₦airaland Forum

rumenase:
Delta State, how about you?

I shuttle btw delta and lag in delta at the moment

rumenase:
nope

ok where are u based then

rumenase:
I'm still waiting for the number

is this fortifiedcity??

biacan:
Girl where have you been

been here I just decided to take a break lol

biacan:
Looks like he'll be a good sugar daddy

sweetheart, it's been a while.....missed u!

FortifiedCity:
Keep laughing at me. Didn't know you could treat me this bad

oh sorry
will drop my number on a very dead thread

FortifiedCity:
What wrong have I done to you?

hey



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AntiBrutus:
Anything that can be outsourced, I will gladly do that, so far there is money and I get good results.

I wonder how family women in Lagos cope. I thought I love cooking, Not in Lagos.

These women wake up early in the morning, prepare kids for school, package their lunchbox, rush off to work, do their best to be productive at work, starts rushing back home, struggles for bus, buys petty things for the home in traffic, gets home exhausted, probably fixes dinner again, serves Oga, serves children, enters room, Oga still expects her to position yansh like a single lady with no responsibility...next morning she is up again.
Yet you wonder why the wife looks older?

The ones at the office were always sleeping. You will hear, "my baby refused to sleep all through the night, I think he is teething". I asked them, why don't you take this stress off you? I can't be working, earning in 6digits and still suffer myself like this naw. Do, I want to die and have a man remarry before my casket sinks into the ground?

Surprisingly, they said NO!

It made me realize another thing, Naija women love accolades more than anything. They rather do these things, be stressed out, so that their husbands can call them superwoman. They also need it for emotional blackmail. They wouldn't want anyone (this includes their husband and kids) to think they have motherhood easy.

That is why paintings of a black woman most times looks like suffer. Kid at the back, another in the hand; basin on the head and they are trekking to God knows where . This is a Naija man's definition of wife material. This is what Naija women have perfected the act of pretending to be.

Anyway, not me. I outsourced almost every fcking thing. Sometimes I meet my buddy at Eko hotel roundabout. From there we go for dinner. He drops me home, I bathe and sleep!

I make money to make my life easier. I would only do these things if they are very convenient for me. No one should expect me to perform magic in same 24hrs he has, when we both do a 9-5.

If you go and kill yourself, he would remarry and she wouldn't even have to boil water. Look at Regina, getting customized cars weekly. After Ned's first wife spent all her productive years going to market and pounding akpu .

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You deserve a bottle of Cold Stout...LOL
Don't mind Nigerian men, they know some women now know their secrets...they never wanna hear the truth

Your comment has been liked 1000times.

If she leaves you when you are done training her, Don't come back here to cry oo

blinkz4real:
I gave u all d red flags I could b4 leaving but u just neglected all, now u left all d social media platforms including ur phone number nt reachable 4 me 2 say am deeply sorry. Pls get intouch wt me let me explain y I left.

You day craze oo, Better craze day ur head.


Explain what? Why u left?..after wasting her time.

engrpheleeks:
Not job. Money to settle school stuff

What school is that and how much do you need that you want to commit suicide?

But why does he now act like he's been married for over 30 years.... it's just 13...Happy wedding anniversaire to him

oblaak:
Sometimes I just go through most nairaland members profile to know what they actually look like. There are really lots of hideous people on here. Others have refused to show what they actually look like. I can't wait to know what Sarrki, , OmenkaLives, and the hermaphrodite (NgeneUkwenu) looks like. I would also love to know what Nwaamaikpe originally looks like.

Like we know what u look like.

All these ugly ducklings checking people's profile to know how they look like, na inferiority complex go do Una something.

Abeg swerve

LiveByNight:
More Duncan is bi sexual

I know this kid from his days in A hall

His elder brother tuoyo and I went to unilag together

Used to go to their house in ayinde giwa Masha surulere alot back then
Noticed how unnaturally close his Kim was to him

Used to tease touyo about his kid brother behaving gay back then or like someone who his mom.was molesting

Tell me more please

dairykidd:
Its ur type that burdens a guy with ur whole family/ ancestral problems like say him no come from family. As if u can't get a job to finance ur lifestyle.. Not saying that a guy shouldn't assist his babe but the way ur putting it like its a mandatory something like ur right. If na wife i fit even hear no be girls like u when dey jump upandan from preeq to preeq and still looking for a faithful guy to pin down and pin him pockets join and when ur done tearing his pockets its on to the next victim. You don't even value urself and u want a man to value u... continue oo

I hate it when broke guys mention me.

Very useless set of police men in a very useless country with a useless president

Preshy561:
Most men are sexual slaves.

At least 99.5percent of them... They think with their dicck most times

Preshy561:
Some ladies who come online to preach those rubbish actually date low lives.

They wanna make sure every lady date stingy and unrepentant entitled men like they do.

That's my point, most of them date low lives,i can't even stand ladies like that....how can someone come online and be dictating how a lady should live her life, what and what not to do...I'm not understanding how I would be the man and woman at the same time in a relationship.....

Any man that isn't ready to provide yet should go and work harder....
Nigerian men are so extra...They like free things, they would never stay on their lane.Instead of them to go for their class, they will want to go for high maintenance and when she starts demanding, they will say they can't deal cos she has this "entitlement mentality"

Guest007, I don't reply slowpokes, you are only deceiving yourself online including the poster.

And to every lady on this forum, once you are in a relationship, don't disturb your family members for money, channel the disturbances to the guy you re dating....why is he in your life if he can't render any form of assistance... it's better to be single than be in some kind of weird relationships...There's no need forming good girl or independent lady for a man that will still cheat on you...Some of them will still not value you....All these women coming online to preach, you people are just too much.

ImaIma1:
The best way to get things from your man is to never ask. Never ask for anything. It even increases the lady's value. He is the one that would keep asking if you need anything

My dear some would never ask if you need anything.
Don't you know some men can be very parasitic in a relationship too? Men are natural providers, let them remain that way.


I don't know why this topic keeps coming up, everybodys relationship can't be the same.
If any woman wants to be in a relationship with any man and be forming independent and getting her stuff herself, it's her own business...No woman should come online and tell other women how to act in their relationships..If the guy isn't tired of giving, why drink panadol for another woman's headache.


As long as a man is in a relationship with any lady, it's part of his responsibility to take care of that lady, the lady should be better than the way he met her.It's not about entitlement mentality.. If he can't take care of me, then what I am doing with him...i cant be with a weakling... it's very annoying

marvin906:
you need better knock for your head... all you chicks and your upside down ideology

Will you keep quiet, you hypocrite.

marvin906:
crappppppppppppppp

Bullshit!

centboy123456:
spend on you is he ur father Nigeria girls sha that why guy use u for blood moni if I see ur type na to use u na no time to waste because u are not adding any meaning to my life all u want is money money money looking for man to spend on you I sorry for u because u are walking dead

you are the one that is walking dead.

Please don't mention me next time,i didn't quote.
Nigerian men trying to go pass their boundary...stay on your lane.. life is that simple

What is wrong with nairalanders.
They don't even get to read the story before commenting, that's why most of them are in failed relationships especially the guys.

The lady in question didn't date the dead uncle, she wasn't a girlfriend to the dead uncle.

You can go ahead and marry her sir, there's nothing wrong as long as you both understand and love each other , there are a lot of problems in this life already for one to be thinking whether or not to date his uncles former girlfriend, why didn't the uncle get married to her in the first place, some men can do anyhow.

LesbianBoy:
My post pain you no be small. And as for you calling me "broke ass".....I won't blame you. Ladies like you are used to guys being mumu for them so when you see guys like me you get angry!


Meanwhile, the cost of just my perfume will feed you for a year! Rubbish!

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Nonsense.

Would you allow your sister date a stingy man?.
Any man that cant provide for his household is worse than an infidel.

Some men are very terrible when it comes to removing money..it's not about entitlement mentality here...same way you men test run babes, that's how women test run men too to know if they will be good providers ... Some men are very lazy, Some men are just plain akaradites, akagum, akasuperglue, they never want to spend , if they can even collect urs and add it to theirs and still be fvvking you on top say dem never pay money for the woman head they would gladly do it...I love that Nneka girl she's just like me, we know our right.Bunch of modafvvckers.

LesbianBoy:
In the past, I would have insulted this lady but I know better now.

Notice how she said if a man won't give her money he should go. Do you know why she said that? Because she knows that if one goes another nigerian maga will spend on her. I don't blame her sha. Nigerian guys dey fvck up....Seriously!

In fact, i now HATE my fellow Nigerian guys with passion!

Apart from the few sensible one, I spit on the majority of Nigerian guys out there! Magas!

Even here on nairaland, just watch how guys on here will start insulting her. Calling her olosho or gold digger etc. But don't be deceived! They are only insulting her because THEY ARE BROKE. Let ordinary N100k enter their hand, you will be surprised how they will even be the one pursing girls up and down and be the one to give them their money even if the ladies didn't ask.

If all or majority of Nigerian guys were like me, Nigerian ladies will have no choice but to respect us and stop seeing us as magas!

Shut up weak man like you.
Ordinary ass that you will see, you will start doingike Mumu.
Empty barrels make the loudest noise.
If you won't spend on us, the rich would! Go make money brokeass

FortifiedCity:
Mhizzaj, please send me an email to successfulproposals@yahoo.com

okay
I'll do that

FortifiedCity:
I don't know jare.



Abeg where is my Queen Mhizzaj, it's been like decades we talked. I miss her

I miss u too ma dear

Donjazzy12:
You see how female children take care of their parents. Look at how Linda's Dad is very happy. If say na man be I'm first pikin him for Don die by now. Most male children of nowadays are worthless.

very worthless
they seem to neglect their parents too quickly and it's even worse once they get married

You re the one with the strange behaviour here plus u re so weird.... I couldn't even attach any meaning to what you wrote up there.. next time write in such a way that everyone will understand.... headache! gosh

Did they cover his eyes before he got married to the agbero? Maybe some people even warned him beforehand.


Wo, that is his cross, let him carry it. It is for better for worse... if I were that woman, I would follow him bumper to bumper now way be say husband don scarce naim person want divorce me.. kolewerk

Abeg. The money some women spend on makeup ehn.