Please my Sabi people, help an amateur to avoid misrepresentation in my application. Please I will explain in detail.
I am a contract staff in my current job in a financial institution. Please what do you guys advise I do? Should I use company X that outsourced me as my employer, or should I use the financial institution Z where I am working? Also, since it is company X that will write my reference letter, it only makes sense that I use them.
I decided not to include anything about the company Z where I'm working in, because it may raise eyebrows since its internationally recognized to avoid me making much explanation.
But again, the job description is going to a problem if I use company X. Company Z will not send me o because they cannot issue me anything since I'm a contract staff. The only thing I have in company Z is their ID card. My entry file and offer letter are from company X.
Pls, help me I'm confused, even though I would like to add company Z to appear but let me hear from experienced people.
So sorry to be disappointed. It happens alot while in the TTC journey.
It could be pre menstrual syndrome(PMS) or chemical pregnancy. But its only a chemical pregnancy that can appear positive and negative later. Most people didnt even know that they took in but the body will terminate it when their period is due or a week after and it will be like a normal period.
Patience is key. Since it's her luteal phase, a little more patience won't hurt. Let her wait till she miss a period, then she can test on the second day of a missed period to get a positive result.
Also note that, premenstrual syndrome will give you all signs of pregnancy.
Baby just to us all
Floxy14: Hello everyone, good morning and a glorious week wish for us all. Thanks for your opinions and comments on my post. I still need more of your guide. This morning my wife noticed that her breasts are heavy and more full and she is worried. She is in CD 20(luteal phase) and her cycle is always between 27-29 days. Can someone help enlighten her. Though, the breasts do not hurt, but she is worried and confuse. Please, kindly advice. A lot of Baby dust.
It's called premenstrual syndrome. Nothing to worry about.
Teey2019: Good day mamas, I applaud the good works of everyone going out of their way to help others. Thank you for lifting others. I pray God answers all our prayers soonest. Please kindly assist 1. my af was few days late and contained (sorry tmi) ewcm and slippery clots and I had cramps throughout. It's a change from my normal flow and has me worried. Before af came, I was having pregnancy symptoms and very serious backache only for all symptoms to cease completely one day and af came next day. Can anyone shed light on this.
Please do not listen to such fellow who thinks it's still early for your wife to do HSG. Ignorance has killed our people and this is the reason a couple will stay 10+years being clueless about their fertility.
HSG is a good investigation to check the patency of the fallopian tubes. It is listed amongst many other investigation to check why a woman who is sexually active is not conceiving. Go ahead pls since it's recommended by a Gynae.
Please one more thing, do not go about discussing your plans with people especially with regards to fertility even family members need not be aware. All they can help do is to continue to put you guys in prayers.
Most of us here are not doctors but experience and personal research has turned some people here to fertility specialists . This journey is arduous and will end in praise.
Baby dust to us all
steveng23: Hello, can someone please tell me the dangers or side-effects associated with HSG test, because somebody adviced my wife not to try it with rhetoric that it is too early for her, despite we ttc for a year plus and a gyn recommended the test.
Same as me. Dear Lord, I'm sorry for saying that I wasn't ready some months ago. The Apple of your eyes is more than ready now. We needed to plan for our baby the reason we weren't ready. God pls answer your children. Every woman that desires a child deserves a child.
Sprinkling baby dust to all
Funky123: God,don't mind me when I said I wasn't ready months ago For your daughter is fully ready now.....I tap into May miracle and for other expecting Mama's here
Sabi Mama's,pls ovulation has come and go,we have done our part but am always feeling hotness in my stomach,pls what can i do....Help a Sister ooo
Thanks for the Info but please, these price ranges are in which state.
semisola: Hi mamas and papas to be, below are list of fertility tests couple who are trying to conceive should do.
1. Seminal fluid analysis. This is the most important test, this check for sperm count,motility and morphology of the mans semen.. Average price for the test 4k-10k
2. Trans vaginal scan. Trans vaginal scan, this is done using a probe like instrument and inserting it into the vagina, its better than abdominal scan as it sees the womb better, ovarian cyst or fibroid can be detected. Average price for the test 3k-5k.
3. Follicular monitoring This test is very important and shouldn't be over looked, it is used to check the follicules and ovulation is determined, i use to think i ovulates on day 14, using ovulation strip, after undergoing follicular monitoring, it showed that i usually ovulates on day 16. This is done an average of 3 times monthly. Average price is 2k-5k
4. HSG Very important test to check for tubal patency, you are usually booked on the first week after your period, then a dye like substance is inserted into your tubes, they watch to see if it passes through or stops half way, this test is very important as it is impossible to become pregnant with blocked tubes even if you ovulates, its a most for all TTCing moms, infact, i got pregnant the following month but miscarried. NB. Its very painful Price range for test is 25k-50k.
5. Hormonal Assay male and female. This test is important for detecting hormonal imbalance in both male and female. A problem detected is half solved. Price range 8k to 10k
6. Hystreoscopy. Mums to be, this test is very important, most importantly it is carried out under sedative, so you wont feel pain, this procedure is carried out by inserting a device with a camera into the uterus through the vagina carnal, the physician can visually inspect the uterus, checking out for uterine scaring aka Asherman syndrome, polyps,or fibroid. If you have had a DnC, pls do this,as uterine scaring lead to infertility or recurrent miscarriage. Price range 30k to 50k
You can feel free to add to the list. May we all carry our babies in the nearest time. Ameen!
When I had this experience I kept testing and seeing BFN only to be told that it is premenstrual syndrome. I had almost all symptoms of early pregnancy.
I wish yours is pregnancy. Baby dust to us all
mumjosh: Congratulations to our mama s that just got their BFP. You shall carry to term IJN. Amen
Please I don't und3rstand what is happening again. Been having severe nip tenderness,and enlarged with a lil bit of fullness for a week now. AF was suppose to come yesterday,but didn't. I tested this morning it show negative. Am having on n off cramp too. Pls my beautiful Mama's who has experience this before? Am anxious and hoping for the best
Ahhhh, if it's me anxiety would have made me test it since. . I wish you a BFP. AF will not arrive in Jesus name. I'm keeping fingers crossed and praying for you. You will share your good news.
Flourishing19: I haven't tested since then and AF has not arrived, so I will hold on till next Monday to test again. I am anxious. Thanks for checking up on me. Baby dust to us all.
@florissante I'm more than happy for you. You are well informed and your body had no choice than to respond to you positively with all these you did. Pls can you say hi to my email let me add you up on my WhatsApp. I'm really hoping I get a testimony like you but I think that I'm not doing enough. I need you to guide me. I already did the garlic and ginger combo, bought vitamins E and C, folic acid. My email Ogukagloria@gmail.com
happymummy: Congratulations mama You shall carry to terms and deliver safely in Jesus name Amen
How far? Your last reply said you were waiting. What's the news...
Baby dust ooo
Flourishing19: Funny enough, I am also expecting AF on Sunday too although, I have a long cycle of 45 days. I haven't tested at all. Waiting to see what happens on Sunday first before taking the next step.
What I actually mean is, during the filling of work history, will my job responsibilities be exactly as it is written in my reference letter.
Also, I studied Public Administration but didnt see it in the drop down box though I saw "business, management, marketing and other related courses". Do you think I should click other or go ahead to choose Business, management etc. Even my diploma course is not there too. Thanks
Please I need to be a direct contacts of people who have gotten ITA to guide me in filling my profile on Express entry. I'm scared of misrepresentation and the likes. I also need to create a standard profile using this period of home-stay to enable me Express my interest in a province. If you are lead to help me, you can please reach me on Ogukamirian@gmail.com. Thanks in advance.
Please I need to be a direct contacts of people who have gotten ITA to guide me in filling my profile on Express entry. I'm scared of misrepresentation and the likes. I also need to create a standard profile using this period of home-stay to enable me Express my interest in a province. If you are lead to help me, you can please reach me on Ogukamirian@gmail.com. Thanks in advance.
MJKJ: @SunshineD1 how are you doing today? Any news from AVO?
This silence from them is disturbing. At least this time last year, AVO has started dropping PPRs in large numbers.
Roseey0: Add Serrapeptase and/or WobenzymN if yu can afford it Ma. Soursoup leaf , ginger, tumeric and black pepper. Bring to boil and drink all round.
Inflammation is a time bomb . Doctors are still joking around with it saying the pain is normal. A lot of ladies are living with it and has accepted that it is normal. But it is only burying its root and will later manifest as inability to conceive.
If you have pains or feel so sort of way. Pls find solution asap.
@mercyooGod. When scan confirms you have PID the best option is to treat it with the regimen of the infection which is caused mainly by chlamydia and gonorrhea and you must treat it with your partner and make sure you don't have multiple sexual partners but if you do, they have to be treated before you gbensh with them again.
The recommended drug for PID is doxycycline and metronidazole( they are the spectrum recommended for PID treatment) which you must take for 14days without sex. Pls consult your doctor. I'm saying this from my experience because I have treated PID with my husband and it cleared.
Roseey0: I will ask around. For PID the best approach is complimentary. Know the active bacteria in the infection site, get a proper antibotics combination for it. When this is certified clear. Now follow up with colon cleansing (some of them hide in the gut to reinfect ) and antiinflammatory herbs to ensure full recovery.
Once you are good, you will know. Zero pains during Menses except mild contraction the uterus does to shed it lining. All unnecessary discharge will stop as well, you will feel at peace.
I heard from IELTS staff that they don't upload remark online. You will have to go collect the original TRF from their office. You are supposed to also get a mail saying that your EOR is ready. Good luck!
damiek: Hello All, Nice job. I did MOD/IELTS on the 21 March and my results were LSRW 9896.5 so I applied for a remark immediately. IELTS then sent an email attaching a refund form and Bank Trf form. Based on the mail I was expecting an upgrade in my online result immediately however nothing has happened. Please how long does it take to put the new result online cos I really want to upgrade my EE fast from my current 467. Kindly assist seniors.
michaelf284: (1)You can either use "To Whom" or use the IRCC address: Immigration Refugees and Citizenship Canada (IRCC), Centralized Intake Office, Sydney, Nova Scotia Canada Whichever of either will make u sleep well at night.
(2)The reference letter can be in your current/passport name with your nèe in brackets e.g Mrs Jane Doe (nèe Smith) Cheers
Good afternoon my wonderful people. Pls my former employer is asking who the reference letter should be addressed to. Is it good to use " To whom it may concern". Pls your responses are urgently needed. Also, I got married while working in that company before I left, do you think I should maintain my maiden name in the reference letter or should my employer use my married name since I got married before leaving. My married name is in my passport.
Big congratulations to you. I tap into your blessing. TTC anxiety is second to none.
Annaseyi: @Mirian91, this was my post during my 2ww. I understand how frustrating this period can be. That was why I had to vent here when all hope seemed lost.
But to the glory of God, I tested on Valentine's day and two thick red lines were staring at me. Safe to say, DH had a fantabulous valentines.
Sorry I couldn't announce earlier mummies but Ms and anxiety from my previous history (blighted ovum) made me to wait it out before coming to share the news. I have had two scans to confirm and both times my Lil bean is growing perfectly.
This is to tell you that all hope is not lost and miracles happen when we do not expect it.
Spreading baby dust on all Mamas here and wishing you a short stay.
Touchy story! You are a strong man. God bless you and your wife, and it shall be a positive result for her very soon. One thing is finding the cause of a problem and another is solving it. Finding the cause is the largest part of success. I'm also TTC and I'm hoping my miracle is near. Since January I have been having severe menstrual pains that lands me in hospital. The first doctor suggested "guessed" Endometrosis and talked about Laparascopy. That was my first time of hearing those terms, I quickly googled and became scared. Even as I'm rejecting it one mind is scared. It's not my portion. Women body are very complex. God help us
inspiredabbey: The Most Important Thing is Love and Fear Of God.
I got married to my beautiful and loving wife fourteen years ago. We courted for four years before marriage and me strictly observed no sex before marriage. We both came from a background that discouraged premarital sex and we were cool with that. While we were dating, I observed that she was always having severe menstrual cramps and pain for 2-4 days every month but we never took it as something serious.
On our wedding night, I knew something was wrong as she was in severe pain during sex. I knew she was not a virgin before marriage because she told me about an unfortunate incident that happened to her when she was very young. It was quite obvious to me that she doesn't enjoy sex because of pain and the fact that her parent circumcised her. (How I hates her parents for this).
I love my wife dearly, and the thought of being unfaithful to her never crossed my mind. Over the years, God has been giving me the inner strength to show great understanding to her emotional needs and improvise for our sexual life. I know that on her part, she is making constant sacrifices to endure the pains just to please me. There are periods she becomes paranoid that I will leave her. Her reactions is understandable as we have been TTC for 13 years. We have been to several hospitals and have spent so much money on medical procedures and IVFs. Initially she was diagnosed of fibroid and she had two hysteroscopy to remove the fibroid. We tried another IVF after the surgery to no avail.
Her menstrual and ovulation pains got progressively worst and she developed the accumulation of bloody fluids in her tummy. She was initially misdiagnosed by two high profile hospitals of liver cancer and ectopic pregnancy respectively. These were very difficult period for us. But thankfully she was eventually diagnosed of severe endometriosis and she commenced treatment immediately. It took thirteen years for doctors to diagnosed what was wrong with my wife-ENDOMETRIOSIS.
Most doctors often overlook endometriosis as the leading cause of infertility in women. The pains of endometriosis is indescribable and very few people also understand that husbands whose wives suffers from this ailment do suffer emotional pains and stress.
With hormonal treatment, her pain is now manageable. We are still hopefully TTC. My parents and siblings have been very supportive. They know I love my wife dearly and they respect our privacy and decisions.
This is our story.
I narrate this story to encourage all those who are TTC not to give up in showing love to their spouses and to have the fear of God. I prayerfully and earnestly look forward to the day my wife will carry our baby in her arms with a smile in her eyes.
fairygeh: And as God liveth that day will come,the day you will carry your child in your arms,look back at what you have gone through and smile.it is well with you and your wife in Jesus name
zexy2030: https://www.nairaland.com/5379616/how-satisfy-circumcised-lady-bed feel free to ask me any question, I don't know u nor seen you, so don't be scared. Every woman deserves to enjoy sex. if u r not enjoying it as a married woman, pls don't let ur friends pressure to cheat. Then there are natural fruits, I can remember d name now but it makes women naturally wet easily, then take red wine before sex, it helps too. once u r wet or lubricated and ur hubby is sensitive enough to notice when u r dry then u will orgasm vaginally and clitilly. if u orgasm via mouth action, that means u r not completely mutilated, it was only reduced. it's so small that u r man finds it hard to locate. But know this today, Ur clit( is like penis) is 4inch long, 1inch is out for u to play with then 3inches inside you. Except they want to kill u they can't mutilate that. 1. tell ur hubby to raise ur two legs up, bend it towards ur neck, pound u from top(with this u will understand what it means to shift womb that ur friends are talking about) or u on top, use your pussy roof( just like ur mouth, the roof of ur mouth) just 2inches deep from outside (vulva) to hit the dick hit so hard, u will scream for pleasure and get so hot that won't want to stop.
No I get orgasm through MouthAction but there are times hubby hits a sweet place while bed dancing and I wouldn't want him to stop. Please can you share the link where you wrote on how to satisfy a circumcised wife. Thanks
zexy2030: wow, thank God u r with the man wu understands ur body. u can get orgasm through vaginal sex, it is even the best. only 3% out of 100% women have had vaginal orgasm. Congrat u r one of the luckiest women. I have also written on how to satisfy ur circumcised wife. circumcised women have Gspot but a man should always have a lube for her to enjoy good sex. circumcised women are the best, if u can't get a virgin. one woman is enough for a man, if she doesn't cheat.