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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 8:11pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Divoc19:Not entirely true at all. A marriage is an agreement between a man and woman, like a sort of business. For a business to thrive, all partners simply need to be in agreement and compromise when necessary. No one partner has to continually cave in to the others for any set reason except that agreed upon. If you ask me, mutual respect wins hands down over submission any day. 4 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by rickleye: 8:13pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Nothin. My younger self would not believe what my older self would have to say anyways. 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Stubborn82: 8:13pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Never marry from a family where there is no love among them. Don't marry from the family that carry traditions for head like punk Don't marry from entitled family Don't end up with a partner who is lazy. Limit your friendship Don't go into marriage full of expectations if you don't want to be disappointed. Dont stop learning. 11 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by MrCover: 8:13pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Put Your Trust In God |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Swissgoldenpro(m): 8:13pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
I've learnt so much 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 8:14pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
rickleye:ROFLMAO You said it ! 2 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Munzy14(m): 8:14pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Smh...Somebody dished out advise, una want change am for him...Which one is nwiiiiii He stated guidelines married women should observe...Especially the part a woman shouldn't get involved in convo...If not invited...And the food aspect..I mean our mothers understand these things perfectly. But we are in a woke generation sha God help us. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Idaytesj29(m): 8:15pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
bukatyne: Bukatyne You are welcome to this discussion. Awaiting your intelligent contribution as usual. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Divoc19(f): 8:17pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
But you know our reality. You are only talking about what is suppose to be. And I am talking about our reality and countless sacrifices people have made for marriage sake Kobojunkie: |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Mariangeles(f): 8:18pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Munzy14: I nukwa there's nothing Christian about marriage? |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by franchasofficia: 8:20pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl:Most times maturity comes with life experiences and exposure, and such experiences can mostly be gained with time (age). So age most times matters. The younger a girl is, the more she chases after frivolous qualities of men like height, body build, and other crazy qualities. But as she grows and encounter life and get more exposed, she starts to realize that life is beyond those crazy girlie fantasies she built her dream man on. 3 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Mariangeles(f): 8:20pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Munzy14: He seems more like a commander-in-chief than a husband. Ebere m e mere nwunye ya. 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Ay04z(m): 8:21pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Basics007:word |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 8:22pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Divoc19:Reality is that people choose what they allow or do not allow. No one can force submission on another. You ether allow it or you don't. And if you realize that a partner is suddenly leaning towards it, you still have right to chose to stay or run for dear life. I don't believe in making silly sacrifices for the sake of marriage. Divorce is not a sin so I chose to see it as an exit plan provided by the Almighty Himself from the foolishness of our decisions in marriage. 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by God2man2again(m): 8:23pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Let God be at the center of it all. That's all. It is only God that will determine where it will end. Forget about the handsomeness, forget about the beauty, forget about the body, forget about the degree or certificate, forget about the deceitfulness of money. Focus on God. Please, God, give us more Christian home in Jesus name I pray Amen. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Idaytesj29(m): 8:24pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
toobusy: Be careful before some overzealous dirty minded people will accuse you of wanting do something nasty with a married woman. I have been there before. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 8:25pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Mariangeles:That is what Jesus Christ Himself, the Christ in the word Christian told you over 2000 years ago when He said your marriage is of this world(unholy) and not of the Kingdom of God(Christian). So this fight you have here isn't against me but against Christ Himself.. 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Vintiana: 8:25pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Babygirl, don’t what you see on social media about men been scum get into your head. There’s a handsome with a good heart out there for you as long as you are true to your. #marriage isn’t that bad and all men are not scum# 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Kobojunkie: 8:26pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
God2man2again:There is no such a thing as a Christian home either - Matthew 10 vs 34 - 38 |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:28pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
franchasofficia: It would interest you to know that the mature women in your use of context display their fair share of youthful exuberance. Well, I can only speak for myself, though. I am not 27 yet, but I am nowhere near immature or whatever you define under 27-year-olds to be. But then, I get your context. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Liamz007(m): 8:29pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
JovialJune:LMAO ����� |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by mico4real(m): 8:29pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Angela62:[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] You are just on point and this 3rd point of yours nailed it all. Imagine somebody's telling you to your face, that your money is ours and my money is mine and also acting same?? |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 8:30pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
rickleye: Advise anyway. 1 Like |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by joshuaidibia(m): 8:33pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
I'll tell my younger self to write jamb in 2009 and get admitted into Delsu geology and pay a rent at Peace Park hostel, River Road. That's where he'll find the most beautiful, smart and loving girl that he'll one day marry. 4 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by GUNITGuy: 8:35pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Nigerians like to preach Sha ....hope they practice all this things all I hear here is how perfect my husband is How good my wife is They said what advice would you.give your younger self what have u learnt in marriage about marital relationship with a man or a woman |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Munzy14(m): 8:35pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Acidosis:your curiousity...sha.. 1 Like
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Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Pimine: 8:37pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
ahnie:Aswearugaaad Lol. I'm tired of that dude or gal. Mehn I don't even know Well, for me, a month ago I woulda said I'm not gon' get married. I understand female nature and know that marriage is not a bed of roses. I know we say there are no unicorns and all, but I met one. A very good Christian girl. We got very close but it was never sexual - Only a hint that this would lead to marriage or not. She was a virgin and had never been in any relationship, and she was roughly my age. Well, I wasn't ready and now she's married. Ever since, I see what our girls are up to in real life, on instagram, and jumping on every immoral and satanic challenges on tiktok, and I think "P would never do this." These girls are not marriage material. I've dated quite a few and I'd never marry any of them. But recently, I've started to get close to God again and I realized I have been limiting Him. I believe I shouldn't cancel the idea of marriage simply because it seems there are no worthy girls out there. I know God will send me another unicorn. This time I'll be ready cos He's been preparing me. I trust Him. So I'm a young guy who's on his purpose and no longer scared of getting married. I dunno if this counts as advice. But it might help someone out there. 2 Likes |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by kakaG: 8:37pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
If possible marry someone from same tribe. Don't marry anyone you're very much older than. Say up to ten or eleven years. Don't allow your mother inlaw anywhere close to you home. If you have to, send her off within a week. You'll thank me later Don't complain about your wife's short comings in her mother's presence. It make her do extra curriculum Waka Waka for ya mata. Latsly, don't believe in love . Love na scam |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by jaxxy(m): 8:39pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Respect ur man, Love ur wife. Have sense Don't stop improving on urself. Don't loose urself in marriage. Have goals in marriage. Work on ur marriage. Work on urself. Marriage is a journey not the end of the journey. Marry the person who has/possess ur greatest values. Support each other. Know how to resolve major issues/Conflicts btwn urselves when dating so know how to handle them when married or else u will call 3rd parties tire. Cook Good food keep the home clean. Love ur inlaws the best u can. |
Re: What Marriage Advice Would You Give Your Younger Self? by Munzy14(m): 8:40pm On Jun 06, 2022 |
Mariangeles:Commander-in-chief... finish him..lmao He is dishing advise na..UNFILTERED.. 1 Like |
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