₦airaland Forum

darkelf:
As in, its a bewildering mentality. They'd rather poison their source of sustenance than see him/her suceed

LadyHeaven:
Attributes of a petty man, if he can't keep up he resorts to cheap body shaming, slut shaming, Oga stop using big words you know nothing about, calling me bitter and vile, how nah? What in my words called for that? Las Las its also a woman that would marry a disrespectful, filth like you. Patrick Obahiagbon wannabe

Shelloween:
Igbo Amaka.... Buhari Ajoka

LadyHeaven:
Oga how did i suppress her opinion? She said hers, i disagreed and stated mine, she explained her reasons in her subsequent comment, so how was it suppressing? In your bid to sound intelligent you have proved yourself senseless.

Mcy56:
Just imagine! We live in a wicked world where someone so close to you and you relied on could be your arch enemy unknowingly to you.
Envy and jealousy is common these days, some people'll just be beefing you unnecessarily. Funniest thing is that some may even be better off or richer than you.
I'm glad you can see my parental duties' angle.

Fisher007:
I use to think Europeans and westerners are heartless. But Nigerians have no heart.

Since the day I noticed this. I became extremely careful.

ChiefVolt007:
My deepest condolence goes to the family of the deceased. May GOD's will be done..

As regards to friendship, we all can't say that there's not just one human in our lives that seem worthy to be really close with. But as time goes bye we slowly find that friendship just like every other thing in life, has its good side and it's bad side.
As a person, I think that everyone in the world is important so I don't even bring sentiment and segregation into any form of association or business relationship.

A lot of folks have become better persons just because of the people that came into their lives as friends.. Just as a lot other folk have gone 6 feet cos of individuals that they also called friends.

Bottom line is to CHOOSE FRIENDS WISELY (if you must have)

But if you choose not to, stick with your resolution religiously.

janejive:
Is it not better for them to enjoy their friends wealth than to kill him, he paid for their stay in the hotel plus refreshments but they still had the heart to kill him. What a wicked world. Everyone be careful out their don't leave your drink opened and unattended to go pee, carry it drink with you to the toilet oooo, guys are not smiling.

Cinderallagirl:
what are you saying didn't they come together, didn't they enter the pool together, they saw the the guy drowning and didn't do anything, they were three for Christ sake and they let him died it not a natural disaster it plain murder, even if the victim didn't tell them he doesn't know how to swim they could have shouted for help but no they didn't they also did not help, they might have just drown him because they murder him plain and simple, if by some snowball chance in Hell they are able to get out of this, the victim family can sue them for wrongful death

Mcy56:
Juvenile delinquency! Wouldn't the wealth of his parents had rubbed off on them should they allow him live?
Parents needs to step up their guardian duties by teaching their children about life......that's if they themselves are well informed.
RIP young one. May your soul find peace with your Maker.

Smalliegirl:
This is just sad. As a mother I cried reading this the first time, imagining what his poor parents now have to deal with. The grief, pain, endless tears...smh

On a side note: I couldnt help but notice a flaw in these kids upbringing..and by extention a clear example of the quality of young people we as parents have raised and sre raising...

I shuddered to think how 17/18 year olds would knowingly allow their own classmate drown, ontop of that, steal his phone and money and then walk away like they did nothing...smh!

Who is to blame here? Personally, I put a larger percentage on mothers. So many work and run businesses from early morning 4am (those who leave for work) only to return home so late kids are in bed snoring away...So many mothers, leave their kids as little as 3 months with strangers, chasing all manner of high end jobs with endless meetings and overseas travels, all to the detriment of their kids. Right in their homes, kids getting molested and abused in various ways.

I have always been of the opinion that: if you start raising a family as a woman, start up a business close to home if at all you must work, so you can adequately cater and raise your children, see to their mental & emotional well being.

And in cases you feel your career is more important, please do not birth kids you wouldnt raise as most Nigerian men arent cut out by default to be house husbands or nurturers of kids.

I am also not oblivious to cases where even when mom stays at home kids still go south o, thats a discussion for another time.

Wheew! This wasnt intended to be long. My apologizes if you read till the end.

Rest in peace to Emnanuel Balogun

LadyHeaven:
This is a very very very flawed reasoning, that its because the mothers MAY have been working class that their sons grew up to be wicked and heartless? From the story the 3 evil boys are not well to do so there is a higher possibility that their parents aren't rich & probably their mothers are stay at homes or petty traders, those boys are collectively terrible beings, NO one made them that way instead they allowed themselves to be influenced by material things of the world that they where fine with their friend drowning rather than watching him succeed more. Have you ever wondered why children of so called pastors are mostly nasty?

hometruth:
Dont have the words to express my pain. And the world has gone so deadly. How do teenagers have the heart to stand by someone struggle to death. That thing weak me

Lovelyn451:
This is why rich people make friends with fellow rich people cos of the mentality, but he's too young to understand...his friends are obviously from a poor background, he keeps spending on them thinking he's helping his friends not knowing he's only increasing the jealousy in them...

TreasureJunky:
That hotel should also be closed down. How can someone die in your pool, you didn't report to police , you didn't hold the friends responsible, you didn't report to the school management of the incident, you didn't do nothing.. That hotel is part of the suspects,, they aided those evil boys... They should be arrested

sisisioge:


Back off!

sisisioge:
Hian! Won de! Awon stalkers!

sisisioge:
Yes, already an old tenant in the new place now . Thanks.

BdorianGray:
In d middlespot I guess

Jodha:
Totally yhur biz bro....did yhu ask for our opinion or advice before yhu whip her?

Harddiskng:
You couldn’t have said it better. I deal with people at arm’s length.

When people were hailing the Lord Jesus for his many miracles, even Jesus didn’t entrust himself to them. So who am I.

Make small change and raise above people around you and their hate level would be insurmountable. Death would stare at you in the face if you don’t disconnect from these people. This is the reality of human beings, make your bread and eat it quietly. So sad

BdorianGray:
There are hidden enemies everywhere..even amongst ones household.. Vet that trust you currently hold for anyone or anyone holds for you..

Don't even be too proud to trust yourself either..
Only God can be fully trusted...
Life is a shrouded in profound mystery..
God bless the soul of the disincarnated.

Godben:
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