Even unmixed pple grow their hair this long na shu

You seem to be in a hurry to end this im sorry to say theres no easy way out at this point. You need to get on your knees like never before talk to God. Then play the fool she has d upper hand now plus you are responsible for her and your baby.
You need to breathe, give yourselves space but u be sure to check up on them often. I adviced this cos u will always piss eachother off until u have a common ground and put aside the 'vulgarity'.Focus on u, fix urself up.As it is now there are no solid reasons for mutual marriage dissolution and u will only get fustrated if u keep fighting for it she expects u too so surprise her with what she least expects. Be happy always you need to be at peace with you to get through

PaperLace:

Firstly, the illustration he gave was on one with the MIL leaving with them _so, I addressed it from that angle.

Secondly, you don't know me or why I/we took that stand, neither did I say the rule is permanent. When you get married, feel free to pack all of them into your house, your choice. Every marriage is dynamic, you consider people you're dealing with and treat accordingly. Yes, that's not the issue on ground. Focus on the issue.

Babythug, I get your point.

I did too. I no get power to wrestle this night josh tomorrow is monday. Goodnight!

Op im not married but both my sisters married non catholics. There are no issues like this because we believe in one God. All their children are baptised in the catholic church. Though one of my sisters goes to the husbands church on sundays she makes time to attend weekday masses and prays. The other ones hubby is very understnding even drops them off on sundays atimes. There are no issues. No quarrels. My folks dont interfere even if popsy calls them once in while to try and go back to the faith he dont lord it over their husbands.

Both the man in question and the wife are head strong. God is not in support of strife! He hates divorce.

PaperLace:


-The fact that you insured your house, doesn't mean you should leave the gates open at night. That you're in an insured relationship (marriage) doesn't mean you should live apart when it's avoidable. Couples hide under "what will he, will be" to take important things for granted. The bible that instructed man and wife to LIVE TOGETHER knew its advantages far outweighs whatever will be _ all things being equal.

-My stand on extended families is harsh but it remains same, no extended family in my house on permanent basis. I don't care what side of the divide they are from, don't come live with us!!!
They always cause more harm than good.

So my dear, couples should do their best to mitigate anything that would lead to marital issues _living apart is one of them.

Whether they live together or with all the members of both families if they as a couple cannot agree and speak with one voice they will always have issues. Thats why they say love is never enough in marriages whatever happened to sacrifices?

Secondly, you dont knw how life will happen so be careful with the kind of permanent rules you make in temporal instances. Who knows it may be your own people in need of accomodation. But thats not the issue on ground now

Why trouble her remains? Wickedness or foolishness?

i know na.na their way

Bros dont embarass yourself. That man would expose her and disgrace you if u try it. Respect Urself and tame ur woman.
That joke is too expensive and to even say it out then shes probably thinking it and u making her make a fool of u with ur...dnt knw aw to call it. Ease up. Let her knw u got this no joke nd if she wont be real with u a 100% she can take a hike.

We ladies know how and when to keep men at bay and ur wife could if she wanted to. After 6yrs!!!! Shes bored and shes flirting. Tame her before it escalates

chisco82:
No ma, not just careful, hes not also an hypocrite.

I said cheerful not careful what does hypocrisy have to do with loosing up

Do they always catch this man at the wrong time Hes not a cheerful person at all

So they honeymooned in dubai. Had twins. Patience and Don jazzy joined the movie. Any reason why we shud still watch the part2?

baby124:
Madam keep shut. How many times have we heard women coming out to respond only to be disgraced later by the same man. See Dino Melaye's wife as an example. Let the guy defend himself. Next time you will keep your business out of social media.

As in ehen we dont learn. And the niccur will be in one side silently observing. Ladies lets learn to pick fights that are worth it. You weren't there so hush up!

thesishelp:
I need that witchcraft ....your mama fit provide am?

Lol be careful wht u ask for brov

Abudu2000:
Meanwhile someome dey conner dey deligently do work of 30k per month hoping to build his mama this

This is after 38years bro. Make that person keep working one day hustle must pay

Alwayson:
that's the second version of it

Remix

Insatiable customer your own even get front zip u no happy

tokodekehinde:

Love is more of an action word than it is a feeling. There are times you don't feel it. What to do incase like this is to begin to do the things that stimulate Love.
Spend time with her, tell her how beautiful she is, do things in common, hold her hand in public, invest in her and when having sex with her, do it with the I mention of also satisfying her, also take out time to think about the good things about her, all this will stimulate Love once again]

Exactly! Op you should read this
Go back to what made you fall in love in the first place
We dont choose hw and when we fall in love but we choose to stay in love.
Cept of cos the op has fallen in love with someone else with whom he has new love interest

Na so

Like we dont know already. Let the change start with you oga no be to just dey talk. Shey he deposited 8m for a 16m ride for a supposed gift for Mercy. Toh make he start NGO with am and pursue his new found project as she no go need am again.

Trully there are many things people could take on as a pet project to ease the lives tonthe citizenry if only we had empathy as a culture in nigeria

You want out thats what you asking. You want anonymous and faceless people to tell you how to deal after making decisions? Brother go do you and leave us alone. If you did your homework well you wont be asking us this.

Fix it! The grass is not always greener at the otherside. Her only problem is agreeing to be your wife. Go home and start being a good husband to that woman. Put her first!

Love the jacket

RIP Chisom! May heaven embrace you. Amen

Weldone!
Na boutique she go come wear for the marriage. HML!

I knew this was going to happen. They are infiltrating everywhere. When i heard herdsmen were close to okpella i knew that soon we will start hearing stories that touch. I support community vigilantee security cos the federal govt aint gonna do shii.

Whatever happened to those opc/bakassi boys of that year. I think its time we go back to that way of securing ourselves cos nw they are nt aftr lands and properties they are after human lives

Wow how nice! Indians are good dress makers and most of their dresses and embroidries are handsewn so i believe her

StainlessH:
So Tonto's foundation is only for her face

She will soon come and be crying in an interview now.

Even the husband estranged or not charity they say begins at home

Omo na so my villa don turn to place wey people dey troop in yearly for race events #proudlyEdo

Since when has the FG been accountable to the people. Ke ma tan ara yin be. Wait till some set of people start travelling down to see him and then sip tea and take pictures with him only then can we knw. Just be patient

elhafeez:
She is beautiful. My Babe fine pass her. Congratulations to thé couples

Its just one set

Bad Baddo Baddest comes to mind lol

See as jagaban throway face

See as GEJ squeeze face

See as IBB straight his own like na una two sabi dem say make we keep our frnds close and our enemies CLOSER!!!!

Men just playing mind games and making money off Nigeria and Nigerians.This has always been the trend.

Make them pay our folks their pension abeg thats all that concern me right now

tonytony208:

But from the look of things, you too have become a wailer.

This is so apt!