emirateprince:
let's me pastor Nelson you ,I think u need it

lol. .. pastor Wilson u mean? Seriously jor....no yabs

I got married as a young virgin...probably didnt understand what love was all about then....I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..coupled with some other marriage issues..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...all I need is advices on how to build my love life and not yabs pls...it's very hurtful

Bolnij2:
Communication is important. Try as much as possible to iron out issues amicably. Remember, there is no perfect marriage.
Secondly, you have to forgive and move on, no matter how serious the offence it. Otherwise, you will be hurting yourself. It is not also too good for couples to live far apart if it can be helped.
Above all, try to free your mind of those things that was done in the past that you didn't like. Move on with life. You can actually enjoy your union. You will, however, carefully work it out.

ur right... thanks so much

That's m y area though...I'm married sorry

This thread seriously cracked me up

Hmmmmm

Hmmmmmmmm...it's not just abt the size though....

hardebounty:
I think you shld try to take things easy, free resentment in your mind. Try to forget improve communication with him.
God help us all.

thanks alot

pryme:


Do you guys talk?
Or you guys expect the other person to must have figured out whats going on?
Sometimes you just have grab the bull by the horns and TALK ABOUT IT with your partner.

You will feel like a load has been lifted off your chest.

hmmmmm .. thanks alot for this...I'm grateful

pryme:


You need closure, seems you have not really gotten over it.
Am sorry but i think the ball is not in your court to make this right, its in his.

hmmmmm....this is tough

jeff1607:



care to share?

but no matter what you got to fix it ,infact u guys got to fix it,

how is communication between you and your lawfully wedded husband?

no one is perfect, we just gotta tolerate stuff that won't send us overboard

that's another issue entirely.... he's hardly ever around.. communication with an absentee but when he's around,we talk Abit anyway

pryme:


Do you have kids?
Have you tried to air your feelings to your husband?

yes I do....... actually there was something he did to me in the past(though I HV forgiven him but it's difficult for me to forget) coupled with some other side issues and behaviors.......so, that has been the reason for my predicament.......all I want is to learn to build the love

Privatepart00:
You have never felt loved in the union? Do you want to seek the attention and love elsewhere? Always good for people to take their time before getting married. Why the rush in the first place ? So you start having sex huh . The same thing a colleague of mine in the office will do soon just because his church forbids sex or he lose his position in the church when done outside wedlock .

why isn't it possible to get reasonable comments here.? What's up with having sex early bla bla bla? U have no idea how I got into my marriage so take a chill pill ...it's not compulsory u write pls....I'm only seeking for mature advices on how to handle my situation and not sarcasm.....but u can go on to be sarcastic if u want ... thats ur problem

Ladylite:


Aunty forced you to marry?

Did you not read good relationship books or at least attend relationship seminars or get guided counsel from a mature person to know that marriage is not a DASH

You can still learn to love your hubby, true love is grown, it has nothing to do with horniness.

So don't feel bad because you didn't fall in love rather grow in love.

Read books and do your duty as a humble and wise wife.

ok... thanks ma...I wasn't forced anyway and I know that u didnt see any thing like "horniness" in my post.. thanks for your advice anyways

I got married as a young virgin, but I've never really felt love or being loved in my marriage..I wear the shoes and I know where it hurts...it's very hurtful

I'm in

I'm young and married...but mostly bored...I need friends to make me lively and happy as my emotions are failing me...

23rd December

Drinksarena:
no u didn't

be patient.... He will

high6ixx:
I can be the reason your pussy always wett if you try to call or beep me on 08117403164 am josh

i'm sorry to ask u sir.... Are u ok? Is that the only thing u can say here? Rubbish

Sunnycliff:


Something must kill a man then!

i wont be the reason for the death sir

McEphiks:


Would it be okay if we get to chat on WhatsApp. Who knows we might just hit the nail on the head

naaaaaaa..thanks but no thanks

Sunnycliff:


Buzz me up then!

u dont even know if its for a crime

I would have loved to join but i dont want to put my number here

I' m no longer looking for love cos true love doesn't exist...... I'm just bored

Sunnycliff:
Add me up on 08064572551

ur monika looks familiar

Kendumazy:


OK. May God help you.

amen

Kendumazy:


Didn't you guys court?

yeah we did... But not for long anyways, but thats not the point.. there is a reason for the boredom

damlady:

Am a lady, married but bored. If you are a man, married and bored let's talk. Pls I need a very matured in mind person. Thanks. My contact 07033347854,whatsup Lagos

we are in the same shoes

Hmmmmm

jumiasalesguy3:
I'm yet to be added to the group.
Please add me

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