harsysky: Your people will tag you "IPOB" just because you said the truth and nothing but the truth
One of them already did but I do care less. I'm not one to follow the crowd or blindly accept popular opinions. Instead, I carefully examine and evaluate information before forming my own beliefs and opinions. I'm not swayed by peer pressure or the need to conform, and I'm confident in my ability to think independently and make informed decisions.
The word superiority exist in the dictionary for a reason.. If you find your self superior to animals ,then yes some humans are more superior than other humans. Just like Tinubu is superior than your Father.
Ha :oYou're absolutely right, I have been struggling with self-doubt and low self-esteem. You must be a mind reader or a master of intuition. I'm impressed. I'm going to take your observation as a wake-up call to work on building my confidence and self-worth. Thanks for the honest insight.
If I say that Oyinbo (white people) are ahead of us in many areas, they'll accuse me of having an inferiority complex. But deep down, they know that Africans, especially Nigerians, have achieved little without the inventions and innovations of white people. Some Yoruba people ( I'm a Yoruba mama) will boast about their rich culture and traditions, but let's be real, what has our culture and tradition done for us? Even they have abandoned their traditional religious practices to adopt those of the white man.
Efuaye: Twenty Five years of unbroken democracy, how has Nigerians fared?
I remember all the events that preceded May 29, 1999. There was excitement everywhere that at last the military was exiting the political stage in the annals of our history but today a lot of people will tell you that things are not in any way better, especially in these last few years!
The question is, Where were you and how old were you in 1999?
Is this the democracy you hoped for?
Are we there yet?
Here's a rewritten version of your text with some minor corrections and improvements:
I was 11 years old and in JSS 3 at an all-girls secondary school in a village in Lagos. At the time, I had limited awareness of the political landscape, having grown up in a community heavily influenced by the Deeper Life Christian ministry, which focused primarily on spiritual matters and salvation. As a result, I didn't fully understand the political developments and controversies surrounding figures like Babangida and Mariam, who were often mentioned in discussions about corruption and criminal activities
Living like there's no tomorrow.... Ride on sir....,there's nothing more fulfilling like being happy... Although that him song na offkey ooo, e dey screech , itch abi na scratch my ears, but I did enjoyed the vide
It's only natural to treat an unemployed person as that... Until you begin to bring financial value to the table, you'll be treated as a useful thrash.....
AlphaHakimi: Men should learn to live their lives FREELY AND WITHOUT ANY FORM OF COMFORMITY.
In marriage, men want to be polygamous. The problem of the black race is that we accept every form of indoctrination from the white man.
Let me Enlighten you. Do you know our customs are superior to test of the white man?. Do you know that the ancient form of democracy practiced in Eastern Nigeria is superior to the type of democracy brought to us by the white man. Do you know that our marriages and family values are better than the white man's own?.
We just want to imitate the white man and throw away our own values.
When feminism began in the 19th century in America, it was designed to liberate women from societal operation. This means that the society was responsible for oppressing women. This struggle led to the Civil rights acts.
I will talk more about this later. Shalom
All actions have their own consequences my dear brother.. If everyone tried to live their lives freely without any form of conformity, then I put it to you that the world be so full of chaos that not even a single specie would be spared to live....
You talked about Men being polygamous, have you considered that women hate polygamy, given the jealousy, hatred, rivalry and many other problems it breeds...
How then do you create a balance btw what men and women love and despise at the same time in order to ensure a peaceful coexistence....
You talk about our values being superior to that of the white, if indeed it was, why are we very quick to discard and thrash ours, given that an average human recognises value..
Why are the blacks quick to imitate the white man's culture and not vice versa.. Talking about living lives freely without any form of conformity, the Whites helped us achieved this to an extent..
It was terrible in the olden days where our cultures laid siege on the women.. Women were not allowed to do certain things , many of which were against their own free wills, our culture literarily enslaved women to the advantages of the men.....
My brother free will is not free at the end of the day.....
AlphaHakimi: Marriage is the most critically crafted institution that is designed to control the behaviour of humans and ensure the controlled existence of mankind.
Please note that I used the word "control" in order to truly explain the nature of marriage. This is because, there is nothing you can achieve within Marriage that cannot be achieved outside of marriage for men. Just name one thing you can achieve within the confines of marriage that you cannot achieve outside marriage.
Animals don't get married but yet they sustain the existence of their species.
Every factor that made you as a man go into marriage will become irrelevant after one year of marriage.
Now if you are saddled with this fact as a man, why don't you make marriage transactional just as women do?.
Don't settle for less. You're a MAN for goodness sake. Don't date or marry any girl who is poor or from a poor background. Any day the marriage stops serving your purpose please LEAVE because your wife will leave you any day you stop serving her purpose. Your children no matter their age will understand once they get older.
This is why women love marriage. 1) If she gets married at 25 years of age, she is sure that all things being equal, you as a man will provide for her until she gets to 55years of age. By that time, she must have had an adult who will continue where you stop.
2) By 55years of age, your children will begin to think that their mother was the ONLY parent that suffered to raise them. They forget all the hardwork, insults and humiliation you had to endure to provide.
3) She secures a guardian, protector, companion, sexual exclusivity etc all to your own detriment.
Finally, don't be decieved about marriage as a man. It is a money-milking institution designed to ensure women survive this harsh world. DONT LIVE YOUR LIFE FOR THE SURVIVAL OF WOMEN, LIVE FREE AND LIVE WELL.
Shalom
Marriage is designed to control Religion is designed to control Government is designed to control This and that are designed to control..
In your sincere opinion, how should men live and exist without all these forms of control, knowing fully well that the heart of an average man lies in evil and other forms of vices?
Mikekan30: Your words are nothing but breeze, Give me your names and see whether I won't send you to that grave. I thought you Yoruba sabi juju well well.
Your type if I catch I will pluck off your eyes, I don't have time to curse anybody parents, all your worthless words how far! Empty, foolish and brainless,
Truly you are a dirty Stinking and smelling specie... They say empty vessel makes the loudest noise and that's what you have been doing. I challenge you, drop your names and see whether you will be alive. I want to roast you....
Maggot. I will use this your skeleton picture.
Go and use the skeleton picture and watch how the elements of the universe will make you and every members of your families alive but dead...
You'll continue to swim in troubled waters...... Woe continues to befall you and all that you do... Finally , your mother's smelling kpekus will not find rest...
She go use that kpekus curse you for the rest of her life, for always fucking her every night...
Nasri100: In the long run the constant threats and blackmail and embarrassment has led many people to commit suicide.
Just google loan sharks death.
Never borrow money from loan sharks.
In that case, I must deduce that people who result to suicide cos of the aforementioned must have very big egos..
They're nothing but proud people...
Why commit suicide cos someone embarrasses you....
I have a friend who is also a victim of these loan sharks, she keeps asking me to borrow her money to pay them back so as to safeguard her remaining reputation....
I keep asking myself myself she's hell-bent on saving reputation that isn't there in the first place.