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Just thinking aloud, is it not proper for couples qurelling to pretend not qurelling in the presence of a third party??

It sucks going to my elder brother's home and find them quarrelling, not that couples dont quarrel, but God, his wife is damn abusive, my bro is an introvert and so doesnot talk much , and the lady who claims to be openminded,keeps pouring abuses on him, were the abuses for him alone i would worry less but, she includes my parents and the whole family sort of, i once asked her why she curses she replied that my bro hurt her to the marrow, but is it enough reson to curse? Guys, i really need your candid opinions on how to deal with an abusisive wife/girlfriend, cos my brother really need this advice.

why come here for views if you are this[b] positive[/b] about your guy?

By the way the guy is wadded.A big boy in the bank
AllCorrect, I read your post and believe me, I cant really understand your fears. Except you further explain yrself, you ve no right to mislead her into dumping this guy. U say the guy is a wrong hand, is it because he works in a bank and is loaded or wat do u mean by that? Also haven’t u heard of relationship where a good lady stabilizes a bad guy, all you need 2 do at this moment is to pray 4 them.

white hairs na small, the next time na amaphrodaite u go see, yeye post

I really want 2 thank u guys 4 your contributions so far. i am not against dating but what i am emphasing is that cant two people date even though they aint giong to get married? back to the first post, how can i make peace with this lady cos the last thing i want, this new year, is to keep malice with anyone. thanks

What are the consequences of dating a co-worker
Hi landers, Happy Val in arrears, I ve got this little prob up my sleeves and I seriously need your contributions.
There is this lady(co-worker) that has a crush 4me @ my place and I think I kinda like her too (esp. her characters) but the problem here is that I would love to weigh the consequences b4 proposes to her. Actually I ve not dated a co-worker b4 and I don’t know how the others may take and if it will temper with my work rate since we are in the same building(he office is next to mine). Pls respond cos time is not on our side.

This issue 4 a long time has been bothering me, I am of the opinion that we date to familiarize ourself with the our patner, and one is not really indebted to marry that fella no matter how long or well the relationship is. A friend of mine had this girl while in sch, (they dated for 2 years), 4 reasons left to him he felt he doesnot want to continue with the relationship, as my buddy I tried talk him over but he said he has found his dream girl, I ve no choice than to stand by his decision. The problem is that, the former girl does not want to see eyeball to eyeball with me, I ve tried to talk 2 her to forgive and forget everything but she insist that I am evil 4 standing by my friend even when he was wrong though my friend did not act wisely but 4 God sake is more than a year since they broke up why cant she forget about it(my friend had gone appologise 2her due to my persuasion),, it hurts me to see the look in her eyes each time I come across her(cos we were close then) is like its screams VAMPIRE. So How do I get this lady talking to me again. And also to the ladies out there just because your date right now looks heaven that doesnot means it must lead to marriage, no it doesn’t work that way or what do u think. Let me hear your views.( pls attack the issue and not the personalities involved- thank you)

O!boy this is love in action, from the post u sent u ve already made up your mind so go dine with he devil. safe journey

Happy New Year to all Uniuyo graduates' nairalanders, i am a 2005 grad, and am currently working with Ibom Airport, i am so glad to hear from u guys. keep it up.

Hi nairalanders,pls i need ur contributions,cos i am in a fix on what to do. the prob is that does physical appearance matter in choosing a life patner. there is this lady i met,we ve been on for close to a year now . i love this lady and everything about her except that she is just too short for my stndard (she is not up to my shoulder) i am seroiusly planning to settle down but am so confused abt choosing this particular lady due to her height, i dont know if i am worrying over nothing or is this a serious issue cos i want to walk up and be proud of my wife. pls this is no joking matter . i really welcome yr sggestions

hello guys,
i ve been away for quite some time now hence the delay in responding.
on the issue @ hand the 1st test is quite simple, maths, semantic (sort of terminology in aviation- quite simple i tell u) and 2 essays- 1st how does a plane flies and why u want 2b a pilot(this na the koko). if you pass the test . then u sha be invited for a brief interview , dont be 2 serious , they just wanna know how much u know about the company. like the typesof planes they ue and their base. so i wish you guys best of luck, i did pass the whole test am waiting 4 u guys cos we(trianees selected)are not enof.

Guy, which of the bible did u use, didn't u read thro other portions to see that what u are doing is abominable b4 God. u better run to a 'good' church b4 it is too late.

JOY JAMES, THAT NAME SURELY RINGS A BELL, PLS ARE YOU THESAME JOY JAMES THAT SCHOOLED AT STATE HIGH SCHOOL, IPAJA ROAD. IF YES THIS IS JAMES HOLLA ME @ 08067360926

I really use this medium to thank God and all you nairalanders 4 ur support, i ve scaled thro the 1st stage(selection test) of bristow helicopter and shall soon be invited 4d 2nd stage( computer adaptive test) Pls does anyone in the house knows what this computer stuff is all about.pls share with us cos we need this job badly

Hi Nairalanders, Can anyone in the hoise help with the Test Format of Bristow Hellicopters,i ve just been invited 4 a test. pls ut's urgent. thanks for yr anticipated reply

Nice topic, i call my babe- tom and jerry because whenever amwith her it is laughter all thro. at first she neva like ,but she is begining toadapt to it.

i am very much interested, my email is etty3000@yahoo.com, my gsm no is 08067360926

Can any one in the house ,help give me relevant infomation.i took zenith bank test last month and have undergone two interviews, the second was more of a chat and i was asked which dept i can best function, and i chose info tech. i gather than some of the guys i took the test with had been contacted thou they aint in info tech.
my problem is, have i lost out or is the bank still taking their time. i am really confuse cos i dont want to hope on something that is gone. thanks for your anticipated replies.

Hi Authur,
i was also interviewed by head of IT dept last month and have also not been contacted , so you are not alone, for further correspondence my number is 08058562778 and 08067360926.
Happy new year

I want to use this medium to holla every nairaland a happy new year, where jobs will be available to each and every one of us. did i hear anyone shout AMEN

pls can u tell me the website of NIM, i did the exam but dont know how far

hi , pls i wish to air my own view but dont know how to do it .plsss explain to me how to go abt it. thanks

HI NAIRALANDERS, I AM A NEW MEMBER OF THIS GROUP,I REALLY WUD LOVE TO AIR MY OWN VIEW BUT DON'T KNOW WHERE TO TYPE IN MY OWN TOPIC?

hi nairalanders, just wanna wish u all, a glorious day ahead.