₦airaland Forum

Webleonaides:
How much do u make weekly dear?

brownbby:
Hi, please do you recommend QEI+ and pr Françoise carote cream for my uneven skin colour? all these creams don't seem to be working and am light skinned.

obowunmi:
Her husband doesn't have a job.

She's the breadwinner.

gbenfak:
After completing my Uk visa online application form, the booking page is giving me Abuja as my appointment location and I want Lagos. please can someone help me on what to do, because isn't bringing up an options where I could select Lagos centre

Sagamite:
Having a baby seem like a honourable reason for you both to continue the relationship.

It is in the best interest of the baby but based on the other parts of your statement, it might not be in both of you's best interest.



Okay. I guess on this we can only go by what he told you and what you experienced. Fair enough.



To be frank, this does not sound sufficient enough for the needs of an average man. It really sounds like what women tend to think men "should" want in a relationship. Secondly, some of these might be claimed (and believed) but that might not be the view of the guy.

That said, the needs of different men can be different. I would leave you to judge whether what you pride yourself as giving him is what he wants. You are the one that knows your man.

Give and want can have a deep disconnect. For example, if someone asks me what I bring to the relationship for my woman and I say, I spend a lot of time with her watching football. That might be nice for me, she might even enjoy it moderately but her needs might be extremely different and more complex than that and that is not a typical high-level need of a woman. Of course, I would probably think she "should" like that and not think of what she "would" like and "how" she would like it.



Most women tend to want emotional, financial and physical security as a fundamental need.

Most men tend to want sex, financial success, social position/power, an aesthetically beautiful trophy partner, someone they are sexually attracted to, good conversation, limited/no arguments and little domestic work as a fundamental need.

You have to figure out which of these you provide him with (or support him in getting or not hinder him in getting) so well from your view of making him very happy.

Each gender wants more than those, those are just the fundamentals.

As for you being the love of his life, that might be very true but I also know many men say such rubbish because they think that is what they are suppose to say or that is what a woman wants to here otherwise there would be snide trouble.

I have the philosophy that there are multiple choices for everyone. If a girl is not with me, she would be with someone else and be equally happy. I am a core realist.



If I may ask, why didn't you say "No, lets wait a bit till we get married"? Because he asked and want to is not sufficient reason to do it now if he is sure that is what he wants now.

Okay.

Sagamite:
Having a baby seem like a honourable reason for you both to continue the relationship.

It is in the best interest of the baby but based on the other parts of your statement, it might not be in both of you's best interest.



Okay. I guess on this we can only go by what he told you and what you experienced. Fair enough.



To be frank, this does not sound sufficient enough for the needs of an average man. It really sounds like what women tend to think men "should" want in a relationship. Secondly, some of these might be claimed (and believed) but that might not be the view of the guy.

That said, the needs of different men can be different. I would leave you to judge whether what you pride yourself as giving him is what he wants. You are the one that knows your man.

Give and want can have a deep disconnect. For example, if someone asks me what I bring to the relationship for my woman and I say, I spend a lot of time with her watching football. That might be nice for me, she might even enjoy it moderately but her needs might be extremely different and more complex than that and that is not a typical high-level need of a woman. Of course, I would probably think she "should" like that and not think of what she "would" like and "how" she would like it.



Most women tend to want emotional, financial and physical security as a fundamental need.

Most men tend to want sex, financial success, social position/power, an aesthetically beautiful trophy partner, someone they are sexually attracted to, good conversation, limited/no arguments and little domestic work as a fundamental need.

You have to figure out which of these you provide him with (or support him in getting or not hinder him in getting) so well from your view of making him very happy.

Each gender wants more than those, those are just the fundamentals.

As for you being the love of his life, that might be very true but I also know many men say such rubbish because they think that is what they are suppose to say or that is what a woman wants to here otherwise there would be snide trouble.

I have the philosophy that there are multiple choices for everyone. If a girl is not with me, she would be with someone else and be equally happy. I am a core realist.



If I may ask, why didn't you say "No, lets wait a bit till we get married"? Because he asked and want to is not sufficient reason to do it now if he is sure that is what he wants now.

Okay.

iceberylin:
They shouldn't warn, they should BAN

3sha4lyf:
For me, I mixed carotein serums with the lightening gel and gel cream and added lemonvate by Mitchell group. Can't remeber of I added drops of maxi white. Mixed it in very small quantity so it doesn't loose it's potency. I'm still on that mix till now. It gives me a yellow glow. It dosnt make me all bleached out as in white. You can try that and if you feel you are getting too yellow, lol, then you reduce application for a while. And did I say, I go very sensitive acne-prone and battered face.

beeevan:
Just make sure you don't start begging like mumu when you are finally caught, immediately you are busted, go home pack and leave. When I go get comment nah when you start beg after being caught .


You are still so damn weak and fragile, who opens a thread after cheating?

oladunwo:
This life is a full of competition. I will advise u not to confront her yet, instead u increase ur care, love and affection towards her. When u do that, she will wanna have a change of mind about the new man coz no woman one would like to leave uncertainty for certainty. Sir, fight for ur home not by quarreling or beating but by intensifying ur ways of showing love. I believe with all these, she would talk to herself that "what else do I want".. thank you

hispinkolo:
@jaybee
We are always happy to have male posters.I'm happier when they write epistles

@Sisi Chaircover,
I believe I saw the where can we meet in one of her posts,or maybe im imagining things.
If he likes giving,that's fantastic but his own is to give for nonsense reasons..How can someone be taking money from my Dh to fix human hair when I'm fixing darling yaki(not by choice o!).There has to be some sort of control if for nothing else, just so Wifey can be comfortable.There are people who are truly in need.If he's solving real problems with her consent,she won't be here.
How do you coax such a person from the behaviour when he believes he's right to do it because he's a man?
Greatheart4God is in a lot of pain.How will she now know genuine from fake?What are the odds that nothing fishy is going on especially as he's excessively defensive and obstinate.

Isn't her happiness and wellbeing important too?

One thing I have noticed is that when most people give to the detriment of their children and spouses, its not just about being generous.Its about appearing good in the eye of outsiders.

@Inappropriate relationships,

It's still very painful.And for how long before he makes a terrible mistake? I hope coaxing works cos every thing else has failed.

See how I carry mata for head,choiii! I'm running away abeg

ademideolu:
one baby for now. yes i crested an account today because of this. thanks.

major466:
Her negative reaction to sex must be psychological. Take her to a Psychologist or Doctor.

Godmystrength:
thanks for
telling me what ''i already know''. You didn't have to say that twice. I
already got the message the first time

Phema:
You don't want to know what I would have done. Even for issues that people consider as non-issues, I've to soak myself in a cold water bath (make I no go explode) and use a clip over my lips. If not. . .

She's just an rare gem.

Phema:
You don't want to know what I would have done. Even for issues that people consider as non-issues, I've to soak myself in a cold water bath (make I no go explode) and use a clip over my lips. If not. . .

She's just an rare gem.

Kanwulia: That is the last thing I will ever do.
I love my life and I envy it only!
If you like MARRY GOD AND BORN JESUS CHRIST OF YA VILLAGE. . .
Not my consine!

I not send!

Na wetin consine hippopotamus with king-size mattress?

Kanwulia: That is the last thing I will ever do.
I love my life and I envy it only!
If you like MARRY GOD AND BORN JESUS CHRIST OF YA VILLAGE. . .
Not my consine!

I not send!

Na wetin consine hippopotamus with king-size mattress?

36STATES: Have you guys noticed that all our thieving pastors that claim to heal and cure everything have gone silent. Where are the Adeboye and his gang at RCCG?

Tytylorpe: I use "DH7 Gold" since 2001

Tytylorpe: I use "DH7 Gold" since 2001

dazzlingd: .

Jesus did not come to abolish d law but fulfil it, true.
But during d days of levitcus, there were temples, burnt offerings, interceding and tithing.
So if we no longer do burnt offerings and d oda ancient laws, why tithing?...

Bauldrere: Clearism egg yolk cream + a French oil peel.3 shades in 2months.i don't think i can do without this...

me' n 'me:
Please dear where in lagos do you get this olay regenerist from? Thanks