₦airaland Forum

Ploy:
A lady will propose to you when she is still dating another guy? When girls still find it difficult to say I love you. When girls can't return your sms.
Most of our girls fantasize relationship with a guy that left to UK 20 years ago.

Ploy:
So romantic. This can only happen when men become prostitutes and chaste ones difficult to find

tpia6:
for some reason, this is the picture some male nlers have in their heads anytime i post.

do i sound that desperate?

lastchild:
When people say I should see a medical doctor or psychologist I only laugh,well they don't understand what I'm passing through,only a spiritualist will

You guys should make out time to read my diary,visit my profile and search it, that's where I narrated what I've been through

sukkot:
what you need to do is get cable tv. cheap mahfukaz

ATMC:
my night just began

MaziOmenuko:
Why is the cnn giving me shit about falling oil prices? They need to redirect their camera to the war zones!!! Damn hypocrites! They don't want me to watch this world war 3 live!

Which channel is broadcasting it abeg?

quivah:
November 21st
5:55pm



still no signs of troubles..


mph! make I chill till 12am before you hear wehn!

Onegai:
Me.... why....

I would weep only into my pillow at night, drying my tears and showing my husband a calm, happy, loving demeanor. I will remember that his cheating is MY FAULT and start dressing better and losing weight. I will understand that I am DRY, STALE GOODS and he can kick me out anytime for his younger, pregnant mistress. So I will behave myself in a fearful and wonderful way. I will cook for that new woman when she comes to my house and dutifully stay in the guestroom whilst my husband continues to enjoy himself with her. I I will be silent in the face of his disrespecting his vows. My silence will stand for Honour and Nobility from my other suffering peers (God forbid we change the status-quo!). All that High BP and stroke I think I am having, I will quell it. This is all for the sake of my children and the Institution of Marriage, which I and ONLY I, as the woman, has to uphold. Whilst letting him be in charge....

yeyenatu:
Free the guy! Flirting andd cheating are two different things. Condoms missing from your home? hotel reservation? And then what?

You no go siddon jeje for wia dem put u ba? @op.

I used to be like that. And then I realized the kind of person he is. So inetaed of getting all crazy, I mellowed and allowed him play. He'd settle down soon enough.

I know it can be hurtful, but don't love him less. Trust me! That biiitch out there?! She is gonna get dropped soon.


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Toks2008:
Lets face it.

In my humble opinion this use and dump situation will continue until we return to the days of our parents where marir=tal union is far more important than marriage ceremony which is the main reason many guys use and dump ladies because most are not financially ready for marriage ceremony even if they are matured mentally and psychologically.

You say your guy is not ready for marriage but you are ok with him squeezing the juice out of you since he is ever ready for that and while he is not ready for marriage,you are busy providing him what a wife will do for a husband.

I think you need to have your head examined.

A man who is not ready for marriage should not have a hard on and our ladies should wake up to understand that most guys out there are psychologically ready and matured for marital union but many are not ready to finance a marriage ceremony.

Too bad our mothers are not helping matters in this area as most Nigerian parents always want to see a glamorous wedding ceremony which is not bad at all provided there is readiness on the part of the couple involved or if they are ready to finance the event which is the case of many flamboyant weddings we see these days.

Unfortunately,this culture had crept nto our seemingly ignorant young ladies psyche hence making them an easy tool for guys to be sampled and dumped.

Some ladies have argued that they are not cheap hence the need for big wedding ceremony and i begin to wonder which is cheaper: getting laid as a girlfriend or getting married in a timely manner and ofcourse no one is ruling out a classy and expensive wedding if the funds are available.

Getting married and celebrating a marital union are two different things and since most Nigerian ladies have laid crazy emphasis on wedding ceremony and a big one at that rather than the main marital union,this has led to many guys just having fun sampling as many ladies as possible as they always say "im not ready for MARRIAGE CEREMONY NOW"

So,if you know your man is not financially ready to do a wedding ceremony then sit tight in your parents homes rather than foolishly give yourself to this guy that may end up dumping you anyways for a younger chic when he feels he is ready for a marriage ceremony.

I honestly do not see anything wrong in a young struggling jobless guy with a roof over his head coming for my daughter's hand in marriage.

As long as my daughter loves him, i wil simply ask him to bring his people and collect a bride price according to Jewish tradition as suggested by the bible in Deuteronomy 22:28-29 (PROVIDED HE MET HER A VIRGIN)

He can go with his wife after receiving blessings and anytime they are ready for the celebration of their union, they are free to do so.

Enough of this bondage we have subjected our daughters because we have made them more of sex objects to randy men because a matured lady needs a sexual relationship likewise a matured man and casting and binding the devil won't solve the situation on ground except they get married in a timely manner.

If you are a lady in love with a guy and the guy wants you to be his wife and he has at least a roof over his head, please take him home to your parents and let him pay your bride price and start your lives together.

When the money comes, both of you can celebrate your wedding.. Stop fooling yourselves laying crazy emphasis on marriage ceremony as a criterion for marital union.

If you like, say this is trash but please look around and see many of our ladies in their thirties still unmarried and ask yourself what is responsible for that growing situation?

A word is enough for the wise.

hollandis:
Dr myles munroe endorsed the COAS pastor who committed adultery and he even bought the guy a car.

I hope he goes to heaven

debosola:
A God fearing man would mean a man that fears God and puts God first in all he does. A man whose decisions are not influenced by moral standards or what seems right but by what the Bible says about the issue. A man who would treat his woman, not as he feels he is expected to, but by what God says about marriage and the man's role in a relationship. It would mean a man who loves God and is committed to the things of God which will include being involved in church activities. It would mean a man who can inspire me to have a better relationship with God because of the quality of life he lives.

If you are also a God fearing woman who is led by the Spirit of God, you will be able to discern (through the Spirit) and know if this man really fears God or not. God will give you pointers. The issue most times for godly women is the compromise of choosing to ignore certain subtle signs that the Spirit points out to them...and instead say"He's really a good guy".

Sorry for the long response...but I hope it makes some sense.

maryini:
Thank you. I mean to get busy and get lost in church activities so i have no time to entertain or open the door to such spirits again.

Mike008:
You can't registeter a new one. Go back to Imo and collect your PVC on the presentation of your TVC. If you lost it, you may be required to present certain documents. Thanks.

SirShymex:
Hairy chest and they reveal it? - FML. That is just gross and the only thing missing is just a little willy between their legs.

I don't even like seeing hair on my own chest. I always shave that shiit off before it grows out. Now imagine a chic with hair on her ti.ts lol. I just lost my appetite - I'm out!

SirShymex:
Darn! I need to be on the look out then.

And they love it? There must be too much testosterone in their system then lol.

Ishilove:
As for you all who say you can't stand bearded ladies, or you can't date them or blablabla blabbedy bla...


Well, y'all can kiss our collective butts.

That's right. Y'all should liberally anoint our hairy asses with your disapproving lips.

Nonsense.