JasonScoolari:
Please, are you a student of Ambrose Alli University?

Nope, a graduate of University of Benin. Why did you ask?

shogsman:

First off you're not supposed to pay a dime only like 1k for fuel money to the sars.
Secondly who among them asked you for 10k cos I know most of them.
Which bank did you paid the money to
Thirdly don't contact anybody here for help(including me) it will end in tears,just make use of the little information you can gather here.

Exactly!!

favoured247:

You got several recommendations and advise from your first post when u were seeking for help. If you cannot tell us the particular advise/recommendation that worked for you, then there is no point creating a thread to thank nairalanders. What do u expect us to learn from your post.
Meanwhile am happy your child now has a clear skin. The joy of parents is to see their children healthy and happy.

I don't think he is online

ValCon888:
Tomorrow one olodo will tell you to go to the hospital as if it's everybody that can afford to consult a doctor. There are lawyers, doctors, engineers and every other type of professional you can think of on this forum.

There's hardly any answer you cannot find here. But you need to have the humility to ask and the patience to suffer fools gladly.

A big congratulations to your child and to your family.

FP material.

Exactly!! Apart from being part of the professions you mentioned, People with similar experience can actually help.

jeffchinedu:
Pls house i need your help and advice on the solution to my baby skin problem, it has bn like dis for over three month after seeing a doctor it refuses to go. Pls someone help with a better way of doing helping my baby. God bless in ur effort towards this.

Have you tried CALAMINE LOTION??If No, pls go and buy it.

KingSatan:


As a man, a father and a grandfather. I have lived life to an extent and this is my view on this subject.

The previous thread was simple and concise, "Never marry a woman who has no means of income".

But that is the truth!

Gone are the days when people marry "Obiageri's" according to the Igbos.
Back then, things weren't this bad. Considering the family setting in those days, women had no other role than to cook, birth, raise children and clean the house.

So their parents prepare them for marriage, teach them how to cook, satisfy a man and raise children. They also spend alot of time grooming their hairs, taking care of their skin (Some parents send their children to fattening rooms) and waiting to get married.

When we got married, we married to keep them at home and show off to our friends. Only a few of us married because of love. Some of our partners were not our choice but our parents.

So when you marry, your wife and children should always reflect your wealth and networth. Most especially, YOUR WIFE.

I repeat, back then things were not this bad and everyone knew their roles.

But in today's world, so many things have changed.

Women should bring to the table as much as they expect from the man.

Raising children costs alot of money and shouldn't be the responsibility of the man alone.

So many marriages have crashed on the alter of poverty or "One stream of income".

We must learn to tell ourselves the truth always.

Back then, you don't spend so much to raise a child. If he or she wants to go to the community school or follow the white man's way of life, you send them as a punishment. But those humble and loyal sons, follow you to the farm and when they come of age, you give them farmlands and wives if possible. But that's not the case anymore.

Apart from formal education abroad, I also encouraged my children to learn sellable skills. One of my son is a fashion designer and that is what puts food on his table in the UK. His college degree only reflects on his call cards.

I told this to my children (Daughters inclusive) never to marry a man or woman who has no verifiable means of income.

Money is needed to run a home in the 21st century. Alot of money!

We no longer live in mud houses or drink from pots.

As for "Entitlement", I think every couple should have that mentality depending on the context.

The man is entitled to his wife's emotional commitment. She is his wife and this also applies to the man.

I am tired of typing.

To be truthful, i warned my son's against mingling with an average African woman. They simply don't want to know the truth. They hate the truth with Passion and that is why true feminism failed woefully here.

In the Diaspora, most men who want peace of mind avoid African women because of their "Entitlement Mentality" and how exploitative they are.

Many of these women don't work but enjoy proceeds of child support from numerous partners. You think it's a coincidence? No it not. It was deliberate.

They just want to seat at home, get fat, enlarge their butts and walk up and down the street like a pussy cat that resides in Buckingham Palace.

Should I talk about Nigeria, where you meet an average Nigerian lady and realise that;

1. She is a college graduate because a "Man" sponsored her in school (Both of them are no longer together as a couple).

2. She has a roof over her head because a "Man" made that available (She has no intention of marrying him).

3. She uses the best smartphone because a "Man" bought it for her (Just another random man).

4. She has clothes on her body because a "Man" gave her money for shopping (Obviously he is "One of those mugus".

5. She has food on her table because so many men send her money.

This same woman has no other skill but sexual skills. The only thing she can offer is "Sexual Intercourse", "Birthing Children" and "Companionship" but she expects the man to "Mark her birthdays with a brand new Escalade", "Buy her parents a new house and train her younger ones in school". Is that not exploitation?

This same woman hates her mother inlaw because she sees her as her rival. Anyway, women have always hated themselves from time immemorial, don't get moved when you see them shout in solidarity, it's just for a few seconds.

When asked about their contribution in the relationship or Marriage, some will say "I birthed children for him". But that's your natural default woman!

Even if you sleep with a sexually active mad man, you will get pregnant and birth for him.

Some will even say, "I satisfy him sexually. I gave him my body and soul". But that is same thing you did with your numerous ex lovers.

According to Pastor Sam Adeyemi, he said "If a woman does not help her husband financially, then how else does she want to help him".

In this age and time, it takes two adults who have a verifiable means of income to build a healthy family.


Cheers!

Bravo Sir, Bravo!!. This is pure wisdom. Everything you said, it's 100% correct. ��

gaby:
So many.

Mostly from my trip across the deserts and seas of Africa en route Europe over two decades ago.

It is a testimony that I am still alive today having dodged some more near-death experiences home and away.

Please do tell, will like to hear

Am a salary earner, I work 8am -5pm, Mondays to Fridays. I know very well that, any salary earner's job can be terminated at any time. So I have decided to venture into a part time business but have no idea of a perfect business.
So my people, what kind of part time business can someone start with 50k

I just need an advice on what to do, the problem with my boss is.. he gets angry easily and he can keep malice for weeks. A sealed package came in for him,he told me to keep it coz he travelled. When he came back, I handed it over to him, he got angry that the document has passed it's submission date that means it's belated. He was furious asking me why I didn't open it and know it's content, I told him I didn't know since no instruction was given, I assumed it was confidential. He was really pissed and has been avoiding me since then.
So my question is, would you have opened the package if you were in my position?? Secondly, what kind of part time business can I start with 100k? I don't feel safe in the job anymore

Camp was fun and crazy at the same time... Am enjoying your story. Weldone!!

Proffdada:
She's just spicing up the boring show
She won't win
She won't be evicted


Meanwhile Tanko is trying the seat of CJN

Thats bbnaija for you but most people don't understand.

oshe111:
Who tell you say na free?

My dear, every general hospital conducts HIV test for free.

Nawa oh... know your status people!!!... it's free

Ikebesupa:
.... Oluchi! Oluchi!! Oluchi!!!.. How many times did I call you?

haaaaa.....you called me thrice ooo, the worst has happened.... do I know you

Hian.... Let the best man win�