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merahki:
This is untrue
If you are comfortable being a hermit, and have no underlying mental issues, why change your winning formula/make up?
Do not judge another person’s lifestyle, live yours

scify364:
Please call thanks

scify364:
Still available, Free installation and guide for Lagos residence.

Damonche4u:
i was selling for 40naira (bonanza)last two years but now it’s 50 naira

kapsome84:
I need scrap panels to buy...contact me on my WhatsApp 08064355926

mobolaji234:
So the next thing I'm doing next is the construction of a well.
There's a stream down the land but i feel it won't be suitable for the birds. So i feel digging a well will be the best as it will be more hygienic than clean than the stream water.
Or is there a way i can treat the stream water to make it suitable for the birds?
I need your contributions

webcool:
*Urgent Request*
Client need Cavendish Banana in large quantities(1400mt monthly) at Ex-Farmgate and harvest ourselves to preserve the longevity of the banana at plantation. Client need photos and videos of the plantation and packing area etc will bring our trucks and load. Mode of payment cash and carry. Locations either Delta, Edo, Akwa-Ibom, South West etc.
If you have in large quantities buzz me.
+2348060374414

Farmer's only should buzz me or you close to farmers

Thanks

Damonche4u:
Selling

Chukslar:
A company needs bulk Plantain in steady supply.

Location: Imo state
Quantity: 1-10 tons Monthly.

Contact: chukslar@yahoo.com
Phone: 08038084197

Send in your quote with price.

Bulk Plantain Supplier needed urgently.

Bridget95:
So we should accept the words of an obsessed drunk? We have no feud with the SS and you can't create one.

gidgiddy:
I dont care if Uche Mefor said he was going to cook all the fried Rice in Africa for him. Asari Dokubo should stop listening to internet rumour

Dolphin01:
Good evening the Lady with a good heart.
We are designed to be social beings. Though we have exceptions. And as a human being here on earth you can't do without your fellow humans.
In dealing with people, you will come across the good ,the bad and the ugly. While for relationship aspect ,kissing of frogs before meeting one's prince charming/adorable queen is a normal thing.
But will this stop one from associating with his fellow humans? No of course.
There is always a principle behind every thing/system that works .This also applies to us as human beings
One of the Principles of Social Interaction is Love. Why do I say so,people must hurt you. Your family members are not exempted. But with love in place,you will overlook the hurts.
Another Principle is Being Friendly. That is having a likeable personality.
In this your case,how can you overcome this challenge? After all,every challenge is meant to be overcome.
If you attend a church, why not join a service unit,for example the ushering unit. This is an area where you can develop your interpersonal skill. Remember what I said earlier on. You must be hurt,but your principle of love will make you over look hurts.
If you are a professional, you can be active in your professional association. This will greatly increase your interpersonal skills.
Remember the Principle of being Friendly,with that principle imbibed ,saying hello to folks in your neighborhood and visitors to your house won't be an issue.
That you greet someone hi doesn't mean you guys are friends, but is an attribute of a person with friendly personality.
You are a lady with a good heart,so show it to the world.

generationz:
And this is one of the reasons a lot of people are commuting suicide
They want to conform to the expectations of society on how to act to prove they are confident and happy.

henmaris:
My dear, I am exactly like u, and now that I'm married, I sometimes have issues with hubby because he is a peoples person. We'll get invited and I will not want to go because I don't want to meet anybody. When hubby even succeed in convincing me to come along, I want us to return almost as soon as we get there. Worst part is I'll exchange no with people because they ask but when they are calling me, I feel like they are irritating, sometimes I don't pick and I never call back. At work, I am just in my room. I don't go to the staff room at lunch because I don't want to meet people. I can go on and on but what I know is that to me, I need my space every time. My only interesting person whom I don't get bored chatting with is my husband. It's not the best way of life but interestingly I'm enjoying my life this way. Maybe it's just our own way of life. Atleast we are not hurting anyone are we?
Don't worry my dear, if u can change then fine but if u cant, no worries, U are good the way you are. We are all unique.

PuZZyNegro:
I have the same personality. I lived in school hostels during my university days but cannot tell the names of my roommates.

I was forced to relate with my roommates in year 1 and the result afterwards made me cherish my isolation lifestyle and I carried that on until I graduated. Even when I went to off campus in my final year, same thing.

Where I am living presently, outside the landlord and his wife and my immediate neighbors (elderly people), I don't greet or talk to anyone.

About the fear of how to cope in a team working environment, that might be an issue because people will hate you for keeping to yourself at work which can lead to your co-workers conspiring against you which may eventually lead to your sack (I'm not wishing you bad, just typing from experience).

The first teaching job I took pre-NYSC, the teachers conspired against me with several allegations ranging from inability to control the class, to the students not understanding me,etc. I was sacked after the first term.

Guess what? I am doing very well today as a Freelancer that I can employ the principal of that school and pay him.


My opinion - it's a behavioral disorder. Sadly you may not be able to come out of it completely as your happiness will be jeopardize if you force it.

My suggestion - find a job that does not require physical contact with people.

scify364:
How about you want just the cylinder or the gas burner. I am at your service...

Maverickking1:
Even i struggle with it from time to time. Being an introvert no easy at all

Maverickking1:
Even i struggle with it from time to time. Being an introvert no easy at all