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Not everyone likes being in the limelight

Many guys think that if only they were rich, or at least well off, their girlfriend would have never left them. It's not as simple as that. If you don't believe it, just tune into what is happening with the rich and famous around the world, be it movie stars or royalty. It quickly becomes apparent that people with a lot of money have no better luck - an obviously sometimes a lot worse luck - with staying within a relationship. How many movie stars can you think of in the next five minutes who have two, three or maybe four divorces under their belts?

The fact is, having a lot of money is no guarantee of relationship success. If you are feeling sorry for yourself because your girlfriend left you over financial problems, then it's time to start rethinking the whole situation. You could be filthy rich, and she might have left anyway.
What does this tell you about money? Clearly, it makes no difference how much you have or how little you have. If the fundamentals of your relationship are strong, even a terrible money situation should not be an excuse for your girlfriend to leave. Money is only a convenient excuse, an outward factor.
Okay, but let's also recognize that while money may not be the ultimate reason she left you, it certainly was a contributing factor. That's because constant stress over money creates an overall climate of tension and struggle. It is very difficult for any relationship to thrive in an environment of constant struggle.
Incredibly, many guys do exactly the opposite thing they should do when they have money problem, and their partner leaves - they plunge themselves into even more debt! That's right!

There is something about relationship problems that can drive many men to lose all common sense. For example, they think that if they only had a nicer car, maybe their girlfriend would come back to them. So they pull out all the stops, marshal all of their resources, and take out a huge loan to get some new wheels. So now they have a shiny new car, and even more debt and payments to worry about. To get that new car, maybe they had to take out a second mortgage on their house, or run up huge debts on credit cards.
Other guys blow cash on some kind of bribe - maybe an expensive piece of jewelry to dangle in front of their ex in a desperate attempt to lure her back. Even if this works in the short term, as soon as the new load of bills start coming due, the stress level increases to all-new levels. Under these conditions, the relationship is probably doomed.
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What you need to do is start getting your financial life under control. Rather than buying a new car - maybe it's time to sell the one you have!
It's all about making priorities in your life. You have to decide if you want to put your relationship and personal life first, or continue to be a slave to all of your bills. Of course, getting one's financial life in order is never an easy task. If you think you can't handle it by yourself, by all means, seek out some financial counseling

Get some help formulating a solid plan to start paying down you debts, and to start earning more money.
Just taking that first step toward getting your financial life under control can be a tremendous relief. You will immediately get the feeling that you are finally doing something positive to take back control of your life. When you start getting financial control, you start reducing that all-pervasive stress that is tormenting you, and which made your relationship a living hell. It's a sad fact of our modern society that, even when two people love each other, a general condition of financial stress can cripple even great relationships.

He looks like he's in pains

lol

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Donmedra:
Betting

you're not serious

noted

[quote author=benitwater post=76199252]yes,i treated myself well which also make me happy.[/quote

descartes400:
Send me your account details, not your bank account oo...your nairaland account details so that I can send you likes and shares.

Hehee lol you're too kind

benitwater:
happy Birthday to us 'my birthday mate.

wow happy birthday.
hope your day was better than mine

stephleena:
O.p, I'm looking for the line, where he said he's ashamed of being a Nigerian..

mtchwwe

lol

dulux07:
These ones go just they run their mouth on social media, gaining popularity but never influential. When the time comes to act, they will be nowhere to be found.

How many of them voted?
Those who voted, how many of them voted for young candidates like fela durotoye, sowore

you're right tho

Its my birthday nairalanders

Its my birthday nairalanders

what's going on in that first picture

more blessings

He tried for a first timer

eeeeeya

Ayobami7:
好的

meaning?

Its my birthday too so I'm celebrating with buhari

hmmm

Its my birthday too nairalanders

Its my birthday too so I'm celebrating with buhari

Its my birthday too so I'm celebrating with buhari

Smithwilliams826:
At first when I wasn't myself, I read it as WIFE AND SON OF BILLIONAIRE CUBANA BOSS CELEBRATE BIRTHDAY, FEEDS OVER 1000 CHIKENS IN FCT. Lol. But now it WIFE AND SON OF BILLIONAIRE CUBANA BOSS CELEBRATE BIRTHDAY, FEEDS OVER 1000 CHILDREN IN FCT.... I don't know if I can laugh at myself or....

loool

StrawberryGloss:
is that all you could come up with

Are you minding him

BlueAir:
u have time to reply the vain and petty thing. When some of us are losing 600k in bet9ja

wtf

belloabd1914:
Jon snow is not looking like Jon snow

they look different behind the scene

daddytime:
Wow...I can see "his" baby daddy...

Mumu bloggers.

It's called typo for a reason.

By the way OP correct your error