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tosyne2much:
[/b] Ahn ahn

Suspect33:
Me?? Fake prophecies? Bro what did you smoke??

sisisioge:
... but it gets lonely. You crave the kids. Legit sexx nko. A family gives one a sense of purpose and direction...a sense of belonging. Think about it, right as a single babe, you think twice before being too reckless because you don't wanna hurt your loved ones. That's a good check. Ever seen a mother/wife whose world is filled with loving arms and eyes court the devil? Whew! I have a fantasy to ride a powerbike from Lagos to Abuja...na because I dey single

I think I wanna get married cos I don't like being that alone biko. I wanna share my world with a good person who would help me multiply, be my friend...my peace.

Besides, I'm tired of picking my bills alone...I want someone to share it with otherwise, meself for sod it and say... marriage isn't for all of us

pp802:
Its really not mandatory!

I don't know why we Africans see marriage as a must or an achievement? They feel that a lady or a man who is not interested in marriage is not responsible or shying away from responsibilities. They believe that marriage makes you responsible and complete.

The whites don't share this idea. The ideology they believe in about life is happiness. Just do the things that would make you happy and live longer life.

I really don't believe in marriage, but because of my mum and the society pressure, I'm thinking of getting married. Like you're living your life for family and society!

At times I just ask God why I'm not a white man or an American.
The thing taya me jare

tosyne2much:
Why did you agree bro?

tosyne2much:
Bro, I don't know what's happening these days ooo.. I need prayer ooo

YelloweWest:
Pls go back and read my original post and subsequent post.

I even gave an example of my husband who does not have a degree in my field but is more knowledgeable than myself who does...

YelloweWest:
My argument is not solely based on a degree but more on education.
I can tell within a 5minute conversation an educated person from an illiterate. It's not rocket science.

YelloweWest:
Until the test of knowledge charges from examination to somethnic else, I beg to differ.

I degree holder is presumed to be educated until proven other wise.

Marshalxv:
Lol, na only coffee she drink bro.

tosyne2much:
Some guys dumb ooo bro

tosyne2much:
Eating onions while the lady is eating suya

tosyne2much:
I see the speed wey you use enter the thread baba

tosyne2much:
What is all this?

Gofwane:
God bless you for this comment. Not even death of a loved one would ever make me shed tears talkless of a cheating hoelosho

Ishilove:
Four legs good, two legs bad.
We are all equal, but some are more equal than others.

ReinaFarine:
Aww.... Thanks!

NeeKlaus:
Keyboard warrior. You are going about quoting people and forming tough, shey?

After you will open a thread and plead with us to beg Mr This and Sister That on your behalf.

This virtual life is getting into most of you girls' heads.

yuncka:
Only matrix and GTA, and he's foolin arwnd.

Dat means I shuld hav killed evryone in my village after I finished... god of war, call of duty:black orps, assasin creed, prototype, and hitman series.

majekoam:
Prec1ous:

I wasn't going to read the text because of the generalization you made in the title but i thought for the sake of objectivity let me go on.
If all men are potential wife beaters then aren't all women potentially husband beaters? it just takes the right situation.

Firstly. I have personally had situations where some friends and I, both male and female were at a lounge and a female came to join us. We got to talking and for some reason she said I bet you are the kind of guy that can lay his hands on a woman. I am a broad guy (Sports player type), so maybe she assumed because of that that i would be a wife beater, fortunately i didnt have to defend myself. My female friends their were the ones who defended me...I didnt say a word. To top it all off she started to slap me on the head (Ridiculously ironic)/ whether playful or not I told her that I dont like it and she should stop but she kept on doing it. My female friends sat watching because they knew that i dont like it as we have discussed it before and I feel if a man shouldnt do it neither should women. Once again they came to my aid and told her to stop. Only then did she stop. So why did she continue to do so when i asked her openly to stop?....There are so many double standards so if you are going to write up something you should be thorough.

"There was also a post that reads like this:
A woman hitting a man isn't cute at all
I really don't support that

All am trying to say is that hitting a woman is unacceptable
Men are physically stronger than women..So men should learn to walk away"
"
Check the tone of the different paragraphs. The first paragraph (against women beaters) is a slap on the wrist ("I DONT REALLY SUPPORT THAT" ). The second against men is a total condemnation ("HITTING A WOMAN IS UNACCEPTABLE" ). They are both Unacceptable.


Secondly My Guy, If all men are potential wife beaters then there is no need for a classification system.

Thirdly:
"- A man who loves you too much to the point of obsession and jealousy will hit you, because he wants to correct you.". I personally disagree. He will hit you because he is possessive. He sees women as an object he owns. There is no correlation between violence and love. If you're thinking about the relationship between parents and children then it differs. That is discipline because the children might not be able to understand what the parent is trying to communicate with them.

To be fair you have written many good points. There are clearly major problems in society with domestic abuse but please dont generalize. Its better you say "Characteristics of men who may become potential wife beaters". Many women who may have had a negative experience or are naive may feel all men beat their women black and blue. That is not the case. You may affect someone's destiny....
Just my opinion.