sect, am sorry to say this i usually dont do it but u need help!!!!!!!!!!!

The foolishness in you can only be cured by specicialist

3D Hunters,  Thanks for the responses you are making lot of sense, in the forum some people read and digest while some jump the guts, although human being are not at all the same but it alway a sensible ideal to think or should i say digest b.4 contributing.
I work with the CAMHS and on daily basis i come across series of suicidal and self harm cases, some are due to rejection and other psychological etc, my question is should at any time we as human being even consider this as an option especially when things are not going our way?
as a referrence, condemnation is not the solution to quered questions, sugestion could however impact suituation and promote effective service in the community.
No matter how ambigouis my post is , it is happening everyday.
There are sucide bomber and all, weand true we may not be able to stop it but we may through our comments suggestions and ideal be a blessing to some others who can impact clients with psychological problems. Also it is not just happening in the developing world, it is happening every where.

It is not alright. Every living thing strives to live as long as possible, even in the face of tremendous hardship. only when you are suffering from depression does suicide begin to seem like an attractive option.

Seun what a sensible response. all we need is, look around and feel the glory of God shinning on us to and feel luck to know God.
However the devil cloud one with strange taught and manic feelings that sometime you, that know God wont appreciate God in you.
I work in an environment where suicide is common and an everyday thing, young vibrant teen both male and female sees it as an option from their pain and anguish, many at time i wonder why they chose this option to Life?.

There are many reasons to post questions. The post is: Is It?and not can i or i will. However thanks for all your contributions to the post, For the sensible ones it will be act on, once again thank you all.

Miss D

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No,  Am Not Looking For Sympathy On Nairaland. It a forum and different question and opinion can be express on the post.

As davidylan states,

"Wait till u have ur daughter''

What goes round comes round in a nut shell, except in ur case i wish and pray you never have a

daughter!!!!!!!!!!!!! cos then she will be getting punished for ur sin.

u see with man like you, some women wish u were never

created by God. For you to have courage and sleep with a young girl and be bold to disclose it,

give me reasons to be worried about ur mental state, please seek help, u need serious counselling of

some sort, be it psychological or psychotherapy input.

alternative to the above is u get monitoring tag and be place on child sex offenders register.


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Miss D:

sometimesmes it hurt[/b]

Why does it hurt like hell, when we get disappointed by does we love and claim to love us.

Some of us feel hurts, broken hearted and sometime letdown, while some find it difficult to trust again. is there a solution to arching hearts?
is it suppose to be part of life experience!!! please i need someone to shade light

Alimondjoy,
Holiday indeed! Compulsory holiday.

@poster,
Yes it hurts when those you love turn their backs on you. But it is, as pointed out earlier, a part of experience. A part of life. For our world is created to accommodate two sides. The life and death; love and hate; joy and sorrow; each pleasing attributes closely followed by it opposite waiting to take over at the slightest opportunity. It is our duty to choose what we want, safeguard what we have, and protect ourselves from the dangers lurking around.

The only way not to make mistake is to gain experience: the only way to gain experience is to make mistakes!

Thanks for your contribution, it was wort it i must admit, however the curiosity of my post is beyond romance, more of the world around us.
I have had my fair share of painful romance and move on from that, but what about those we cant divorce or break away from?
our so call blood!!!!!

Any how suppose you are right,the answer lays in your post.

"sit back, and replay the experience in your quiet moment. There, you would find what went wrong".

Thanks

sometimesmes it hurt[/b]

Why does it hurt like hell, when we get disappointed by does we luv and claim to luv us.

Some of us feel hurts, broken hearted and sometime letdown, while some find it difficult to trust again. is there a solution to arching hearts?
is it suppose to be part of life experience!!! pls i need someone to shade light

very familar picture my dear, if u have it in u pls run before u do more demage to urself esteem, am sure u can do better , There are thing we do in life which deserve respect but if it brings pain dont be afraid to let it go, pls dear let it go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lawisong, it so perhtetic that you can made judgement of others, where do you think people who judge like you end up.
properly where you judged others to be -------------(Shame to you and greet Abacha for me when you go to hell because that is where every fake preacher like you will definitely end. )

This shows that been a man/woman of God does not mean that one cant be human.

Also let us all understand that there are many ways to life, if one way did not work, it fair to try another.

many couples are stuck in loveless marriage, If these ladies are unhappy in their current relationship please leave them alone to make constructive decisions about Their life and future, none of you critics know what any of these ladies are going tru.

We all deserved to have peace, although God is the author of peace. Why let pray for them rather than criticise them.

thank y've done well

[table]UNH!!!!!
I can't really say what life will be; without been love and been loved by someone.
Actually, i will porsit that u continue being good for her, but, u have to abstain from more than one time calling everyday. It can be funny sometimes when u call a girl more than ones a day. More than one calling can never on earth make her appreciate your feelings.
In actual fact, try as much as possible to be who you will be when she says "YES".[/table]

My brother, i salute u very well for ur advice he be like say man too they get jam at time goodoh!!!!!!!!
pls keep on keep luvin her but be careful, not to break. bend as much as u can

THIS IS TOO ROUGH

many of us women will probably be able to TELL A GUY, i Luv u if we truly do ,unlike u guy who can fake it FANTASTICAL

Very interesting what do you have to offer the lady, I mean give more of your Credential

you too give ur life bro, babe need to make heaven i beg

it a shame there are still people like you around, uncaged times like this i will encourage capital punishment, if your thing get cut off you will not tru it to the wrong group ole, agbaya

feed us in more babe, has often has you want or just does not call at all. Which one

nawa una no go kill person for this Nland, i beg

what is this pls explain

nawa oh una no go kill person for this naira land!!!!!!

i beg pick race you no need am

My question is : what makes u ladies mad when we men cheat on you.

It is the fact that u can't imagine your guys d**k in another girls pu**y.

or u can't imagine your guys lips and tongue in another lady own, am really confused here.

Please ladies that hav been cheated on before should let we guys know the koko behind your madness on your guys.

thank you.

What is that thing that makes u ladies mad.

I guess its the betrayal of trust.

Hello there,

CAn we turn the table and just out it to you!!! why do not you guys want to date a girl that has had alot of partners is it beacuse you can't just digest the fact that someone else has enjoyed long before you what you are about to enjoy. You always want to get what you believe is fresh and for you alone. If that is what you want why not give it in the same measures. What ever makes a lady lies in the mystery that makes a man want a gal that hasn't been around the hood. Call it ego in a femine jug.

d fact is d same sweet tin your man told u was d same sweet
tin he told d girl,so he deceivd both of u.it ll be very idiotic
2 attack d girl.ve u 4gotten d girl sees u as u c her,probably
she has intentions of attackin you to.

for once girls we need to unite in this thing call men cheating, ask our self is it what me getting mad or can i do better than him.

if he can do it once, he will do again so make a choice to deal with the situation and not stress your self by getting mad at all. It hard but can be done.

But you must ask yourself if you can leave with his bad habit As for the other lady what goes around ? Am sure babe's she can finish the puzzle, You Watch dat space,

lal baby you can do better on your own get a life b4 it late!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! my mother gave me d same advice yeard back but i was too nice to leave looking for pussle sorting trying to believe once he got settle in europe he will show better affection, baby dnt rope your self 4 ans in his behaviour he has the question and also d ans. we are what we are men dnt change you either leave him now that you can or live with him 4 ever taking him as he is

Think!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Good luck

Why are fingers not equall, will it not be better if all are the same?