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Bitch wants to ruin your life in 10mins... If you know, you know.

Sorry I left you for jezebel... I mumu oo

The real men have enjoyed her before you came bro... Sorry.

Single because everyone thinks I'm a player even before getting to know me...

Blackivy29:
Sad. Forget what they. To me love is more bitter than sweet. I wont judge, i've done worse.
besides wont say i have more balls. Truth is im a coward. When the boat is shaky i jump off. Too good at saying goodbyes i guess.
I feel teary. To be honest i havent moved on completely. I hear a sad sond and i break down. I hurts to be betrayed. And its betrayal only when you gave the traitor not only your love but trust and loyalty.

for my first time at love, it was a complete mess. Regret everything.

it isn't easy handling heart break, I remembered the last words my first love said before she gave up on my coming back, she said "James your silence is breaking my heart, please take my calls I beg you if you say my life is full of regrets, I'd say YES IT IS, cos I left someone who did absolutely nothing wrong to me, someone who truly loved me, someone who actually misses talking to me everytime, she's into music as well as I am, got aroused when around her a whole lot of times and she'll notice and would ask me to come close but as someone I wanted to marry, I'd tell her let's do it at the right time babe and she'd smile n give me a hug... I remembered the day her dad walked in on us alone in the house and didn't even act like something was inappropriate, he reached out to me for a handshake n asked about my family n everyone n his daughter escorted me out.... All my promises to her, I FAILED HER COMPLETELY!


Good morning from this side

Blackivy29:
You stated that and you had broken up with her i wanted to ask why. That was sweet. I guess at times we dont appreciate love when its shown to us. But when the love we give is taken for granted we feel sad and alone.
To feel better, i write stories. Once wrote a deep poem for him after we split. He mocked it and it hurt. But i've moved on.

looks like you have more balls than I can ever have... Shame on me

I didn't actually break up with my first, I just left her, in the sense that I stopped picking her calls, stopped talking to her without saying a single word

Till date, I still can't face her.. I avoid her cause I feel very guilty. Worst part is, she's now married

Blackivy29:
Not that complicated. Mime's worse. Someone broke my heart, i broke his. Met someone else who wasted no time reopening sore wounds. I added him back as my friend on fb today. I've moved on. Still doesnt make him any less of an idiot to me.

Im okay. Accepted the fact relationships aint for me

wow... That's much.

Listen, I left all social media cos of this girl I left my first love for, I mean all social media networks, had not a single female friend, did a lot of stupid things yeh and yet, I can't get back fully on my feet since then. There was a time she was ill, I sucked out muccus from her nose lol, that's one of the stupid things I did for love and yet, she couldn't see I was Legit and went on to cheat on me and rub it on my face... While my first love cried say and night wishing we never got apart. I'm a mess my dear.


All I do now when it brings me down is write songs... That's what makes me feel better.

Blackivy29:
I dont know what to type. Hope your wounds heal. Thats life for you. How do you dream of getting married before you see the friend request

exactly why I said it's complicated.


Hope you're doing fine BTW?

Blackivy29:
Would you like to share?

im just more career oriented

I was once in that bondage called love... It broke me, I was made an ex or should I say "dumped" for the first time, its complicated my dear, sometimes I felt God wanted to punish me for leaving my first love over someone I dreamt of before seeing. I mean, I dreamt getting married to her before seeing her friend request the next day and I thought it was a sign she's the one... How wrong n I was

Blackivy29:
Its an individual's choice. Dont expect me to say men. Cause its not. Neither womens. Personally im not a die hard fan of marriage.

lol.. I'm not even a fan.

I have a story

Blackivy29:
i dont know. Will you enlighten me?

pretence... Of course you won't know who's fault it is and since you don't, I don't know either... You won't hear it from me.

Blackivy29:
Who's?

lol... I asked you first please, who's fault is it?

Blackivy29:
thats disappointing

And who's fault would you say it is?

Blackivy29:
They dont?

I really doubt they do...

jackals:
This guy just want to female attention. But it'll be surprising you don't finally get any pussy

good thing you know this trick guys use... The girl above your comment is already showing him where to thrust his rod lol... Truthful deceit, old fashioned.

Blackivy29:
yes. Dont mind the others. They wont get married until they listen to you.

wow!

You mean men still talk about marriage in the age?

Blackivy29:
Aww.. Thats sweet.

we just broke up minutes ago.

Guys, guess I've done worse, I sucked off muccus from my fiancé's nose when she was very sick and I didn't even feel bad about it...

patosky3310:
Dear Guys
Treat your girlfriend like Toothbrush, don't let anyone touch or use it, only you and you alone. Keep it Clean and Safe.
(I know the girls are Happy now)
Also don't forget to change it every 3 months.

Savage!

Darkseid:
I hope it's not what I'm thinking

what are you thinking bros

Who go lur me?

None.

Escabado:
A meet a Girl recently , the first day we meet I spent 10k on eatry and give her money as she was going.
Trying to be Nice to her o and I kept spending money . After some time she came to my place , I wanted to touch her she ask me to stop and ask if is sex I want from her . My brothers if not sex why was I spending money on her . Some Girls can really be silly. Girls let me put it straight to you and any man that spends money on you wants sex . If you cant give him sex then dont collect his money.

The funny thing is that ever since she asked me that question , I continue been nice to her and keep spending money on her close to 74k i can remember .Later she now say i can have sex with her but I told her I can never have sex with her again. I told if is sex I want . I have the money to pay 10 women to have sex with them in a day . As the case may be I have warned her never to near my house again and it's over between us

Was there anything between you both in the first place

You were only assuming the post of a father Christmas in the wrong season of the year.

Childish women do that...

mebad:
Double standard... more because of Hypocritical nature of we Nigerians. We attach too much importance to sex. Here, a woman will sleep with you and not even pick your calls again .

mebad:
My personal experience. i have found it easier picking foreign ladies than my 9ja ladies. Reason being that they know for sure what they want and dont play coy. if a foreign lady she likes you, she wont play hard to get even if it is just a pure sexual attraction. I dont consider myself sleek with women but i pick them with high success ratio. Dont ask my body count as it is high

A woman cannot say that here and get away with it. (the bolded)


You hear guys calling her names such as hoelosho n the rest... But a guy will always say it n everyone overlooks it as some normal shii..