This issue 4 a long time has been bothering me, I am of the opinion that we date to familiarize ourself with the our patner, and one is not really indebted to marry that fella no matter how long or well the relationship is. A friend of mine had this girl while in sch, (they dated for 2 years), 4 reasons left to him he felt he doesnot want to continue with the relationship, as my buddy I tried talk him over but he said he has found his dream girl, I ve no choice than to stand by his decision. The problem is that, the former girl does not want to see eyeball to eyeball with me, I ve tried to talk 2 her to forgive and forget everything but she insist that I am evil 4 standing by my friend even when he was wrong though my friend did not act wisely but 4 God sake is more than a year since they broke up why cant she forget about it(my friend had gone appologise 2her due to my persuasion),, it hurts me to see the look in her eyes each time I come across her(cos we were close then) is like its screams VAMPIRE. So How do I get this lady talking to me again. And also to the ladies out there just because your date right now looks heaven that doesnot means it must lead to marriage, no it doesn’t work that way or what do u think. Let me hear your views.( pls attack the issue and not the personalities involved- thank you)

The route to marriage is via dating. . . .
And not err dating leads to marriage . . . .and 'bout ur situation. . . i guess someone would help u with that. . . .cheers. .

Must dating lead to marriage?
Yes and no, basing on each partner's motive.

After going out with somebody and u think u two are compatible, love each other, understands urselves better, then marriage comes into the picture.  But not all r'ships end in marriage.

most dating leads to heartbreak

The answer has two faces which are yes and no. Yes in the sense that when someone steps into dating, he/she is of matured mind and have come to know the good and the evil as well as what they want cos dating serves as a medium of getting to know each other very well. No in the sense that a lot of people goes after lust thereby claiming to be dating and at the end, they go their different ways as the centre can no longer hold.

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I really want 2 thank u guys 4 your contributions so far. i am not against dating but what i am emphasing is that cant two people date even though they aint giong to get married? back to the first post, how can i make peace with this lady cos the last thing i want, this new year, is to keep malice with anyone. thanks

mengi:

I really want 2 thank u guys 4 your contributions so far. i am not against dating but what i am emphasing is that can't two people date even though they aint giong to get married? back to the first post, how can i make peace with this lady because the last thing i want, this new year, is to keep malice with anyone. thanks

Just politely let her know that at this point in ur life u aren't ready for marriage.

Just politely let her know that at this point in your life u aren't ready for marriage.

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