oblo:


Sent a pm

didn't see ur PM

moyfem:
I have checked my personal mail over and over even the spam folder and nothing there or where exactly did you respond to?

sorry abt that...I mistook ur Interest for someone else's.....I've responded this time...u can check ur PM

moyfem:
Can you please chat me up?

I HV sir.. check ur mail

moyfem:
I have PM kindly add me up. Thanks

I have responded

Still here

Afforda:
I have pm

I have responded

spiralwedge:
PM if you are a lady 35 y.o. and above, already has kids or you don't want new kids, intelligent, well travelled, working and self sufficient but seeking possibility of a stable relationship despite, and seeking to move on.
Any location.

PM or Whatsapp
zero9zero 19zero12 five five five

read what this thread was created for sir

Pls notify me here if uv sent me a PM so that I can chat u up...if not, I may not notice ur PM cos I ignore random PMs... thank you

ExpressBooking:
Sent u a PM, please respond so I can send u my WhatsApp number

I have responded sir

femzee3:
I'm femi and will like u to add me to the group. This is my number 08135921980

PM sir

Ladylite:
Basically it's gossip partners and third parties you are looking for.

Also maybe temptation too.

sorry dearie...ur obviously not mature to belong ...I know ur likes already... I'll let this slide...lol

Hi pple, will you like to make new friends with like minds here... there's a what'sapp group for that purpose...we play games, share jokes, gist, tease each other, discuss marital issues, business/careers talks and just hv fun generally...

Please you must be mature and married to be added to the group... that way, you have confidence that you meeting with someone who's in the same situation as you and understands what you are going through.

You might have to prove that you're married before added.


PM if ur Interested.... dropping ur phone number here wouldn't be necessary... I'll be waiting dearies.....

Modikko:
Come make we kolombi

mtcheeewww

PerfectMatchNG:
are you sure u wanna do this?

friends without benefits is all I ask ....like making new mutual friends on the group to kill my boredom....is that too much for me to demand for?...ok, wrong thread.... walks out

Austyno4:


If you are not feeling loved, just go your seperate ways

Abi

Oduslanre:
Kindly get me on this... 08175558854

PM the admin... follow instructions sir and stop putting ur phone number out for the world to see to avoid being scammed...it's not necessary

Liztee:

Even men that are of age act like babies in marriage, they show love and affection in the early marriage and ignore the wife later, leaving chores they used to do together to the wife in the latter year. The domain called men will be claiming they had a busy/stressful day but expect their pregnant wife with a toddler to get all chores done without help or complaints

ur right

I'm not single....but I live a single life in my marriage

marksleek25:
You've forgiven him yeah...but you've not forgotten cuz you both haven't talked about it...sometimes for true forgiveness to happen, talking about the incident helps. Not just brush over with I'm sorry and hope things will get back to normal. Iron it out once and for all.

thanks huh

Sometimes I wish I wasn't married

FrLukas:


Hello dear,
sorry about your situation. It isn't something that cannot be remedied though.

You need to understand that marriage at the onset when you are both just starting the journey is like an empty box.

What you put in over the years is what you are able to bring out.

if you put affection and care in it you will be able to get affection and care from it.

if both of you contribute beautiful feelings of romance and love into the box, when you need these, you can just reach into the box and get them.

if it is only one person contributing into that box and the other perso is just taking out of the box without putting anything positive in it, then the person doing all the giving will become drained eventually.

sit your husband down and discuss this. discuss how you can spice up your love life together.

you both need to contribute healthily to the marriage box.

most men want respect from their wives, most women want affection and the feeling of being pampered by their husbands.

Above all, both want to feel loved.

read books together that teach how to achieve marriage goals.

map out your own unique path towards giving and receiving love.

sex is an important aspect of married life. it is not the everything in marriage, but without it, almost no marriage will survive.

sit down together and plan a healthy sex life together where you talk openly and frankly about what you want and what your significant other wants.

experiment, within healthy bounds, of course.

if need be, see a marriage counselor if all else fails.

don't ignore yourselves when the kids start coming.

have date nights together at least once every fortnight or once every week if you can afford it. it doesn't have to be an expensive date. just time away from the familiar home settings. let your husband woo you again.

and so on and so forth...

all the best.

thanks ALOT

DedeNkem:


You married without love and that was the first mistake! Having love between you and your husband is more important than being a virgin! Nowadays virginity is useless. It doesn't guarantee a great love relationship or marriage!

I pity Nigerians who still think virginity is paramount! It's only a personal moral issue, that's it!

u have a point sir

GeneralShepherd:


What exactly do you mean by no love? You don't want to have sex with your husband? You don't enjoy his company? What exactly ?

You want to go have sex with other people as you feel you are missing out ? You are the confused party as you don't even know what your problem is

I'm not as confused as u are anyway thanks for your opinion though

toprealman:
And you were quick to delete all your old posts.....It is well.

I still don't get ur point sir.... I'm wondering what ur driving at... there'll be not need for sarcasm if u don't have any go idea for this thread...but it's ur choir if u want to be sarcastic...peace

BeachTime:
Read this book and thank me later

ok I'll check it out... thanks alot

Evebeautyworld2:
If u want to have good and successful marriage,forget about love build d friendship u will prefer it than love,love comes with it's up and down which u can't even stand d test of time,nobody should get married because he or she is inlove that shit fades off real fast....

ok.... thanks alot

Toss4sure:
Please i dont know how to pm please someone should put me through have sent mail to the person that open the trend i dont know if he gets it . If you get kindly add me

he will

toprealman:
You asked for it. Whoever brings an ant infested wood home should be prepared for the obvious visitor.

calm down

Originalsly:


This is the problem with this thread..... someone asked for more details... critical details... and you choose to ignore them. You gave this guy the opportunity to assume what is wrong in the marriage. You can never get good advice if your problems can't be stated. Normally.... love comes before marriage. You are married but don't know love. How is this possible?... was it an arranged marriage?...did you enter the marriage because of pregnancy?... is there a big age difference?...you into Davido/Wizkid he into Fela? ... is he into games?...betting?..his boys? and see you like furniture?....a sister?....a daughter? ... does he take you out?... any effort to be romantic?...trim your nails?....bathe you?...shave you? Is a whole lot you been dead silent about.... but expect solutions. It is good you enteed the marriage as a virgin.... the minute you step out and ehmmm.... chop better firewood... it's over. More details...better advice.

good and valid questions uv asked ...but u don't expect me to go into full details on my marriage issues here ,when just the little info I wrote here has already made some people call me names...I have actually gotten some relevant ideas on how to go abt my marital problem...I appreciate ur comment sir

bogdaddy:
Hi merit it’s been a while, are you now happy in your husband’s house?

u sound like you know me ..but I don't know u sir...it's been awhile? Like we've met b4?

safarigirl:
azzin, the matter tire me

NL is running out of topics, I will soon start writing relationship woes for them to move to FP.

I'm suprised too

RedCreme21:
nairaland isnt fun?

lol...not really...made a few friends here actually...