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Is there anything like forgive and forget. No, there is nothing like that.

You only forgive and assume nothing like that ever happen but you must always remember.

So, it is forgive, remember and ignore/assume it did not happen

Some lies are told in a relationship to keep it alive.

Thou very wrong but the reason might be, the girl has once ask did you like people from this area or the guy said it in a conversation that he did not like people from this part of the world. So to keep the relationship alive because of the love, the only option left is to lie.

yellowpawpaw: C kweshion.
Oya married pple make una answer.

tell us yours. Coz u're married.

Not by force rather. A well behaved individual should not be talking on his/her intimacy in marriage.

I know some will still quote me and ask why.

The reasons:

1. If a woman said her husband is good on bed. The husband can be snatch by s*x addict woman who always need it hot on bed.

2. The above reason is also applicable to man.

3. The fastest root to break up.

Life imprisonment.
How wil this be a deterrent for others.
At the end he would free and the justice that sent him to life imprisonment will be useless.

Just imagine the number that were killed by his gang and all they could offered those affected in the course of justice is life imprisonment.

My question

is dead sentence absent in our law or is no more in use?

The degree of some havoc occurence could have been reduced if the security agency could turned up at the right time.

Just look at the scenario, after they were through with their bank robbery operation they went ahead to the police station. What if they've arised to the challenge, i am quite sure, they next point would not have be the police station.

The only way to cub this heartless type of robbery is to improve our policing strategies.

Imagine, how will you condole an aged man or woman that lost his/her bread winner to the incident.

God know the best. May the Almighty God grant those families the fortitude to bear the irrepairable losses.

Rest in peace!

From ASUU strike to student strike.

Ok we don hear

UNN

Dr swag: If there should be a new state..,its definitely going to be in southeast..

south east of where?

It will be a major breakthrough for christians in kaduna state because they are the dominant in southern kaduna.

tintingz: asin I don't understand, why a wife shouldn't know how to cook?

your conclusion, a honour to be lazy?
Sorry i am refering to sissle

tintingz: I'm not even talking about employing someone to cook am talking about a wife who can't cook anything. What if the chef/cook was not around to cook what will happen? Off to an eatery?

imagine

kulyie: I hope the 1st paragraph is not for me it better be youre not referring to me

to your question,i am sure you can answer that yourself

Read the 1st paragraph as well,
i said i wil never belief you are a gold digger.

kulyie: Gbam again!

I wonder why miner thinks life is a 1way road and everyone thinks the same way

I never said life is a 1way because i strongly belief that every living being is a genius to different school of thought from birth and not a copy cat of another thought by talent through learning.
Which deol is pressing me to accept.

@deol
i am not the way you are thinking. Ok
i get a supply to deliver this morning and am almost late. See you later.

MERRY XMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE.

Hope to see more of your post.

SHALOM!

deols: You sound confused.
First, you need to be sent to where you can be taught to properly read and write

and then, be taught to reason. Was any of my posts on this thread directed at you before you went haywire referring to my brain??

Who needs to learn to respect the young and the old if not you?? The likes of you are the Op abi??

You are a bush man and should be sent back to where you came from..mtchewww

You are a waste of time. I can't have a reasonable conversation with you. See this as the last.

I am the op in case you don't know, but
i am not the husband type and i will never be.

Can't you just type without abuse?

fresh_dude: I wonder what's so strange about this matter. Man buys wife(dowry/bride price?) from retailer(parents?), product is defective. Man returns good for after-sales service and people are busy running temperature over that? Abeg, make we hear word.

that is the part of our culture that is baffling. Imagine a starter spending close to 3m to get a woman.
But that's not the issue. His action is too barbaric.
If i am in his shoe, we can be under same roof for more a month she would have every good things at her disposer. But i'l not taste her food, we sleep differently. If she's a reasonable woman i think with this she should pour out her mind if there is anything wrong.

deols: First of all, who are you?. I have only two things to tell you.

1. Respect yourself. The next time you insult me, I will give it back to you. You don't know me. You have no right whatsoever to talk to me like you did.

2. Don't reply me if you can't type in a way that I can understand you. Maybe, go back to school before quoting me again.

I am mr wind and you mrs do not touch me.
But get this as well i am always blowing around you.
If you stand the point that i don't know, wel, your post here speak a million about you.

Next time, learn to respect either young or old

[quote author=kulyie]I am not saying a starter cannot get married,let him at least CHILL JUST A LITTLE BIT AND SET THINGS STRAIGHT LIKE PUTTING THE BASICS TOGETHER E.G GETTING A STABLE JOB.EVEN IF THEY PAY HIM 5NAIRA PER MONTH,ITS STILL COOL SO FAR IT IS STABLE.AFTER THEN,THE WIFE CAN COME INTO THE PICTURE,COMPLEMENT HIS EFFORTS AND MAKE THINGS WORK

SECONDLY,I AM NOT SAYING A WOMAN CANNOT MARRY A STARTER,BUT NOT EVERY WOMAN THINKS LIKE THAT.SOME DONT MIND MARRYING A STARTER AND BUILDING THINGS UP,I AM NOT SAYING HE CANNOT FIND THEM,IT WILL TAKE THE GRACE OF GOD ESPECIALLY IN OUR CENTURY.

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And you are one of those looking for already established home.

Just prepare yourself for a possible war because you could end up being the 2nd wife or the 1st wife

kulyie: lmao chaircover is just blowing things out of proportion for reasons best known to her.

i never in anywhere said anyone earning 60-70 should not marry,i am only saying the guy should put first things first.at least to avoid future financial frustrations,he should first establish himself before he talks of marriage


abi shey iyen ti wa poju ni

chaircover den pon akisa ni jebele

if you do not know get it now and grab a copy to your brain, that standard of yours just sound like you are a gold digger, which i still you are not.

Kulyie answer this again, did you start walking, making a good and clear conversation, starts schooling and starts making and rejecting friends the day you were born?

chaircover: Having children and getting married are 2 different things

My children did not start school the day I married

I have shared on this forum before . . when my husband and I first got married we struggled financially . . .many new couples do struggle and they grow together. Many rich people you see today started off with humble beginnings. Many lived in rented flats before building their own houses.

I saw a good hardworking man with potential; If were to have looked at his pocket then, then I would have lost one of the best blessings in my life.

I repeat a good hardworking man earning 60-70K has every right to get married . . .to a good woman sef and any woman who throws that away simply because of what his wages are today is making a great mistake.

But kulyie is looking mr. millionaire so she can just jump into a golden palace where merry making is 2nd to none.
That's why many women turned to a kicking ball,they are the type that it's always on the run and end up settling with the riff-raff

babygirlfl: My opinion

Was the woman wrong for always shouting at the husband ? Yes. Shouting is a very bad way of communicating.

Was the man wrong for sending her to her parents? Yes.
I cry for our people because marriage in Africa is no longer about love but who is head and who should submit and how to be a woman with manners. If only we could teach couple how to love each other all these issues will not be there.

now let forget about couples because i know you are not married yet.
How many of your friends have you teach how to be well manner and how to love?
Secondly, are well manner?

chaircover: So a man earning 60K-70k a month should not marry . . . .

Then you now wonder why a man earning 5 million a month man cannot send the woman back home to her parents when he is fed up of her. . .

Sisi Kulyie dont let real hard core feminists see what you wrote o!

are you sure kulyie make up this statement on this thread on somewhere?. Because i can't find it

Kulyie you get this to answer

kulyie: who you dey rap for ?

Rap keee!
Rara ooo!

Just to be sure if the spiritual cleansing could work the miracle you admit it to.
But you understand what i am saying?

katsim: It is wrong to do that, love bears all things believe all things, and love never end. He should try and teach her that is why your are a man. Please for God s sake call her back don't give devil a chance in your home remember God called her weaker V so be with her

even if she covered your head with a mortar, you invite love to cover it right?

kulyie: gbam! You have said it all.kojubelo.

Your head is too correct jare

ọjọgbọn birin kuyiẹ kilo tan?

Don't tel me you are a fan of the weed family.
If not somebody just get her senses erupt abnormally then you stamp it.
You just disappointed me in that respect

kulyie: from what?

some nairalanders never cease to amaze and amuse me.any small thing,she needs deliverance


is it by force every body must share your own school of thought or agree to every thing you say? Nawa o

so because your views clash na,she needs deliverance? You sef need spiritual cleansing.go to the bar beach with cele pastor,let them use concortion water and baff your head in the beach for spiritual purification

And how can this spiritual cleansing for spiritual purification be a total justification for absolute libration from mental dellusion

deols: hmmmn.lol. I am not surprised you are on this thread.

I relate with such threads as this, putting myself in the woman's position.

Such will not happen to me o(since i won't marry a bush man) but just imagine that he turns bushy I no go gree o..lailai.

He will have to go back to his own parents too. To learn how to deal with a woman

On a serious note, couples should learn about each other b4 marriage. Once married, there is no going anywhere, no third parties until one thinks divorce or dies. His actions are so juvenile..very silly..They will become entertainment for the whole village.

Mothers will keep telling their daughters to be careful of ending up like the wife and to avoid men like the husband. Their children would be taunted by the stories.

what can you say or put to note that you are just different from the woman in question. Absolutely nothing.
You are just a like bird in that woman world no distint different about either of you.
That you wil ensure his find the way to his parents house to learn how to respect an abusive woman.
I am just too sure and proud that your origin can't stand his. That's why he's not a bush man.

Couples should learn from each other before marriage. Yea you are right on that assumption but what will you say to women that hide their real colour and burst it after they confirmed the wedding certificate.

What this man was able to bear for that period i am sure you will not allow your own elder or junior brother to endure that duration.

Get a brain and teach women around you how to be relevant and tolerant in marriage.
Lol!
You are not exempted either teach yourself

My 1st question is did you have a save from your salary?
If not, continue wit your job or get another one, then use your pay to start the farming.
After 3yrs i assure you. You wil not like your work again but venture into full farming.

Farming is very lucrative, thou i've not started the cash crops system of yours because i am stil a student.
I do not depend on my parents again since my 200level, now in 500level. What God have build up for as asset some people who are working do not have it.

don kross: Its true

your proof?

If every thing we used is by no means free from demonic. Then i will conclude by saying our eyes is the control room of demons because either we use them or not we must see them everyday around us.

Maybe the op could also help by giving glasses wil can use to prevent them from been visible to our sight.

Lol!
I trust in JAH

If i called this talent, then my request and finding would be
1. what is her motivational source.
2. Who inspired the little girl.

Again if i called her a genius, then i will conclude by saying.
1. For every set of human race a distinguished and appointed human being show up.
2. Has an IQ rating that supercede the excellent being. Which make them to reason fast beyond any other human conception.


ZURIEL ODUWOLE YOU ARE INDEED A GENIUS CHOSEN TO DISPLAY BEAUTY OF THE BLACK RACE *AFRICANA*.

I pray the essence of your documentary for the right of the african girl child will not sabotage by haters of right to honoured life of the female folks. Amen.

Go to the kitchen and prepare a delicious soup.
so when she taste it, she wil realize there is mistake or error in her own cook

kulyie: ha kosiyen nbi o wani latilosi ogba ashewo ni o.

Mo lejuwe be fun e,bet ko get owo e ready,kosi pe but i bought fried rice and chicken for you yesterday evening na otherwise,awon lagos oscalambos ma deal pelu e ni o.maya soju fere beni pe miomo e ni o

haaaaa!