₦airaland Forum

@metalgear
I dey feel you, it also happened 2 me when i was in sch i had jus 2 jeans and i was made fun of by a particular gurl. We both meant in my uncles office was an applicant and was begging me to help her push her files.

Currently i'm based in France and i would have really loved to see her so i can tell her to her face that NO CONDITION IS PARMANET

i need mtn setting for togo tv

@violent
Thanx 1st june

@Missy B
Wow i love that cake
thanx

Hi friends 2days my birthday. I just want to use this medium to wish all Gemini a happy birthday.

May God grant all our wishes Amen

@calid16
This is not E i do hope you can resit your A, b, Cs and your 1, 2, 3s the truth is if you cant beat them you beta join dem, omo 9ja ni

Dis is truly madness Y should the international community tolerate this i cant believe wat i am seeing on Al jazeera. Israel should be punished for for its excesses ,

她到我家，今天我告诉她，空白点过，我必须继续前进的

感谢你提醒成年球员风投票赞成

@Taken

U right well i'm single again but will be very careful this time

thanx I'm feelin better

@stalliontp
你是对的。我认为她是一个关系到

is not as easy as it sounds, 4yrs relationship, well, i am doing my best to get over it i know that every disappointment is a BLESSING

God i hope you are hearing my prayers

Na waoo,

@190

但是这四年


@Igwe

伊圭感谢我强大了。我会尝试忘记她。

但是，为什么有些人讨厌igbos

@Igwe.

我如何应付

i have been dating this girl for 4yrs and really hoped to marry her she was all i had. Now she is telling me that we can not continue with the relationship because her parents do not like igbo boyz. i tried to plead with her but she keeps saying she do not want to do anything to hurt her parents

I'm so hurt and don't know what to do. please help me out.

How can this be when Nigeria is an artificial creation

happy new year from Napoli italy

May this year bring all Nairalanders a new beginning, Happy Newyear

All dis Aboki don start again, What is wrong with this Muslims

Illiterate foooooools ,

Hwwwwwww , the virgins in heaven have just missed a cute dude, sorry oooooo

Gbam, tru talk gidson12

i'm in italy freezin my ass out because of his useless policies i do believe in the LAW OF KARMA

Eyaaaaaaaah!!!! let her husband looted funds save her!!!!!!! let them use the money to bribe God na!!!!.

''Mr Abdulmutallab went to the bathroom for about 20 minutes before the incident, court documents say.

When he got back to his seat, he said he had an upset stomach and he pulled a blanket over himself, the affidavit continues.

"Passengers then heard popping noises similar to firecrackers, smelled an odour, and some observed Abdulmutallab's pants, leg and the wall of the airplane on fire," the Department of Justice said in a statement.

Blankets and fire extinguishers were used to douse the flames.

"Passengers reported that Abdulmutallab was calm and lucid throughout. One flight attendant asked him what he had had in his pocket, and he replied 'explosive device'," the statement continued. '' culled http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/americas/8430699.stm

Imagine this melu melu Aboki even had the guts to agree having an explosive device to a fellow passenger. The Guy is simply bleeped just has his fellow cattle brained brother Yaradua. , Muslim my foot

@kvolander
Men, i feel ur pain i was in the same shoe with u after 3yrs without a job i had no oda option than to lif this country and i Thank God 4 everytin i am tryin my best and by Gods grace the sky will surely be my steppin stone.

keep ur head high it is not how far but how well, Peace.

@Igwe
lol Igbo kewnu, well translate it urself

Hi Friends happy reading!!!!!!!!

STEP 1: Learn the Art of Eye Contact
Don't shy away from staring him down, but do it the right way. Ease into it by practicing triangular gazing, where you look at one eye, then the other, then at his mouth. Strauss says practicing this for just a day will get you ready to start learning to interact with single men you're attracted to. Once you've locked eyes, keep looking: one study showed that it takes about 13 glances before the average guy approaches a woman!

STEP 2: Practice Small Talk
Before you approach a guy you're into, make sure you've got the basics of small talk down. "Challenge yourself to go out and make small talk with five strangers today," advises Strauss. "Don't worry about whether they're people you want to date. Approach grandfathers, other women, someone who's not your type, whomever you come across. It'll help you adjust to stepping out of your comfort zone."

STEP 3: Perfect Your Body Language
Want to get under his skin? "Get just a centimeter into a guy's comfort zone, and look up at him with big eyes," says Strauss. The no- fail move? "Put your chest out, chin down, eyes high in the socket, head slightly tilted, and your weight on one foot. That's important. If your feet are planted, they feel the resistance, just as much as they would if you had your arms crossed." Practice makes perfect -- you might look like a cross-eyed chicken at first, but get it down right and it'll make him crazy.

STEP 4: Don't Think Before You Speak
Don't think too long before you open your mouth or it'll come off unnatural and awkward. "People sense it when something sounds too premeditated; that makes them uncomfortable,".

STEP 5: Ask for Help
When it comes to conversation starters, asking for his help or opinion is a sure thing, says Strauss. "Maybe it's some article from a women's magazine that offers some kind of advice and you want to know if he agrees with it or not. Or maybe: 'It's my cousin's birthday and I want to buy him a CD, but his taste hasn't evolved since the 80's. Any suggestions?' Or maybe your friend just got a three-legged cat and you need a name for it."

STEP 6: Set a Time Limit
Within the first 60 seconds of your conversation, Strauss says, immediately mention that you have some kind of time constraint, whether or not you do.

STEP 7: Neg Him
The trick when you're flirting, Strauss says, is "figuring how to keep a balance between being engaging enough to retain someone's attention and not seeming overly available." Tease him a little and call him out by saying something like, "Oh sure you do, "

STEP 8: Lower Your Expectations
Flirt for the sake of flirting. "If you meet a high-quality guy and you're really attached to the idea of him being your boyfriend, that pressure -- that neediness -- is something he'll sense," Strauss warns.

STEP 9: Make It Fun -- for You
Make it about you, not about him. "If it seems like you're trying too hard, whatever you're doing will come across as desperate," Strauss says. His advice? "Think: 'I'm fun. I'm cool. I radiate charisma, I am free to do whatever I want.' The most important thing to remember while you're doing all this flirting is to make it fun for yourself, because then it will be fun for the other person."

culled 4rm Diana Vilibert for Marie Claire