₦airaland Forum

sibdiibrahim:
If your mum is alive, whenever your mother-in law is coming, invite her also. If she isn't alive, then your aunt or 'elderly' sister (junior or senior). And ehen...... Do not forget to deliberately refuse to buy goodies that you are used to buying whenever she comes. Let the house be dry. When you go out, comeback late. Don't go and drink or chase ashawo ooooo. One more thing, try cuddling your wife in her presence......

Prettiepearlz:
At last all powerful master, at least this complain is coming from a man and not a woman. I am surprised at the comments coming from our men, they aren't insulting him but if it's from a woman, this thread would have been filled with insults, now you can see that what's good for the goose is also good for the gander. Nobody wants his or her privacy being invaded. I just hope you guys here will comment this way if it's from a lady, but NO! It's a selfish world! A woman has to bear the pain.

@dynamite11, you know to achieve your aim, you might end up turning into a bad guy but for someone like me, I don't care. Since your wife isn't doing anything tangible about it, you have to put your foot down, you have to face her. Let her know that her presence is bugging you, you need your privacy, you need time to bond with your family and she isn't giving you that with her everyday and unnecessary visits. But if you can't do it, then you have to live with it.

Ps: Ikupakuti, come and see a guy complaining, let's see what you have to say about this now.

Tellemall:
Freeloaders!


But honestly, try to enjoy your extended family a bit. Some are downright unpleasant but try to like your mother in law since your spouse values get greatly.

Why are Nigerians always at war with the in laws? Why do in-laws try to be as difficult as possible?

And why do Nigerian men always complain about this? Your wife's mother and family are always intruders who invade your family, their mothers are always butting in, but yours are the saints that can come as they please. Is it only your mothers who sweated for you and deserve the best in life?

dynamite11:
My problem started shortly after our wedding this year, and ever since its like I'm in a versus kind of relationship( I versus my wife and her family). She is so controlling, she knows all of our business my wife makes sure she keeps her up to date on every little details that goes on in our lives and she is never out of our lives not even for a week and I think my wife is ok with it because her mother can never be wrong.

She worships her either she is right or wrong, she is always visiting every weekend and sometimes stays with us for a week or two only to come back the following weekend saying she misses us, when I got married to my wife I didn't ask for a bonus, I don't know why we can't be left alone, and the worse part of it is that she comes with other family members and we always have a full house, I'm an introvert and I love my privacy but with my mother in-law I will never have that. I have become sad over the past few months and it's affecting my home because I can't even talk to my wife anymore because she is her mother's ear piece, I'm losing my sanity, she is coming over this weekend and I think I just need to go on a vacation alone this summer to clear my head. Have you ever had this kind of problem before? I need help please.

MeAndYou:
If only the crazy Generals that squandered and spoiled Nigeria's oil boom invested half of their loot like this, Nigeria would have for long been a better place. But they decided to dig a pit and bury it like the biblical wicket servant.

Up Dango!!

Longman6:
that's where industrialization comes in, but trust me it would probably be imported, and the more machines you use, the more the unemployment rate among the unskilled labourers,

Sijo01:
Even with the circumstances surrounding their preparation and subsequent trip to Rio, our teams are still soaring.
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May God bless ye'all

Sijo01:
Even with the circumstances surrounding their preparation and subsequent trip to Rio, our teams are still soaring.
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May God bless ye'all

BUSHHUNTER:
prostration for white skin? Fvck!



Anyway na man of GOLD









Racist!!!

brownjulie:
Ah... what is nigeria turning into... first boko haram,then herdsmen,then avengers/militant and now cultist....

MadeInTokyo:
Buhari is a bas-tard..quote me anywhere

generalbush:
Reward for Sex.....


And who said Sex ain't good??

limitless777:
Thanks to GOD they didn't find $s on him.....would have murdered him and make away with it.



but Y will he drive wdt driver's license?
dey born am well may im try am for California?
chi chi ko, Chris Brown ni.

henrydadon:


they do that all the time foolish custom and police..extorting money from u just because u want to travel..

Nigerians we are our own worst enemy.

passing through MMA international is like war for me..hungry set of people.

i bet this is the last time he would visit this country he calls his fatherland

PrettyCrystal:
Brazilian authorities have ensured that Rio Olympics participants and guests enjoy their stay in the country with maximum security assured.. Pictured are tight security personnel guarding the hotel where the Nigerian U23 football squad are lodged in Manaus... A strong military presence was also stationed at the back of the hotel (on the sea) to prevent any unexpected attack.

Source; http://www.nationalhelm.net/2016/08/rio2016-see-photos-of-maximum-security.html

flyca:
Shame! Shame! Shame!!

How I just wish Nigeria will be recolonised. Its either we didn't learn properly from the first attempt or that the lessons from the first attempt have already faded. Either way, I wish that once more, the white man will come to our rescue.

Appendage: You can bash me all you want, you won't get a reply from me. But think! How is it that things work, life is organized (almost a near perfect life) abroad but nothing works in Nigeria? We need oyibo people to come back and show us again.

flyca:
Shame! Shame! Shame!!

How I just wish Nigeria will be recolonised. Its either we didn't learn properly from the first attempt or that the lessons from the first attempt have already faded. Either way, I wish that once more, the white man will come to our rescue.

Appendage: You can bash me all you want, you won't get a reply from me. But think! How is it that things work, life is organized (almost a near perfect life) abroad but nothing works in Nigeria? We need oyibo people to come back and show us again.

CHANNELStv2020:
They are Americans period don't associate them with Nigeria, cus as it stands now Nigeria is a shame and a bad omen to be associated with.

mazichika:
Shameless EFCC
Buhari's administration has killed our freedom of speech!

Why can't you sue him to court if you fill he reported something false against you,rather than arresting him in order to instill fear in him?

Watch as the will lie to their zombies that they found 2billion dollar with him.

Shameless nation!

obiorathesubtle:
Face me I Face you compounds..


What are you gonna do??

Sunnycliff:
From the Presidency to the sports minister and NOC. all of them are a disgrace to team Nigeria!

I pray her sacrifice won't be in vain as she's qualified for the next stage of her sporting event. The annoying thing is that the berret wearing mad man will take the glory of her success as the sports minister!

Laird:
Please I am Igbo with a Yoruba mum so I am being practical.
The foreign born athletes sportspeople representing Nigeria are doing it for THEIR PERSONAL CAREER EXPOSURE AND CV BOOST AND REPUTATION and not because of a failed state called Nigeria and not because of any patriotism. It is all personal interest which is not evil..
Nigeria's failed sports ministry and government leaves indigenes(home born and based Nigerians unable to participate in International Competitions because of lack of finance, lack of equipment and government support) and so foreign trained,supported by the facilities and amenities and benefits of sports programmes ( sports scholarships, sports equipment and infrastructure and government sports support) in the Developed world who did not make their Developed country competition team use their Nigerian Second CITIZENSHIP to compete in International Competitions for their PERSONAL SPORTS CV and CAREER PROFILE AND SPORTS COMPETITION EXPOSURE to be boosted. Not for any smelly Nigeria.
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Shey you know there is no sports ministry in oyinbo.
Govt doesn't sponsor sports
Private Sector does
Forget ministers and sponsor them through go fund them



Its all personal reasons but not evil. Though sports administrators and governments might want to not release funds or divert or withhold sports budgets because Onyibo/Western born or based Nigerians sportpersons who live and make use of the Developed Worlds facilities and amenities will use Nigerians flag to compete and boost their personal CV and sports profile when their Western/Developed country does not pick them to compete in International events

agabusta:
He lost the match against the other Chinese?

modath:
On reprisal attacks, did the press not report a major one around there? Did the police not round up some people planning to counter attack after that evenet? The only thing i see is that they didn't plan well enough, if they had been low key and quiet, they'd have achieved their objective with no one the wiser but shakara too much...

Do not compare America to Nigeria in this instance...

Do they have this kind of problem? They have their own gun problems that is peculiar, apples and oranges.

So the women are supposed to go farming with dane guns straped to their waists, issokay, you win..

myners007:
Big Lie! The ministry sponspred my Phd abroad and now im a complete project.

agabusta:
http://thenationonlineng.net/quadri-causes-upset-equal-toriolas-olympics-records-rio/

ItuExchange:
I’m tired of these so-called civil servants in all public offices: local, state and federal levels.

When they perform their normal duties, which they’re being paid for, and for which they’re employed, they still expect helpless citizens to give them tips, gifts, and kickbacks. Why?

If you got to tax office to perform your duty as a loyal Nigerian, the officials there would be looking forward to get something extra from you, for doing what’s normally required of them. The same is true of passport offices, driver’s license offices, marriage registries, plus other agencies. Some, like marriage registries, even standardize this illegal things to the extent that, you can’t get anything official done through them, unless they get what they want. Why?

You pay money for services from civil servants, and they expect you to give something on top of the payment. In most cases, what you give on top of the payment is more than the official fees?

If you don’t do this, your case/matter gets buried or you’re frustrated with “Come tomorrow, and come tomorrow again.”

If their salary can’t sustain them, why can’t they resign? What’s their job, and why are they employed in the first place? Are they doing favor to the public by performing their required responsibilities?

And these are the people that point accusing fingers at politicians.

Why are we so warped in mind in Nigeria? What’s wrong with us?

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