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Liispa:
Its probably your browser, just checked it.
Do you have a job offer in BC?

inspiredabbey:
The Most Important Thing is Love and Fear Of God.

I got married to my beautiful and loving wife fourteen years ago. We courted for four years before marriage and me strictly observed no sex before marriage. We both came from a background that discouraged premarital sex and we were cool with that. While we were dating, I observed that she was always having severe menstrual cramps and pain for 2-4 days every month but we never took it as something serious.

On our wedding night, I knew something was wrong as she was in severe pain during sex. I knew she was not a virgin before marriage because she told me about an unfortunate incident that happened to her when she was very young. It was quite obvious to me that she doesn't enjoy sex because of pain and the fact that her parent circumcised her. (How I hates her parents for this).

I love my wife dearly, and the thought of being unfaithful to her never crossed my mind. Over the years, God has been giving me the inner strength to show great understanding to her emotional needs and improvise for our sexual life. I know that on her part, she is making constant sacrifices to endure the pains just to please me. There are periods she becomes paranoid that I will leave her. Her reactions is understandable as we have been TTC for 13 years. We have been to several hospitals and have spent so much money on medical procedures and IVFs. Initially she was diagnosed of fibroid and she had two hysteroscopy to remove the fibroid. We tried another IVF after the surgery to no avail.

Her menstrual and ovulation pains got progressively worst and she developed the accumulation of bloody fluids in her tummy. She was initially misdiagnosed by two high profile hospitals of liver cancer and ectopic pregnancy respectively. These were very difficult period for us. But thankfully she was eventually diagnosed of severe endometriosis and she commenced treatment immediately. It took thirteen years for doctors to diagnosed what was wrong with my wife-ENDOMETRIOSIS.

Most doctors often overlook endometriosis as the leading cause of infertility in women. The pains of endometriosis is indescribable and very few people also understand that husbands whose wives suffers from this ailment do suffer emotional pains and stress.

With hormonal treatment, her pain is now manageable. We are still hopefully TTC. My parents and siblings have been very supportive. They know I love my wife dearly and they respect our privacy and decisions.

This is our story.

I narrate this story to encourage all those who are TTC not to give up in showing love to their spouses and to have the fear of God. I prayerfully and earnestly look forward to the day my wife will carry our baby in her arms with a smile in her eyes.

iamfertile:
does anyone have mummdav number?I misplaced it - pls I need it

Oleayo22:
Hello Sis,
Have you gotten the number of the doctor i used? Here is his number- 08023267003. Please give him a call or send a message to know when he is free. Sorry just checking my nairaland messages now. All the best.

Jellos:
Contact person- Matron Fausat 08032235461 of Raheem memorial hospital at Lawason surulere

Meeenah:
There the one Oleayo22 its off badore road not far from the busstop. He is the one I usedas well .checkout his number on her posts.

Jellos:
@Mirian91, I know one BUT in surulere. He is a Pakistan qgynecologist that many have used on this thread if you dont mind distance reply for his contact

delor:
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I pm u my sis

Oleayo22:
Anyone interested in seeing the gynae I used can pm for details. Am not sure Its allowed for me to send it on the thread.

Enchanted16:
@Oleayo22, I sent you a message, could you please provide the contact for the doctor you used for the flushing.

NB: I am a silent member but all info read here has been immensely useful to me. Thank you all.

Memunah:
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I stay at Ajah.. What hospital please.I am interested

Oleayo22:
I didn't use Dr Kola or the Pakistani Dr. My doctor is in Ajah, he has his own hospital. I did flushing for four days with break of a day.
But very important, please stay on serrapeptase and the Chinese teas for at least 3months in between massage your tummy with castor oil.

Starmummy:
Been awhile mamas,may God make this journey short for us.

Please who has idea of anyone that sells serap (doctors best) here? TTC expenses is killing me slowly�

Lambyks:
Hello fruitful mothers please I really need your help now.
This is my 5th year in marriage and am 35.
I have been battling with adhesions after mycomectomy for 3years.
Since this year I have not seen my menses due to the scarring.
How do I get rid of this and get a BFP.
I have Serrapeptase, and Chinese teas what other can I add to get effective result.
DH is really worried.
Please help a sister.

mjblinks:
Good morning all. Please is skipping of rope exercise good for a ttc person

Lukyme:
what? pls sis where did you buy the ovulation kit for 500?

cyntybabe:
Good morning everyone, i ran a home pregnancy test and it showed this, one clear line & one faint line. What does this result says? Waiting for your reply.

Adebizzy:
Good morning mama's in the house, please help a sister my right Fallopian tube is blocked I have Serra I can't afford wobenzyn .i need wobenzyn and Chinese tea I don't have money to get it. May God grant us a big fat positive soon than expected. Thanks please help me....

oluwaleokey:
Hello Mamas...
Good to visit here
Please i feel i ovulate during mensurating... is this possible? Any one with similar experience?
Will appreciate any advise on this
Kindly quote me

Thanks all

Seun:
Your name is now capitalized but I didn't make it all caps because that's considered as shouting on the net!

urcutecrush:
Yes we usually treat it together and we have done two sfa and two hvs and we have treated it for up to Six times and it is still moderate growth.Am really frustrated.

Scientists:
Sorry to intrude.

I know am in a wrong thread sha but i seriously need help

Please mamas in the house, my friend had her last period last month 11th, but up till now, we still haven't seen anything.

We did pt strip test today, it came out negative but yet, no mensuration.

Is it possible that she is pregnant?

cochtrane:
I'll help you with your writing. Send me a pm.

Funky123:
It's a great pleasure to be in the presence of the most high,the maker of all things,the God of the day and night,creator of heaven and night.....Father we thank you,For our homes,our jobs,our businesses,for our husbands we thank you,for healthy living and provisions we thank you....

Lord this afternoon,we have come to ask for forgiveness,if there is anything we have done that might stand against your blessings in our lives,holy spirit forgive us in Jesus name...Amen

In one mind and one spirit we pray for all women here, weather they join us in today's fast or not,Father bless our wombs with children from you alone, silence all mockers and cause our lips to be filled with joy,Lord we pray for rains of Positive pregnancy tests,the one you will make us carry to full term oh Lord,Lord settle us all and Let your name be glorified.....Let us have testimonies that you do wonders oh Lord.....We believe your own Report is the greatest,turn down every negative Doctors report....Even for as many that will seek medical help, direct them to the right places, provide all that will be needed to make this journey Swift and productive and by this time next year..... Let us look back and glorify your name

In Jesus Awesome name we have prayed.....Amen