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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:25pm On Jul 21, 2023
raumdeuter:
I attended a govt secondary school and govt Tertiary school

if I my standards are above what govt provides then I am free to spend money on it
Can you send your own children to government schools in Nigeria? A simple and straightforward Yes or No will suffice.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:20pm On Jul 21, 2023
raumdeuter:
They are providing Primary education which is what is the basic for literacy. Most govt primary school are free
Have you ever attended a government school. Can you send your children to government schools in Nigeria?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 11:21am On Jul 20, 2023
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 11:14am On Jul 20, 2023
patrickmuf:
Why is this thing so difficult?

With the increase in allocation to the states, it means no state should complain again because the increment more than covers the resultant effect of the subsidy removal.

Now, the price of things has doubled in most cases but we have states earning close to x3 their usual monthly allocation so, it means we have to pause to begin to ask our respective State Governors what they are going to be doing with the excess of money given to them. We can not continue asking the FG to do it all if so, they shouldn't increase the state allocation.

I can imagine the Governors smiling to the bank and praying Nigerians don't look their way and continue holding the FG to provide what should normally be provided for by their state governments.

Let the Local and state government put to good use the allocation they are receiving and things will get a lot better.
On point.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 7:09pm On Jul 19, 2023
Even if you convert to dollar. June: 787billion/ 460 is $1.7B. July: 1.9Tril/760 is $2.6Billion.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 7:05pm On Jul 19, 2023
From 786billion to 1.9trillion in one month. Almost 3 times normal state allocation. Don't play with Drug lord. State government the ball is now in your court.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 12:39pm On Jul 17, 2023
GloriousGbola:
Accountant for the mob grin grin
With that kind of explanation Ibime definitely has inside connection.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:59pm On Jul 15, 2023
GloriousGbola:
no we are not. for whatever reason, maybe the ladys life goes off the rails, maybe the dude becomes a successful politician or mega celebrity - the affair becomes an opportunity for a payday.

i have often thought that if monica and bill had not been exposed then, today she might be accusing him of rape as well especially if she had gone far right or was just unsuccessful in general.
Why do you think the basketball coach was suspended for having an affair with his staff in the first place?
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:52pm On Jul 15, 2023
iamoyindamola:
You are just jumping from here to there
Nawa oo
I have been jumping in a straight line without deviating . My point is very straightforward for everyone to articulate.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:48pm On Jul 15, 2023
GloriousGbola:
this is also why that basketball coach was fired. because today it is a consensual affair between two adults. tomorrow it will be the man forced me, humiliated me etc. the office created an enabling environment for my abuse.
We are basically saying the same thing here.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:46pm On Jul 15, 2023
GloriousGbola:
a lot of us have worked in corporate environments

there are plenty of women that deliberately make the moves on men in authority

and they bask in the power. completely out of control , rude disrespectful to anyone and everyone

the power is the reason , after all.
This is not a woman vs man thing. I don't know why when certain discussion comes up some of you will just start making baseless comparison. Anybody in power be it a man or a woman should not be having sex with their subordinate. A male pastor should not be having sex with his members Same way a female teacher or lecturer should not be having sex with her students.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:18pm On Jul 15, 2023
Itsrm:
Cite any example where anyone who had consensual sex with a surbodinate has been prosecuted based on this power dynamic anywhere in the world.

As for the bolded, you've not shown us why a pastor should not do that.
The cases of sexual assaults and molestation you see regular on the internet are as a results of what? I have given you various reasons why a pastor should not be fucking his members. The fact you are even arguing against it shows you have malicious intent.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:12pm On Jul 15, 2023
GloriousGbola:
did bill clinton molest monica lewinsky? did he assault her?
I have no knowledge about those two.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:10pm On Jul 15, 2023
Itsrm:
Before you start changing the topic, we are talking of consensual sex between a pastor and his church member.
We are saying the same thing. Consensual sex doesn't change the fact due to power dynamic the girl may think she has no option than to give in to her boss advances. Bottom line is a pastor should not be engaging in coitus with his members.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:08pm On Jul 15, 2023
Itsrm:
Yes, offices frown at it. Doesn't make it a crime. The most they can do is sack you. That's where it ends.
It's literally called abuse of power which is a crime. They are called organisational crime.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:06pm On Jul 15, 2023
Itsrm:
A pastor sleeping with his church member is molestation and assault?
A person in power making advances to his subordinate can be arrested for molestation and sexual assault.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:04pm On Jul 15, 2023
seankafor:
look at what is coming out of your mouth 😭
Maybe you don't work in an office where there's power dynamic that's why you are typing all these ones.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 5:03pm On Jul 15, 2023
Itsrm:
Which law makes it a crime?
Mr man you can get are arrested for molestation and assault if you are reported to the police.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:59pm On Jul 15, 2023
raumdeuter:
There is no prosecution for anyone who sleeps with the other in a lower power dynamic. Bosses marry secretaries all the time

Seniors at work or school date juniors all the time
There's prosecution. The girl can simply say she couldn't say no due to his position so she went ahead against her will. That can count as rape.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:57pm On Jul 15, 2023
raumdeuter:
That is your own opinion which you have a right to. It's not law and it's not part of the criminal code

You can say human should not do this and that, that's your own belief not law
Some law says you can marry 12years old yet it still wrong and I will call it out. A pastor shouldn't try it and I stand by it.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:54pm On Jul 15, 2023
Itsrm:
Is it a crime?
Yes it's a crime both spiritually and legally. Some of you like to defend nonsense.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:52pm On Jul 15, 2023
larride:
I agree with this but it's still not rape if its consensual. It is abuse of power/office.
and she will simply tell you due the power dynamic she couldn't say no to his advances due to fear which can be interpreted as Rape. A Pastor should not even be doing such nonsense.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:48pm On Jul 15, 2023
raumdeuter:
No pastor has authority over your towtow. If you decide to consensual have sex with a pastor it's not rape it's not a crime

There is nothing in the criminal code that says you cannot
Baba no pastor should sleep with his church members especially the married ones. Let's not even go to that direction to justify nonsense.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:47pm On Jul 15, 2023
Emaprince:
No mind Donj. He refused to accept that the feminism we have today is no longer what it was originated for.
When feminism first started the men at that time said the same thing.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:45pm On Jul 15, 2023
seankafor:
Why shouldn't 2 consenting adults sleep with each other if they wish?
A pastor should not sleep with his church members. The werey will now climb purpit on Sunday forming holy.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:44pm On Jul 15, 2023
raumdeuter:
Because he feels the urge to have sex like every male which is not a crime as long as he didn't force them and it was consensual
A pastor should not be sleeping with his church girls especially the married ones. That's abuse of authority.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:40pm On Jul 15, 2023
seankafor:
what of the pastors that do gets countless of these rape accusations?
Why is a pastor sleeping with church girls in the first place.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:33pm On Jul 15, 2023
seankafor:
seems the man let her have a sex scene with another man or some sort
He didn't eat her do anything. Both of them are married pornstars who fuc.k other people.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 4:27pm On Jul 15, 2023
seankafor:
this shiit legit happened on Twitter yesterday.. some nigga was happy and even allegedly gifted his wife a Lambo for acting a porn with another man..

Shiit is becoming bold and crazy
Those are two pornstars.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 2:36pm On Jul 15, 2023
Emaprince:
His wife was a poorrrn star?
Yes.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 2:36pm On Jul 15, 2023
iamoyindamola:
They are weak if they speak up
People mocked daddy fresh because he spoke up about abuses
Men should stomach and embrace it, dele alli spoke about abuse all we see on SM is consolation no one is interested in the woman if she’s dead or alive
Dakolo’s wife accused coza pastor that year everyone was out for the man’s head even when their was no evidence

But but women are the endangered species 😂😂😂
Is it not still us men that are responsible for all these. We created the community like that so if we want any change it should start from us as well.
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga)Re: EPL Chatroom - All Discussions by Melvyn11: 2:33pm On Jul 15, 2023
Emaprince:
Wait o....what am I seeing?

Adam22 the Podcaster allowed a BBC to break his wives back in the full view of the public, may e to make some money?

Then he went on to buy her a new ride.

Is he pimping the wife now or what?
Adam22 is a IndecentStar who married a IndecentStar.

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