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carefreewannabe:
Please tell me from which post you "deduced" that she claims that a woman should cheat when a man does. I am still waiting.

keep waiting dear,keep waiting!

100Cents:
We would have been looking at a sensible girl if the topic was,

" Should I break up with my boyfriend because he is a cultist " ?

Rather, my crush, my Ex, I am in a dilemma.

Smh, these girls sef...

As in its do disheartening,see the good qualities she ascribed to the cult guy=good and kindhearted?
What in God's name is wrong with some ladies?
Op,face your book and leave the two of them,apparently,you are not read to be in reltionship,abeg!

vivaciouzz:
since my first year in the university, I hv dated just one guy and we love each other so much but recently I got a new male friend whom I hv been crushing on since my sec school days.

I just felt like visiting him only to go and fall deeply for him.Just because of him,I broke up with my bf of 3yrs.D guy also felt something for me but my bf won't let me go..he keeps on saying dat d new guy will not love me d way he does.he has been calling n threatening d guy to leave us alone.

Another reason y I broke up with him was dat I was tired of his cult activities but deep down,he is a good guy n kind hearted.he is ready to do anything for me.

Recently, he threatened my new bf again telling him he will find n kill him if he continues seeing me.

My new bf has begged me not to compromise n leave him but I don't know if he truly loves me.I need ur advices coz my heart is confused. I don't want to b greedy by keeping the both of dem

someone is a good guy and and he is a cultist?
Someone is kind-hearted and he is threatening to kill another person? I give up!
Well,thats something you don't hear all the time!

carefreewannabe:
From which post did you deduce your statement?

Pls go back and read her post and some stop playing the blind game!

Toks2008:
I can see you are not getting it and i pray you never find yourself in this situation.

Its easy to lip talk but when faced with the harsh reality you will understand.

Its not in the forgiveness bu the problem lies in the memory. Of-course i can forgive my wife of sexual infidelity but trust me, it cant be the same again.

When i make love to her afterwards i will start thinking, was it that i was not good enough? Could it be that the other guy did it better, even if i handle her bosoms i will start imagining how the other guy sucked it and .. honestly its a terrible thing.

Kudos to GOD on the way he wired ladies that are just ok sharing a man with another woman when a man cant even stand the imagination of his woman been caressed by another man.

And please understand this, the worst one is when you catch her in the act,chai! the picture will never erase from your brain till you grow old and die. you may still get over hear say or her confession.

i understand you perfectly, my point is cheating shouldn't be the reason for a "home" to be destroyed!

carefreewannabe:
Show me where she said so.

sorry,i can't help you if you are not smart enough to deduce that!

Ugovin:
It takes a devilish and a wicked man not to forgive. if been cheated on,, WHY? Don't Judge Others. (Judge not, and ye shall not be Judged: condemn not, and ye shall not be condemned: forgive and ye shall be forgiven (luke6:37) ) as a christian, one of the features of your recreated human Spirit is love, and love doesn't judge or slander others. One day JESUS was sitting somewhere and the jewish leaders and men chased after a woman whom they said was caught in the very act of adultery. So they said to Jesus, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act. Now Moses in the Law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou? This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But JESUS stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not. (John 8:4-6) when JESUS eventually raised his head, He said to the womans accusers ''let the one without sin cast the first Stone'' (john 8:7) but they couldn't. So one after the other, they dropped their stones and left, leaving the woman alone with JESUS. Then JESUS said to her, ( hath no man condemnd thee? She said No man, lord. And JEsUs said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go and sin no more'') John8:10-11) we are to act like JESUS; HE said, "I wouldn't condemn you,go and sin no more." Jesus recognized her sin; Meaning we can recognize when people do something wrong; yet, like JESUS, don't judge them. Love is not all about sex, or making love. There is more to It.

Some set of people in the family section do not believe this. Infact they will tell you that prayer cannot solve the problem,neither can the Bible,such is it that they see divorce as the only option!
I once told a lady that,if my wife cheats on me,i am ready to forgive her as long as she tells me why she did it...maybe there is something that i am not doing right!
Some people don't know what it means to be married or stay married,they don't know what it means to be in love or to love someone!
Well,i guess that is why we are different!

carefreewannabe:
Please show me where she said so.

Yinmu,i know your likes. I have been in the family section enough to know what it means!
The same trick some people make," i didnt say this! Where did you see me say that?" they wll even go to the extend of bringing the post!
Don't play ignorance,i am sure you know what gender equality means! Afterall,you all move in the same direction!
Smh again!

coogar:
isn't that present from both genders? cheating wife can infect her hubby. cheating hubby can infect his wife. however, a cheating wife can sneak a bästard into the house - a cheating husband cannot sneak a bastärd into the house & claim the baby belongs to his wife.

that's the difference.

true!
And some women ehen?

InHim4Him:
Just wondering if you read your own comment. For you the problem is gender? SMH.

i smh too when i read her comment,what she is saying is that,once the man cheats,d woman should cheat too!
Smh again!

cococandy:
I don't know about you ladies but if a man cheats on me,it ruins everything for me.

I wonder what he said to her to woo her.
Were they the same things he said to me?

I wonder what he said when he was about to cum.
"You're the sweetest woman I've ever had"
I know he said that to me too.

He must have complimented her beauty in ways he did to me.

Maybe lied too. "I'm single. Not married. Divorced. Just broke up". Anything to get her to relax and open up.
I like to feel that I'm the apple of my man's eye.

If he could forget how valuable he said I was,if he could discard my well being and feelings the moment he see another,then it means I'm not the woman I thought I was to him.

It will make me feel CHEAP.

It is not acceptable. Not even slightly acceptable.

I don't know what he'll feel if I cheat on him but I'm pretty sure it's akin to what I'll feel if he cheats on me.

This is deep! Extremely deep!
Similar thing i told a lady sometimes ago. Some men don't actually have conscience,how will you "hit" your chest with a "strange woman",and also "hit" your wife with the same chest,someone you have vowed to spend the rest of your life with...well,my conscience won't let me do that sha!
Same things go for the women too!
And reading the Op open-mindedly,he is right!
I know a man who has been cheating on his wife,yet divorced her when he caught her red-handed cheating on him;he didnt even think twice,he sent her packing,the lady did all she could to reconcile but he wouldn't accept!

I doubt it. In a country filled with hausa/northern muslims and muslims too,i don't think so!
Except she becomes the VP and something now happen to d President in the case of GEJ,even at that,she will not last!

lepasharon:
Nope. The belief in god is still there. Just no belief in any organized religion/Christian sect of now.

What about Jesus,do you believe in Him?

Elkewwty:
Can u just summarize all these ish u wrote?

I dont like reading long posts...

If the post is about sex in the sexuality section or if its a romantic story in the romance section,you will read and reread,you will even ask the writer to finish the story if he didnt,now someone gave you an answer to your question twice which will take you only 1minute to read and you are saying you are allergic to the truth? Well,Satan is also allerggic to the truth,no wonder he gave ppl like you time to read fictitious stories about sex and romance which add nothing to you,but to read the Bible,hell no!
May God help us!

limamintruth:
welcom back my dearest empiree

I knew u wont be able to resist d juiciness of our discuss, lol.
Even ur prophet muhammad believed completely in the Holy Bible as seen in various verses of ur Quran (e.g surah 2:285)

So no one is blaspheming any1 here ok? Se oti gbo??

Muslims are everly confused. The Bible is corrupt yet they do all they can to put their fake prophet in it! Yet they try to validate their plagarized book with it!
Confused set of ppl

Happy Birthday Madamoiselle, great strength and wide wisdom!

Something is not right,i am suspecting the SA government!

Eni ti o ba ni Jesus,o ni oun gbogbo!

The President is just deceiving himself, many muslim will not vote for him,they dislike him with all their guts,even the ones with him in aso rock sef!

Acidosis:
May God punish all those involve in Ministerial work because of money.

amen brother, amen!

xwolverine:
The problem is not the meat in itself, it's the ideology behind the whole exercise, which aims to desecrate the holy bible by giving legitimacy to an illegitimate event. The Bible instructed Abraham to sacrifice Isaac not Ishmael as the Muslims would have us believe, this singular context makes it wrong for a christian to eat Ileya meat, because by so doing you are unknowingly accepting the lie aimed at corrupting the lineage of Christ, which was through Isaac.

For those trying to blackmail Christians with Halal meat, by saying if you've eaten meat in the southwest, that you've eaten ileya meat. I will say this, they are two unrelated contexts, one is generic while the other is aimed at corrupting the origins of Christ, please do not be deceived and be ignorant.

This is the singular reason why all the Islamic expeditions of the Ottoman empire was aimed at identifying the burial grounds of all the prophets in the Bible, and once identified, mosques were built on them. The main reason is to give legitimacy to an illegitimate belief.

Shalom

Wow,this is eye-opening!
Plus most ppl here has not attended their yidi before,there is some sort of pronouncement they make while killing the ram,i doubt if ppl knw what it means!

As long as it is blessed and sanctified with the blood of Jesus,nothing will happen!

Mine was very funny. It was painful that i lost the job,very painful.
I was asked for my expectation as regards salary.
"I said 100k to 120k"!
I was never called back!

This is strong. What about in other areas,i only see you talk about sex?

berem:
you don't know what it is to hang my two legs on air for more than 25mins all in the name of fuccking. Coogar,you no go understand.

lmao@hang.
Wait,is it that ladies are no longer enjoying sex or what?
Btw,its really abnormal for a guy to stay that long,ha ha,wht about his own waste? What if his back breaks? When you are not a machine,hitting d same whole for one hour? Classic!:/

Going crazy because of that? Classic!
And finish your story abeg,why did he say that? He can't just wake up and say that,no?

PastorKun:
He also like the others preaches the fraudulent tithe doctrine in his church. As far as true christianity is concerned, any pastor that preaches tithes to his congregation is a charlatan.

Poor you,you could nt find anything against him in ur Op,now you are crying tithe again.
True christainity? I guess you are d only person practising that!

cuteshantel39:
Corpers serving in Edo state,ex corpers dt served in Edo state. Were u able to save? If yes pls tell us how. because am currently servin in Edo state mehn d 19800 is nt jus gettin anywhere.

it depends on how u spend. What about state allowance or the money given to u at ur PPA!

Funny but true.
Na ladies dey plenty singles meetings. Na dem plenty for marriage deliverance programme!

Not all women! Again,not all women!

Mondisweets: I think if nigerian men change their attitude towards marriage and their wives they will be able to enjoy the fruits of their union. Once you go into a union with a negative mentality, best believe me you will never enjoy it.

I think if Nigerian women change their attitude towards marriage and their husbands they will be able to enjoy the fruits of their union...

PastorKun: He is not any better, he preaches "all my enemies must die christianity" whereas Jesus taught us to love our enemies.

funny,i was expecting you to say this to confirm how biased you are!
Is that not better than what you mentioned in your Op?