₦airaland Forum

tosyne2much:
So many kids on Nairaland. Buying a phone for a lady you're interested in for a better communication does not make you a simp like many people are saying. The way Nairaland project women is something else. Maybe it's poverty I don't really know

Back to the topic, if you can handle whatever decision she comes up with concerning your relationship proposal, go
ahead and get her the phone

Dohyn3:
Hello sir,

I know this post wasn't directed at me but I'm also a student and a writer. I would very much appreciate the opportunity to make added incentives for myself during this lockdown with my passion.

Thanks

randomShek:
I’d say you should focus on what you want choose to be, not what society wants you to be. The problem we have nowadays is that everybody wants to “belong” and live “that” life.

Life isn’t fair. The “happy” (more like fake) life you see on social media isn’t the full story. You’re you. You should be in charge of your fate and not “moving with the wind”

Stop comparing yourself to others.
Stop pressuring yourself to live up to the standards people set for you.
Stop pushing for only materialistic stuffs.
Stop caring about people’s opinion of you.
Stop living in the past.
Stop being hard on yourself.
Stop with the pessimistic thoughts

Life is too short for that. It only leads to depression and a miserable life (even with a fat account) and the sooner you lift your head and see beyond the facade of the world around you, the sooner you’d realize the limitless opportunities around you that can make you happier and make life a blessing.

All’s in the past so stop thinking, shut out all the “noise” no matter how distracting, set a goal and take a step. Even the tiniest can be very fulfilling if you set your sights right.

I hope things work out well for you ��

Zimri:
Cool!

Donvic4u:
I don't see the relevance of this question ooo

lexxxino:
Omo, i don write jamb, get admission, 2nd yr second semester break.... I chop 6 strokes for nyash...... Not painful but humiliating........ That was 2 years ago.... Im 21 now

frozen70:
Now you know

frozen70:
There is no way people in marriage will stay away from being friends with the opposite sex

Unless as a woman you are a full time house wife and doesn't have any reason to go out beyond food market

It all depends on self discipline

If a woman is happily married and the husband loves her, she wouldn't have a good thinking towards having opposite friends as to keep them and talk adult talks which normally results to and end up dating

As for men, they have an oat to cheat by default, even when he is married to the most beautiful and loyal wife. So men's case is just a different thing

They go as far as approaching a pregnant woman and assure her that he will wait when she puts to he

In this topic, the problem here are the men, they can't just stop lusting on women, ring or no ring

LaReinaa:
You know very well that when it comes to rape
Only one gender is guilty..
Have you ever heard of a female rapist before

Deluxe16:
I had called my guy to call the babe, I wasn't bold to even look at her face then, it was after school hours.... everyone had gone home.. Just as I saw her physique my heart began to race. She came to meet me in my class, she sat down... my friends were outside at the window hoping their guy would use the opportunity well. The only thing I remembered saying was Hi, Hi Hi. The girl still waited for some minutes I was just staring at her with no words coming out of my mouth. She stood up, Off the fan and the bulbs and shut the door and went. Come see laugh from the window, she ridiculed me that day. My friends started calling me I, II, iii, iv for like eternity...

roybanjo100:
very funny scene, i ask my friend to help me talk to her, i was standing few steps away from them, na so her head enter gear 4, con ask me to come n talk myself, she send my friend away, suddenly every where became black, i was sweating, my legs was vibrating, she was staring straight into my eyes, remain small for me to just start crying, i was looking on the floor shaking, i just told her, "i dont know what to say" she smiles and said we will see on monday....It was on friday, after she left, i was so happy and then was crying inside for fuvking up, our love story was so sweet after until i grew wings and broke her heart

apatheticme:
And how many doctors have you talked to before making this generalization of 'Nigerian doctors'

Why do we so much love to denigrate our own

Nigerian women, Nigerian girls, Nigerian doctors, Nigerian police, Nigerian this Nigerian that!

Are you from America The so called First world are not perfect! They've got their own shortcomings as well which ignorant folks like you are unaware of because you're too lazy to conduct research, u'll rather jump to conclusions like a frog even when you have no idea what goes on in a particular field!

Tueh!

Me I'm a doctor, I am passionate about my job, and I've been owed severally by the irresponsible government of the day, yet I give my best daily!

Even today as I type, I'm still been owed some months yet I've been to work today, I know the number of patients I've attended to today both at clinic and in the ward.

Come and walk in my shoes for a month, let's see if you will not strike!

CHoccolaTE:
A large population of men are rapists and rape apologists. that's the fact
Many guys have committed rape before but because of shame of being seen as a rape victim, the victims keep quiet.
Many, very many. Women discuss these things among themselves.

dhejykeane:
Remember your gf/wife/sister/daughter could also be a victim. See things beyond your nose

CHoccolaTE:
Stigma

Many men view rape victims as tainted or used, also, victim blaming. Men love blaming rape victims for wearing showy clothes or moving at night, being too friendly etc.

None of those things justify rape by the way

freshpreshy:
Here's mine... loll

Ijawwomaninoyo:
You didn't get the gist?
To implicate the Pastor that he is guilty and have a proof to work on since she has no proof for her blabber. They are looking for money!
Only a talented Zombie can fall for that.