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Wonderful post, thanks for sharing.

This sure looks like an awesome experience! I never knew Rivers community has this to offer,Elephants and anaconda! Thats impressive,i felt it was only in SA you could get such wild life,good job.When next you planning another adventure to any other exotic natural sites in Nigeria Biko let us know!

Lol okay @ op

This is very interesting OP,thanks for the update but I suggest you concentrate fully and later you give us updates after the program has ended or better still later in the day.

This matter had better not be swept under the carpet!Presd-Buhari look into it,we need prove of the subsidy expeses!

The reason for this is simple,when men engage in pre-marital sex! The society doesn't realy have an issue when young men have sex indiscriminately,there is "nothing" like a virgin boy!
As such a lot of men "sample" different ladies before finally settling down to one in 'holy matrimony!'
You know they say "bad habits don't die easily"...so how then do you now expect same men to fulfill their vows religiously?Thats like a no-no for them,its only those who have the genuine fear of the most High God that choose to obey his instructions,simple!
Those that don't,continue to crave for "variety",which unfortunately they have been used to before walking down the aisle!
The Bible(God) was right when He said "say no to fornication"....
If a man had not tested several,he would appreciate one...since afterall that's all he knows!

The truth of the matter is that they are indeed decent and pretty ladies,but HOW and WHERE you meet ladies play a major role in who they realy are.The OP has to understand that they are a very limited amount of decent girls in a club!Introverts are more likely to be more decent than extroverts because they are generally reserved and not easily influenced by friends/society,and clubs aren't the best hangout spot for them.
DISCLAIMER:Am not in anyway saying clubbing is for bad/indecent girls,but if you as a guy meets a lady in a club and she says she does that every weekend that's definately a REDFLAG!!!Moderation is key.
Try not to spend/impress any Lady with your money,be prudent.If you don't know how to be prudent,use google "lol" but seriously though,she isn't your wife...therefore don't be her financial security until you wife her and also don't expect same(wifely duties)from her,you are not her husband!
Make her understand this,if she's decent she would be cool with you,if otherwise.REDFLAG!
Truth be told,as a lady myself its kinda hard to believe a dude of a marriageable age is single,with a good job,car and house.So instead of allowing that doubt to linger,clear the air on your status to any potential girlfriend and be firm when doing so.
Now all those ladies making request without accepting your proposal are totally ridiculous!Requesting from a partner in a relationship is not realy the best,then asking from a potential that's the height!(Let me stop here,tired of typing)
So my dear Gudrated,all the best in your quest!I pray you find her soon.

Young Lady its obvious you are in a very dicey situation,sincerly speaking I suggest you do the following:
1)From all indications,your boyfriend is very insecured and an abusive partner.There is nothing you can do to change this,listen accept this and move on.Don't ever tolerate abuse,yes I understand your reasons for doing so all this while:financial constrains!...but myDear is better to be alive and suffering,than to be dead and buried!With life comes hope.
2)Make healthy friendship with christian/muslim sisters,from there you could see someone that can accomodate you immediately.Move on and never look back!
3)While you doing this,don't make him know either by threats when arguing or just randomly,DON'T SPILL your plans to leave him else you just might not do so!
4)When you have relocated,look for a job...manage that sales girl and the insults that comes with it.Its just for a season,with your degree you would smile again.
5)Pray to God for direction.
Those of you that shamelessly poured insults on her are very MAD,STUPID and completely SENSELESS!MODS please don't ban me,some people need to be served the same bitter dish they serve others!Check mypost i DON'T ever insult people but it was very unfortunate when I saw this on a thread as pathetic as this.Cant humans have empathy or shut the F_up!

Am sure you have goten more than enough advice on this issue,just want to encourage you to attend Prophet TB's Joshua church and get the annoiting water.Pray fervently from now on till she puts to bed whether CS or V.Godbless.

Bae please reserve your comment for Feb 14th. a lot of thangs hapen cos of some sweet nonsense.[/quote
]Lool...soo true.

Soo sad,please have sex ONLY when you can been responsible for the associated consequences!The mother isn't the only one to be blamed,that child has a father;he shares in the blame and the larger society as well.
@op apart from what your Uncle did to the police(goodjob on that),you are yet to tell us,the present situation of the baby?Health status and where he or she is at the moment.A lot if people are interested in this baby-story.

Edwin Clark has said the truth,Jonathan's life is at stake!YES...He might seem clueless,he's yet 2rescue d chibok girls(unfortunately,majority of dem might be dead now),unable to solve d Boko-haram menace,but sincerly he doesn't deserve to be killed by some hungry-power-driven people that want to rule by FORCE!This same people are behind the BH madness all in a bid to give a badname to Jonathan's government,which they have done soo well!Stil not satisfied,now they want him dead!What a pity!Nigerians and dirty politics!!!

How can someone who has intentions to rule a country comprising of christians and muslims make such suggestion!I seriously wonder who is going to vote for him,he has just made a major blunder!Your belief is strictly your belief,Nigeria is a Nation of different beliefs!

I used to exist like this with my EX,spent awhole lot on him...yet he realy didn't deserve it.He didn't appreciate me whatsoever,so I plan to be totally different with my NEXT!(Although its in my nature to give,so it might be hard to stop but I would try).definately!

@op My partner shows 100percent everything on thee list,i know you've emphasized in †ђε furtility of this kind of relationship but my partner is a complete sweetheart,so leaving him is not an option.so i intend showing him this thread,believing he would see reasons to calm down some excesses.What do you think,is dat in itself a time-bomb?

"Mr president is very much concerned"indeed!And yet we keep hearing the same story year in year out!Its only an insensitive government that keeps on brooding over its problems,when it has the capacity to put an end to them."We would not expand the carrying capacity without expanding the facilities". Why tell us,are we in any way in-charge of FUNDS/BUDGET!