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ARISHEM:
During face off, Angry Husband will warn wife to stop been rude to him. Wife will walk out majestically out of his presence and squeal "Duuuurl" on his face and you wisely expect a possessed man not to kill her for that.

He is not "possessed" but psychiatric.

Zyrac:
a man doesn't just slashs a womans head like that. I for k!ll my ex if i didn't take the bold step of leaving before it was too late

Tell that to a Psychiatrist.

idahme:
Mortgage matter....you can't work and buy a house outrightly in the UK only businesses can afford you that.

I live in the UK, reason I am asking him.

FACT.

@Jozilinn

-How many children are between them?
-What are their ages?
-Which state is the husband based (where she used to live with him before she left)?

1000Capacity:
No matter how good or cautious you are, some situations will humble you. You'll do things you'll never think about doing.
Life can humble a man real fast

Reason it is important to have a grip of your emotions, when you get overwhelmed do reach out to someone to share what you are going through, it helps in releasing repressed emotion better.

He was aware his wife triggers him and with a history of having been investigated by the police a number of times over alleged domestic violence incidents , warned to stay away from his wife...he was already a ticking time bomb waiting to diffuse. Already working, he should have gotten himself a room in a shared house which a week pay can cover the rent while he sorts himself, well that is too late.

hopexter:
If you imagine what he must have gone through in the hands of his wife that pushed him to smash her head with a skateboard and face the consequences, you’ll know that prison is a 2-star hotel compared to being with her. I hope she finds peace in the underworld 😌

I have a mental picture of what might have transpired between them as I have worked with such prisoners as a psychotherapist in regular prisons and maximum prison in a psychiatric hospital......the rush in his head is now over, he is now numb and with time he begins to break, he would cry requesting to see his children, he would desire to apologize to his late wife's family, suicidal thoughts would set in.....the mental journey ahead is going to be very rough.

Chris9cix:
Is painful how a man Will spent million's and bring his wife abroad and his wife will start cheating on him. My advice is this, don't married a lady that doesn't have fear of God

The murdered woman is a nurse who came to the UK on healthcare skilled worker visa, the husband and children depended on her visa, her visa brought them to the UK....I know based on the architecture of minds like yours, you will redirect and say the man trained the wife from primary school, secondary school and through nursing school!

May she be found, safe.

Dikegodspower:
Nigerian women always turn lord and maltreat their husband emotionally and otherwise when ever they found themselves in the west.
Rip to her, but I think she will learn how to be humble and respectful in her next world

I guess the man is in better place now in prison, the wife dead and buried by now, the 3 children shared to 3 different children residential homes in different parts of the UK till they clock 16 before being moved to semi-independent living.

Igbos gets you hyperventilating........Aro mental plenty for street.

Writing is therapeutic, it helps release repressed emotions and in your case, frustrations over the Igbos. If you feel like writing so much about the Igbos, redirect that energy to academics and end up writing a dissertation about them and get the extra reward of a postgraduate degree, u con dey waste "talent" for Nairaland.

This is free therapy session.

PressMyButton:
You sound like it, face your studies and give mummy back the phone.

You are my "studies", u no know my main hustle.

PressMyButton:
Are you fighting with Google?, if you don't know we export Agric produce, how can i help you?. Why is Okonjo Iweala asking us to improve on our packaging to meet international standards if we ain't exporting?. Maybe you're less than 13yrs.

I am 7 years old!

PressMyButton:
For non-oil export, [b]is Nigeria not exporting agric produce.[/b]mined mineral resources?. Demand for dollar and dollar speculators are the mjor issues. There's no propaganda here, we recorded one of the highest foreign portfolio inflows in Febuary and March.

Containers/or daily flights of what agric produce and countries of destination?

PressMyButton:
From 1100 back up to 1400, Obidients are jubilating once again, they are no longer saying CBN is defending the naira. Despite debunking their lies of CBN defending the naira when it was gaining.
Can we say Naira is falling when CBN is defending it?

The realistic way of "defending" the Naira is by quantum leap in non-oil export, which Nigeria is sadly not in that frame....it is not by sentiments nor propaganda or is there a link to news that there was a boost in agricultural exports recently which boosted FX inflow?

It takes so such much intentionality to achieve that, not just throwing money around and looting some.

Idaytesj29:
Why is she pained then? She should have moved on.

If it's the woman that did this, what we will be reading is, the man may have been abusive, but women are not abusive in a relationship, abuse is the sole property of a man.

A woman can leave or run away from a relationship that's draining her but a man can't he must die inside to proof his masculinity. Everything is to blame a man, we listened and read the woman's story and boom judgement started, without considering the other side of the story.

I know you deliberately skipped "I have decided to let go of the hurt and pain that my husband’s actions caused me, and instead focus on building a better future for myself and my children. I am confident that with hard work and determination, we will be able to overcome this difficult situation and come out stronger on the other side" and I posted if she was related to me, na me go personally run the man street.

Any "other side of the story" that involves abandonment of children of the marriage, can not hold water anywhere.

I am an advocate of ending a marriage when it becomes toxic and suffocating, be adult enough to end it rightly.....divorce, concrete arrangement regarding effective co-parenting and provisions for the children, while the ex-couples go their different ways but becoming Houdini or claiming dead, I must drag you!

Idaytesj29:
Well, deportation is not the end of life and living. He still wouldn't return to his old family if the woman is the reason he fled.

Shebi madam talk say she is now working, taking care of herself and the children, so when he returns she and the children have no need of him, he can go and be living with his relatives or better still, Atan cemetery which is the abode of the dead, there in Lagos.

Idaytesj29:
Hmmmm now that he has been found out, let's hear his side. It's not easy for a make to fake his own death. Living his life must have been hell on earth so much that he desperately needs to jump out.

A US judge will be patient in "hearing his side of story" for faking his own death, explain how a dead man can marry and have children.... while fighting his deportation.

vowiski:
She must have a very nasty character for the husband to see death as an escape route.

Woke madness is really causing a lot damage to society.

If the story is true and she wants the man deported to Nigeria, na easy package.....all she has to do is to write to US embassy in Nigeria that a "dead man" is living in the US, abandoned his family in Nigeria under the disguise of death....Na the man relatives go dey beg make e no expose the "dead" husband.

If such woman is related to me, na me go even write the letters to the embassy, con add how the deception adversely affected the mental well-being and other domains of the children.

chopnaira:
That's what happens when all you do is cheat cheat and cheat in exams.

Even under that same Zamfara tree, the Federal Ministry of Education recognizes the edge in Logical-Mathematical Intelligence and Linguistic Intelligence, that Anambra 11 year old child has because of genetics and mental stimulations.....Nna men, school no be scam!

Na dat same cheat, cheat na im I take finish primary school, finish secondary school, finish first degree, carry the cheat, cheat do postgraduate specialty in Clinical Child Psychology here in the UK , take cheat, cheat pass interview and got employed as a private sector Neurodevelopmental Assessment Practitioner here in Cambridge.....the "fruits" of cheating in exams!

Golan007:
If it was because of the educational policy, a large number would have attained very high scores.

1 individual is an outlier.

Also, being from a state doesn't mean you are resident there.

Even if an Anambra child is schooling under a tree in a village in Zamfara state where his/her parents are residing, the Federal Government expects that Anambra child to score at least 139 in national common entrance exam to gain admission into a Federal government college in Nigeria, while the other children who are indigenes of that Zamfara village studying under the same tree are expected to achieve a minimum of 4 for the boys and 2 for the girls, for the same admission.

ufotunang:
... projection on play that will lead to the other room with her abi 🙄

Eyah, your dream world!

The man really served Chimaroke Nnamani when he was governor.

Recruiters from Australia and Kuwait come to the UK to poach healthcare workers with tempting packages.

ufotunang:
.....so fast for you to be eyeing her abi 🙄

Projection on play.

Arafat1:
It's up to the widow to say no to the sexual request...

Sex is a commodity that is traded almost everywhere in exchange for almost anything.. She won't be the first or last to tender puna in exchange for whatever

As long as it is consensual, I don't see a problem.. If she no wan nak the man, let her seek her helper elsewhere..

He holds his money, she holds her vagina
. Everyone is happy.

Yeah, you will certainly have no issue sleeping with your brother's wife before you can give her some money to feed your nephews and nieces.

Serendipity2023:
like you just learnt the word "insensitive"

So you don finally calm down and changed the picture!

She grew very fast.

mrvitalis:
Something working and being sustainable are two different things

Locations of mills, collection cost per ton, energy conversation per ton, cost of construction, labor cost and break even time

These are few things u need to look for before building a power plant

We are igbos we don't build unviable feel good project

That airline is the feel good project!

When power plant is mentioned in this context, don't imagine the scale of Geometrics.

I know rice production like the back of my hand. from land preparation, planting, herbiciding, fertilizing, harvesting with sickles, threshing with sticks, winnowing with hand fans right there in farm before the paddies are bagged and taken out of the farm for either storage or milling. I was involved in it in Achalla (Anambra state), go to Oye Achalla, Omor, etc where local rice mills operates and see "mountains" of rice husks, daily burning slowly in the open air when a small biomass power plants around those areas could take care of electricity needs in those mills instead of buying diesel.

If Umahi had used the airport project funds and invested heavily in their rice value chain, we both know Ebonyians would have had it better by now.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d0XcoeqVoaI

NGArmyTerrorist:
But how una take arrest Mazi Nnamdi Kanu?

He does not hold a Kenyan passport but this guy holds both Kenyan and British passports

Serendipity2023:
like you just learnt the word "insensitive"

Yes, I saw the word in the dictionary this morning.