for the divorce himself.


I mean, he is seeking for a sponsor now. Why confront her with something like that only to end up looking for one now within the space of a month?

The "I won't allow my wife to continue forking around because I want to stay in obodo oyinbo" bit is so short-sighted a thinking, I'm sorry lol.

The point is pretty straightforward for those who actually wants to get it.

Jesus Christ nobody is blaming the man for anything. We are saying the man didn't think ahead of the repercussions of confronting the woman and therefore plan accordingly. You know confronting her means the marriage is definitely going to end or you are going to forgive her and continue with the marriage. So if the the marriage is going to end you can no longer depend on her as a dependent then you should have made a fallback plan if that happened. Get yourself prepared so in the case of divorce like it's happening now you won't be affected. He won't be crying on the internet right now looking for job and sponsors if he had applied wisdom.

Eunoiaa:
For him to raise funds to leave Nigeria in the first place is telling enough that he didn't want to remain here. Relocating abroad was probably a means to a better life for him, and why should he let a partner's infidelity get in the way of that?

He cannot cheat back, he cannot lock up and break up with her in his heart? Practically live as a stranger with her?

From the story, he obviously still can continue to remain there IF he has a sponsor, so what stopped him from secretly working on that and then confront her when he's got that sorted out? Switch from being a dependent visa holder to a skilled worker visa or something?

I am saying this bearing in mind the fact that "japa" was a preferred choice for HIM and we didn't know his condition while he was here. Of course, Nigeria is not going to kill him.

But how do you know you're in that vulnerable, tentative state and yet he probably went to confront her harshly, fuelled by his ego?

I am not justifying his position or what the wife did; and I can't imagine how devastating finding out about that would have been to him, but it is what it is.

It wasn't commonsensical for him to place his emotions over logic in that case. It will only be a erroneous sense of ownership that'll make you describe the bolded the way you did.


So you go gather millions travel, and go through stress of settling down and shit, only for you to end up losing it all because of one unfaithful partner? Don't look at it from the angle of YOU not valuing relocation. It's about his life and goals here. That's the tact and wisdom.

This is basically my last reply to him on this issue but ofcourse he missed it. Back and forth headless argument doesn't interest me

Melvyn11:
This nigga is still calling the woman his wife lol. The woman Is already gone, the marriage has already ended. The man should have been thinking about himself and how to avoid deportation to start over again and that's where applying wisdom in that situation comes into play. Get a fallback plan in place before confronting her so when she pull nonsense like divorce it won't affect you.

iamoyindamola:
He cried on the internet to save people like you from falling mugu

Oga and read the full story. He is crying because he doesn't want to be deported

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Deported home to hell fire or Nigeria?

The same Nigeria that he raised funds to go abroad is what will kill him if he comes back?

So, if it was you, you would let your wife fck another man over and over again, just so you won't be deported?

I reject this kind of wisdom in my life

But if you feel it is okay, no p[/color]

This nigga is still calling the woman his wife lol. The woman Is already gone, the marriage has already ended. The man should have been thinking about himself and how to avoid deportation to start over again and that's where applying wisdom in that situation comes into play. Get a fallback plan in place before confronting her so when she pull nonsense like divorce it won't affect you.

iamoyindamola:
He should remain a simp because of abroad
Who said he can't come back to the same abroad

He won't be crying on the internet if the deportation didn't bother him.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]Wisdom when another man is hammering your wife?

I don't understand.

You are blaming a man who confronted his legally wedded wife for cheating?[/color]

Now has lost the woman to the same man plus getting deported home. Tell me how confronting her has helped him.

iamoyindamola:
Oya tell us what wisdom will you apply

Not confronting the person that can get me deported when I don't have a back up plan.

CrystalTiger:
On top him legally married wife?.. What role exactly is that?.. That's pure wickedness from the woman.. Because he's a dependent, he should comfortably watch as his fellow man dey tear him wife pussy steadily..

Now that he has confronted the woman and is getting deported who lost? Most times you need to apply wisdom before doing certain things.

Maybe it's just me but I like nairaland exactly the way it is. Even if seun developed an app I won't use it.

Even after showing you those quotes were fake and doctored by the RFEF you are still arguing aimlessly. I don't have time for anyhow argument this glorious night.

OasisX:


....so we should believe nonsense news source(s) like our own Alaroye over Marca?! Remove your head from that thing bruh, apparently you got it wrong - give her head. LOL!

Kk

OasisX:


Àwọn tani àti tani níwájú tani. I am really tired of them I swear. I watched the clips many times and never read any much meaning tilo it.

He kissed her cos he was emotionally and happily triggered. Just an act of celebration, nothing else. But we should hang him too, cos of yeye feminism.

May men kiss your wife and sisters without consent when they are happy and emotional as an act of celebration. Say amen to that my friend.

OasisX:


.....this was later made after folks as you won't let her breathe.

Check below link too.

https://www.marca.com/en/football/womens-world-cup/2023/08/21/64e37d9fe2704e810c8b464a.html

Stop posting the exact fake quote put out the RFEF. She never said anything of such nature.

https://www.si.com/fannation/soccer/futbol/news/jennifer-hermoso-full-statement-luis-rubiales-rfef-spain



""In a desperate bid to protect Rubiales, false quotes attributed to Hermoso were published by the RFEF.

Hermoso had said of the kiss in an Instagram Live video on Sunday that she "didn't like it."


But the RFEF then quoted her just hours later as saying: "It was a totally spontaneous mutual gesture because of the immense joy that winning a World Cup brings."

Rubiales spoke at an RFEF extraordinary general assembly on Friday. ""

OasisX:



Hermoso also downplayed the kiss later on Sunday on the radio program 'El Tiempo de Juego' on Cadena COPE, saying "it was because of the emotion of the moment, there's nothing more there."

....so the above was made up?! You're the one disgracing not just yourself bro, but everyone that once sees you as a sensible person.

You really need to stop. Be like you be Hermoso herself.

https://www.goal.com/en-ng/news/kiss-jenni-hermoso-record-straight-81-players-spain-luis-rubiales-gone/blt102afeaa9b686f70

OasisX:


....can you help with first interview she granted? Your mumuness is legendary.

Stop disgracing yourself. She didn't give any interview and the first statement was a lie
made by the RFEF on her behalf without her participation. Go and read the statement put out by her on her official page before defending nonsense.

OasisX:
....to hell with una yeye consent. How many times have you kissed, hugged or done something else to ladies without consent and vice versa?

Oh....excuse dear, I want to peck you, may I?! Fuckin nonsense.

Stop projecting your bad behaviors on others. This is the kind of mentality that breds harassment especially in the work place. You kissed a woman without consent and she's telling you she didn't approve of your behavior and action you are still creating silly excuses like euphoria to defend them. Like I said previously the man has no excuse whatsoever.

OasisX:
....stop being annoying bruh. Apologize for what?

Apologize for kissing a woman without consent who didn't like it. How is that concept even hard to grasp.

Olowunl01:
I know its Apples & Oranges; but no be person wife & girlfriend dem dey kiss for movie roles ni? Am happy the guy decided not to resign, Yes he messed up , apologised make dem move on.

You know it's apple and oranges yet you went ahead. He messed up plain and simple. Any other shalaye and excuse is not needed.

raumdeuter:
If it was my daughter or sister and I care that much, I will find a solution which is to avoid male dominated sports

We hear.

That was how a friend of mine was always supporting yahoo calling it a legit hustle and being smart until his mother account was wiped clean. Give that guy a gun right now and he can shot any yahoo boy he sees. If it was your sister, daughter or wife you won't be typing all these shalayes.

raumdeuter:
Do you think those men that were kissed on livetv by fellow men dont have family or why not raise dust

If you dont want your daughter or wife to be kissed and touched by a man under the guise of sport, then get a female coach

Things get personal and intimate in sport which is why many end up marrying training partners and their coaches

If it was your sister or girlfriend you won't be typing all these ones. Save all these shalayes.

izzou:
[color=royalblue]True.

But that kiss get as e be oh.

If na my wife that guy kiss like that,
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Dayo won't be writing all these shalayes if it was his daughter or girlfriend that was kissed on live tv by her boss.

Ibime:


Una still enter women's sector want oppress them

Sarina go win sha. Women players no go vote for man. Even Spain players will vote Sarina

The award is not for women. It's for coaches In women football irrespective of gender. If a woman takes over Chelsea tomorrow and wins the treble she will be nominated for the men's category.

WhoDeyHause:
This life is too short. The fiend is gone. 😭

Very short o. The fiend entrance was my 2nd best after undertaker.

Damn Bray wyatt is gone. This guy had the 2nd most chilling WWE entrance after the Undertaker.

DeadPresidents:
All jokes aside, i wish i was in the movie industry, I’d have made a kick-ass action flick out of all these stories.

The world watched countless tales from Greek and Norse mythology and it won’t be bad if they see new tales from African mythology

It won't attract audience and make money.

Marvel really bleeped up yet people love the movie. Wakanda was supposed to be a modern and futuristic place only for them to be using spear, thatched roof and combat to determine their leader. Okoye with her big head using spear called Gun primitive

andrewbaba44:
You self Dey rest ,because if you are you won’t be under my post

Rest.