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carefreewannabe:
Does it mean that non-virgins should not be allowed to marry anymore? Never again?

the church is guided by a standard, and that standard is the Bible. a virgin should keep himself/herself till marriage as a Christain. For the non-virgins,the fact that they are no more virgins doesn't mean they won't be allowed to get married, that's why most churches subject intending couples to counseling before marriage, things like this and many others will be discussed.
In the case of the op, the church ought to have asked the couples for the result of the test before the day,that's why i do not believe the story among other things.

carefreewannabe:
If the church doesn't want to have children born out of wedlock, then they should be eager to allow the couples to marry who are expecting a child, logical, isn't it?

No intimacy before marriage, it's not scriptural.
The intending couples are expected to keep themselves before appearing in a church, in the presence of a priest.
Getting pregnant is way out of it, let alone for someone who you are not getting married to. The test is to ensure there's no pregnancy before the day.

It's only God That can do something Like this.
Thank God for her.

MissSlimbody:
And what is Ile Agbara

Me just dey translate o. That one pass my mouth.

Shuu, people still dey ask this question? Yes na, she should.

MissSlimbody:
hahahahaha

What is power house

Ile agbara

Since you are working, and I believe he is also, Why not get married instead of burning in just. You guys will do it again especially if you visit him in his house.

Emusan:
I don't even think you sometimes pounder over your statement before you post it, if what you said above is true do you also think APC will ever say something good about PDP (according to your own illustration)?

After this your statement BUT you can still believe that those Islamic scholars you're copying their explanation of the Holy Bible (which you and many Muslims take as a solid truth for the real Biblical explanations) are also interpreting Biblical text accordingly without taking them out of context.

It's obvious that you lack something but you will never agree that you lack it...(Wisdom is missing)

Wish I can like this your post more than once, sometimes I wonder the part of the brain this guys use in thinking. Smh.

Allah heal the sick ke? If I hear. Even his prophet didn't have time when there were slaves to catch and men's wives to take. And to try think he died of food poisoning.

Mzflexydeeva:
Day 11: learnt something today......when you truly. love there are no limits

What Learneth you today?

Long overdue, if possible, ushers should be given cane and beat the seducing spirit outta those ladies. It is called the house of God, not the house of prostitute.
Any lady not satisfied with that should either find another church that allows it or stay at home. Afterall,the road is narrow says the good book.

Afi igba ti thread yii de 124 pages. Oga o

Thugnificent:
Thanks everyone for the responses so far. I thank God for his mercies upon my life, I just graduated from the Uni and by November I will be going for service. The problem now is I can't wait anylonger. Some people are advicing me to get married forgetting the fact that I need a stable source of income first. My hormones are raging everyday, so is it a sin to self service once in a while till i get ready for marriage? I'm sure God will understand my predicament.

You do not sound like someone that one to let Go. And if you are not willing or ready to let go, there's nothing anybody can do for you bros.

adaybayor:
let it go. you don't have to insult Muslims, were the pastors forced to allow him? have you asked how much he donated before leaving the chur h?

How much he donated indeed, you can as well tell me since you have that info.
I can see them giving him an award or something.
The point is if the election is not around the corner, will you see him there?

Islam and hypocrisy. Like they can allow a Christian in a mosque to do likewise.
Smh.

When you don't get married to your friend.

joyce2013:
thanks ....i got that....its not acceptable....sometimes love makes you forget some morals.....i needed someone to dig morals back to my head. thanks

You are still dating him na. What makes you so sure that you will marry him. Dating a guy and visiting him to the point of staying alone with him in his bed is an invitation to sex No matter How holy you claim you are.

Let your No be No and stand by it.

I Love you ke. I am not sure I have ever heard that before, Lol, But that doesn't mean the Love isn't there. Infact Love plenty, I guess in this case action speaks louder than words.

Lol, it's not new, it happens all the time. One need to be careful with housemaids.

remsonik:
Most men chase after prostitutes simply because of their low self worth. No satisfaction a prostitute can give you that your wife can't give you ...Dogs!!!

You are very correct. The wife can also satisfy the husband whichever way he wants. It's lack of self-control and greediness in that area that leads to patronizing of prostitutes.

mcfynest:
hmmmmmmm

I can attend any church. But my spouse can't tell me that when we marry, I will be attending her church, it's not done.
She has to attend my church. These are things that causes tension in homes.

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bellenana:
I AM SO HAPPY AS I GAVE MY LIFE TO CHRIST TODAY.SOMEBODY HELP ME SAY THANK YOU JESUS FOR CHANGING MY LIFE

Congratulations, welcome to God's family.

This is a hard one. But you two need to Discuss..
Do you think you can attend her church? Do you really know her church? I mean really?
Plus I feel she should be attending your church.
Please,if you are planning to marry her, don't attend her church if she can't attend yours. The proper thing is for her to attend your church, she can be wearing whatever she wanna wear outside your church.

Someone jokingly said to me when i was serving in enugu. "the money you will spend on marrying an igbo girl, abeg go use am buy land and build a house in your hometown, lol."
Even ibos are afraid of marrying ibos.
how will i pay 2million naira for bride price?

I have told guys in relationship. Dont for any reason send a lady to school, if she is the person you are gonna marry, YOU ARE NOT HER PARENTS FOR CRYING OUT LOUD.
Dont spend stupidly on a lady, same thing goes for the lady.
I pity the lady, when karma visits her now, she will say her dead granny is the one troubling her.
some women sha.

No. What does a minor knows about marriage and keeping a home?

You fast during the day na. And you pakurumo during the night except you both agree otherwise.
But no pakurumo during the day ooo

Candour:
@the bolded, My bro, do you honestly believe no Muslim voted Jonathan in 2011? If you say they didn't, how then did he win? By rigging?

That's not what I am saying. Plus I am talking about this coming election, you will be surprised that only 2 out of 10 Muslims will vote in Jonathan in the coming election.

Rilwayne001:
no, but majority are muslims atleast 70%

Lets say 30% out of the 70% voted him in 2011.

Did they also vote him simply because he is muslim? as you claim up there?

hypocrite

I know you are blind the truth. All what you are saying are baseless assumptions. Majority of the northern Muslims voted for buhari, no wonder they went on rampage when he Didnt win.
You can't tell me northern Muslims votes urshered in Jonathan.
I will say it again, Muslims hate Jonathan because he is a Christian and for this reason, they will vote against him.
I Dont expect you to accept That.