It has come to my notice that nigeria don dey get in own dating site too, well it is good because all these whites will not be asking me for credit card again and i go dey date person wey i no go dey see again.
Do you know of any good Nigeria dating site, i never find one abeg i wan marry this year my marry na allow me rest?
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Enquirer: Online dating is dicey. One time I met a babe online. We chatted and exchanged lots of emails. We even shared pics. I decided to pay her a visit in her school (she was in ABSU then). It was a complete turn off. i didn't want to hurt her feelings so I gently disengaged from the relationship. Have been cautious of online dating ever since. Prefer to hook up through friends and relations.
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enitan2002: If You Are To Fall In Love With A Fellow Nairalander, Who Is It Gonna Be?
Hey Guys,
i just feel like posting this topic to you all, that if you are to choose a fellow Nairalander to fall in love with, who is it going to be.
I've been at so many threads on Nairaland, i've come across the polite and arrogant, beautiful and ugly, dark and fair, ones to just name a little.
But out of all those ladies i've met, i can't seem to point to anyone to fall head over heels with. Most of those i've had a chat with, seems to be self-centered, proud, and above feel like they are most-beautiful angel on earth.
But there're also some that are very ok, but seems to be holding back especially in giving out personal info. But i wont mention names here.
I don't know if you guys have same experience with me, and if you are to choose a romantic mate here on this forum, who is it going to be?
Response from the ladies, also welcome.
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eezor: You need a serious relationship? Are you working/empowered and ready to settle down? Then drop your contacts, details and pictures. Someone is waiting to hook you up now. This thread has been prayed over and specially annointed. You must get your husband or wife within 4 months from the date you drop your details. Try and testify.
N/B: Always indicate your genotype (if known) please.
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JeffreyJamez: Why would I want to get someone who is already hooked by all means?
If she has a boyfriend already oga move on and find your own. Women are everywhere . Get on LostRib.com to find the right ones You can find a great man who fits your description on LostRib.com. There are many working guys there looking for serious relationships. Check it out http://lostrib.com/?afmc=36v. Biko just don't go and tempt somebody's gf like that. Tah!
I could not make it on vals day because my worker call in sick the previous day.
As a sport betting agent sundays is one of our eke market days and that particular one features football titans like Arsenal-Leicester and man city- tottenham.
She was not happy about the development but have to keep calm after i recharged her phone then promised to visit her feb.22nd come rain come sun.
Our plan is, she will wait for me at AAU school gate then we lodge at a good hotel because she lives in the student hostel.
I was ready for the adventure that beautiful sunday. I have to fashy my business for that day because of love.
11a.m, i called and told her i am on my way. She was very happy and gave me every description possible. I packaged her val gift then storm the bus park.
Due to the fuel scarcity the price of transportation was inflated that i had to spend 2k from warri to ekpoma. All through the journey we spoke endlessly on the phone just to intimate her on my proximity to her school.
So finally i got to her school gate around 5.40 pm. I called and called but her phone was switched off. I had to tell a bike man to take me to any nearby hotel.
After i booked for a room of 5k per night i dailed her digit. Lo and behold, it rang. The holy problem was she did not pick even when i might have given her up to 50 missed calls.
So i had to send her an sms to meet me up at the hotel i lodged. Five minute later, i called and she finally picked...the following conversation ensued.. me: babyyy were did leave your phone? did you see my massage?
she: yes, i actually change my mind.
me: change your mind on what? what do you mean?
she: i can't come out from my hostel to meet you up because i have a class by 8am tomorrow.
me: wtf are you talking about baby? okay come to your school gate let me atleast see you if you don't want to spend the night out.
she: i really don't want to come out from my hostel . then she hang up on me.
I called again, told her the risk i took and the bridge i crossed just to see her but she choose to stay in her hostel. she hang up before i finish talking.
To embrace reality, i slugishedly walked to the bar section of the hotel. I order for two bottle of harp which cost me a thausand buss. After i finished one bottle of the beer i try calling again to atleast plead more because i love her but her phone was switched off.
I waited hoping she may change her mind but my hope was shredded. So the next morning i deleted her number and gave all the gift i bought for her to the receptionist as i checked out the hotel.
friends sorry for this long story. why did she allow me to take the trip when she plan not to see me? i could have spent the almost 20k i wasted in tp,gift,drinks and hotel to bleep one olusho here and still have enough cash to play around with. i was in love though.
You're right you were in love but you suppose know say that kind girl no want any guy wey go hook am down. You fit check for better babes on top Badoo, Facebook or LostRib.com You can find a great man who fits your description on LostRib.com. There are many working guys there looking for serious relationships. Check it out http://lostrib.com/?afmc=36v. Why you dey spend money they risk life for campus girl. Guy you sef
INYOMA: After lots of "should i or should i not post?" I have finally picked up the courage to post this! and not because i am desperate (for the Bleep boys and we must have sex fellows) or under any form of pressure (to marry asap not like i mind anyways cause i am actually ready) but because i know for myself i am not getting any younger and i really do need a male figure to share the beauty of affection, love and build a beautiful family and future with.
I am in my late twenties, work and live on the mainland part of Lagos, From Abia state, fair complexioned, petite and Gemini. I am half introvert and an extrovert. My job takes most of my time causing me to head home most often after every work day. Weekends i chill indoors and whenever i can afford the time, i hangout with friends.
I wish to meet an honest dark tall clean and well bred gentleman who is soft spoken and some what comfortable to start a family. From any part of the country/ world (You have to be willing to meet asap. I dont ghost chat) preferably the igbo region though. Be a romantic at heart and have a good sense of humour cos i can be very playful. I want a friend in you!!.
I will also like to meet some intellectual decent and success driven matured females as friends. Please reach me on 08135166211.
I am hopeful i will meet well meaning Nigerians or foreigners as the case maybe cause love knows no colour in the hope to make something beautiful.
Thank you for your time. Admins kindly help post this as you'd be doing my lonely self a huge favour to meet a future partner on this addictive forum. Please no cussing, i'm just making a positive move as i hardly go out to meet people.
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Naijasinglegirl: So I got into the second row of a danfo at the bus stop and while the bus was waiting for two more passengers, a boy and a girl came in and sat beside me. Next thing, the boy asked the driver the cost of the fare, driver said N200. The boy turned to the girl who weighed not less than 65kg and said, "Sweedy, its not N150. Let me lap you." Soon enough, 15kg of Sweedy was on my thighs and 50kg was on her boyfriend's own. The babe had balanced like a boss and was sipping coke from a straw with sunglasses wedged in her hair. She even had the guts to be chewing gum too. Only God knows where they were coming from.
I was very uncomfortable in the position they put me since it was a tight bus but I could not alight because buses heading to my direction were few. I was just hissing and hissing miserably because I didn't want to cause a scene. . The boy now asked her, "Sweedy are you okay?" She replied , "I can manage," They didn't even ask me how I am coping with 15kg of Sweedy. When the last passenger got in, a visibly angry man, he told the relationship people to adjust so he could sit comfortably. He said he couldn't understand why they were inconveniencing him who paid the complete fare. Boyfriend was like, "Chairman where I wan see space?" Then he turned to NSG the mumu and said, "Can you shift?"
That was enough to send me through the roof. "Shift to where?" I asked. "Am I not carrying Sweedy too? Have I not tried for you people?" Then an agbero who was observing came by and asked them why they could not sell their coke and use the money for their transportation.
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If the man has a stable job and has common sense. Why not ?
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gina34: How will you know that your guy or girl loves you?
I mean how you will know that your boyfriend or girlfriend is in love with you? What are the things that will make you understand that he or she loves you?
He/she has to show it. Its the little things, calling the other partner by he/she's pet name, sending text messages to check up on each other. Just find a partner you love and give it your all. You can find quality partners for marriage on LostRib.com here http://lostrib.com/?afmc=36v.
fickylady: What is normal age and unnormal age for a lady to get married?
Age is just a number so don't let it determine when or how for a lady. Its maturity that matters and ladies don't even have problems with that most of the time. It is finding a matured man ready for marriage that is the challenge. Its even worse online, apart from a few online dating groups on Facebook or the website LostRib.com that you can find men that have sense and want to marry. That's what i think. If you doubt you can even check out the LostRib.com by http://lostrib.com/?afmc=36v. Age is not the issue biko. It is love and maturity! Gbam.
Here are few classic ways to know the truth behind his love. Read on…
Changes in behaviour: Does your guy show different types of mood and behaviour towards you? Then he might not be in love with you. Notice, if your man is changing his behaviour before and after meeting you, then, it is a clear sign that he is using you. A selfish man will butter you when he needs or else would consider you nothing!
Make ex jealous: Did he have a bad past relationship? If he has shared with you then try to see whether he talks about taking revenge with his ex and make her jealous. Getting cheated or betrayed hurts the ego of a man and revenge is the best option to feel light. If he is trying to take you at places where his ex can notice the two of you, then it can show that he is trying to use you.
Arm candy: A girl can clearly make out that her man is not interested in her if he tries to treat you as his arm candy. Just to show off to friends, many men date hot chicks. If your guy tries to come extremely close to you in public places or in front of his friends then it shows that he is not really in love with you but, just using you to get popularity. If your guy is not treating you the same way when you two are alone then it is clear that you are not his love. This is a sign to know the hidden intentions of a man.
Physical love: Love is more based on physical proximity than mental. In the beginning, physical love is more stronger in the lives of a couple. But, there are many men who control themselves till the right time comes. If your guy tries to get physically close to you (with or without your consent) then he is using you for wrong intentions. Test him. Avoid letting him come close to you for few days or weeks and see his response. You can judge accordingly. http://www.jeloser.info/2016/12/is-your-man-using-you.html
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Onojasteve: A lady I met two months ego, fell deeply in love with me, and was very obsess with me, she does crazy things in the name of love, but I don't love her in return. she is not up to my standard, she uneducated, she lies, she form what she is not just to impress me. she dress funny to impress, she has damaged her body just to look fair because I like fair ladies. I am tired of her harassment, and obsessions because I don't love her. I try to talk sense into her as a friend, but she hardly learn. Please what do I do, have some one I truly admires for a wife.y our suggestions and advices is highly appreciated. No insult pls.
Oga you don enter am. Seriously though i guess it's because you aren't hooked up or married yet that is why she feels she can get you. You sef find wife to marry and end all the speculation. Try these guys, http://lostrib.com/?afmc=36v and see if you can't get a beautiful woman who does not need to bleach to look good for you.
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If you consider yourself an above-average, or even a typical guy, stick around... this is totally for you. Let's face it.
If you were getting as much of the women you want. You wouldn’t be reading this. You’re here because you haven’t gotten the girl.
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In fact, if i hadn't hit complete rock bottom, I'd probably still be terrible to this day.
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Afterwards, I went back home and spent the night combing the internet. Then 2 weeks... Then a month... 6 months went by and I had read: - 5 psychology text books - 12 "dating advice" books and watched over 400 hours of training videos on building rapport, subliminal messaging, seduction, attraction, body language, and personality typing.
I Was A MACHINE.
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So what were some of those techniques that I used to get this attraction thing working?
You might want to get a pen and a piece of paper ready for this part. Remember, these techniques will get you results instantly but I'm just barely scratching the surface here.
The first technique has to do with a girl's mouth. Yeah you totally wanna kiss that. I know this is strange but did you know that if you look at a girl's mouth while she is talking to you, that you'll subconsciously make her think about kissing you?
It's an attraction trigger.
Attraction triggers are secret techniques that bypass all of her barriers and turn her on without her knowledge. And I'm going to reveal dozens of them.
These triggers are so stealth that they actually bypass a woman's logical brain (and yes she has one) and they speak directly to her emotional brain.
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I don't think I need to warn you not to use that one irresponsibly!
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So let me start from the top:
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The Charm 101 system is completely built around two well guarded secrets in the world. They are Pre-selection and Fractionation.
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How do girls know that other girls are attracted to you just by looking at you? Well here's the beautiful thing... They don't! They are absolutely guessing... And they're pretty good at it too!!
But..
They're NOT Perfect at it!
And if you know the exact techniques... The exact techniques that I am going to reveal to you. You can make any woman think that you have a long list of hot women longing to date you. This will practically make her compete for you.
What about Fractionation?
Fractionation is the grand daddy of all attraction concepts. If the art of getting a woman was a gunfight, then fractionation would simply be bringing a nuke to that gunfight.
It is what the pros use to make a woman fall in love in as little as 15 minutes. Funnily enough, you may have actually came across or used Fractionation without knowing it.
It was discovered in the 1930's by US psychologists and has been kept secret ever since then. And for the sake of keeping it that way... I will not be revealing it here.
Guess who's also protecting this secret? The MEDIA.
Well, cat's out of the bag, you now know that what women are really attracted to is pre-selection and Fractionation. That's IT. That's all. Everything else is A LIE.
But knowing exactly what to do to use pre-selection to attract flocks of women is EVERYTHING.
And, while I'm nothing more than just an average guy...When i started using pre-selection to get women to chase me I was completely broke and just a student.[/b]
But I was getting up to ten girls chasing me at a time and battling for my attention.
So now, I've revealed some pretty controversial secrets on this page.
Secrets That, Quite Frankly, I Could Get In A Lot Of Trouble For Revealing..
• You now know that looking at a woman's mouth at the right time will make her uncontrollably daydream about sleeping with you...
• You learned that facing a woman directly when you first meet her will completely and instantly turn her off..
• You learned that just by saying one sentence you can make any woman feel excited and turned on.
• You found out that women actually don't want money, big muscles, a full head of hair, or good looks...
• You now know (and this is what would get me in a lot of trouble) that women are actually attracted to "Pre-selection" and that you can follow a few simple steps to use Pre-selection to turn on any woman you want...and you also know that Fractionation exists (If I reveal it here I will surely get into trouble.)
Now, you can take this information that i've taught you here today and it will work...
Or, you can do what many guys do and get a headstart by learning the full set of attraction triggers that most men will never know along with Preselection and Fractionation techniques by keying into the Charm 101 system.
Techniques designed to get women interested... addicted.. and competing for you the moment they see you.
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I'm ready to open up this class to a few new guys who are ready to use these techniques to attract good looking, young women.
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Then close this page now and do not continue reading. I'm not here to make the rich richer and the poor poorer.
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• How to make a girl you’ve known for years suddenly start to want you...
• How to introduce yourself to a woman in a way that instantly turns her on.
• How to control the secret “silent language” of your body to draw women to you from the moment you step into a room
• How to make a woman think you are an incredible conversationalist... Even if you have nothing in common with her...
• How to trigger a woman’s primal “bad boy” sexual response... without being a dickhead or a jerk
• How to inoculate your girlfriend against other guys. She will reject them all. It's unbelievable.
• Then I will expose you to Preselection and Fractionation and how you can use them. And much, much, more...
So there's only one thing left for you to do now. Enjoy the classes. I look forward to working with you and seeing your testimonies. Welcome to the big leagues.
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I have been single for a while due to complicated issues like I date out of pity, I have problem with commitment and I just make silly mistakes. Sometimes it best so lonely even tho I get some regular flings, friends with benefits and all but there's no girl I can actually call my own or talk to when I'm alone. Sometimes I'm forced to reach out to my friends with benefit but they warn me about not getting emotionally attached. Getting a girlfriend for me isn't that hard but the problem is I'm not in love with anybody and I don't want to hurt anyone anymore but the loneliness sometimes is overwhelming...
Hey, just to help there is a website for this, you know looking for serious people to have a relationship with. Have you checked LostRib.com? Here's their link http://lostrib.com.ng/
Na the guy Bleep up. See the cheap babe im carry go abroad. Why e no go pain am after she run comot. Sure say na for badoo or facebook im meet her. You no fit find this kind cheap babe for LostRib.com.
rittyray: Have dating this guy for two years now We get alone very well but suddenly his attitude has change I know very that his cheating on me but am not judging him... He dsnt pick my calls again and even if he happens to pick it we don't talk as we used to Am so addicted to him Even wen I try to get over him or stop calling him I just can't Plssss wad shuld I do
No insults pls Guys help me
Aunty go to somewhere like LostRib.com and help yourself. No man is irreplaceable. Find a better man that has sense sef
connectpoint: Yes, yes, yes. I’ve heard it a million times over and said so myself over ten billion times, there are no responsible peeps. We get so fixated on our ideologies and think the problem is people. With age, I've come to realize I play a part in any problem I find myself, however innocent I am. Now, let me drive the issue closer so it won't appear like I’m writing in Chinese...I want to marry, i want to date, no responsible partner... But we forget:
1. Terrible Life Routine
Most times we're stuck on our routine, we want to be the first to get to work, we are rushing home like the microwave would explode if we don't get to our homes in ten minutes, everything is chaotic, rush, rush and rush. We want to board bus, we fight, we queue to buy fuel we fight...Calm down the nerves, it's highly probable your future partner's walking along your path...I mean they say if life gives you lime, make lemonades, hence my hypothesis, that your future partner is always along your path in life. Take it or leave it..so calm down, ladies act like ladies...Guys relax...
2. Some routines keep people in self-induced bondage. This is it, We only see when you're going or returning from church, after this we don't see your face. You close from work and what happens, you're inside locked up like you're paid to be hidden. Who would see your face? No wait, we'll ship you a partner from Olx...my bad... Konga.. Make time to be available, relax, love and enjoy life and take each day as a process and that special person is around the corner. Stressing yourself would only make you age quicker. WHY ? It takes over 100,000muscles to frown, but just a few to smile. Perhaps less than 50...and when you frown daily, that your Wo-wo face before becomes more wo-wo..
3. Be Open
Learn to get rid of the stereotypes, that broke guy will have cash tomorrow or may, to be modest, that assumingly wo-wo babe may get some make over tomorrow and she’ll be like “ntoin”, look at what you’re missing. Everyone has an inner layer, and it’s best to interact with the inner person before you shut people out. Getting a partner may depend on how badly you want it, and if you keep locking up, having stiffened mindset and prejudices about people, then wait, wait for the next 100 years, maybe an Holy Holy partner would come.
4. Be Available.
Everywhere is now a platform, put on a good appearance, adorn yourself with splendid character and you would magnet ( attract is too soft) a troop of “potentials” you can select from, every where’s a platform, social media, the bus, your work place, social venues. In fact, everywhere your feet step on, take dominance without being too loud, and watch yourself take the center of attraction. It’s not easy but the reward is huge.
5. Character
If you think life is a copy-cat of Nollywood, and you can shut down every guy like you’re his boss, don’t worry you’re probably 19, when you hit 41, you would have learnt some crucial life lessons. Be modest, don’t take up your sword for almost everything. Yes, poverty has badly conditioned the mindsets of many people so everything is a WAR, and they have their sword strapped prepared in their sheaths… Un-shealth your swords, throw away the sheaths, get off your high horse, everyone makes mistake, as the old ones they’ll tell you…Every partner has a few annoying habits, and the earlier you begin to look away from somethings, the closer you re to your objective….
I felt the need to type these few points quickly due to the pressing demands of society that has seen a battle between both sexes, bottom-line guys and ladies, be flexible, be open, be optimistic, if there are single ladies and guys, then we need more healthy relationships, not the ones to be endured but the one that can be used as a role model.. I’m clumsy and un-intelligent about relationship but I hope I’ve been able to pass one or two messages across.
My two cents...My First Real Post since i heard the word Nairaland..
C'mon Peeps add some points
Word! Girls aren't patient nowadays and guys still think at 35 there is time for balling. Better look at the guys who have got their life together and babes who have made money and are now looking for husband on Facebook ,LostRib.com or even Nairaland here sef. To be forewarned is to be 4 armed. Take heed!
blizzcelebTv: Dear God, frustrate all single guys into marriage this year – Single girl cries out (video)
Not getting married at the appropriate time can be very frustrating for both men and women. But in Nigeria, women feel the brunt more. This is probably what led this lady to offer a heartfelt prayer to God regarding her single status. She asks God to please frustrate all single men into finding a wife this year.
Instead of God frustrate God frustrate is it not God show me my own husband you should be praying? Tah! At least on the internet he can link you with your future hubby no matter where he is even if its Nairaland, Facebook,LostRib.com or all those other sites. girl redirect your prayer joh!
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Nigerian Dating Sites by michaelolushola: 3:51pm On Aug 03, 2017 
