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Flirt. Being flirty will help keep you out of the friend zone because it will remind the girl that you're attractive as well as a good friend. When you see or meet a girl you like, make brief eye contact and smile. Strike up a casual, flirty conversation and see how she reacts. If you avoid her eyes and act nervous, she's going to go into overdrive working out what on earth you mean. Girls react mainly on body language and emotions. If you make them feel happy, they'll see you as fun and caring. If you creep them out, they will get nervous - in the options between fight or flight, flight is the most preferable.


Relax. Chill. Don't put pressure on yourself or her by thinking of her as the girl of your dreams. Try not to stress about what will happen if you make a bad joke or say the wrong thing. She may be just as nervous, and small mistakes will likely go unnoticed or will simply be ignored. Don't worry if flirting seems difficult at first. The more you talk to girls, the more relaxed you'll become. Girls often are the most jumpy because of the thousands of different responses their brain puts together at every word. They stress over picking the right one, and that sets them so flustered that they'll barely notice the bad joke from trying to relieve your awkwardness.
Enjoy interacting with this attractive, friendly girl whose path crossed yours. While you don't want to stress yourself out, remember that the final goal is to get her to like you. Don't say things that will seem too forward or offensive. Mostly, the same girl is getting to like YOU.
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Compliment her. If you really like someone, you probably appreciate a lot of things about her. Why not let her know? If anything is different or new (her hairstyle, nail polish color, shirt, etc.), make note of it. The more unique the compliment, the better received it will be.


Most girls like being complimented on something that makes them distinct, not something that plenty of other women have. If you compliment her appearance, try to be original, perhaps by specifying a particular feature. Better yet, compliment her personality or skills. If you're not sure what's good or bad complimenting, read How to Compliment Girls.
Don't tell her she's beautiful too often. If she's very pretty, it's likely that several other guys have already mentioned it to her; it may sound trite after a while. If you're going to compliment her, stand out by making comments about her personality, how good she is at something, how she does things, etc. Complimenting her appearance too much may make her think you're shallow and maybe that you just want to have sex with her, and you don't want to give that impression.
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Impress her. There's no one-size-fits-all solution here. What impresses one girl might make another roll her eyes. Your best bet is to be yourself. Demonstrate a unique skill, talent or something difficult to do that you're proud of, something that sets you apart from the crowd. Not only will this make her feel good about you, but it can boost your confidence, too.



Okay @op I don't know if this will work on a Nigerian girl but try ur luck

Queen hadassah: Thanks but I only have d time and opportunity at nights /midnight to watch Telemundo without anybody in my house disturbing me, I don't own d dstv. And from 9pm till 2am when I slept they didn't show d repeat of MHBFL but they showed d repeat of others.

That's true I tried catching up once but couldn't watch..the best thing is if u have time during d day just watch d old episode of a day b4 unless u won't get to watch it

manneger2: so wans a stupor gives u ipad he wil win ur luv.....babe life is more than ipad...all babe are not like u. i pity u

Its simply ways to win a Nigerian girl... That's all..its notmy fault ththat's the way forward its what is happening... With all he has said that he gave her n she collected it means if he gives her more she will collect

Morgan1092: Dude tek it or not, 4 9ja babes! MONEY answereth all things

I tell u

operator222: Please re you guys talking about love here or runz

Lol forget runz random girls in Nigeria today want the best I tell u

Iykeponti: Wooing a babe In dis 21st century wit a piece of sh!tt gals wey all deir eyez dey 4private jets... U come carry snacks dey pursue men get rich or keep on eating doggsh!tt

Assin ehn people they buy girls iPad..Bb...iPhone..androids....u dey say flower..... Abeg buy her something reasonable shebi she's d love of ur life I give 1day she will be all urs

Flower Nigerian girls don't do flower we be goat...poem they have seen enough save yourself stress..maybe you don't have money or ur not good looking that's why deres no special technique for Nigerian babe...play ur cards right buy her correct thing not flower n co...u will see if she won't agree

My best is leticha and junior

My worst character is Debra at a point I really hated her shes heartless...she can act sha
Pillar too I hate her stupidity she cries too much ...I have a feeling Diego ran away because of Javier.. The foolish woman
In Aurora I hate...martin..aurora their love just makes me sick
I hate Margaret..Sergio,... Barbara....

EmmyDe25: E tire me too o.... Burna boi sef dey claim 21.

He is truly 21 but its burnaboi's age I can't relate to the nigga is prolly up to 25...

Prettytimah: if jose ignacio made ur list then the likes of adolfo,gonzalo,nibaldo,rodriguez,apollo,pedro,apollo's manager,federico........even igor mora and mr conde should be there. #running away

Mr conde is not that bad..

Godwin88: I got mine from a hospital. I was told one can also make an affidavit for it.

Okay but they will accept it sha.. For reg

Queen hadassah: Telemundo guys are hotter than the ladies.
My top ten is:
1. Carmelo
2. Lorenzo/matias
3. Andres.
4. Martin
5. Ernesto(lorenzo's friend)
6. Angel/gasper
7. Daniel(andres brother)
8. Lucas
9. Juan
10. Junior


Gonzalo and javier are d ugliest

Lmao Ramon is ugly too

dlex21: Nobody even talked abt hilda/andres...I find her vewi attractive

Me too she's pretty

As for me..Lorenzo...
Angel
Andre
Junior
Ceaser
Martin
Camello
Nina's father
Ignacio

[quote author=Walextopolino]is d reference letter typed or handwritten? is it done on a letter head paper?[/quote

Its to be typed and signed by the person

Please is birth certificate obtained from local govt or hospital accepted

Walextopolino: abeg o hw do i get reference letter o.somebody help o. dnt mind paying

Meet any pastor or iman u know or lawyer they will help u write

myke1759: make affidavit on correction of date oof birth, that's what i did.

Please where

[quote author=iam_idris]Where do u reside? If u're in d island u can do at d high court igbosere lagos island...[/quote]Thanks but I'm not on island

Please help me is there anywhere in Lagos I can swear affidavits in Lagos and will be ready in less than a week thanks

kennyGGG: Things aren't as difficult as some people make it seem. The NPC certificate once collected you don't need to take it anywhere to be stamped. Its your Attestation of birth. Regardless of where you are born or where your parents are from it can be obtained anywhere in Nigeria. You can have a relation or even a friend do it for you as long as they have your passport photographs (2) and a sworn affidavit of birth done by you or done on your behalf. At Babs Animasahun in Surulere Lagos it will cost you N3000 and will be collected after 72hrs.
Don't travel to nigeria because of NPC certificate. If you have people in Nigeria send them cash and they'll do it.
If anyone tells you anything other than what have told you, its story. I did mine in Lagos, was born in Delta and was accepted.

Please do I need anyone to follow me when going and how sure it it in 72 hours please help

[quote author=monsieursam64]I did my BC last week @ NPC, and d process involved is just so easy. Anyone can do it for you irrespective of d age btw u and that person. I spent roughly #4000 to get mine, and it took just 2 days for it to be ready. I see no reason u should travel with ur hubby down to naija just for a BC.
All u have to do is to give that friend of yours all d necessary information she will need to go abt d whole processing. Info such as;
1. Your full name.
2. Date of birth
3. Father's fullname, name of village and LG of origin, this also applies to mother.
4. Place of birth.
So, firstly she should go to high court and swear affidavit of age declaration(this cost me #500 cos it was for embassy purpose while getting d affidavit typed by typist around d court is btw #150 & #200, bt i spent #300 cos d first one i did was nt d right format).
All he/she has to do is to sign in place of your father and nobody cares abt who signs. But she has to be very careful of those agents around d court cos she doesnt need them in d processing. This is my one cent to contribute.
I hope it helps.[/quote

Please where is the venue and must we carry the friend on the 1st day

What if age on birth certificate does not match with waec result

Please who knows Ogun state liaison office in lagos

[quote author=Walextopolino]abeg o must the letter of reference be frm pastor imam or civil servant hw abt ceo of oda companies?[/quo

As far as they are reputable

[quote author=Tebby1]Lola telling Andre that tiberio is her dad is the biggest mistake cos I kw Andre will tell debby & Lola will fall for d guy. Such a stupid film[/qi

Hope Lola won't fall for that Angel because she's already complimenting him

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AmicableEd: And they finally exchange rings, aww! See more here http://www.kemifilani.com/2013/11/aww-lola-omotayo-looks-so-lovely-at-her.html

I don't like what peter wore...they could have dressed alike or he would av worn those Igbo cloth with the same material...this is just random native Na.... All d same happy married life

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dlex21: Lola, rebecca, rosa, aurora, juliana and paula...who fine pass??
Y r all their names ending wiv "a"...food for tot!!!

Aurora...Lola...Paula..Juliana...Rebecca and Rosa