So, in recent times, men have been coming out of the closet to describe the gruesome things some ‘Aunties’, maids, and sodomites have done to them. But toxic masculinity has eaten deep into the mind of the world they are presenting it to. At least, several ladies are at the forefront of male rape. Thus, it is really appalling to see the number of men that still have these crazy misconceptions about Male rape. Oh! Some women would still not find it as piteous as that of the women.
On 29th of June, 2019, Castano Yemi Dada, with the username, @YemiCastano, took to Twitter to describe how he facilitated the arrest of a woman, who had been sleeping with the 13-year-old son of her friend. Also, on Nairaland, several posts were made to the effect of male rape and Menvocate noticed some misconceptions people have about male rape that should never be.

1. Males Are Not Vulnerable: It is believed that men are strong. It is also believed that the male child is able to stand on his own. And this misconception had weakened the resolve of many boys to talk about their feelings. When a boy falls and cries, people will shout him down saying ‘suck it up. You’re a man’. But in recent times, we have seen that the rate of suicide has more men in its circle than women.
Not only that, another recent example was a Montana woman who broke into a man’s house with a machete, ordered him to take off his clothes and forced him to have sex with her.
Please, boys are vulnerable. They are easily seduced into doing new things than girls, whom many have been teaching sex education as soon as they notice them exhibiting certain characters.


2. Male always desire sex: It is believed the male child or male generally must have had the desire for sex.
In an article of the Journal Clinical Forensic Medicine by Roy J. Levin and Willy Van Berlo, slight stimulation or stress can create an erection in men. In our topic, crazy causes of erection, I think you will get a better understanding of men’s erection. They are not only stimulated when they want sex. There are times their body react to sexual suggestions; yet, their arousal doesn’t mean consent.



3. Men Would Have Less Trauma: According to some studies, rape is damaging to both the male and female child. Most times, males are placed to struggle with social stigma and the belief that they can be victimized.
In a study by Frazier(2003) where he used 74 male and 1380 female rape victim, she discovered that the male victims are prone to be more depressed or hostile after rape.

4. Sexual Orientation: Most times, rape victims are seen as gay etc.

5. Male victims are Lucky: Many people see them as lucky bastards who got what most men long for. Some people are known to wish they are the ones that had the opportunity. To be honest, some of these guys are out there looking for ways to get over the pain. Don’t make it look like nothing happened to them.
While Menvocate hates that some girls have has to go through the pain of rape, we should never forget the male child.

http://menvocate.com/2019/07/01/5-major-misconceptions-about-male-rape/


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Dominque

Hmm

TonyeBarcanista:
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All this sermon simply because someone didn't reply your chat?

iTearHerToto:
Just stop being close-fisted and give her money.. Sit down and watch the table turn around

Unless you're broke then follow the op

Pukes

Nothing really. It's just that...few women are ready to do what some men do.

lefulefu:
;;;some guys from morning till night dem go dey send hi chats to a girl and yet d girl no go reply ...the next day they will resume sending hi hi chats to the same girl .some dudes get time ooooooo

Lolll

If you have had frantic search for ways to deal with ladies who either reply you late or are even finding it hard to keep up discussion with you, then this should help you. Erm… This is not for you that want to start conversations with ladies, that side will soon be here for you. Yet, you can glean from this…

1. Get A Life: Okay, you weren’t expecting that. But true, bro, you need a life that isn’t about them. You have works, hobby or future plan or something waiting for you to work, you need not allow the chat of a woman get you waste your day.


2. One Mild Accusation: There are some corky accusations that get women have a need to reply to you. When you hit her with something like
‘Stop that…’


She’s like to reply with ‘stop what…’
You: ‘Stop thinking about me’.




3. Give Her Space: C’mon, even if you are the fiancée or the boyfriend, you’re not entitled to a reply. She is probably busy or even off the radar. Moreover, you can’t be the only man in her life. Just because you’re the main man doesn’t mean you’re the one.




4. Get Yourself Female Friends: I’ve got a lot of female friends, many of whom I don’t chat with regularly but when I chat them up we’re talking for hours or as long I want it to be. You don’t necessarily have to shoot shots at every woman before you find their compassionate side. Make crushes out of them and not the other way round.




5. Reply Late: In case she finally replies, don’t bother about it. Reply late. It’s not because that’s what Menvocate thinks but because you need to let her know you have your space. The basis is to reply when you’re able to. You shouldn’t fly over from whatever you’re doing to answer a lady that has at least ten guys trying to know her or level-up their conversations with her.


6. Flaunt Other Ladies in Your Discussions: Tell them how you were even talking to another female friend and you said this and that.



What’s your experience with ladies that don’t reply you in time?

http://menvocate.com/2019/06/12/so-she-doesnt-reply-your-chats-do-these-no-1-and-any-other/

Try this....

https://www.nairaland.com/5234474/pleasehow-cure-premature-ejaculation#79160686

Ryan03:
He be like say na only me nor sabi knot tie o

lol

Jmk9292:
Modesty is the watch word.

Tanku

Knotting ties correctly can be the norm for some but many of us still find it hard to follow the basic rules of tie. At Menvocate, building men is always on our mind. These rules are such that you shouldn’t overlook when knotting tie. In consequent posts, we will go deeper on each of them but for now, let’s focus on these.
1. Tip of the Tie and Belt : Let the tip of your tie end around your belt line. Some people always claim you can let it stay anywhere above your belt line. But I’ll advice that you to let it touch your belt line but never below the tie.
2. The Skinny Tie :Fat ties are dangerously bad for you, They make you look like a character out of a comic book. Also, using very skinny ties will make you look like a joker or someone selling things off the ice-cream van.


3. Convention Helps Here : The conventional way of knotting ties are simply the best for any situation. It’s neither big nor small and goes with any type of shirt or suit.

4. Steer Clear of Odd Patterns : Don’t go for ties with wanton characters like series of emojis or patterns. Using plain ones are always good and work with any other shirt.
5. Like Attracts Like : Make the texture of the tie be the same as the shirt.


http://menvocate.com/2019/06/11/basic-rules-of-using-ties/

pcguru1:


It's possible i might , since I dont know the effects at all.

Alright, I'll tag you..

Receive sense

harden:
thanks a lot sir,I'll go with the natural and food remedy,am a bit afraid of drugs or pills
Thanks a lot sir...I'll let you know how it goes
Thanks

You're welcome. Let's hope they all work... Abeg, stay safe...

It makes the place.... And life fun. They'll soon be preoccupied and a new set will take over...

pcguru1:
No shame, when I was small, I was abused by my househelp, she was a bit in her adult I was like 5 or so, I still remember it but it has never affected me in anyway i know or can think of.

Well, this week I'll post the effects. I hope you don't have any of them.

harden:
Please I need help,I cum too fast when having sex with my girlfriend and it makes me feel bad and ashamed, I need help on this please.
What are the treatments for it.

I will be posting these on the website soon but feel it would help you first...
Here are some natural methods.

1. Enjoy the pre-intimacy section.

2 When you cum, that doesn't mean you're weak.
Just keep at it. it's called the refractory period, when the sensitivity is low. So, the bed is sure to squeak.

3. Empty your bladder before sex even if the tension is high.

4. Use a different style

5. Edge yourself. When you're on edge, stop and go to a bit of pre-intimacy. In Game of Throne, Turmond said some men keep pounding like a mule. oin oin....


6. Research shows that you can squeeze the base of your manhood. Just give it a firm grip.

7. Exercise more especially Pelvic Exercise

If you need pills, try


1. Viagra

2. Herbal Capsule

3. Vega power.



For food remedy,

.1. Eat Vegetables

2. Banana: They are rich in potassium, they help.

3. Water Melon: Filled with L- citrulline that turns to arginine in the body, thereby strengthening your organ.

4. Avocados: I'm not sure easy to get in Nigeria but it has Vitamin B and mono saturated fats that will strengthen you...


There are some sprays that actually perform these works. Just seek out the right ones, I think K-Y duration male Genital desanitizer...



These will be expanded soon on my website for others..

Willgates:


Who is this little teenager?

Adult, what's your purpose?

ubunja:
wtf?

My bad. Was referring to teens that actually enjoyed it but had to call it rape
..

MJBOLT:

11.a man with money

Lol. yes o

phelonrays:
but me wey no com like woman nko?

Gay?

CANlBUS:
Stopped reading at 3

Congrats

Offpoint1:
1. Money
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Lol

Xaos:
Holy shìt. I ticked all the boxes.

baddest

It’s normal to be in a group or gathering and have people ignore you. However, when it becomes frequent, you need to change your tactics. People that have these characteristics are such that are seen as playboys because they are attractive to women. So, if you have just one, you can utilize it to catch a woman’s attention. (Note…It’s not to woo her but to catch her attention).
See this as the worms in a fishing hook. If a fishing hook is bland, no fish will be drawn to it. It might try to seek out fish for itself but the right fish will never swim near. Your wooing secrets should grant you access to having the boldness to talk to any woman of your choice. But these characteristics will prepare them for you. Are you ready? Get your pen.



1. Men With Facial Hair: The beard gangs still have our women. In the days of old, beards and moustaches have always captured the heart of women and will forever do. Many believe they want a clean shaven man, but trust me, a bit of air will give you more chance than your other friends.



2. Comedian In The Making: Women warm up to guys that can make them laugh. Spontaneity should be something you should favor. And you don’t need to be abusive or rude to get what you want to do.
Savagery is interesting as long as it’s isn’t at the expense of another person’s mental health. First thing first, some women always have a reason to be angry, rude, or sad. You don’t want their mood to rub off on you. So, instead of trying to make her happy, make yourself happy. Even she hisses at your joke, talk to yourself. Are you crazy? I don’t know but a bit of craziness helps.



3. Friends and Groups: It’s just one thing that still beats the imagination. Next time, you see people walking by, notice how hard it is to pick the ugliest or dullest. The reason is that groups have vibes on that own. Being with group, just let them assume you’re a social animal. Don’t worry, she’s not thinking about you. But being among a group and throwing glances at her does a better job than when you’re in a corner drinking your drink by yourself.
The former would make you look like a playboy (It will now be up to use that and prove you’re a normal guy). The latter might make her assume you’re one sardonic, serial killer ( well not every time. But you understand what you mean).



4. Provider: Men are found attractive by women when they are known to make provision for food and the rest. It’s not their fault. Blame their cells for adapting to the desires of their ancestors. Those women in those days found hunters attractive because they go out into the bush and send games to their house. So, you don’t need to lavish your money. Stay woke. Instead, be creative in your giving. It can be sharing your bottle of drinks with someone or even allowing someone take your bottle of drinks.
If the lady you desire is there, be mild about the way you do. This is not the section of wooing but do it at a time you know you have her attention. Then, pretend to do it in secret. Your ‘humility’ will go a long way.



5. Men Who Love Kids and Babies: Are you Tees Maar Khan!!! ‘ I just hate kids!!!’ Bro. You never get time for marriage. Most women are drawn to someone that can easily handle a child. If you have finally taken the best drink in the world and want to talk to your crush, don’t go to her directly. Make a child laugh around her or help out. That hardened heart and face will be melted. Please, don’t let them deceive you. You must be of a tender heart to show that kind of love.
But if the girl is an alphamale and have been treating you like a baby to her. Don’t use a child, use a teenager and correct them in a firm but loving way. This will show how much you can both be firm and nice at the same time.



6. Volunteeer: Be ready to work. Enjoy your work.



7.Happy/ men: Grumpy men also find girlfriends, but what they get most of the times are consoler or people that would just encouraging you to be better. So, be happy with what you do.



8. Strong Men: Strong men attract ladies, eszpecially if the guy seems like a gentle man. Now to get her attention better, pretend to be serious. You grab. Be deep in thought! Let her see you as someone that has something else in mind better than them.



9. Singer: Some girls can fight this but you can melt a woman’s heart if you have a spice of Johnny Drille’s sweet smoothness, the gruffiness of Adekunle Gold or Dare Art Alade or the pitch of Wizkid. All you need to do is to be engrossed with what you do. Many of them wil prove strong head.
When you see the one you love, don’t fight the urge to do what you love around them. You might want to show them how good you’re with other thing. But their main attraction to you is the song..


10. Boldness: This is something that you enjoy in thugs. You always wonder why some professionals end up with thugs. Those guys are bold. They will say it straight and clear. This same trait is seen in pickup artists and alphamales. They tend to say what they want regardless.
So, if you’re shy like me, do this: look for one thing to be bold about. And always look for a situation to discuss it. This will spread like a virus to other aspects of your life.


http://menvocate.com/2019/06/07/10-characteristics-that-make-you-attractive-to-a-woman-you-need-just-one/

kingkoboko:


Are u tryin 2b sarcastic or wat?

No! I dont agree that a girl-child will enjoy her small v a g i n a & h y m e n being torn by mature p e n i s abeg. Sex is definitely a more traumatic experience 4d girl-child that 4 a boy-child.

Except in d case where a boy is raped by a MAN. Now that wud b scary.

Where do you have your facts from because I know where mine is from.

ubunja:
if you we under 18 at that time it wasn't consensual. A 10 yr old boy doesn't understand consent. That's the meaning of Statutory Rape.

Thank you...

kingkoboko:
Hmmm... Truly, it wasn't consensual. But I wont call it rape cos I enjoyed her bushy hole. I'll jst call it child abuse. She abused my urinary organ.

Parents that fight for girls always forget the girls too enjoy it.

romenna:
kaya carrying mode activated.
Thanks all. Thread closed.

You're welcome...

Mariangeles:
This is not a joke !

How old were you then ?

This is Lucifer. Don't him too serious..

Mariangeles:
Even most times, you see adults , males or females, touching or grabbing little boys' private part right in front of their mothers and they'd see nothing wrong with it .

That's another angle...