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Lamanii22:
Lol the part where she said she’s still healing from the other breakup kills me 😂😂😂😂😂

Na that particular line make my kid bro almost run mad. 😂😂😂

advanceDNA:
U brother must have cheated ....

Or done something bad to her to make her cheat...

Women only cheat when they are not loved ...

As a woman I'm shocked that u cannot tell ur brother to forgive and take her back ....

Well Incase ur brother wants a new babe..I have one single mother with 2 kids that's very nice and caring.....let's both introduce her to your brother....

You will need the single mother More

Hummmmmmmm
Aluta continua.
Vitoria aceta.


We are watching as u loot with reckless abandon

WantsandMore:
hmmm I get you, my friend will always say 1+1 is not always equal to 2 but then a cheating girl is no different from a cheating wife.

Of course, a girlfriend who cheats in a relationship would likely have extramarital affairs. It's very simple!

whippersnapper:
between Tinubu and Ruben amorim I don't know whose more clueless. Allah.

I love this comparison. It's spot on!

SpencerForbes:
Nigerian girls are hungry and greedy so don’t blame them. To the guys, if you want to do anything for a lady, let it be something you can do for others. Never do something for a lady cos she’s your girlfriend. You’ll be heartbroken 💔

Peace to all the heartbroken ninjas 🥷 in Nigeria 🇳🇬 ✌️

I just pray we don’t end up destroying the fabric of the society😔😔😔

I'm telling you. Sincerity, loyalty and faithfulness in relationships have all been eroded. Everyone now sees relationship as a game of cheese. Who will outsmart who?

Earthscience:
While I totally agreed with the bolded words, This is to remind you that marital union under the guise of wedding resulting to marriage has steps bro! Some things have already been established by her kid brother which the OP and other member of the family have thrown their weight behind. We are complaining of moral decadence in the society, paternity fraud etc. These are all traceable to activities like this.

For me it as simple as this...If you are in the game (relationship) to cheat meaning you are not ready to settle down and you are not worth having me...this is what the kid bro and OP are saying. The pain bore by the kid bro is the time, energy and financial resources invested because it takes time to love (though some school of thoughts believe in love at first sight).

My 2 kobo contributions.

Thanks so much brother. Thanks for your understanding. When I saw that guy's comment, I was really shocked. Sometimes I feel some potential nairalanders should take SANITY TEST before they become members of the forum, also there should be age restriction here, because sometimes whenever I read people's comment about a particular subject, I feel they don't have conscience

Fgo31:
How old is your brother?

Almost 30

WantsandMore:
but he has a point, although it all comes down to 2 and 2 agreeing to exclusivity and if one breaks that commitment the other has every right to be angry. So ask your bro, when he asked her to be his girlfriend did he assume she would be his until marriage or he said those words to her and she renegade despite that? If he can’t accept her back it’s only fair he tells her to move on as he’s moving on but anytime he talks to her and tries to explain the hurt, he is only reinforcing “that I can be forgiven narrative towards her” and trust women, she will abuse what ever privileges she’s given. Nothing is hidden under the sun….

They had plans of marrying next year. Everyone in my family, both nuclear and extended family members know this. As a matter of fact, our parents had already established a serious rapport with the girl's family members too. She comes to sleep in our house and help my mum from time to time even when his guy(my brother) isn't around. There was a clear vision of where the relationship was headed

That's her brother na.

Ordinary person no fit hype her like dat

APOPTOSIS:
What right does your Younger Brother have over a lady he has not paid her bride price?
The effrontery with which people take ordinary relationship is unbecoming.

Just imagine ordering the steps and redirecting the future of a young girl whom you haven't sought for her hand in marriage officially
Isn't that madness?

Who is this one again?
Tueh..

Homeboiy:
Na why I de apply sense for the relationship

Better o

Homeboiy:
Same thing happened to my guy yesterday, he called me and was complaining that a girl we were with on Saturday here has been cheating on him, relationship of 1 year. Girl wey we don dey plan to go see her family by December.

Fear catch me, I related it to my own girlfriend last night cos both of them are in the same school.

My girlfriend condemned the girls actions but made a very bad comment that made me to be thinking twice now.

You had better be smart, cos sooner or later, this ur girl will dump u

Bonjovi13:
The mistake your brother made was to be too available and exclusive to the girl.
I have not seen any woman that would not Bleep up if you make them your all. Their brain cannot take it if you completely focus on them. Especially if you are in love with them. They will see you finish and that other guy who forms for them and treats them like ordinary will become extremely attractive to them.

As a man you must be composed with any woman even the one you love and marry. Dont allow yourself to love a woman 100%.

You would lose your edge as a man and become too submissive to her and no woman looks up to a man who is submissive to her. She will automatically be open to other guys who she looks up to because they dont looks up to her but see her as ordinary.
I advice every man, have options, even if you are not dating them, talk to multiple girls. It would keep your game sharp and you would have them eating outta your hands.

Its surprising that he didnt even block her. Why does she even have access to him. Why is he triggered any time she texts to the extent he wants to beat her. It is because he still has feelings for her and she knows she can get him back anytime she likes.

Girls would always keep a simp like him on standby whilst they knack all the bad boys who treat them like shit.

I'm telling him same. Truth is, my kid bro loves the girl a lot and had invested heavily on her for a very long time. He's really disappointed

That's you people's business.
We no really send una for here sha

OlaOfLagos:
The relationship/marriage pool is so messed up. Don’t be surprised the side dude might probably have a serious relationship with someone else (another girl) and that someone else might also be having another relationship with another guy…then it becomes a loop

It's really messed up bro.

Baronthecelebri:
Your brother should forget about her, and move on

I've warned my bro, if he ever reconciles with that girl again, he should never see me as his elder sister

Dronedude:
Which state do you reside?

FCT

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FxMasterz:
Please report him to the nearest police station. Go with the news and pictures of all the allegations made against him. Do it discreetly, let the police know you prefer to be anonymous.

Please do this and save his next victim.

I'm trying to be wise in going about it before they kpai me

Starz825:
I doubt if the babe is in a right frame of mind with her actions/decision making patterns..

Mentally, a lot of people in Nigeria ain't there... forget looks and fashion

Same thing I asked myself. God bless you for this comment honestly. I wish I could shake hands with you seriously. I was just asking myself if this lady was ok. You can imagine such nonsense o

I saw same guy this morning before leaving for work. He's my neighbor and we don't understand him at all.
He changes women like boxers.

Sonnobax15:

When we tell youngies to be careful when they're dealing with these brainless genz bannies,they call us all sort of abusive names......

As for the native hen whom your brother has been dating, please nothing on earth should make him forgive her......

I will disown him if he tries it.

Starz825:
I say 2+2 no be 4 for some people side


Some people no normal....forget looks and fashion....

Many are mad bro

How do you mean cos I don't understand?

How is your comment related to the subject?

ednut1:
This is the fate of majority of the mansions people build in the villages. Cant be sold, too expensive to maintain when the owners dies, the children are abroad or lagos/abuja/ph based and dont have strong connections to the village. But hey am still a poor man so i may not understand 😀

You're poor right?

So, my younger brothers girlfriend whom he's being dating for almost two years now cheated on him and my brother being a smart guy caught her when he checked her chats on Whatsapp and Facebook.
The girl asked and pleaded for mercy, she asked me to beg my brother on her behalf, but right in my mind, I knew it was over cos my brother would never take her back. This is a girl that we all know and are familiar with o. This girl had been dating the guy he cheated with, for five months plus now. I refused to beg my brother, I don't indulge in relationship matters, let him decide as a man and adult. I trust his sense of judgement.
This girl later sent a msg to my brother that she will soon breakup with the guy and he should give her some time. My brother saw the text and was really furious. He wants to go to the girl's house to beat her but I warned him not to dare it.
Just this morning, she still sent another message that she has finally broken up with the guy and that it's been three days since she formally ended things with him and she didn't want to tell my kid brother now because she's still HEALING from breaking up with the other guy. This is a girl who always claims to love my brother. How do you heal from breaking up with another guy whom you said you didn't have feelings or love for?. She had told my brother that she doesn't love the other guy, so where is the HEALING now coming from again? 😂😂
This message almost caused a war between them. He threatened to mess the girl up if she ever comes close to him again.
Like WTF, how do you tell a guy you've dated for two years that he should give u time to formally end things with a guy you cheated on him with?
Again, how do you tell a guy you've dated for two years that you've finally broken up with the guy you cheated with and that you're still Healing that's why you haven't informed him so that he can now accept u back?

Omorr, things dey occur abeg.

My brother hasn't been able to talk to anyone since this incident. As far as I am concerned, I have never seen my brother with any other lady since he started dating this girl. My brother helps her a lot. And I can't understand why she had to cheat. And they even intended getting married next year.

Nlfpmod

This woman is an investigative journalist and she almost always right in whatever news she comes up with.
I understand she can be controversial at times, but her story is usually authentic

Ontop the rubbish wey u dey do online?

This guy doesn't know he's even a nuisance

simpleseyi:
5,000 Naira daily for feeding for a Primary School certificate carrying Soldier is small? How much do Professors use to eat daily? Any of them that cannot take that should resign.

This is the comment I was looking out for.

I'm also shocked

AngelahFlo:
Just left you another reply to our last discussion on the mail. Will be expecting

Pls stop sending me mails. I do not appreciate it.

Thanks

maiunguwar:
We have a lot of failed parents

Exactly