₦airaland Forum

Akalia:
Hmmm. Women sef.

Akalia:
1 just left my hotel room this morning after spending some days enjoying the ambience and luxury. At some point she was reluctant to leave but I had to subtly get her ass rolling of to go.
Truth is, times are hard and most lazy girls and promiscuous girls as well resort to opening their legs just to get by.

AngelahFlo:
Hello Misty.
I left you a mail. Yet to read your response.

press9jatv:
nawaoooo. There are still decent ladies out there. Its just that population of decent ladies have reduced. Out of 10 ladies, you will still see 3 or 4 decent ladies. What of their characters too?

july21st:
Pls wrong presentation how? I already lost interest because I felt it's proper to make introductions first before delving into such.
I introduced myself. She didn't say her name. She is asking what I do.
Of all the things to ask someone in the world of. Is my occupation she is interested in.

chilinks:
I magnify her negative part, till I find it irritating. Less assume I am more educated than her , I will dwell on that. That's how I heal. Lo!

CoronaVirusPro:
Marijuana should follow.

I have been lobbying for the legalization of Marijuana due to the economic benefits that come with it.

This happens to be a multibillion Naira industry that we have left in the hands of crooks.

omowolewa:
Say no to Suicide, life is good and hope is real.

Cool

njikoka:
Foolish gender ….. always spewing trash … how does a man make you a single mother…. Are you too young to know that if you have unprotected sex, you might get pregnant, all of a sudden, it’s now the man’s fault that you cannot close your legs, use protection or abort it ( this may sound cruel but women will not think twice about removing a pregnancy they don’t want to keep).
What men should understand is that women loves sex a lot and cannot keep their legs shut… but when any thing happens, then it’s the man’s fault…
Ladies , pls always take responsibility for your actions…Nobody can make you a single mom if you don’t want to…

LagosOrigin:
Na human being dem tie like goat dey wan roast

What a country

Mike008:
Can you equate it to human life?
That was his context.

one4GOD:
this man is not any more evil than the man that tied him up this way. The poor always hating themselves while the rich always loving themselves.......life's reality

columbus007:
Imagine, for ordinary palm oil ooo, ordinary palm oil

On Tuesday, September 9th, 2025, a notorious thief was finally caught while attempting to steal palm oil at Urua Anwa Market in Oruk Anam Local Government Area, Akwa Ibom State.

The thief, who had been stealing from palm oil traders for a long time and felt unstoppable, was stripped and tied up by an angry crowd. He was nearly lynched before market leaders and local vigilantes intervened. They rescued him and handed him over to the authorities for further action.

People have pointed out that the way he was tied up is a little extreme. What do you guys think?

ExudeLoveToAll:
If you were not brother I would wake you up from sleep with a slap.

Stopped where you called the roommate, tried even to get to that stage. Run

If you go ahead with a woman who never takes responsibility for her actions you are on your own, someone who dated another but blamed the guy


Run Run Run

Divaan:
Too much sense will not kill you there. I must commend that you're a reasonable guy. I am not in support of flicky amorous relationships because most end up with sex, abortion, heartbreaks, toxicity, etc., and you've been able to keep free from such. It's either you're friends with the opposite sex (where you relate as bro-sis) or you're courting. Anything outside this is a trap.

In your case, you need to define the relationship. If you're just friends, let her know that's what it is. It is through true friendship that you get to know who a person is, and you shouldn't cross the friendship boundary. If you think you can marry her, then inform the 'bodies' involved, and start your courtship.

Courtship is a formal way of proposing/telling someone you want to marry them. It's a period where you are both committed to studying each other and committing to each other in preparation for marriage. You both can't have any other partner except yourselves. Personally, for me, one year is enough to court and then have the marriage ceremony. But in friendship, you don't have the power to tell the other person not to have other friends.

In your case, I would say your girlfriend may have a wrong concept of your relationship. You should both decide what you want for yourselves and go for it. But know that as friends, you can only go on dates, not go to each other’s houses and have sex. That would complicate your relationship with her.

AngelicDamsel:
Akwaibom to Calabar.......... Haba, any serious guy would try to meet up.


2 years and no physical meeting between 2 neighbouring states....... The lady has a point

balaclava:
Sorry about that bro. Shit happens.
There could be a lot of reason for this.
Marriage isn't without it's challenges but it will be sweet if God is involved and the head of the home and both spouses obeying the principles as instructed

Nonexisting1:
You have been dating someone for two years and you have not met her. You even gave her your mother's number. It's not like she is in Canada and you are in Burkina Faso, it is calabar here and akwa ibom there. You two are just fooling yourselves and when you people get tired, you will stop. I'm particularly disappointed in you. Is this how you want to pay your father back for all the hardwork he did to raise?

budaatum:
I don't think you've shown enough interest in a girl you've been dating for 2 years but have never met.

In fact, I feel you have not got a clue what "obvious love" means, because neither have you shown any love (sending her money despite her not asking is not love, its you buying a product!), nor can I say she has shown you much love either, and what you've not seen can hardly be obvious.

If trust has broken down to the extent you claim, I strongly suggest you move on and find someone else to love who loves you back. But if you do love each other and are willing to do the work that strengthens love, then do it and stop being lazy thinking love needs no work.

Good luck.

2special:
Over 40 views with no comment, I guess you get the message.

Jamsam:
Fingers are not equal some people married the wrong wife and some people married the wrong husband, some couple manage themselves and some couple couldn't manage. Even this life is not balance, just try and work on the one that faces you

balaclava:
That I didn't marry earlier than I did.
Marriage make sense die if you marry the right spouse come hand everything over to God.
Baba, e sweet die.

NeoWanZaeed:
Stupid content

Austinbiggy:
Last year I met a girl who she claimed to be a nice girl, I was having a good intention of settling down with her not when she told me she has two son elsewhere. I was like two son but she told me the father of the two children are not dating but the children are with their father people.

We started in a good tone but not when she took in for me, she gave me condition that I am going to see her parents and also be responsible for her two children and I said over my dead body. I told her I can go and see your parents but I will not be responsible for your two children and she said we need to remove the pregnancy and I said no problem. She claimed to remove the pregnancy but all the drugs didn't work but when I took the responsibility of keeping the child she was so excited.

Since the day she gave birth everything about her change towards me, when she was staying with her former Guy, she took the two children and ran away from the man but when she discovered she can no longer handle the bill of the children she returns it to the man and the man took the children and returned them to her sister. The former Guy sister has been the one taking care of the two children.

Now, the two children came to visit their father for holiday now my wife left my house and go and see the children and hide my own child saying she doesn't want the children to know she has given birth. I have been having issues with her concerning the children, now the father of the children said she don't have business with her.

Guess what happened today, my wife knows very well that I am too attached with my four months baby, she took my baby and park her things and ran away from my house and my baby is just four months. I don't know her where about. People are saying I should calm down but I can't sleep. I met her former Guy and the guy told me she's a big fool, that she supposed to be happy that she see a man who accepts her even after giving birth for two. I don't really know what to do.