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Kulyie kọ iwe si apo iransẹ intaneti mi kio to lọsun o
ódarọ oo

kulyie: gbam

i just do peper soup for my girlfriend who came to spend some time with me,because of this cold,i gave her to warm body,oya join me.goat meat na wanbe o,wa je

ọbẹ aládídun tole so ọkọ sinu yara ni mo fẹẹ ooo

Kanuchy: Was he blind wen he married her??

yea he's not blind.
My question to is, did you read from the beginning and if you do not pls go and do dat the is within

Xsolutions: ABI OOO

your comment when i 1st notice you sound very intelligent but now why the change.
Hope you are not high on weed

kulyie: han han.you never go

ATTENTION SEEKERS!

Oomọ iru wọn ni

Xsolutions: YOU ARE THE ONE WHO IS CALLING YOUSELF A B***H NOW...I DID NOT...GREAT PEOPLE FIGHT FOR WHAT IS RIGHT AND LOVE THOSE WHO STAND FOR WHAT IS RIGHT...YOU ARE NOT GREAT PERSON!!! UNLESS YOU CHANGE YOUR MIND...

She admitted to being a bi**h.......yea.....but
she stated clearly her own definition of bi**h...

BI**H definition by kulyie:-is the ability to stand *BOLDLY* in midst of adversary and *INTELLIGENTLY* amputate their strength yet *TOLERATE* every one within that visinity and showed the spirit of *CHARISMATIC* to encourage and build an environment very *HOSPITABLE* for all and sundry.

Now get this definition into your head.

Ko dakẹ ariwo ẹnu.
Falana gbotiẹ tara ẹni langbọ

kulyie: help me ask am whether he dey follow me live house


orisirisi

ọrọ yii oye mọ ni ko dẹ setan ati lọ

kulyie: o tirimi na oti ri adeshewa.omo to shan,badosky mama

mio ti riẹ oooo

Mendo007: Wait a minute didnt he see dez signs wen he was dating her?

past question that wil never fill the presence

Xsolutions: @kulyie:YOU ARE NOT WIFE MATERIAL...SMH

how on earth did you know kulyie is not a wife material.every1 here is typin behind the scene.

kulyie: haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa then i give up

Raràààà ooooo kin ma unse oun o
kóda ọnarẹ jin si ile oluyọle, ìbádan tìan tìan

kulyie: enle o baba akowe.oluranti

ọjọgbọn birin kulyi e
jẹ kin ríẹ oooo

O boy!!!
No b dream ooo!


FRONT PAGE

TINZ!

1st time ever

Chaiiiii
dancing azonto, skelewu wic 1 i won dance self.

But bros why did you allow your issue to what everybody is learning from.
Thank God sha, i did not put name and location

@Drnoel

this is not igbo but now from our side(yoruba)

kulyie: i remain loyal too.emi na judi

but men too are not cunny or sly creatures

skelewu tinz

but is this really the best option of how to treat the wife.
So that i can just keep it in my record for future purpose.

Kin le ko sinu aka iwe iranti fun ọjọ ọla

kulyie: i remain loyal too.emi na judi

but men too are not cunny or sly creatures

skelewu tinz

but is this really the best option of how to treat the wife.
So that i can just keep it in my record for future purpose

kulyie: and what is that supposed to mean baba yi

Ìba yin oo.
I remain loyal.
But, ennnn i 2 dey fear women very cunny creatures by the creator

@ọjọgbọn kulyi e
so you knew it right females have their problem.
Oda o moti lo ọpọlọ toni aponle kinse ọpọlọ biti ọ̀pọ́lọ(toad)

bukatyne: Did the husband find out if she was interested in business or still lookng for a job?

And what is extraordinary in a husband setting up a business for his wife? Should I be the one to set it up?

ogao aunti buki, yorùba ni ẹni tio mo banse un dupe ore kole ri omiran gba.

So you can't appreciate the effort of your husband?

jhidey08: It is true, d lady lacks manner of approach. She sells zobo in one small shop in Ibadan and I asked her: 'aunty, sobo yin tutu? Imagine wot she tld me, she said :'obo awon iyalaya e loma tutu''. Only yorubas wil understand. Crazy lady.

Olódumare ooooo!

Oga jhídey máfẹ fi ẹrin pami kẹẹẹ.

Olẹnu bi dagrin

kulyie: I am typing in caps BECAUSE IT IS MY PHONE,I WORKED FOR THE MONEY I USED TO BUY THE PHONE AND CAN PRESS CAPS AS I LIKE TO DRIVE HOME MY POINT (i am joking o,i hope you take it as one before another bout starts )

Anyway to the issue getting a 3rd party in marriage is just courting for trouble because after husband and wife leaves.na una matter be the topic of gossip or when the elders get home,one of them will be like dont be like baba nkechi or dont be like mumy stella.they did this this and this.even yorubas say a matter cannot be too big to the extent that you cant say it.its your mouth you will use and say it.marriage should be about CONSTANT COMMUNICATION AND RESPECTING EACH OTHER)

Adonblivit!
So you can be as reasonable as this.
You are just trying to protect the woman folks while you ignore moderating the excess of some woman like you

Feraz: It's like saying 'ókó mí'. Literally, it means our father (used to address either a husband or elders).

Which would people prefer? That he divorces her, she gets remarried prolly to someone less patient than the above guy and becomes a punching bag

OR

she gets the required training, gets back with her husband and the marriage works. Even though she remarries, she'll appreciate what her ex-husband did. For him to have done this, he must have tried everything possible to make the marriage work. Going by the OP, I don't think he laid a finger on her which few men would have done since.

If he brings another wife, ladies would scream 'unfaithful husband' saying why didn't he divorce her? He divorces her, problem. He beats her, all men are 'beasts'. He has an extra-marital affair, all men are 'dogs and they can't control their third legs'. What do y'all want men to do?

I still ask again, what is the best solution to the above problem since returning her for re-training is a problem assuming that every form of making the marriage work proved futile

now i think i need *kulyie, bukatyne, chaircover, yellowpawpaw,alutacontinua, i've not seen baby mama i would love to see her own contribution

kulyie: I didnt know women are now equated with products that are now bought,sold and returned.see black mans mentality.smh

will you be happy if your parents give you to a husband freely or you can do the same for your own daughter?

Iyawo shaara

bukatyne: Since we have learnt that a husband dumps his loud mouthed wife in thr gathrring of her inlaws,

What does a wife with a loud mouthed husband do?

I will appreciate practical answers.

Who knows, someone may benefit from it

sometime you are on your sit relaxing and a kid walk up to you as an elderly person and request:-
why is the sun always risen from the east and not west, south or the north cardinal.

Who paid your bride price?, your husband or you.?
In nigeria, we stil have places where a young lady is been sold out in the name of collecting the *bride price*

kulyie: @chillisauae before nko.i guess she falls under the category of baba bisi owo obe ti tan o,baba bisi,owo pampers ti tan,baba bisi,bra mi ti ya

kulyieeeeee han han!
Kilo le to yen

kulyie: No doubt its rude to shout and yell at anybody irrespective of gender and age but sending a woman back to her parents house,what do they call that.


The bible refers to the men that put their hands in the plough and look back as what? I am not covering up evil but stewpeedity pisses me off.i thought they call that over hyped institution for better for worse.there is no marriage devoid of crisis and lapses from both parties but solving the issue in extreme measures solves nothing.for example if mr husband is down with cancer,the woman should run back to her parents and say i dont know how to care for a cancer patient,i cant cope and flees with her kids abi.is it not that the woman will go to any extent to ensure the man gets back to his normal self.no woman shouts and yells for nothing.it means there is something the man is doing that is paining her and its juat the way she can express what is paining her.why cant the man listen between the lines of her shouting and make necessary changes.why do africans feel once a woman is married she doesnt have choice a right to feelings etc.smh.orisirisi

with all this nonsense going on i still see many fat women,or does ot mean its the marital chaos thats making them add weight
may God have mercy on African women and a sucess of a woman means the sucess of a man.oshi nle pako

so, you mean if you have a daughter and you receive this type of information about her, you will leave her to be batard with punches or kill.

Or, are you saying you can act the same way?

Chillisauce: If you like include me, no wahala. But I'm not joking.
I will believe the guy is in the 1920's. This age sending someone back to her family? Na wa o.

I blame the woman's parents. That's what you get when you don't instill value to your daughters. When you think her value ends in kitchen, no financial responsibility whatever.
I bet she has no kobo in her wallet to even rent an apartment.
Nothing!
None to even start life afresh.
Truth remains the man is tired and looking for a milder way to divorce her without compensation.
Next the family will return her bride price to him.

OPOKO!

Woman, both families were not poor as you have guest it to be. If they were to set up their daughter i know they can do it and the husband also working with good take home.

pickabeau1: @chilli funny post as usual

I assume you don't have family in nigeria anymore or that you did not come through these same animals



@ypp.. One thing common to you and cc's post is that the man has good intentions and has involved the elders in his wife's case.

That may be wrong

His intent may be to get a new wife and why do we think he was not beating her before he bundled her off

The op has more info he does not want to share

well, i did not hide anything, the way i heard everything that's the way i put it down.

Even when i discovered more questions are arising from here i had to go in for more details and ensured i posted it as i received it.

Whether he beat her, an insider also make it known that nothing like.

kulyie: in your own school of thought i guess women should only be seen and not heard.they shouldnt have a voice and an opinion,their husbands word is final,all others are unreasonable.if that be so,animals will best be their companion

gentle men school of training for violence and anger management nko?

i posted this because i also want to learn from it.
We should not take aggression to reading any comment but what point you as a person can gain and also teach others.

kulyie: exactly.its illiterate women that this nonsense always happen to.i doubt whether she has a stable job with a stable income.i hardly hear of educated and empowered girls go through this disgusting indignities.

Thats why i pity this girls that their parents will tell,go to school and be sneaking out of school to see their boyfriends.thinking they are outsmarting their parents.before 17,they don turn them to apere ajase with children they dont know who their father is and at 21,their parents just push them into any semi illiterate man to marry so she doesnt turn liability in their house.


Shiooorrrr.aseni shey ara e

ọjọgbọn amoye ọrọyi kori bi oti ro oon.

She's educated but not working under govt or any company yet.
An insider said the husband want her to do business and has set up business for her, rather than looking for job.
What else then would you be looking in a man that has shown this commitment to his wife

pickabeau1: Hahahaha....

Tpia on point

@post
this is a throwback to the old days when women were chattel and really should have no place in this modern times
There is a customary dispute resolution process which the man should have followed that caters for the woman and the kids
If the inlaws decide to take him up and she marries someone else, is that his plan

Well.. this is the advantage of females being empowered in their own right

It is never his plan to marry another wife. Unless the inlaws chose that as their option.
He make his stand clear re-train your daughter and he will be ready to take her back.
I wonder why some people are of the opinion of the man been heartless. Before any reasonable man could took that step, you should al know that he has fought the battle and yet no reasonable changes.
Besides an insider said, the husband had informed the inlaws time without number but they did not count it to be something