Angela62:
I am married for about a decade now, and I am enjoying my marriage. Honestly, if the worse happens and I became a widow, I will not marry any other man, I will train my kids alone. That is how much I love my husband and cherish my marriage. Since childhood, I have always been close to my grandmother, I grew up with her since my mum died when I was a child. I learned a lot from her. I can still remember the advice she gave to me when I wanted to marry my husband, and I will tell you exactly that.

1. Look at the qualities and characters of the man you want to marry. Most ''shine shine'' men, as my grandma will put it are not the real men. `Just as sugar is sweet but unhealthy, lots of men are like that. That bricklayer that sends his mum money in the village every month, that doesn't go to a club, doesn't smoke and buy expensive designers, he might not even give you butterflies, those are the real men. Ten years from now when you are pregnant with your third child, his masculinity will be like an umbrella to protect, provide and be the best father for your kids.

But you see those ones that are doing fine boys only, care more about the phone they use and the girl they sleep with this weekend than their future, those you must avoid. They may be attractive now, but when the difficulties of marriage come especially financially, then you realize that truly, internal beauty (characters and virtues) is what keeps marriage. So do not sacrifice the future due to your youthful exuberance.

2. Look at his patterns, those are the secrets to his future and of course, your future. Does he wakes up and go to work every day? What is the relationship he has with his family? How does he handle stress? is he hardworking? Do people around him respect him? Where does he go after work? What is your assessment of his friends? `What are his goals? etc. You might be clouded with feelings with this assessment especially when you are in love, so you might ask people you trust for advice. I saw this thread some few years ago by pansophist, where he wrote about qualities you should look for in a man for marriage, I implore you to check it out. The guy is on point. As I read through it, I kept nodding my head in affirmation because my husband easily covered all these qualities.

https://www.nairaland.com/6257463/part-two-traits-woman-should

Also when I first met my husband, I wasn't that interested. He appears so ordinary (if you know what I mean), but as I scratch further, the depth of his manliness opens up. I was not attracted at first, but everything fell into place, and I was glad I didn't just brush him away. But I couldn't see his qualities quickly, it was my grandma that pointed it all out. So you should really have someone older, that have walked the talk of marriage, to advise and guide you.

3. Support him. Men are at their best when their wive are supportive. For example, my husband never asks me about my income, but every of my penny goes to my household. The idea that a man has to carry all the financial responsibilities is a self-defeating adventure. Such a woman punishes herself due to her short-sightedness and selfishness by reducing her worth in his eyes, making her easily replaceable.

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You are just on point and this 3rd point of yours nailed it all. Imagine somebody's telling you to your face, that your money is ours and my money is mine and also acting same??

Agreed with u100%

Mooh247:



Very sensible young woman

Nobody says Men shouldn't take care and show love to women

But if I am contributing 1000 to you, you should also have 500 on your own... We all hustle hard for this money for someone to start feeling entitled because of some hairy kpekus


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Thanks for you feedback on tbis

bigx:
Advice would require the exact condition of the particular car you want to buy as well as your maintenance culture.

Do you do preventive maintenance?
Do you use the right parts and fluids (no shortcuts)
Do you repair (and not bypass)


Etc etc.

I'm planning to buy one soonest and not for free pls.

weyreypey:



Are you getting the car for free?

Guys,
Please, your advise is needed on Peugeot 407. I've made several mistake on cats in t he past and not ready for any right now.

Your opinions are needed on the durability, efficiency, the electrical and mechanical advantages or otherwise on this type of car.

Note: I intend use same car for Uber.

I'm waiting guys.

Thanks in anticipations

Good evening guys,
Got an invite from Onecommunity this evening, but because am far away from Abuja right now, would want to know more about this guys if they're genuine or not.

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sodiqapril:
Hey guys, can anyone advice me on what do..I'm always hungry even after eating a heavy meal. Like today for example, I ate five wraps of fufu and two hours later I was already feeling hungry. And it's really affecting me, I'm not greedy buy no matter what I eat it digests so fast that my stomach starts rumbling . Please help me.

My guy, since you claim to love her and she`s remorseful take her back. She might just be a better wife for you. To err is human, to forgive is divine

Gidilagoon:
Pls house, I don’t know if am being stupid or not man enough but I just have to share this with you guys just for an advice.. it might be long as I really want to express myself pls.

I have been dating this girl going to 2years now and we are planning to settle down probably next year. I have known this girl for a very long time because we have dated before when I just got admitted to university but we ended after short period.

So After few years that we’av graduated, we met again and fortunately we were both still single ,so we decided to start dating again and this time we are more serious and planning for future, I realized she must have dated many guys when I left her because it was a long time ago, so I decided to change her phone number just to avoid any connection with any guy from her past since am planning my future with her now, but after awhile I noticed some of these guys still chat her on FB and Instagram and she replies, and one even sent her money and I was totally mad at her but later we resolved it.

So back to the main issue that just came up recently . I don’t know what took me to her Facebook profile and I decided to go through her messages, I noticed one of the guy she claimed to be her uncle was a man friend she has known from the past, this guy Is married with 2kids living in US. I noticed my girl sent her nude to him and they were having sex chat, so I acted like I didn’t see anything and I invited her to my house the next day and tell her what I saw, then she started crying, immediately I gave her 3 hot slap and asked her to leave my apartment but she wouldn’t leave but kept crying on the floor and said she’s ready to swear with death if such ever happened again, that she was just stupid.

Well I dragged her out of my house, and since then all her family from different places have been calling me pleading on her behalf except her Mom and Dad which she can’t tell about it. I noticed she has changed her phone number and delete her Facebook account after what happened, but I told her it’s already late when her aunty called me...

Honestly I still love her, because she’s the only girl I ever fell for but won’t I look stupid if I accept all the pleading and continue with her? And can such girl make a good wife? She’s too vulnerable, too emotional and she has dated a lot of guys in the past, so it scares the hell out of me to settle down with her, so that man no go die untimely death..

Her aunty said she wants to come and meet me this weekend but I told her I will get back to her. Do you think I should let her come?

Pls mature men in the house don’t abuse me, just advice your guy abeg.

What planet are you from?

agarawu23:
He shouldn't be happy yet until he is finally in the game.


Marriage is a scam

prospero5:
why do people pride themselves as visioners of evil events? we don't care if you said it before it happened. keep the evil prophecy to your clansmen. #hisses

Man, watch your what you write about men of God, be warned

Abjpikin:
Who will APC field as their new Governorship candidate? Cuz d Igalas will not want a non Igala to become Governor....

The Igalas are not the owner of the state, so other tribes can and will be the new governor of Kogi state cum December 5th 2015 by God's grace

Abjpikin:
Who will APC field as their new Governorship candidate? Cuz d Igalas will not want a non Igala to become Governor....

The Igalas are not the owner of the state, so other tribes can and will be the new governor of Kogi state cum December 5th 2015

tonytony208:


He also stole 11 billion naira from kogi state coffer.

This was just an allegation, please stop believing false allegations

greatiyk4u:
He really did all these?

He would have done much more thas this if he had lived 2 enjoy the fruit of his labour (election victory).....kogi people truly miss a change agent

Now I understand why he is loved by all

My brother, he was then awarded as the best governor in Nigeria

omeiza1979:
[11/21, 5:09 PM] ‪+234 803 680 6754‬: Ikuehi pu (7 )APC 78 PDP 121 L 15 pu ( APC 49PDP 82 L 25 pu (9 )APC 39 PDP 62 L 17
[11/21, 5:10 PM] ‪+234 803 680 6754‬: My polling unit result code 14 opposite aduvi house ohueta IHIMA.
APC 37 PDP 65 LP 105
[11/21, 5:11 PM] ‪+234 803 680 6754‬: unit ayeteju kajola ward.
Apc: 117
PDP: 138
Lp:13
Ppa:6.kaba bunu
[11/21, 5:19 PM] Yasir: KogiDecides‬: Results trickling in from polling units across the state
Lokoja LGA_Ward A, SUBEB/SPEB POLLING UNIT :
APC =193
PDP =129
Ankpa LGA, Ojoku Ward, Bangele unit 1:
PDP= 346
APC= 40
Mopamuro LGA, Ward 08 Unit 1:
APC = 28
PDP =118
Mopamuro LGA, Ward 08 Unit 2:
APC = 23
PDP = 75.
Mopamuro LGA, Ward 08 Unit 3:
APC = 27
PDP = 59
Ogori-Magongo LGA, Aiyeromi ward unit 2:
PDP = 71
APC = 33
PPA = 1
Ogori-Magongo LGA, Okibo unit 1:
PDP = 57
APC = 9
Ogori-Magongo LGA, Okibo Unit 2:
PDP = 56
APC = 13
Ogori-Magongo LGA, Okesi ward, unit 001;
PDP = 118
APC = 13
PPA = 2
Kabba/Bunu LGA, Odolu Ward, St Barnabas Unit:
APC - 206;
PDP - 95
[11/21, 5:19 PM] Yasir: St. Martins Primary School, Polling Unit 002, Lokoja Township: PDP 101 - APC 162

#KogiDecides
[11/21, 5:20 PM] Yasir: Kogi Decide!!! Unit04 Ward8, Mopa/amuro LGA
PDP****128 APC****26 # KogiDecides
KOGI GUBER UPDATE: Ogbakpedo Polling Unit,
Ochadamu Ward: APC 80 - PDP 78.
KOGI GUBER UPDATE: CSS Ochadamu Polling
Unit, Olofu - Ochadamu: APC 149 - PDP 164

L
N Uhuodo PU15
APC=31
PDP=27
LP=21
[11/21, 5:20 PM] Yasir: #KogiDecides:
Ogori-Mangogo, Aiyeromi ward/ unit 2:
PDP -71
APC -33
PPA -1

Okibo unit 1:
PDP-57
APC -9

Unit 2:
PDP -56
APC -13
[11/21, 5:23 PM] Yasir: Aiyeromi ward unit 2, PDP 71 APC 33 PPA 11
: #KogiDecides:

Aiyeromi ward unit 2,

PDP 71
APC 33
PPA 1

Okibo unit 1,
PDP57
APC 9

Unit 2
PDP 56
APC 13.

All in ogori magongo
Kaba-Bunu Aro: Mopamuro Ward 08 Unit 1-APC 28, PDP 118. Unit 2-APC 23, PDP 75. Unit 3- APC 27, PDP 59.

Kogi Decide Latest Score :
Lokoja LGA_Ward A.
SUBEB/SPEB POLLING UNIT :
APC =193
PDP =129
as declared by INEC. Kaba-Bunu Aro: Okesi ward, Ogori-Mgongo unit 001, PDP 118 APC 13 PPA 2

Guy, it seems it's only PDP leading PU's are only places you àre reporting. Well done all the same

anigbajumo:
so na yer hometown, I hope APC remember you ooo..last time I was going to Obajana yer main road their was damn worst....

Man! I don't need any recognition/rememberance from APC lead government, I as much as good governance come to play, am settled 'cos by God's grace, I can fend for myself. As per the road enroute obajana/kabbà road, that will be a big time test for the new government. Wish and pray for the best government to come and government govern us, kogites. AMEN

kahal29:
Ekinrin Ade Ward, ijumu:

APC 1791
PDP 307

Ankpa Ojoku ward Bangele unit 1:

PDP 346, APC 40

APC all the way @ my home town @ #ekinrinaddefordeputygovernor#

kahal29:
Ekinrin Ade Ward, ijumu:

APC 1791
PDP 307

Ankpa Ojoku ward Bangele unit 1:

PDP 346, APC 40

Home town@ Ekinrin Adde. APC all d way.

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