dreeldee: Even in our so called Nollywood. All we get to hear the women say is "men are like handbags, they should used and changed" or "men should have been animals" etc and the men too "women are unfaithful as such, they should be used. I remember in another thread, Gamine said Men should be shot with Shotgun,in response defending my gender, i told her [b]women should be blown with C4 and Hydrogen bomb. [/b]This is getting worse day by day, i don't know what's happening. even if na joke, e don dey go too far
Some distance relationships do work,but it depends on several factors and would require some commitment,hardwork and sacrifice from both parties involved.
There are instances where long distance relationship work out very well and there are also relationships which do not work out even though the people see each other on an almost daily basis.
The probability for success or failure of a distance relationship can only be assesed on a case by case basis.It can not be generalized.I can not know if your relationship may work out or not because i do not know useful information such as if you both met physically or you met on the internet,or how long you have been together,the level seriousness of the relationship,why one of the people involved is travelling,what type of personality the person have,age, how often you communicate/plan to see each other,family involvement,amongst several other things.
If you want to know if there is a chance of your distance relationship working out,then you will need to divulge a bit more information.Like i said,whether it would work or not depends on the people involved.
You can not be told if a relationship will work or not (We are not God).You can only be told if there is a good chance of it working out.
If you are not comfortable revealing such info here for everyone to see,let me know and i will give you my email,and we'll discuss about it.
Ok, weekly, hmmm, let's subtract my books and school supply or school activity. . I'll say about # ??
Am not trying to be modest hon, that's just it. I'm trying to be careful. sure later on, I can spend like I dnt care, but right now, the person that's supporting me does not pick the money off of an apple tree. She works to get the money, and I must respect that and spend carefully