₦airaland Forum

themaestro08:
Why not sit him down and communicate clearly to him. Its way better than making assumptions. Chances are he may or not be gay. Find it out.

But if you are not bold enough to face him then kindly stay away from him.

avoiding him is exactly what I'd do bro. Thanks.

femi4:
you attract your type. You look like dem

So put yourself in my shoes, what would you have done to yourself to alter your creation just to avoid them? Since you're insinuating that I'm the cause of my problems.


Did I in anyway, tell you I'm gay?

Joystark:
lol... you're not nice.

He's nice...

He only indirectly told us his medical condition which is eye problem.

Ariza:
I looked at your dp and saw bobrisky.

That automatically shows your eyes need serious medical checkup and deliverance.

Bouncingbabyboy:
Your profile picture says it all

And that's supposed to mean what please?

Elxandre:
The guy above.
Must you comment?

You start to wonder if some people even make use of their mental faculties.

you think he has one?

pharrell8:
I just dun get it, is he ur rumie?? If NO den Y not ban him from coming to ur room.... Hmm guy u try to even leave ur own room for ur fellow man... come be say na gay

I was avoiding being rude bro...

choblak:
And he is a cute dude with nice lips LMAO

sorry, who

zealousB:
Your Ass is Attractive You had better Flee from your Seducer

it's disgusting honestly! At a point, I wished I could disappear.

Closed!

AnalQueenluci:
U are trying hard to discourage her! She is strong-willed anyway try harder!

Did ubunja in all his redpills thought you guys on Sinful act called adultery or dangers of Beating ur lovers !


Don't be a hypocrite my friend

OK miss.

Blackivy29:
Either ways. As both genders coexist so can we, female and male miseducations. Afterall our respective writeups both have one aim, to help both genders overcome the hurdles of life. Although my tree has branches cause i wont be dealing with romance only but other aspects of a lady's life.

young miss, as you're advising them on how to tackle these issues, also advice them to learn how to shut their legs n open only to one man they are committed to if really they must have sex.



I hate cheating, with my whole heart.


Please try finding them a solution to this if you have one.


As for your version of miseducations, I have no problem with that cos I'm always myself.

Stay safe.

I know nothing about football tho but Messi is my favourite footballer.

Ikpeabujo:
duo the herbal man said it is infection but they include hiv test

sure it's an infection, could also be the water you're using, soap, medication n other factors... So chill, you're HIV free dude.

How does itching all over body concern HIV

SPOLO:
I got connected with a lady thru Facebook app and he is from the same state and LGA as mine and we were due to meet during last Big sallah but due to busy schedules we couldn't meet and she was sick then...
This girl was the one that even asked for my phone number due to the way I do chat with her and poking fun and she couldn't resist it and all of a sudden she fell In love with me, always call me not until she lost her phone, so she do use her mum phone to say hi a times but recently she stopped d calls, even when she used her bro phone to log in fb, she will read my messages without reply and beside I can't call her mom number and she knows that except when she call and I will call her back immediately

So after series of messages I stopped chatting with her, deleted her number and recently she replied that she was sorry that she didn't know..
But I have already made my mind...


But what am confused of now is why do ladies cut off communication without reasons bcus I have never for once offended her....



Though right now I already have another one that I will consider my babe soon..

But why do people just change like that, someone that couldn't go a week without calling

Simple truth is...


Nigerian ladies have lost it. Keep an open mind while dating one n you'll be fine. Stay safe.

azeez1973:
we have been dating for 4 months now but i really feel scared she might be in love with my friend.why? Because she was always too playful with him.I'm not jealous but i don't feel like trusting her anymore.what do you think?

Believe me, every thought you have about your girlfriend over cheating or something related to, is usually true... 80%.

Jordanbelfort07:

It's a guy!! no go fall mugu

... Nothing like mugu bro, I only said welcome, no bro, no dear.

N besides, I really don't care whether its a guy or girl behind the moniker.

Pettyprincess... Well, what can I say...


Welcome.

Stop masturbating.

tunary:
He calls it the gate of heaven because he likes it too much, he is obsessed with pussy, too much love for it can make a man do the unthinkable like licking and sucking it

there are many words that could've replaced that the gate of Heaven.

tunary:
See what you call nonsense, something God created is now nonsense because people abuse it. You guys pretend as if you don't like it. there is no man on planet earth who doesn't like it

I like pussy bro, no one's denying that... But calling it the Gate of Heaven Haba!

Isabellah:
The day I fall down in front my neighbors outside my house is as if the ground should open for me to enter cause I hardly greet any of them

Good for you.

Pascopele:
Konji was killing me slowly after 4 months of staying away and I finally met bae only for bae to start making me beg for staying away for that long and finally, the gate of heaven was open but that stupid gbola of mine just drop dead like 404 Peugeot gear lever.
Oh gosh.. You need to see the expression on bae's face trying to raise the dead

Share yours

And who told you that nonsense in between your girlfriend's legs is the gate of heaven?


Are you okay

LillyVal:

speak ma'am... I stand to be corrected if I'm wrong.

LillyVal:
When you chat like this with your Spouse or Girlfriend:
You: Hey
She: Hello
You: Xup
She: I'm fyn & u?
You: Gud
She: K.

There's another guy online going like this:
Guy: Good morning beauty, how's ur pretty self doing 2day?
She: Lol. do u'av to make me blush dis early morning?
Guy: You deserve that my bestie, U always look more beautiful whenever u blush.

She: Wow! stop flattering me jhoor.
Guy: i'm not Baby, it's just that I love u & ur happiness matters a lot to me.

She: I'm in a relationship dear but the truth is that u've a way of making me happy whenever I chat with you.
Guy: U deserve 2 be happy, enjoy ur day my Angel, got 2 go now, chat later

She: tnx Sweerie, i'll miss u, can't wait 2 av u back online.

You may say she's too cheap to fall for mere words, but that's how women were meant to be. They like soft words from their spouses. Give it to her & watch her melt into your arms. The greatest mistake a man can make in a relationship is giving another man a chance to make his woman happy. Some guys can't even remember when Last dem tell their babe sey, 'baby u are beautiful'.

The highest na "baby when we go see naa?" Learn to make your partner happy and cared for, before it gets too late.

And in no time, her pant will be shifted to the side just minutes before her womb gets shifted too.... That's why I gave up on you ladies of this generation. I'm sure our dad's didn't suffer this much before marrying our mom's and having rest of mind that they won't part their legs like the redsea for another man as we experience these days... If a woman falls for such chats, then she's cheap from the onset, love conquers all! If she does such In her courting days, then in marriage, there won't be a difference... Remember that relationships are supposed to prepare us for marriage.

Ma'am, with all due respect, there's so much that a man wants than wide hips, big ass, tight pussy and large boobs... Those are cheap to get these days, we need women like in the olden

I have not much to say to you but listen, there are people with worst conditions, many with such conditions still appreciate God n keep the move on with hope... I don't think yours is as bad as you paint it.


Believe one thing, you're alive for a reason, it's left for you to seek guidance n directions to achieve your goals. If things continue as the same, ask questions about your family history or better still, relocate to a place you can start life over again and see how things play out.

EIther ways, good luck.

Blackivy29:
does it help?

big time... Many nairalanders are victims too... I'm not talking about quitting for a while but quitting totally. If only people know what damage masturbation has done to their body, especially men.

Happy Sunday to you.

One advice I can give you is this... If you masturbate, STOP.


Start from there.

derrick015:
Good day.

I really need a personality change. I am always depressed when I find my mates doing what I want to do.

I struggle in a lot of things I find myself doing. At work (contrastingly a customer care agent) I am really struggling and I have been warned several times to sit up but I still struggle.

Some of my weakness are.

inarticulate speaking

Not been assertive

lack of confidence ( my voice and body shake when I talk)

I can't communicate well in my local language (this is because of my upbringing) it doesn't sound right in my month.


I don't have real friends!



I have tried alot of things. somebody recommended the usage of drugs (tramadol), alcohol or smoke. But I don't want to try them.

I have posted on this issue with more than 10 different accounts since the last 10 years of which one of it is aknopic.
And I have been reading and watching videos overcoming shyness for more that 10 years now but it seems things still get worst



Please help

pardon any blunder

adeleke5157:
Dear Nairalanders

My girlfriend called me today and along the line in the conversation, I told her of my unwavering love for her.

I told her she is my angel and I love her so much. The next moment she started crying, I heard her wipe her tears on the phone

She cried for over ten minutes on the phone, I reassured her and told her how much I love her. She later ended the call.

I called her back and babe is still crying, she told me to end the call which I did.

I know she is probably missing me so much but what should I do.

Dear Nairalanders , what should I do ??

lemme just hit the nail on the head on your case... Truth is, your so-called girlfriend has made another dick cum and is regretting it because she believes she cheated on a good guy who loves her more than she even loves herself... So don't think it's because of the nonsense you're talking about, there's more to such cries bro.

Happy Sunday.