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Diamond098454:
My dad told me to introduce my boyfriend to him, I told him am not in a relationship

He said since i don't have one that he has someone for me that i should get ready to meet the young man and his family.

I was surprised

So how did meeting him go?

tnerro1:
I once wooed a girl I liked in secondary school for my friend because I just couldn’t find the confidence to tell her about my own feelings, but I felt confident in telling her how my friend felt about her. She was one of the big girls it school and I felt I didn’t have the means to hold her, while my friend had a car he could use then and some money.She ended up dating the guy and I hated myself whenever we hung out together or saw them together.years down the line, she told me it was me she wanted and since I was more interested in handling her to my friend, she felt she wasn’t good enough for me. Still didn’t tell her i wanted her but was too afraid to say it.

Intriguing
Thanks for sharing.

Double0h7:
So incels could practice their English on her? This thread is an example of why nairaland could never return to its glory when people logged on to laugh and have meaningful discussions. BAN have taken over.

We can make Nairaland civil again by ensuring we have meaningful discussions irrespective of the trolls. I have blocked them already, which I believe would stop them from commenting on my thread.
Thank you.

Samantha125:
I'll only share once you block these trolls targeting women on your thread.

I am so sorry, I had a very busy day at work yesterday and couldn't log in to check the thread. I have blocked them already. I believe blocking them stops them from commenting on my threads, right?

So you can share now.
Thanks.

Samantha125:
I have been wooed on behalf of someone else on two occasions and also wooed on behalf of others on two occasions as well.

Please share, it's what will make the thread interesting, and others to learn. Thanks.

Silentgroper:
For a guy


YES..

Twice...

Please share, it's what will make the thread interesting, and others to learn. Thanks

chatinent:
Yes.

In 2012. But it's a long time..

Okay, please share.
It's what will make the thread interesting.

Having read different write ups about ladies who were wooed either by their friends or family on behalf of someone else. I thought to create a topic to hear from them.
Ladies, especially, have you ever been wooed on behalf of someone else? How did it go?

SefunmiHookups:
I'm goody-goody. And you? Hope Ok.
No, we don't do hookups anymore. The female friend with whom I shared this NL account with had moved on. I had also disassociated myself from anything sex and hookups. Turned a new leaf. I was actually helping her to score guys for her female friends who were down to do it.
My conscience didn't let me rest , abeg. I stopped. She too seems to have stopped.
I know it's not my business, but emmm...Sir you shouldn't do random girls. Things are diabolical, mehn. I have seen shit. And I know you already know all these things too , sir.
Just hold yourself together, and resist the urges.
Good luck, Sir. I pray wife material locates you soon so that you will enjoy it all to your satisfaction.
No vex that I had to add this unsolicited advice. Ejor.its my mind telling me to. Take care.

Good advice for everyone.

bigpicture001:
This is exactly the mentality of ladies who later got too old for young men to fancy...

I HV up to 6 of them in my area now..smiling up ND down to any single matured guy...

Don't mind them, people like her when they get to their mid to late 30s will be forced to date and marry guys who are much younger than them. The respect and submission they don't want to give to the guys when they're younger, they give it to guys who are 5-7 years younger than them when they're in their mid to late 30s. She'll end up submitting to her you her brothers age mate.

GarkiAccessory:
I didn't see the message
I sent you a mail also

Good morning
I just responded.
Thank you.

GarkiAccessory:
Sorry Boss
I was away from the forum for some time

I just logged in now

Okay, so how do we connect?
Did you receive my sms?
I also sent an email, don't know if you saw that as well.

GarkiAccessory:
Boss I sent you a mail

I sent you an sms with my number to the number on your profile, but no response.
Also sent you Naira land email, no response too.

GarkiAccessory:
Boss I sent you a mail

Didn't see your email
Please try again.

Nefort:
The issue is getting feedback from companies when you apply through those sites. I haven't gotten feedback from companies when I apply through Hot Nigerian jobs. It makes me wonder if vacancies actually exists and not being cooked up by the website admins.

Two of my main full time jobs were from Hotnigerianjobs/Myjobmag. Plus plenty other interviews.
You might need to get someone to check your CV/Resume if you've been applying to the right jobs for over three months without a single response. (Btw, I do CV writing/revamping).
I've spoken with a number of people who complain about not getting interview invite if feedback, when I see their CVs, I see the reason there's no response.

Nefort:
There are several job posting sites out there and I really want to know which ones you have gotten jobs from. I don't want waste my time on job posting sites that have fake or outdated jobs.

Hot Nigerian jobs
Myjobmag

They're among the top job sites in Nigeria

sync:
Dated my subordinate. It was genuine on my part but brought some form of disrespect from him and also office gossip from the rest of the staff. Overall, never going that lane again

Do you mean he was disrespecting you in the office because you guys were dating?
And secondly, were you older agewise?

Trueprophet91:
I dated a senior at work, not necessarily a boss.
We weren't in the same department but she's way up there!
It wasn't any different from any other relationship I've been in.
Everybody knew their place.
How it ended,her people raised alarm when she left her denomination to join mine. It wouldn't be any other way.(She was Catholic)

Well,that's how I left,since she wouldn't call them to order. I was gonna wed her(she was older).
It's been years now and everyone is fine.
I'm married with kids, she's married with kids.

What was the age difference?
And did you two continue working in Same place?

tensazangetsu20:
Men i approach any girl I find attractive. Highest na no. Nothing spoil. Life goes on.

Alright.

obami007:
Good days Guys.

I need an HR and Admin Assistant.

Send your CV’s to obinna.azubuike@payouto.ng

if you have or know someone, kindly refer.

2 years experience.

Job location - Lagos.

Fully onsite.

Thank you.

Good day.
Please what is the salary range for the role?

toolovely:
The court barred the senate from suspending her, they went ahead to suspend her citing that the court can't stop the senate from carrying out their duties....

Now, they are referring to pending court case as a reason they can't allow her to resume

What an irony. They're only referring the court when it favours them.

RevenuesBoost:
Update On This Will Be Revealed Soonest By The Management of The NGO.

Awaiting update.

ravensckar:
How somebody will contemplate marrying a 33 year old lady beats my imagination.

Virgin ko? Van Dyke ni!

A 33 year unmarried lady was unmarried for a reason. All those caring and loving is to trap you, then, when you enter her web, she'll now unleash the real demon in her. Ask yourself, if she's so wonderful as you're portraying her to be, why is she still single at 33?

Besides, being a virgin isn't a guarantee that a woman will make a good wife. Nobody should ask me for evidence o. I'm having a headache in my stomach.

The fact that she's 33 and unmarried doesn't make her bad. I have some cases where ladies where in a long term relationship of about 5-6 years, when it's time for marriage, one or both parents doesn't agree with the Part er based on tribe or religion or age.
Some of them were also in long term relationship with someone who jilted them after 5-7 years of the relationship and married someone else.

These are some of the reasons why some ladies are single at that age.

ediko5:
4 years older according to her 39 yrs
But her looks is more older than that anyway (not disputing what she said though)

Okay, not so bad.
The only issue I have with such ladies is that while in their early to mid 20s, they keep talking about how they can't date or marry even their agemates, but once they clock 33+, desperation sets in, and they all of a sudden don't mind marrying and submitting to guys they're many years older than.

ediko5:
The lady I'm talking about will be 39 this year according to her.

She may even be older than that

But what's the age difference between you two? Just a range will be fine.
I just want to know the extent to which such ladies can overlook age when they're advanced agewise.

Exposing the many lies of Sandra Duru by Adeola Fayehun


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYGgE14BXi4?si=IFFA9F44FnxajDMg

helinues:
Plenty stories..

Referral stuffs. Ladies that can't date you and see you are a good person, they would try and find their good friend to link you with as they wouldn't want you both to end up with bad people.

So it's normal thing here

Cool
You could share a few of the plenty stories.

DeeScan:
I wasnt interested in her so I didn't bother to push... If she had atleast pushed a lil further, we could have had a lil something but she did nothing than waves and gestures, so it was pretty easy to say fuq off and besides her friend looked the eye candy but I wasn't going to hurt her by moving on her friend which would have been hectic for me cause she wouldn't want to do her friend like that..

Naso I just bone everything...

Alright

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DeeScan:
lol ..


Wdym ..


It happens to men a lot ..



Was walking by a road someday with my airpod plugged in , then this female came to tap me on my back saying she has been calling me for a while, I said I didn't hear her calls cause I got earpods on ... She first went on about putting the volume in the highest is not healthy and all of that, was like ok , thanks for the concern.. Then she started going about on how she has a friend that's into me cause she sees me pass by that road frequently ... That if I could spare some time to meet with her . I said why not have her come over here instead, she said she's shy to .. So I went over and guess what , the so called girl started about how I look like some dude she knew from back when, that'd she'd like to know , asked of my name and told me hers . Expected her to ask for a number but she did, maybe she forgot I wasn't sure . But I eventually bid my goodbye and continued vibing to my music on full volume whilst smiling sheepishly ..


Well saw her a few more times, no convos just waves and gestures ..

If she no go ask for my number I wasn't going bro either..
.well that's where It all ended . Nothing happened.


Funny enough, na the friend wey come meet me naim my eye dey chook enter .. she get nyash pass her friend..

Waoh
That's interesting.
But you could have at least collected her number even if you weren't going to do anything. Cos you know most ladies will also give green light and expect you as the guy to still pursue.

shinaola21:
🌺

Well one happen on facebook

The girl is really cute,funny and shy but as a man who knows what he's looking for in life I rejected her I don't need irrelevant things in my life

Second one was a neighbor I also reject her also

I'm a guy who's more obsessed with money and myself relationship don't help anyone..

Okay

ghettochild:
Yes the girl just gave me a note with her friend's number saying my friend wants u to call her..
Meanwhile I no to like the girl na the msgr I get interest in but I just guessed she go get many bf..
Story cut short...
I knack the sender... n next day, she told everyone around say we dey knack just to secure her territory..
That act alone make me just friend zone her n we never had anything together again... even now wey she don born...na just hi we dey hi each other..
And now wey msgr sef don born n i dey try woo her.. she say she can't date person wey don knack her friend...
I kukuma lock up

Didn't know it could happen to a male.